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| 1 | Weird eye contact pattern I’ve noticed while walking aroundOwen Cook always said it's easier approaching 9s and 10s than less attractive women. Less attractive women are more insecure. They're more insecure about hooking up with a guy who isn't steller looks 10 out of 10. Generally the more attractive a woman is the less she desparately needs validation about her looks because she already has it. | /r/seduction | 02/06/26 06:35 PM |
| 0 | Should I flirt at work?I guess so. Would you say you're a natural? I've never had that many women interested in me in one place. I usually have to hone in on one and really lay down the seduction on her individually | /r/seduction | 29/11/25 04:27 PM |
| 2 | Should I flirt at work?Damn dude. You get so much attention it's inspiring. #goals haha | /r/seduction | 29/11/25 04:21 PM |
| -19 | Got Pulled By An "Unattainable" 8.5/10 Baddie W 100K On IG | Here's 6 Male Behaviors That "Work" With Women Of High BeautyPeople are stupid, bro. I loved reading it. Made me kinda angry about female nature and how much harder it is for men. But only because it was on point. | /r/seduction | 28/10/25 03:49 PM |
| 1 | I Made Duolingo for SeductionI'd love to know when it's available on Android. | /r/seduction | 31/07/25 08:14 PM |
| 1 | What is the gym equivalent for females?Hot yoga. I'm usually one of only two or three other guys. | /r/seduction | 30/01/25 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Why women don't answer back on tinder no matter if they have matched with you ?She's the average harry styles of girls | /r/seduction | 13/01/25 01:37 AM |
| 1 | Why women don't answer back on tinder no matter if they have matched with you ?By Chad are you referring exclusively to looks? | /r/seduction | 13/01/25 01:35 AM |
| 1 | Why women don't answer back on tinder no matter if they have matched with you ?I'm interesting and I don't have a lot of women responding to me. I think I'm good enough exactly the way I am. If women can get bombarded with attention and interest from men, but I can't get an equal amount from women, that's not fair. Dating apps are complete bullshit. The thing is, my interesting and witty banter IS good, but I'm competing with guys who have all these lines and scenarios memorized. I think I'm very interesting, but women cannot appreciate my value unless I act like an online… | /r/seduction | 13/01/25 01:33 AM |
| 1 | Why women don't answer back on tinder no matter if they have matched with you ?What's ' old '? | /r/seduction | 13/01/25 01:23 AM |
| 2 | Are single fathers attractive to women?Single fathers have a much harder time on the dating market versus single mothers. This goes against what we're usually told by the red pill narrative. Many of the advantages red pill espouses men to have somehow were spread around as truth. Single chicks can garner way more attention simply with their looks. Unless a man trying to get with that single mother is in the top 10% of men, he's going to stick around despite her child once he gets feelings. That's how most men are- we cop feelings eas… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 06:44 PM |
| 0 | Women: "sexual history doesn't matter". Also women: "your opinion is invalid because you're an inc-l virgin who's never had sex"Why do some of them promote violence? Understanding knowledge and empathy go a long way. Usually when outsider groups are heard, change can begin. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 04:35 PM |
| 7 | Women: "sexual history doesn't matter". Also women: "your opinion is invalid because you're an inc-l virgin who's never had sex"Your definition of incel is based on your own lack of empathy or maybe even hatred (idk which) for men who have struggled. Incels exist and the definition is much simpler. If YOU and others stopped hating on an ENTIRE group of individuals, that group would feel less ostracized. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 01:34 PM |
| 1 | After seeing an NYT article on FB and reading the comments, it became exceedingly clear: women only care about a man as much as he can produce an income for themPeople can be shitty to each other in general, that's just life. Men are by nature at risk of women valuing them solely on the basis of their money making ability. This is a trend that stands out and something every man fears. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/23 02:38 AM |
| 1 | After seeing an NYT article on FB and reading the comments, it became exceedingly clear: women only care about a man as much as he can produce an income for themMost of the derogatory comments from women added nothing new. Their comments shamed the man for not working while he looked for a better career... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/23 02:16 AM |
| 1 | After seeing an NYT article on FB and reading the comments, it became exceedingly clear: women only care about a man as much as he can produce an income for themGo to NYT fb page; I didn't actually read the article, I'm simply going off the comments, or women's reactions to the article. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/23 02:05 AM |
| 1 | This sub in a cumshell"I'll take 'double standards society imposes on men' for $1000" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 02:10 AM |
