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No :( After we broke up I moved for a job to a city with a bad dating scene, really bad female:male ratio (leads to lots of pickmeishas and guys with huge egos). I'm hoping that if I move elsewhere things will improve - even if HVM are rare in general, hoping at least I will run into fewer LVM in a city that's more balanced.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 03:37 PM
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I LOVE #2. Even the close-to-HVM men I've dated get whiney about this, even though they also say they understand. Like no, if you understand, stop whining and guilting me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 02:48 PM
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How do you deal with this? I dated a HVM like this but ultimately could not get over how he couldn't click with my friends/others conversationally because friendships and community are super important to me. Idk maybe if he knew them well enough it'd be better, but it was just so uncomfortable and made me wonder if it'd stop us from having "couple friends" later on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 02:43 PM
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How many dates did you have to go on? This is my strategy but I got demoralized after 6 months
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 02:41 PM
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Ah yes, the thing where shorties get butt hurt that they aren't entitled to my time, presence, or body just because they are NiCe GuyS. It's almost like women are independent people with their own preferences!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 02:17 PM
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Man I was wondering about sf! I'm down to talk about tech but it definitely can't ONLY be that, and EQ is super important to me. Are there any other "types" common in SF or mostly just tech Bros and random other folks? Ex. I would say DC is political bros, nonprofit guys who are mostly taken or low-earning, lawyers/consultants with huge egos, and military.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 01:01 AM
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God I hope not because these are almost exactly my standards, except would also add wants a similar lifestyle/family, overlapping hobbies, and fun to be around. OP are you me?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 04:55 PM
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How did you find him??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 04:53 PM
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I actually moved from NYC and loved dating there lol! Won't go into the reasons I can't go back (too long) but we have opposite types apparently or maybe just opposite strategies. How did you date in NY? I mostly used OkCupid and had a great time. If you know how your friends met their SOs in DC I would love to know
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 05:48 AM
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Ah sadly I want to be in the US Maybe I'll run away to Finland one day though, always loved their forests
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 05:43 AM
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Ughh thank you this was so validating!! I often feel insane in this city because I'm like, there's 700k people, why can't I find one guy I want to be serious about??? Did your friends who went to NYC, Richmond etc have better dating experiences there? And yes , solo museum trips ftw
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 05:37 AM
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Okay, that's reassuring. So do ppl who are liberal feminists but not that type of liberal feminist have another term on this sub? Genuine question. Politics are important to me in dating so i want to be able to reference them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 05:34 AM
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Yeah I'm really on the fence too. It's a very out of character decision for me, but 3 years is suchhhh a long time to meet literally 0 people I want to keep dating. Idk what's going on if it's not the city. I'm on every app, I say yes to social events, I have hobbies I love and guys attend them occasionally. Idk what to do. I'm really demoralized and I've never been someone to actively plan my dating life before. Is there anything you did else than those to meet guys?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 04:29 AM
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Good luck!!! Rooting for us
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 04:26 AM
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Also to add - am 100% a liberal feminist but not a man hater or into pressuring other women to more sexual. AND I do not want a broke creative type. Where can a girl find a decently high-earning, emotionally mature, liberal guy who shares my values, doesn't need a mom-type gf, and is fun to talk to? Edit: Oh, I see. I didn't realize this sub was super against liberal feminism but I realize that now. Bummer on downvotes but I'm still leaving this up here bc I think politics are an important datin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 03:52 AM
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Yeah I definitely want to stay in the US and a liberal city :( Which are filled with women. I'm with you, it's so hard to find a place
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 03:45 AM
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YES I think the pick mes are a big part of my problem!!! It's not their fault obviously but it's just that DC doesn't have enough men so my theory is there an amazing HV men being picked off like crazy. I notice when I date the only men I even slightly like are new to the city (I still haven't met one I like enough though)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 03:44 AM
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I know my standards aren't the problem because I've had great relationships in other cities where my bfs at the time would treat me like a queen. I'd move right away if I weren't scared after so many yrs of DC and shitty guys that my precious love life was a fluke . Do you think your experience after 30 would still be a better dating pool, or was it mostly just the standards?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 03:42 AM
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Idk, I think it's always good advice to focus on yourself first, but I've always done that well. I literally have my dream job, make bank at it, amazing friends, great hobbies, treat myself well etc. And have for the past 6-7 years. It's only been this city I haven't also had a great bf with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 03:36 AM
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