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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 113 | Boundaries and Anxiety | MINDSET SHIFT | throwawaychick8357 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 07:24 PM |
| 1 | How do deal with "mean girls"? | DISCUSSION | throwawaychick8357 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 07:59 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | FDS should apply to ALL MEN IN YOUR LIFE, not just dating situations.Get a shepherd dog. Guaranteed HVM in your life. Always there for you Always happy to see you If you treat him well he will shower you with love and affection in return Loyal to a fault, will never betray you Will protect you from dangerous men, thieves, robbers, whatnot I kid, big dogs are not for everyone. But boy are they better companions than the average man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 10:40 AM |
| 5 | This 👇🏼i wish i knew this years ago | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 06:36 AM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Check-InA guy asked me out on a disc golf first date. He said he never played disc golf before and that he sucks at throwing a frisbee. Is this low effort or...? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 07:06 AM |
| 15 | Bought myself a crown just bcuz I wanna celebrate the scrote-free air I get to breath for the first time after 11 years✨ ANY future scrote that makes me feel less than how I make myself feel rn is not worth it 👋OMG this is beautiful! i love the look... i want something i can wear outside though, maybe i will buy a sparkly hairband XDDD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 12:08 AM |
| 3 | Female friendships and misogynistic propagandawait now i want to watch part 2 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 08:12 PM |
| 13 | The Vetting Process: A List of Minimum QualificationsYes this so much!!! One of the things he DID end up doing (caulking the sink) he did such a poor job! Like I could see caulk streaks everywhere, and not to be rude sir but now the sink looks like shit. I wasn't too happy yet he was so excited and wanted praise.... =__= Talking about this makes me glad I dumped him..... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 09:26 PM |
| 24 | The Vetting Process: A List of Minimum QualificationsUgh my ex did this because he was cheap. He would always talk me out of hiring a gardener or a contractor because it's soOoOoOoo expensive (my money btw, not even his!!) and he's being soooo kind and nice by saving me money, and we can do it ourselves! Of course, did he follow up and do it? No. I had to pester him constantly to get even the tiniest things done and deal with his "annoyed" attitude (why u pestering me), he bought a lawnmower but used it once in an entire year (with my prodding), a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 08:48 PM |
| 17 | Boundaries and AnxietyThank you for the resources! I think I was exactly that girl you described in your post that needs to learn to establish/reinforce her boundaries! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 08:43 PM |
| 3 | I’m glad more women are realizing this, but the comments are just sadI wish someone told me this earlier in my 8 year relationship :( oh well. I think he was about to pity marry me so at least I didn’t settle for that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 05:51 AM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inOh sorry for the confusion! This was not on an app. I was actually on the street, doing socially distanced + outdoor dining with a friend, and this guy greeted me in person. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 06:15 PM |
| 6 | I like good abs and I can not lie...I used to like nerdy, lanky guys (especially with glasses) because I thought that type was cute. I got into a hobby in which I was surrounded by super fit guys with excellent control of their muscles (and of course abs) all the time. I can never go back. When I see a nerdy, lanky guy of the type that I used to like, I just think they're lazy. I'm like why don't you take care of yourself??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 04:26 PM |
| 11 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inHi I was wondering if anyone had tips about being hit on? Since I've been in a relationship most of my adult life, I've never really been hit on (since my bf is usually with me when I'm out). Yesterday when I was out and about a dude asked for my number and basically told me he had been checking me out and thought I looked cute. I didn't feel comfortable giving my number to a practical stranger so I said no. But at the same time, I wondered if I should give him a chance because obviously I'm not… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 04:20 PM |
| 10 | (Xpost) "Today this gentleman brought me a flower... He wow’s me every day" I just wanna get myself a gentleman like him...awww! meanwhile my kitty just swats me whenever he feels like it... and my doggo constantly drops toys filled with drool on my bed low value pets? lol. but i still love themmm <33333 edit: i do want to add that despite their drool filled disasters (sometimes involving claws and teeth), these little guys have in fact offered me more emotional support than a number of the men in my life! ... hmmmmmmmm | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 05:58 AM |
| 11 | FDS became the last stop on my journey to fully recover from a pick-me and "not like other girls" syndromes. I used to either hate how I look, compared to other women, or hate on them in order to impress men. Not anymore, thanks to all you queens here!wholesome female friendships are the best <33 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 07:27 PM |
| 38 | Pregnancy and Its DiscontentsI... I always wanted children but this post is giving me second thoughts >.< Does anyone have any tips on how to stay in tip top shape to minimize these symptoms as much as possible?? I assume that the more fit and well taken care of you are prior to pregnancy, the easier it is to minimize some of these issues and bounce back after pregnancy?!! Also, super curious if some countries handle this better than others in terms of pregnancy/prenatal support, medical support, etc? I've heard people say … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 10:12 PM |
| 19 | LVM truly live on a different planet 🤡Is this supposed to be lamenting how hard it is for the man? Because it was way off from the beginning... like "I want to get married" "OK" "I want kids" "OK" wtf is that?? You got married just coz she said so? Is that some lame idea to illustrate how you did what the girl wanted but got nothing in return? Look dude you should be getting down on one knee going "I love you, you are the love of my life, I want to give you the best life I can offer, will you marry me?" If your marriage started off … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 06:29 AM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check InI also wanted to share today with everyone because it was such a great day and I felt good about myself. tl;dr got a haircut. decided to get a nice drink before. arrived almost when store was closing and they gave me the drink... FOR FREE! because they had extra anyway and due to coronavirus they were only taking online orders (despite me being only 1 min late and all the workers + ingredients are still there). then my ex kept bothering me to see where i got the free drink from so i told him to … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 05:11 AM |
| 23 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check InHi all, I just broke up with my ex 2 weeks ago and after stumbling upon this sub I could identify with so so so many of the descriptions. I was basically a forever girlfriend, and I had such low self esteem for so many years that I just put up with it. I was on dating apps for a bit but this sub has inspired me to delete the apps for now and just work on what I love. I think I'm going to try and do that until I don't feel "needy" anymore. This sub has also helped me realize that it's not just th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 05:04 AM |
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