| 3 | This sub in a cumshellOr this sub in a "clamshell" is people like you not appreciating the social factors that lead to men being incredibly marginalized and angry in terms of dating / casual hookup prospects. Then after not understanding men, you ridicule and insult them. No wonder they're angry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 01:28 AM |
| 3 | Would you encourage men to ''date down''?Keep in mind hypergamy also relates to a guy whose social status is above the girls, as well as looks wise. Another thing, if a girl has a choice between two guys who are exactly the same (unrealistic scenario of course) she will choose the guy with the higher salary. It is definitely something that is played out. Maybe if you look out for it more in your day-to-day life, and your social circles, with your friends on facebook, you may begin to see it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/22 11:53 PM |
| 2 | Would you encourage men to ''date down''?My comment basically plays off the concept of hypergamy, as well as the fact that women are receiving attention usually from many men on social media, at work, school etc. Anecdotally I know many women who 'monkey branch'. Tons of girls I've met through dating apps or just friends, or just like, someone I barely know on Facebook, I'll see them get out of a relationship and immediately have a guy. Sometimes less than a week later a check will be posting pictures with a new guy after her relations… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/22 08:35 PM |
| 5 | Would you encourage men to ''date down''?But men do have to date down. A guy who is a 9 will entertain and sleep with a girl who's an 8 or 7. It never works the other way around. Average guys who are 6s are usually forced (unless they want to be single) to be with 4s or 5s. And hopefully you would admit if a guy is suffering from delusions of value that a woman can as well? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/22 06:24 AM |
| 0 | How much do you actually care about getting pregnant when dating or hooking up?Haha! Accurate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 09:41 PM |
| 1 | How much do you actually care about getting pregnant when dating or hooking up?Nothing better than a random stranger making an official medical diagnosis of someone on the internet based on a few sentences. Lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 09:19 PM |
| 0 | How much do you actually care about getting pregnant when dating or hooking up?It is difficult in that situation. When two people feel like they found their perfect match, it becomes hard to think clearly. Adding to that, her and I were trauma bonded to each other. Traumatic relationships break through people's normal every day boundaries and sense of self. Once that happens, rational decisions become tough. The last sentence you wrote is interesting. I feel like you know me... ; I have been dependent many times in the past. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 05:46 PM |
| -2 | How much do you actually care about getting pregnant when dating or hooking up?My bad; I misinterpreted what you meant. Thanks for the compliment! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 05:13 PM |
| -9 | How much do you actually care about getting pregnant when dating or hooking up?Huhh... My question is, why do you feel the need to point out a random strangers fault? I was talking about my ex, as this thread was mainly about a girl's perspective. And you shifted the context to me. Take your guilt tripping elsewhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 04:00 PM |
| -3 | How much do you actually care about getting pregnant when dating or hooking up?Did you not read "I have no idea what I was thinking."? And, aren't we talking about women in this post... ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 03:54 PM |
| 12 | How much do you actually care about getting pregnant when dating or hooking up?Your feelings about pregnancy echo the feelings of all the women I have been with in the past, either casually or seriously, except for one. The girl who was the exception -- we started going "all the way" after about three weeks. I have no idea what I was thinking. Looking back, to me, she clearly has major mental issues. I think maybe to some histrionic or borderline women, it is just "going with their emotions" to let a pregnancy happen after just meeting a guy they fell in love with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 03:13 PM |
| 1 | What is a "high value" male?No, I was directly calling him out. The things they were saying we're toxic. I do believe they need therapy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 05:33 PM |
| 8 | why is the paranoia of ''settling'' or ''cucking'' so prominent in women when men cheat more?Can you please phrase the question to be a little more confusing? I'm almost getting it. | /r/AllPillDebate | 20/09/22 08:31 PM |
| 1 | What is a "high value" male?A high value man is a man that is alive; all men are "high value men". I urge you to consider why you feel it necessary to pass sociopathic value judgements that arbitrarily vary based on the whims of culture. A therapist might help you with this, seriously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 08:20 PM |
