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| 1 | Why can't I get no action in high school (18M Senior)Brooo you're only 18, you rated yourself like a 4 or 5/10 looks wise. I'd say forego chasing girls. Focus on building a career/business/income, keep working out, have fun with your friends, do anything and everything social so you can get comfortable talking to people, and experiment ylwith your looks. It might take a while but men age like wine if they put in the work. So go put in the work | /r/seduction | 08/09/22 04:08 AM |
| 2 | How do you subtly turn a girl on?STRONG eye contact. Touching (if she reciprocates/is comfortable) | /r/seduction | 26/08/22 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Guys who are successful with women, how long do you wait until you kiss a girl on a date?Kiss her when the vibe is right. You gotta be confident and look in her eyes so it's not outta nowhere | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 06:45 PM |
| 0 | Started Seeing Girl I Really Like. When Do We Talk About Relationship?Yeah wait for 3 more weeks lol. She'll bring it up but if she's the shy type then it would probably be ok to bring up that kinda talk. Like "are you dating anyone else?" | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Rejection gets me down!You're getting rejected cause you're insecure about something and they sense it. Deep down you think you don't deserve them. You need to work to become a man value, that way you don't have to fake confidence, you'll have confidence. Work on your money, muscles, and most importantly game. | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 12:51 AM |
| 0 | I see people here saying women are rooting for you, just approach. But ive also seen the darker side of women. Some women i approached used me to brag in their social circle in a negative way. One woman even said to me ‘not if my life depended on it”They're rooting for you if you're attractive. If not, then they're in the 'not if my life depended on it' camp. Work on yourself king | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 06:25 PM |
| -2 | Do girls get off on ghosting guys?No they just don't wanna deal with those guys they ghosted | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 06:20 AM |
| 1 | A few things I've learned online dating as a man. I really wish I could have told myself this a year ago:"... a woman will usually give you a couple more dates." Here's your problem, you're pedestalizing the women you're going out with as if they are the prize. You're approaching this the wrong way. You have to genuinely view yourself as the prize. You have to act as if you're screening her for gf/fwb/wife material more than she is. That will put you in a better frame of mind that will lead to more success. I'm not surprised you don't get a lot of 2nd dates. | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 05:01 AM |
| 1 | Is confidence the key to attracting others?If you're asking how to exert more confidence (rizz lol) you're doing not doing enough | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 01:00 AM |
| 1 | MasculinityForgot the cigar | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 10:33 PM |
| 1 | MasculinityDo things that boost your testosterone | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 10:16 PM |
| 1 | how do you get more matches on tinderBe attractive and take good pics | /r/seduction | 05/08/22 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Is this a rejection and should I move on with my life?This, listen to this guy. Or in this case, that girl | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 09:00 PM |
| 3 | sad and down after she lost interest suddenly after 6 months of talkingYou need go talk to more women so you don't just out all your focus on one that doesn't like you back. You also shouldn't assume she likes you the same way she does. Learn to read her attraction level | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 06:01 PM |
| 5 | How important is social media presence when it comes to dating?Instagram is the biggest dating app. The girls I'm talking to now def creeper my ig and made them more interested | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 07:07 AM |
| 1 | pills/ drugs to help me overcome anxiety?I don't think you want to rely on drugs to reduce your fear and anxiety. The best way to overcome that fear is to face it and approach women. It's that simple | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 09:18 PM |
| 2 | What are your sources to find emotional fulfilment/support?"I'm in a new city and making friends is so hard here" Dude go join a sports club or an art class or yoga or literally any other activity | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 06:04 PM |
| 2 | How do I start approaching?No man you're missing my point. If you're spending all your time working, fins a job that pays same or better that you trade less of your time. Hence putting your focus on that. Not having a car hurts a lot unless you live downtown in a metropolitan area and slc isn't exactly that. Also I wouldn't say you "need" that stuff but it will 100% bring you more confidence and independence which girls find attractive. | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 04:25 PM |
| 4 | How do I start approaching?Dude spend your time not focusing on girls and better your situation. Work towards a better job with higher salary and get a damn car. Put in work to improve your life, you will have much better return of investment. I wouldn't worry about taking girls out on dates and just worry about being friendly/social. When you go about your daily life, just try to make people laugh. When one of these people is a cute girl you can ask her out. I know you can do that when you have selling skills | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 05:31 AM |
| 1 | How do I fight the overwhelming urge to reply to texts immediately?Go get busy then you wont have time to reply | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 05:13 AM |
| 0 | I still live at home, does that turn girls off?Yes, move out. Women like independent men | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 02:57 AM |
| 1 | How do casual hookups work?I would add, go for the kiss. If yall make out and you're feeling it, it'll be easier to say let's go back to my place. It's crucial to set up logistics properly to make this easy. It's your job as the planner | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 12:05 AM |
| 2 | How would you address someone who comes late?If they're more than 15 min late without calling or communicating then I'll leave. If she doesn't apologize or show no respect for my time then I'll just move on. That's mostly for the first few dates, but it's different if it's a girl I'm already seeing or sleeping with. | /r/seduction | 02/07/22 08:59 PM |
| 2 | What to talk about on a date?Be genuinely interested in the other person. Get to know them. Be curious. Do this not only with dates but with everyone you meet. You will come off as more interesting and friendly | /r/seduction | 02/07/22 07:43 PM |
| 2 | Getting depressed from lack of sexual experience and lonelinessIf you can, join a sports team for the summer | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 02:59 AM |
| 25 | Kissed my date last night mid sentence.I've recently been on a first date with a shy girl. Halfway through the date I went for a kiss and she gave me the cheeck. I didn't let it bother me and kept the vibes good. Later on we were in a park and I asked playfully about kissing. She gave me the green light so we did, it was great. Ended up with sex on the 2nd date. I would say in a scenario like that first date I had, that's when I would ask about it. Otherwise, just go for it. Girls like guys who go for what they want. | /r/seduction | 08/06/22 08:52 PM |
| 1 | An unknown girl on Instagram whom I'm talking to is asking me to like her all the posts to send me her nudes. What should I do?You should stop talking to her. Don't negotiate with terrorists lol | /r/seduction | 31/05/22 07:31 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend is TO touchy with my ass💀😂 | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 06:20 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Sounds like you like her and she doesn't feel the same way. Aka friend zone. Let this girl go for your mental health | /r/seduction | 07/02/22 07:41 PM |
| 6 | Unable to chat to girls no matter what, feels like a brick wall in the middleDiscipline will show you who you are | /r/seduction | 21/01/22 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Why does she keep texting me after I got rejected?If a girl wants to meet up with you she will make it easy | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 04:36 PM |
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