throwaway_lifeRANDOM Archive

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1	How Did Everyone Start Approaching? Inner game essentially boils down to "Be awesome, get girls", yet I never see anybody acknowledge its implication: if a receptive girl rejects you it's because you aren't good enough. I think you need to reframe the reason why people get rejected. Yes sometimes, its because you aren't good enough but a vast majority of other times, it's something uncompletely related to who you are as a person. I've asked a couple of my girl friends why they reject guys and the wide range of responses I get is s…	/r/seduction	07/09/16 02:28 AM
7	How Did Everyone Start Approaching? Any one approach with a random stranger doesn't define who you are as a person. And if it does, you somehow need to find the inner security in yourself to not let it. Seddit will give you the resources and the knowledge on how to approach, but you also need to put that knowledge into practice, and just like every other skill, the more you practice, the better you get at it. A year ago, I probably have written the exact post. I'd browse seddit, pick up a ton of information, see a girl I like, kno…	/r/seduction	06/09/16 07:49 AM
1	I've started going out to pick up women about 14 hours a week is this enough to get really good? This totally depends on what you're looking for. If you just wanna get laid and do it more efficiently, focus on your game, not giving a fuck, being confident, your looks, the gym, go out more and overall, you'll probably get laid more if you havn't done those things. It is a numbers game in that sense. If you want a far high success rate, figure out what kind of girls you're more attracted to, what they like and where they're most likely to spend time at and then spend time at those places. Cha…	/r/seduction	06/09/16 07:09 AM
1	How to meet as many people as possible during college? "Hi", is golden. But don't just say "hi" and expect rainbows and unicorns after. She'll prob just say hi back and when you'll be like ... The key is to say hi and then follow up with something else, and that something else could be anything really. College is the perfect place to perfect your pickup b/c you have people from all over and you usually share a somewhat common interest. That the what else could be anything from - what's your major? follow up: why'd you pick that or what you you reall…	/r/seduction	06/09/16 06:59 AM
1	Is walking dogs on a college campus cheating? Dude, in order to pick someone up, you're going to need to have a conversation with them at some point. Right now, you're using a prop (the dog) to get that conversation started, and that's all good. As much as possible, learn from every experience you have and continue to get better in your conversational and interpersonal skills, because at the end of the day, that's what truly matters. But also know that the dog isn't going to be with you 24/7 and it isn't needed. In my experience, I've found…	/r/seduction	06/09/16 06:49 AM
1	Questions from a Newbie / guy who's been out of the Game. Call me biased but I think online dating is for people who've given up on trying to meet people IRL. After you've set up a date online, you still have to meet IRL and talk, converse and all the stuff that you're going to have to do anyway if you're trying to pick someone up. My somewhat unsolicited advice: start small. When you find yourself in a situation where there are other people involved (a checkout line, in an elevator ...), strike up a conversation with a stranger, even if its for a few …	/r/seduction	06/09/16 06:35 AM
1	Tried to talk to a 10 from my college, failed big time Like everyone else has said, you tried. And that's more than most guys would do. Dude, pat yourself on the back b/c that takes some serious balls and at least you weren't afraid to try. But dude, good thing about that is that you've introduced yourself. Good or bad, she knows who you are. Next time you see her, walk up to her, say hi, imagine you've known her for a while and talk to her like you've known her for ages, like she's a pretty close friend. I would say, try not to steer the convo to b…	/r/seduction	06/09/16 06:13 AM
3	I feel useless This is gold. Most people talk about rejection like it's just a neutral thing that you just have to deal with, and that's somewhat the case. But it does hurt sometimes. Especially if its with somehow you really do care about. And that's okay. You're going to have to deal with pain somehow. But it's not the end of the world. Seduction (aka pickup/whatever you want to call it) is all about knowing that rejection is ALWAYS going to happen. Nobody bats 100%. But it's all about knowing and having the…	/r/seduction	06/09/16 06:00 AM
2	Need help introducing my self to this girl in my class. Walk up to her. Say hi and introduce yourself. It's best if you have a followup topic as to why you introduced yourself in the first place. It can be anything from - i think you're pretty - i really like your x (x can be watch, dress, anything random thing, it really doesn't matter) - hey, we're in the same class, how do you like the teacher? really anything works. As long as you keep the conversation flowing and its natural. Pretend she's a really good friend that you've known for ages and talk…	/r/seduction	06/09/16 05:49 AM