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How do I learn to become more assertive to people? I can't say no and i don't like complaining and upsetting people even when they're wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 02:04 PM
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Before I give up and try to live by myself, I want to go all in on trying to "self improve", I've failed at connecting with people all life, at making friends or any relationships not just romantic ones, I want to give it a last shot trying to fix this. So give me an actionable advice you can on things i can do to work on this. I hate being just an acquaintance to everyone, no one's priority or best friend
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 02:01 PM
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Getting old terrifies me, at what age does hair start greying?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 01:24 PM
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Both irl and online, if someone doesn't come up to talk or text first, after I've started a conversation with them the first 1-2 times then is it a good idea to stop talking? That's what I do these days, if I'm texting someone new and if that person doesn't message first the next day i consider it an end. And that's how most go really, they only talk the times i initiate and it feels one sided like they're just answering my questions. Honestly tired of talking to new people and it just never evo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 06:42 PM
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Men say there's too many men which increases the competition, women say they're tired of getting constantly hit on, dmed, etc so if magically the male population got lowered by a lot, would it solve the major dating issues?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 05:55 PM
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Is it possible to change your personality? And is it even worth it to? Should one really want to change the way they naturally are?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 05:30 PM
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What makes someone stand out in a group? Idk how to describe it better but how do you become more of a main character, that people notice and like the presence of? I don't like being the invisible guy in every group
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 05:14 PM
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Need a gf that sings this to me
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 04:01 PM
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I have heard this explanation before, so what do you suggest men should really do?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 02:56 PM
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I just quit therapy today 👍 felt a bit sad cause it was the only outlet where i could ask a real person about my problems, but it really wasnt working. Now i really feel like there's no fixing or solution to my problems
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 02:41 PM
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I meant in this thread
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 01:54 PM
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Do you think this sub is good for asking advice? If not, what are some subs that can give genuinely good advice that isn't the same surface level advice mainstream reddit always keeps repeating?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 01:37 PM
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the average man finds the average woman attractive, but the average woman doesn't find the average man attractive Do you think this statement is true or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 01:21 PM
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I open this sub everytime I'm in a bad mood, idk why
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 01:17 PM
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Settling definitely exists and it's terrifying cause you can't read someone's mind to know if they actually love you or not
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 04:11 PM
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Give it a nice, proper burial. Bury it in a flower pot
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:30 PM
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Wtf do i even work on when idk what my problem is? All I know is I can never seem to make any connections with other humans, no friendships of any type and it's been like this all my life. No one around me has ever told me why and what the issue/reason is, everytime I ask about this to people around me they just say "nothing's wrong with you", "you're a great guy" etc. I'm so tired of trying to figure this out
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:23 PM
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Brb getting a manual labour job and leather boots
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:00 PM
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Hope it catches on, the attire is cool asf
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 02:58 PM
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What kinda work ends at 2:30? Sounds amazing
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 02:48 PM
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Lol I'm tired of trying man, nothing ever works out for me, in any aspect of life
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 02:47 PM
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Sometimes I feel like some people just have great luck, good things just happen to them, they don't have to force it so hard or overthink about it. I see it so much irl, obviously everyone needs to put in some work, but some can hardwork a lot and still not succeed
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 02:43 PM
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What does your daily routine look like on an average day?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 02:38 PM
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Prime Selena Gomez was cute asf, I used to have the biggest possible crush on her as a kid. Ngl I'm definitely better than her current guy 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 04:42 PM
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I don't know anything about skincare can any ladies here recommend me products (2-3 products at max) that I can just apply to get clear skin? Trying to discover all this myself is confusing, and I really just want a simple routine that's not time consuming. Preferably that's also light on my pockets lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 03:59 PM
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How do some guys get women into this state of "I'll do anything for him" ? Is it really all just cause of looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 02:53 PM
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There are almost equal number of men and women in population, then how come there's so many men complaining about having no gf or experience but rarely women? And if there are such women why dont we see them complain? It's always dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 02:39 PM
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What specific trait and things autistic guys do that make women hate them so much? like give me examples of real life things and actions these guys do
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:16 AM
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OLD or any other online mediums are probably the worst for men, what are the alternatives that work the most in favour of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:10 AM
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Going to the movies alone is cool, until you get out and see you're the only one by himself and everyone's sometime else
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:06 AM
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I have a hard time telling if women are being sarcastic or not, i have a hard understanding that for all people but women a bit more for some reason
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 08:30 PM
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Nah frumpy chicks are cute
