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You're probably overthinking, take it as a compliment. Not everyone has to be a mysterious bad boy to be attractive to women. It's better to be yourself than try too hard to change. Besides, people feeling comfortable around you can hardly be a bad thing
/r/seduction26/01/22 12:07 PM
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Yeah, but I'm not going to pull teeth. I'd rather invest my energy in people who like my company
/r/seduction25/01/22 03:24 PM
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I don't bother talking to girls who don't reciprocate. It shouldn't feel like a chase imo. It's boring to do all the heavy lifting in a convention.
/r/seduction25/01/22 12:09 PM
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It can be lonely, and it's sucks, but as Jean-Paul Sartre said "If you're lonely when you're alone, you're in bad company". I know having a partner seems like the answer, and it would definitely make you less lonely, but it won't solve the root issue of our insecurity. We need to be introspective and ask why we want someone else so badly. For me, it's because I want empirical evidence that I'm as attractive and cool as I hope I am, I want affirmation, and I want someone to give all my affection …
/r/seduction24/01/22 11:32 AM
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The Meditations of Marcus Aurelius
/r/seduction24/01/22 11:25 AM
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Maybe there is, maybe there isn't. The thing that's helped me the most is to not question the reasons people do things, but rather react to what actually happens non-judgementally. Say you hand out your number to a girl, and next day nothing, no response. Instead of saying to myself "she ghosted me, what the hell", I'd examine the situation and say, "I didn't receive a message from her". Maybe her phone is broken, maybe she forgot, maybe she attended a funeral, maybe she lost your number, maybe …
/r/seduction23/01/22 07:55 PM
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Hope whatever's on your mind gets better dude :)
/r/seduction23/01/22 06:29 PM
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It takes a lot of trial and error to build up that intuition, some people are naturally better at reading people that others though. Often though I think people can get obsessive and overthink minute details of their interactions that they lose sight of the bigger picture, especially if they don't meet many people simultaneously and every woman suddenly becomes the sole focus of their attention. When you've got multiple options at once, it becomes infinitely easier to read people's intentions be…
/r/seduction23/01/22 06:11 PM
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Understand them to an extent yes, but not torture ourselves overthinking minutiae and losing sight of the bigger picture. Just go with the flow
/r/seduction23/01/22 03:33 PM
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I think the point more is that people are ultimately not intrinsically special or interesting in the way we like to deify our crushes, but rather they can become special as we get to know them and fall in love with them. People with deep insecurities are perhaps overly sensitive with regards to who they open up to. In other words, they fall in love too often and give out their love too liberally. Oneitis is more a symptom I feel of people projecting ideal qualities onto people they don't know we…
/r/seduction23/01/22 03:30 PM
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I see what you mean. Most of my oneitis comes from an emotionally abusive past relationship through my teens. It really messed with my self-confidence and expectations from women. I think most oneitis is deep-down a want to be accepted.
/r/seduction23/01/22 03:26 PM
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Reddit moment
/r/seduction22/01/22 07:03 PM
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Live life for yourself, what is the point of doing any differently. If you fashion yourself for others you'll never be free or content. Be whoever you want and let someone else slot into your life.
/r/seduction22/01/22 05:52 PM
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It's easier to hand out a number than deal with rejecting someone, don't take it personally. Who knows why they didn't text.
/r/seduction22/01/22 05:50 PM
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Having a certain degree of nihilistic self-confidence and apathy has helped me a ton. Don't take life too seriously, we'll all be dead before we know it. Nobody has any real idea why they're here or who they are, so just relax and go with the flow. Stoic philosophy has really improved my life.
/r/seduction22/01/22 05:46 PM
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