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DISCUSSIONthrowawayabay/r/RedPillWomen30/04/18 06:45 PM
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DISCUSSIONthrowawayabay/r/RedPillWomen21/06/17 08:54 PM
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Thank you for your perspective and your insight, it's very much appreciated. Sorry you had to go through what you did, but happy to hear you took the high road, and have since moved on in a very positive direction with your current relationship. Best of luck going forward as well.
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/18 03:27 AM
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After re-reading through the thread, I don't think this was a fair comment for you to make. The primary intention of my post was to get rpw's perspectives on what commitment means wrt marriage, considering the very high divorce rates in our societies today. There have been plenty of posts that did not involve "my personal issues", and other than trying to illustrate the origin of my perspective, with the intention of facilitating understanding of my pov, the main focus here has been exactly what…
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/18 03:01 AM
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Does a man pay child support no matter what? What if the wife is the primary source of income for the family? What if custody is even 50/50? Seriously asking because I don't know.
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/18 01:48 AM
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Totally hear what you're saying, and I agree that a prenup does defeat the point of trust, and doesn't bode well for the relationship. I agree with your views about marriage (for life), and the sad thing is that my ex said she believed that too when we were dating and got married ... and then somewhere along the way, those views changed in her ... which is sort of the point to my entire post here. It doesn't entirely matter what your views on marriage are if/when your spouse quits .. it takes bo…
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/18 07:24 AM
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From the man's perspective, you're right ... he is taking a risk. But, from a woman's perspective, isn't her signing a prenup also a risk? I mean, if the wife is raising the husband's children and missing her prime years being in the workforce, and the man gets bored one day and chooses to abandon her, she would be the one lagging financially. I think you absolutely must consider the risk for both men and women when it comes to marriage and the possibility of divorce.
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/18 07:16 AM
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I hear you for sure, and that was always my thought and belief in the matter too. But I did do all of those things. I did spend time to get to know my ex-wife, we dated almost 2 years before getting married (worked together/got to know each other for a year before that), and she still flipped on me. I guess, after my experience, I believe anything can happen at anytime to anyone, and people can drastically change in a short period of time ... because the woman she is now is most definitely not t…
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/18 07:14 PM
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I'm pretty shy and modest, and I don't say those types of things to women. Just me though, as I'm sure other men might do that.
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/18 04:27 PM
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Thanks for the response. I can see doing that with trp ... I see some merits and some ideas that make sense to me, but not everything. I can't really do that with the Bible though. The Bible is all-or-nothing in my opinion, you either believe it or not. Just my pov though.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/18 12:25 AM
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I read Michael's Story in the sidebar, and noticed he references Biblical principles quite often. I'm curious to read some thoughts about this being a cornerstone read for trp Theory, since everything about trp flies in the face of the Bible. Can you subscribe to trp theories (I'm assuming most would say you don't) and maintain Biblical principles?
/r/TheRedPill25/04/18 10:58 PM
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I think being yourself and being honest is the best way to go about all of this. You have to be genuine .. it's only fair to yourself and the other person. More specifically, you say you use dating apps. Which ones? My understanding is Tinder and Bumble are typically geared towards hookups. Since these apps have very limited ability to write a bio, it's more difficult to clearly say what you are/aren't looking for. With something like OKCupid, there's more opportunity to be clear about the fact …
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/18 01:05 AM
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Couple of different things. First, if they aren't wanting to see you a second time, then they're just not interested. This could be for a number of reasons. Maybe you're looking outside of your league? Maybe you're connecting with low-quality men ... low-hanging fruit who think they can get their needs met without commitment? It's hard to say. If they just want to "have fun" at their place, then you either aren't picking the right guys to go out with in the first place, or aren't being clear/up …
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/18 12:34 AM
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Just to clarify, are you saying you do expect the guy to pay for these outings (for the first few dates) until you feel there's some momentum and begin initiating dates yourself? As a man, I'm not looking to freeload anyone for multiple dates, for the reasons you mentioned (I think many guys feel that way). I know everyone has different ideas of what dating looks like, but I think you're being too inflexible with how it needs to look. You can get to know a guy just as well by enjoying watching a…
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/18 11:28 PM
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I'd filter some of the comments you're getting here. First, waiting for marriage is worth it. Society (and media) will have you think there are no men out there who will wait for it, but there most definitely are .. you just need to know where to look and be able to weed out the bad ones. WRT to online dating, I think the misnomer is that you find people online and know right off the bat whether you'd be compatible with them. The truth about online dating is that it is a means for you to connect…
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/18 01:00 AM
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Right, so then saying AWALT doesn't make sense, since AW means ... AW, not just AW in NA.