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 08:27 PM
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I'm just different bro
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 08:19 PM
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Plain white oversize tshirt - skinny jeans - sneakers, i love this combo, never misses. Because I like dressing like I'm in a hiphop music video
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 08:10 PM
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What easier?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 07:50 PM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 07:48 PM
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Do women generally care if a guy is talented at something/s or not? Like if a guy looks good, has a good personality but sucks at everything he tries his hand at, games, hobbies, career, jobs etc
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 07:47 PM
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Lots of reasons, I'm broke, prefer natural, wouldn't want to force such a thing on someone, her body she gets to decide not me. It's not a hard preference either tbh i wouldn't reject someone for it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 07:42 PM
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How common is c-cup
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 07:35 PM
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Is liking big tits too high of a preference if that's my only thing? Like if a woman has big tits on a fit frame(not fat) then she's a 10 to me, idc about any other physical features
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 07:32 PM
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Very agree
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 07:22 PM
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Beautiful, big-titty, butt-naked women just don't fall out the sky, you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 07:03 PM
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Why do you say bro so much
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 06:57 PM
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I don't drink either, thought i was the only one here because how common it is for people to drink
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 06:53 PM
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I just don't understand the reason behind ghosting, i understand it when the person gives one word replies, sounds disinterested, if that person ghosts me I'm not surprised. But then some people show enthusiasm, actually give good replies, jokes etc and then ghost? Why?🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 06:18 PM
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Conan Craig These two are the best imo
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 06:02 PM
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This sub could be so much more interesting if people here didn't kill the discussion by just saying "it depends on the looks", "it's because chad has great looks so he can do anything" and instead discussed more about social cues, the right/wrong stuff to say, body language and all that. I know looks matter but I hate when there are situations where you could discuss other aspects but just attribute it all to looks and end it in a sentence
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 05:57 PM
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Is 5'6-5'7 considered tall for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 05:35 PM
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What other alternatives work according to you? What do you think a guy should do if he wants solutions to his life problems and mental health issues?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 05:11 PM
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it’s not everything What other traits, qualities count the most? Also what does it mean to have a strong sense of self?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:17 PM
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Can you elaborate more? I think you're right, even though I try not to, i think i maybe come off as really anxious to others cause of my body language and expressions
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:13 PM
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So what do you think is the magic bullet? Besides looks
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:11 PM
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Been getting back into reading and i enjoy fantasy so much. Although youtube has fried my brain and I have a hard time focusing and not picking my phone again. How long till i recover from this?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:07 PM
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I wish I could find that "else" someday
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:53 PM
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So that's a yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:50 PM
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Do you agree that confidence really is everything as some people say as an advice? Like if i stop ruminating on what's wrong with me, and instead just try to act as confident as I can will it give results?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:47 PM
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Can you elaborate? How do you go about doing that?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:18 PM
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I feel like I'm unfixable. Whatever's wrong with me, it's never gonna change
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:54 PM
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You know that a lot of illustrators that earned through commissions started earning less since the advent of ai right? Same for content writers, creative writers
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:19 PM
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Will you spend money on him?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:09 PM
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Last time I got those tests done the results were normal. I'm slightly fat but been working over it in the gym 🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:03 PM
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God yes, I don't agree with cheese but mayonnaise is VILE, absolutely disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 05:56 PM
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Wants to save
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 05:55 PM
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I eat junk food/fried food frequently, almost every other day and a lot too, my weight has been the same since like last 5-6 years
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 05:55 PM
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Q4W: If you like a guy but he is super stingy with spending his money, doesn't like spending much on dates or on you, other than that he's nice and all, then is that reject worthy or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 05:53 PM
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What? What's wrong with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 05:20 PM
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This sub piques my morbid curiosity, in the way when someone tells you something bad happened and you just want to know what it is or like when you can't look away from a street brawl/people arguing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 05:20 PM
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Man I'm not really familiar with all these pills so I didn't know that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 05:15 PM
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True and I'm glad that I don't need more than 15 minutes to dress up my hair and face
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 05:12 PM
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That sounds sad. Has this happened to you or anyone you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 05:06 PM
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Hella lore to the subreddit i don't use it enough to keep up
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 05:03 PM