| 7 | Is cheating and infidelity inevitable?Says you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 02:44 PM |
| 3 | Is it common for women to have been "Alpha widowed"? Do women have trouble "falling for" new men that havent met the standards of better looking or higher status men of thier past. Do these men have to "work harder" to make up for the failed comparison?To your last paragraph, it is common sense that if a woman is approached daily by men virtually and in person that she has a greater opportunity to cheat. If women and men are just human beings as you said and equal in this conversation on cheating, then the aforementioned fact would have no bearing on the conversation. I along with many others would argue that the opportunity plays a major role. And men simply do not have the same opportunity to cheat. Now, personally speaking, I "talked" to on… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/22 02:01 AM |
| 0 | Guys would rather be fuckboys than seen as husband material because the former gets the best of both worlds, and the latter gets the least of both worlds.But if you're a 6 and still have that player / alpha / fuck boy attitude, you'll at least be able to sleep with 6s. I have never been interested in fucking 10s. Since I am between a 7 - 8, I am sincerely attracted to girls in my range. I think guys interested in only 10s, unless they are truly capable of pulling them, are doing so out of insecurity. If I slept with a 10 I would be very happy, yes. But I have always been satisfied with lesser. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/21 06:29 PM |
| 1 | The average guy you see in an LTR is NOT getting her best and most men here know that because they've seen both sidesHow you can think I am not good looking when you haven't seen pictures of me baffles me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/21 09:23 PM |
| 1 | The average guy you see in an LTR is NOT getting her best and most men here know that because they've seen both sidesIt is messed up and you are so right. Sadly we live in a time that is becoming more and more gynocentric while men's experience is brushed under the rug. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/21 02:03 AM |
| – | Empaths and narcissists tend to pair up, which is why people think women like bad boys and actual nice guys get treated badlyThis is very true. The way the comment was written implied the opposite. They are hypocrites. Although I am lucky enough to be fairly attractive, I had a friend in college who was about on my looks level, but a major narcissist and asshole at times. I was very mannered and overly kind, "nice". My friend literally had women at his beck and call. Two of our friends who were girls, I believe both slept with him, pretty clearly based on body language. They never treated me badly, but never showed an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/21 03:26 PM |
| – | Empaths and narcissists tend to pair up, which is why people think women like bad boys and actual nice guys get treated badlyThat explains why there are so many male domestic violence shelters... oh wait | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/21 03:03 PM |
| – | Empaths and narcissists tend to pair up, which is why people think women like bad boys and actual nice guys get treated badlyYou're basically pointing out the problem men face yet you fail to realize it. A lot of the latter men do struggle and have personality flaws and are resentful towards women, yes, because they have been shit on by woman after woman. Yet you blame the victim? That is disgusting. It is OK to have the right personality flaws, if you're an asshole. If you have any insecurities as a man however, you are shamed and attacked, called a misogynist, rather than listened to. When a woman walks through life… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/21 02:43 PM |
| 10 | The average guy you see in an LTR is NOT getting her best and most men here know that because they've seen both sidesSee, this narrative shames and blames men. It's pretty sad that you use wit and humor to shame and put down men. This post is from one man's experience, but the reason they are so common is because it is happening to so many men. You act like it's not okay for a man to be flawed, neurotic, have social anxiety, etc. Literally, how many people today deal with anxiety? Probably over half the population. Is it okay to be an introvert, to be shy? The problem you are perpetuating is that when men spea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/21 02:09 PM |
| 1 | Men value beauty less as they get olderIncel safe space <-- you're using a placeholder that is meant to explain away a phenomenon. In reality, the lowest quarter of guys have a much harder time finding attention from the opposite sex, versus women. Look at any tinder experiment to showcase the phenomenon. Not acknowledging this demonstrates a clear lack of empathy towards men and possibly bordering on sexism. So you use one anecdotal reddit post. Talk to your female friends to see just how much attention they are getting from guys on… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Men value beauty less as they get olderIt's very telling the way you put that disclaimer at the beginning of your post. Your narrative sounds like you are placing the blame on men for not being able to be experienced with women. Yeah, self-responsibility goes a long way and that is part of it. However, the fact is that the lowest smv women will never have a problem with sex, yet the lowest smv men still do. The narrative needs to be shifted towards seeing women in society as not valuing men, rather than men not taking responsibility … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/21 02:47 AM |