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/18 01:05 AM
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I agree about polluted morals completely, however what we're actually discussing when we say AWALT transcends 2018, or past generations. We're discussing half the population regarding their sex. And each sex goes beyond 2018. It goes beyond certain societies. For example, since I've been fortunate enough to have traveled, I've seen that women are not LT in sub-Saharan Africa, the Philippines, or other societies of the world. So, again, my main point is that you can't really say AWALT unless you'…
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/18 08:10 PM
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And yet in my example of past generations, these were not "the exception", they were the rule. It was commonplace for women to not be LT. So time, culture, and society have effects here, rather than purely putting AW into a box. Sorry, but you're gonna have to give me more than that to go off of.
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/18 07:51 PM
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One of my biggest pet peeves about TRP ... "AWALT" ... more like AAWLT? I've known plenty of women, especially from older, past generations who were never LT. Never. So was it just hidden the entire time? Did they just suppress their natural urges? How can anyone say definitively?
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/18 06:29 PM
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I felt this exact same way when we got married! I believe my wife did as well. To me, our marriage was wonderful. Was it perfect? No way. I wasn't perfect, nor was she. I honestly feel like we both were great spouses to each other though. However, less than 5 years later, my wife (STBXW) abandoned me. After several months of ghosting me, lies, denial, gas-lighting, etc., I finally discovered proof of her affair. I saw the red flags for many months, but could not bring myself to believe my soul m…
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/18 12:29 AM
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I'll second that the higher quality men are not attracted to high n-counts. Period. The only guys that won't care are the ones that are purely looking to use you for your body. Which is fine if that is mutual when you're still young. But when you do look to settle down "after you've gotten it out of your system", being honest about your sexual history with the high quality guy that comes around won't work (because of what I wrote above), so you'll have a tough time being honest with him. Be the …
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/18 07:39 AM
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Cheaters are weak, regardless of gender ...
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/17 09:48 AM
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I don't think you messed up here. You communicated what you're looking for, what your expectations are, and where you stand on a couple major issues. You seem to have communicated it clearly to him and you stood up for your own values (which can be hard to do in a romantic relationship). I think you did great.
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/17 10:51 PM
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You're right. Pretty much everything in life is beyond our control and can be lost to us. Honestly, for me? The only thing I've found that I can rely on no matter what is God. I don't mean religion ... too often people confuse God with religion. But, I've found having faith in an unchanging God who has shown love for me more deeply than what anyone else ever could has provided an anchor for my life. This past year, I was abandoned by really the only person I've ever truly become emotionally vuln…
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/17 04:52 PM
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Assuming your post isn't trolling, you need to restart and continue counseling (it isn't something you should do once or twice). You have a very unhealthy outlook on body image. Again, why do you keep bringing up "women in his country"? Are you and him both living "in his country"? If he wanted one of those women, he would be with one of those women. He wants you the way you are, but you're most likely going to ruin the relationship because of your discontentment.
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/17 12:45 AM
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Please help? Get help. You need to see a counselor about possibly having body dysmorphia. You are on the low end of normal bmi. This isn't really about your boyfriend, or about other women (Latin or not) ... it's about you and not having a healthy view, understanding, or acceptance of your body. Why are you still bothered by how you were as a teen? Why would that matter today? Help yourself by getting some professional counseling. You'll forever be glad you did. Good luck. EDIT: And btw, "border…
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/17 12:39 AM
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Honestly, sounds more like mental illness than anything else. Off-topic: What make of car is it? Grew up with pops in auto-industry ... he swears by Toyotas and Hondas pretty much exclusively for their reliability. Anyways, carry on.
/r/MGTOW13/07/17 12:41 AM
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That's a great story, really nice to hear. The only advice I can give comes from personal experience, especially over this past year or so. Work on yourself and base your happiness on something that can't be touched. What I mean is that if your happiness is based on things that can change, you are in a sense a slave to your emotions and at great risk of living on an emotional rollercoaster. For example, if your happiness is based off the state of your relationships, what happens when, not if, yo…
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/17 10:36 PM
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Hello incurable, drug-resistant Gonorrhea ...