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"fatphobia pilled" lol what did they ever do to you? Fat people can be nice
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 04:58 PM
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Appreciate you hoping that for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 04:47 PM
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For some reason, as a child i always thought that men don't need to be attractive. I still see normal guy-pretty girl couples more than vice versa irl. Also see a lot of fat and/or short dudes in relationships when I'm outside
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 04:46 PM
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Damn you are comfortable posting your pics on here? You don't fear getting doxxed or any other dangers? Specially knowing the nature of this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 04:39 PM
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Yeah, three replies in, I've realised i didn't know what it meant
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 04:32 PM
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I did not know that was the definition of it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 04:30 PM
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If i got "lovebombed" by a woman I'd probably love it. Only if it's genuine tho not manipulative
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 04:24 PM
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It's cause you're quirky and not like the other girls
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 04:18 PM
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Morally evil. I'd just borrow money from some other family member till another job. I'd also start questioning my choices if i chose a good person or not
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 04:10 PM
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This isn't a serious comment btw just a passing thought i was curious about, i don't hate women or anything lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 03:27 PM
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What's up with women having bad taste in pop media/art? Lot of mainstream big things popular rn that have a majority female fanbase are really bland or wack. Example: Taylor Swift, kpop, ya books, Colleen Hoover, wattpad. Edit: i was making a joke geez chill out
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 03:27 PM
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You didn't have to unnecessarily burn me like that bro Wait is he actually though? Would any ladies here like to weigh in on this?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 03:04 PM
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Felt very hashtag represented when I saw Michael Cera was in the in the Barbie movie
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 02:56 PM
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I once made a post on here asking women, what were the qualities in the guy that you've lived the most ever. Dumb move cause the replies just upset me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 08:58 AM
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Q4M: You guys ever get tired of all this? Like do you ever just feel so done? Nothing ever working out? Tbh I'm just asking y'all what I'm feeling
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 08:43 AM
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I have never figured what exactly my issue is, like why i can't ever make human connections, so idek what to work or improve upon all of it feels like blind guesses that i make in my mind. If someone actually told me this is what's wrong or this is why it's not working, i would actually put my efforts into fixing/improving it. Like at this point what should I even work on?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 06:51 PM
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The fact that some of you open and interact with this sub daily how does your brain not melt? Not even being ironic, places like this and the toxic comments/posts on here can't be good for the brain
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 06:42 PM
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Q4W: Would you get the ick or lose attraction if you see the guy you're with get beat the fuck up by some other dude
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 06:02 PM
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This has always happened to me all my life, everytime I go to a new place, new group of people, i eventually become invisible to them, I never stand out in any group, just a background character who people don't care about at all. Currently happening in class, where I enter, listen/study, get out. No one really talks or approaches
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 04:54 PM
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I hate being a late bloomer. There's no positives to it, you're behind everyone else in life, people don't like you cause of it and I've missed out on things that were/are normal to people and everyone else experienced in their school/college days. Can't rewind time
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 03:45 PM
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You can't simultaneously be concerned with masculinity and be obsessed with how other men look. Obsession with your face isn't masculine. A bit maintenance and grinning is okay but calling other dudes psl "gods" and shit is wack
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 05:48 PM
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imagine being this pretty this woman makes me feel things
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 04:53 PM
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Hate dieting bruh it feels like living in black and white. I like food too much
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 04:42 PM
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Honestly i think the best solution is to be happy by yourself. Go to the movies, to eat out, to vacations all by yourself. Is it sustainable? idk, probably not but that's the best I can think of
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 04:29 PM
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Just checked out r/boysarequirky, really weird sub, some of the posts that they get mad about seem like harmless fun and aren't even hurtful stereotypes
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 04:06 PM
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Bro the way some of you talk about women makes it seem like y'all just loathe all of womankind
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 04:03 PM
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Kpop is honestly such a fake music genre, it's all about the looks and image around the artists, get good looking people and have them rip off western rap and pop, it's not really about the music just the looks
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 03:53 PM
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Q for men and women, if a person is clearly below average, short, fat, etc earns very less, but she/he is very loyal, supportive, always by your side and sweet to you, would you still find that person undesirable?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 03:33 PM
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The disparity of mental states between men and women that I've noticed on this sub is quite huge, most men here are in extreme states of either a lot of rage or deep sadness, while most women seem quite relatively less intense and light hearted
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 02:40 PM
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Didn't even mention getting laid
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 12:01 PM
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I guessed so. Then why do women complain about guys being emotionally unavailable? Most dudes I've seen are desperate enough to give all their time, money to whatever chick shows an ounce of interest
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 11:55 AM
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What does "emotionally unavailable/available" mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 11:49 AM
