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| 6 | It's deplorable that men call women crazy when they behave in a way that isn't subservient or "nice". A woman's actions (this doesn't excuse destructive/bad behavior) are usually a direct result of abusive, controlling, or manipulative behavior. Why aren't men called crazy for their wrongdoings?100% this. Especially if it's a man describing his partner or ex. I want to know the details of what happened, or else I'm just going to assume he infuriated her and called her "crazy" when she rightfully got mad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/22 03:02 PM |
| 4 | I’m not gonna ask on relationship advice subs to get gaslit, I’ll ask here if allowed. Do you think I should leave because he didn’t stand up for me, or is it trauma?I generally agree with the other comments here. I just want to add this: just because someone was genuinely helpful to you during difficult times does not automatically make them HV. I have know more than one narcissist, and someone who I think might be a sociopath, to be genuinely helpful and generous at times. It's not a guarantee of a good person or good partner. Maybe they get satisfaction out of helping. Maybe they want to make their partner feel beholden. Maybe it serves their purpose for … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 10:57 PM |
| 7 | Dear Lord…Am I the only one who thought the response was almost more disgusting than the original question? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 01:54 PM |
| 15 | Reason 20000000000000007 To Align With FDS, Vet RUTHLESSLY, Enforce Boundaries And Say NO To Casual Sex!"They are not better options by default of being rejected more often." I wish I could go back in time and explain this to my younger self. So true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/21 11:04 AM |
| 24 | There is no peaceful slaveryThis is so insightful and absolutely true. Abusers have a way of making you participate in your own abuse, and most people don't understand the psychological toll that takes on the victim. It's a huge part of why abuse causes low self esteem. You can learn to ignore someone else's opinion that you are worthless. It's much harder to ignore your own knowledge of how you failed to resist. That's why it's so important to fight. You are spot on when you say even if you can't fight them externally, yo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 02:48 PM |
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