| 0 | M/20 CMV, The sexlessness epidemic amongst men is entirely a middle and upper class issue.You sound incredibly angry and you are also rambling. You also are not making sense which comes by supporting your ideas with hypothetical scenarios, evidence, or your own hypotheses and logic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 04:21 PM |
| 1 | M/20 CMV, The sexlessness epidemic amongst men is entirely a middle and upper class issue.Actually you make a good point. Women's value in many ways is tied to their sexuality and men do tend to devalue them if the woman does not rank high enough sexually. And so as a result men do tie their value to sexual desirability, or just desirability in general, not just sex. I think in an ideal, theoretical, perfect world, a man can realize there is no sense in tying his value to how many tender matches he gets or sexual desirability. We should all practice more of that mindset that you ment… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 03:18 PM |
| 1 | M/20 CMV, The sexlessness epidemic amongst men is entirely a middle and upper class issue.WAW top_bedroom_4007 is saying that the sexless experience for young men and women is very different. A common female experience around that age is to begin receiving a lot attention from numerous men at that age, boosting their self esteem. They also become aware that they are the gatekeepers of sex; they can have it whenever they want, virtually speaking. A young man who is not one of the formerly mentioned narcissists, criminals, girlfriend beaters, criminals, etc., struggles to get anywhere.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 02:49 AM |
| 1 | Advice for the women out there: No, men are not on dating apps for sex only, you are simply matching with guys way out of your leagueThese guys exist, albeit in small numbers, because of women. Because women go for guys out of their league. Because women are hypergamous. Because women live in delusional bubble where they feel like they ought to be worshipped. Because guys can no longer open with a hello, or hey, or some other form of greeting. Instead, they have to take a course on how to text women. Because women believe all men need to meet them where they are, become dancing monkeys in a text thread and constantly have som… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/21 12:18 AM |
| 2 | Where to have sex when living with parents?In the back of a decrepit local tv news station like I did with that chick five years ago. That was after I picked her up in a Walmart parking lot. Matched on tinder. No kidding. | /r/seduction | 15/01/21 02:36 AM |
| 1 | What is the best paid content available currently that teaches pickup? I recently purchased a program from Real Social Dynamics and I'm wondering what else is out there.I just subscribed :D I was strictly into RSD for the longest time. Owen just speaks my language. His back story of being such a hardcase is something I can kind of identify with. And not only does he break down pickup, but also the nuances of social dynamics in general. The fact that he's hobnobbed with tai lopez and other celebrities says a lot about him as well. | /r/seduction | 08/01/21 01:50 AM |
| 1 | What is the best paid content available currently that teaches pickup? I recently purchased a program from Real Social Dynamics and I'm wondering what else is out there.I haven't heard of them, I'll check them out. Thanks! Is that your go-to for pickup content? | /r/seduction | 07/01/21 08:09 PM |
| 3 | What is the best paid content available currently that teaches pickup? I recently purchased a program from Real Social Dynamics and I'm wondering what else is out there.'ourbestprogramever.com'. I purchased the standard program which is the cheapest. It includes all of the hot seat material. Rsd has taken most pua material down from youtube, all the old videos, but the hot seat along with some other material is still available. From what I have heard from Owen and his most recent live broadcasts is that they are dialing back from pick up because of the climate in our culture. | /r/seduction | 07/01/21 07:09 PM |
| 2 | What is the best paid content available currently that teaches pickup? I recently purchased a program from Real Social Dynamics and I'm wondering what else is out there.I like Max Tornow, Todd Valentine, and Owen Cook the most. So perhaps only based on those who started out with RSD, I'm wondering who has had the most impact in successfully teaching real pickup skills. | /r/seduction | 07/01/21 06:15 PM |
| 1 | Where can I find / buy Tyler Durden/Owen Cook/RSD's Blueprint Decoded DVDs online? I've been looking for a bit with no luck.Even though I'm not advertising? I'm asking where I can find the material online. And the original version isn't pirated. | /r/seduction | 03/12/20 04:08 PM |
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