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Serious question. Does therapy just not work? Like, i don't like the "how are you feeling", "why are you feeling" type questions, it feels too meta and beating around the bush. If i have a question or situation, I just want the solution to it directly, someone that analyse me and can give harsh if necessary insight about me as a person and my personality, i don't like this "you're good as you are" type stuff, What branch or type of therapy and psychologist comes close to what I want?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 03:11 PM
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golddiggers smh
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 08:26 PM
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Give thoughts on the image text Do you have any counter arguments to what the guy is saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 07:47 PM
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Interesting insight
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 07:44 PM
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women don't understand that clothing does not make them look hot. Yeah the lack of clothing does (to me atleast lmao)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 07:43 PM
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They're punished for anger too lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 07:40 PM
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Sure i get how it could be annoying, but enough to for you to lose love over?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 07:35 PM
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A comment i saw on here that I'm paraphrasing: she likes a guy a lot, guy has the looks and all but the guy makes her his sole purpose, gets too clingy, giving all his time and attention to her and that's what makes the girl lose attraction for him, cause it was too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 07:28 PM
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Seen some accounts on here that have been active for 6-7 years on this sub, bro reading that amount toxic ppd discourse CANNOT be good for your brain
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 07:16 PM
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Spent like first 2 years at uni just learning how to become a regular dude, and by the year 4 became a local celebrity suddenly liked by everyone and extrovert as hell. Can you describe what things did you actually do in detail? In the same place but I have no clue how to actually improve myself to be more likeable to people, like what should I even work on
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 08:51 AM
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There exists a sub to comfort cheaters. Literally a support group for cheaters that feel bad and are regretting
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 02:48 PM
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Y'all ever realise how simple and common it is in animals to have friends, mates and a group they belong to? It's such an innate and basic need in them that they get depressed and die when left alone, you are advised to get a pair of birds cause one alone doesn't survive. Almost like food and water to some animals. Humans overcomplicated the fuck out of such a basic need and ruined it, we're overpopulated but still lonely, why did it become so difficult? Hope i dont sound like r/im14andthisisdee…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 01:59 PM
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What's the most relaxing activity you do? To calm your mind and the many thoughts in it?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 07:50 PM
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What do you guys think of healthygamergg
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 07:43 PM
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Idk about right now but she used to be cute as hell few years back
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 07:36 PM
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Nah I'm good doubt that you can lift me up anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 07:31 PM
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You're a poopy head
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 07:29 PM
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Are those dangerous creatures known to rub dirt in people's eyes? 🤔 Heard that's their primary tactic
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 07:13 PM
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Not a fetish. I'm not a degenerate. I'm a dignified man that finds it attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 07:07 PM
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I have contacts now. Ha
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 07:03 PM
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Yes. Hope you know you're a meanie 😢
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 07:00 PM
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But weight is something that you could still lose right? So why does that not make you hopeful
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 06:59 PM
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Hey not nice! Wow now I'm hurt
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 06:58 PM
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Are religious guys considered less desirable?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 06:57 PM
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You have no taste
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 06:39 PM
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I still don't like the ideology tho, it does you no good
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 06:38 PM
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Ramona flowers is so fucking pretty. It's cause of her that I'll forever have a thing for neon hair chicks. But you have to have the face to pull it off, most don't have the kind of looks that work with such hair
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 06:37 PM
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Lmao funny image
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 06:33 PM
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Why do you subscribe to it? What made you so pessimistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 06:33 PM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 06:25 PM
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What do you make of the fact that such a sad, depressing, pessimistic ideology that is blackpill is mostly subscribed to by men
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 06:21 PM
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What does it mean to be charismatic?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 06:16 PM
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For men, slightly pretty or even average looking women are enough for them to be attracted to. In case of women, being average and even being moderately attractive doesn't get you noticed, you have to have exceptional features, top 10%-1% type for them to react the same way towards you the way men do towards women. The way I've seen women act towards such guys with insane features is totally different, it's a completely different side of women you rarely see, moderately attractive guys don't eli…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 06:08 AM
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For men, tinder only works if you're in the top 1% of attractiveness
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 06:03 PM
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Have any of you ever actually seen a real life example of "settling", afbb, badboy sterotypes? I only always see these online
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 04:27 PM
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Not short, but I find it interesting how strict some women's height standards are, specially the ones that viscerally clown short guys online, I wonder how they'd treat him and react if their future child grows up to be a short man
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 08:28 AM