/r/TheRedPill10/07/17 05:04 PM
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Not married to him? I'd drop him like yesterday. He's trash and doesn't respect you. Only unhealthy people cheat, period. You can't be a healthy person and cheat on someone else. Case in point. My ex cheated on me last year (only difference is that we're married nearly 5 years at the time). I have held out for her for over a year now, hoping she would get healthy and return to her senses. We're heading towards divorce now, but during the past year, I haven't touched another woman. You don't thin…
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/17 10:38 PM
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I'd recommend you get some serious help. Let me guess, non-whites are inferior as well, right?
/r/MGTOW08/07/17 05:23 PM
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How long has each subreddit existed though?
/r/MGTOW08/07/17 12:26 AM
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I think that's great they outed and banned the guy who was a jerk to that woman, and agree that we need less hatred/negativity towards each other. My question is whether or not they would have the response when a woman says the same things to a man? Or, if a woman says hurtful things towards another woman? What then?
/r/MGTOW07/07/17 11:41 PM
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Some are, so are some men.
/r/MGTOW07/07/17 12:27 AM
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You're right, and I didn't mean to imply that I know definitively what OP's daughters need (that would be pretty damn presumptuous). I meant that OP needs to seriously consider whether they need it or not, that his daughters' emotional needs must be assessed and addressed given the trauma they've experienced. Main point is to make sure they are healthy and are processing and coping as effectively as possible.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/17 02:30 AM
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My only advice would be to take care of your daughters now. They are no doubt affected by the way their mother has handled everything (and the example she sets for them). Pretend what you want, your stellar GF will never replace their Mom. Going through something like this can be very traumatic and cause deep-rooted issues to develop, and without your daughters being able to process and heal from the demise of their family, they will carry baggage around that will affect them the rest of their l…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/17 12:21 AM
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Can you specific which post on the sidebar? I was unable to find definitions for sigma, gamma, or omega in the glossary post. Thanks.
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/17 07:27 AM
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It's more helpful to think of these classifications as qualities, and not individuals ..." Great, I get that, and I'll think about it from that perspective. So what are the qualities for each subcategory? Alpha: Confidence, powerful (physically?, emotionally? in every way?), popular, x, y, z, ? Beta: ? Sigma: ? Omega: ? Gamma: ? I understand people are complex and will have traits from all 5 types, but my understanding is that there is a dominant, underlying persona that everyone has. For some m…
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/17 05:39 PM
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Haaa, got it. Had to use Google, but got it ... "You'll have to excuse my friend, he's a little slow. The town is back THAT way!"
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/17 04:59 AM
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I guess that's my hangup with all of this stuff. I think "people" get over-simplified. I don't fit any of these 5 Types, or at least I don't see myself fitting any of them. I guess it doesn't really matter though, right? I guess I was approaching this like it's MBTI personality typing or the enneagram, when it seems much less concrete than those typing systems. Thanks all.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/17 04:34 AM
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In my misspent youth, I was a Delta9. Whoosh (Over my head, sorry, I don't get the reference or meaning)
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/17 04:31 AM
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Thanks. I read in another thread about preference for Sigma males. I've read about Alpha and Beta in RP theory, but never about Sigmas. Searching a bit online led me to find Gammas and Omegas as well. I'm also curious to know to be able to more easily follow the discussions and understand the differences of each type according to RP theory. Thank again!
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/17 09:59 PM
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Honestly, I don't think there is any coming back from that with this guy. It will be pretty confusing to him on why he can't be with other women, especially since you made it okay in the first place. Mainly though, your description of this guy make it seem like he isn't the understanding type and would have a really difficult time understanding your point of view in all of this. I'd start over, wait for a good person to come into your life before escalating the intimacy level so quickly next tim…
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/17 07:05 AM
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This should be mutual as well. I don't believe husbands should have a pass just because they're the "Captain" or whatever. All important decisions should be discussed rather than decided individually, since they will affect both people's lives.
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/17 04:40 PM
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Really wonderful to read your relationship story. It's unfortunate how so many men and women nowadays are unable to comprehend and cherish true commitment in marriage, much less in a dating relationship. I hope for a joyful future for you both going forward.
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/17 02:09 AM
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My wife (of 5.5 yrs) was the best person I'd ever met when we began. She was very traditional, honest, Godly, and a total servant. She was amazing. After 6 years together total, she decided it was okay to cheat on me. What happened to the honesty, the other-first mentality, and the old-fashioned approach to relationship? I guess my point is that it may be next to impossible to ever know for sure whether someone is really who they portray themselves to be. More so, even if a guy/gal truly is trul…
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/17 06:10 PM
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