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This has been discussed probably a lot of times here but why is it that women never approach? Why is it so rare for them to do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 08:46 PM
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Women love men who love themselves. Read this here, do you think this is true or not? In general I've heard the advice "you should love yourself first" and that will attract more people to you, do you agree with this?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 08:38 PM
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Should've expected it but i joined an aerobics class at the gym and there's not a single male in it now I'm second guessing this shit, i don't even like the dances the make you do just thought it'd be good for health and all that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:32 PM
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That's fire dude what kinda dogs do you have
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:19 PM
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If it's legal I'll also get capybaras
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:16 PM
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When I get old I'll be the male version of the catlady, dogs everywhere in my house
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:13 PM
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Ok how? What are the most effective ways to improve your looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:01 PM
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All i want is a big titty gf this year. Manifesting like some say 🤞
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 07:31 PM
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What's the best time to make a post on this sub so that it gets the most replies
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 06:56 PM
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where do I find a chick like this
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 05:48 PM
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Why do i totally blank out when talking to someone or in a group, my brains legit empty
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 05:45 PM
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Do any of you listen to Future?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 05:31 PM
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If you use Goodreads i just assume you're insufferable
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 05:19 PM
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The most interesting thing I've learned from this sub is the word buttergolem
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 04:51 PM
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Can gym and any specific exercises help me get thicker wrists or are they something that can't be changed? I know getting bigger arms is possible idk about wrists
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 04:34 PM
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I'd prefer an average or below average looking woman if she's the kind that doesn't care about money and how much I earn, and just actually likes me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 05:33 PM
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Everytime I open this sub I feel a great sense of shame, like my forefathers in the sky cringing at me, then i end up browsing it anyways. I'm still not addicted and open it like 1-2 a day so hopefully I'll stop completely
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 03:41 PM
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Question for the men here, I know most of yall are very negative about this whole thing, I am kinda too, but are there things that give you hope? Not coping mechanisms but actual hope that it'll get better in the future?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 03:29 PM
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Genuinely asking why is "not all men" considered a "rhetoric" and seem to anger some women. Man or woman, having a negative opinion about all of them is just wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 03:01 PM
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Weeknd has multiple songs with toxic lyrics towards women, on some he even says how he wants to share her with his boys, women love it all though, all the very typical fboy lyrics. If it bumps then it bumps i guess. Think that if anyone else used such lyrics they'd def get criticism for it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 01:58 PM
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If a group of men is called sausage party, what's the female equivalent?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 03:51 PM
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thoughts on this? The online discourse this spouted is hilarious although it's pretty much confirmed that this was an intentional troll
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 03:26 PM
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I feel old as hell at 23
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 03:05 PM
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Are inexperienced guys really considered such a huge red flag?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 02:39 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/sdp9Y7rfrf Damn this thread got me feeling low lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 02:30 PM
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Do you completely accept and love yourself as is, the way you are or do you try to self improve and make yourself a better, more interesting person to talk to? Strictly in context of dating, social life etc
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 02:22 PM
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No, seen it enough irl, the socially awkward girl usually gets adopted/accepted into a friend group, even when she doesn't speak much, can't say the same for the male counterparts. Also you know that the burden of approaching is always on the man right? An awkward woman still gets hit on and approached, the guy isn't getting hit on by women and he's already bad at approaching
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 06:22 AM
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"just date the autistic or socially inept women" lol even they prefer nt guys, literally saw a comment saying that they're a nd woman that doesn't want to date nd guys and always prefers nt guys to balance it out
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 06:00 AM
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You liked the fact that he wasn't into sports?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 09:38 AM
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Bright neon hair on women is pretty af idk why it became a negative to some. You gotta know how to pull it off tho, not everyone can rock it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 07:30 PM
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I think the whole women like toxic and bad boys and hate good, nice ones boils down to a few attributes: extroversion, not caring/giving a fuck and recklessness, the reckless go getter attitude is considered attractive and since these guys are out more, freely talking to everyone they naturally have more chances, plus they are less sensitive to rejection and break ups. Being calm, docile is in a way low energy and humans like high energy, optimistic people more
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 07:16 PM
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Generalization obviously but women seem to be a lot more unified as a group than men, men compete against each other more
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 06:03 PM
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If you think it's bad right now then it's over for men when the women start passportbroing out too
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 05:46 PM
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My only physical insecurity is wearing glasses and having a vision bad enough that i can't function without them, makes me feel like a nerd in front of women specially but anyone for that matter
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 05:40 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/mildlyinfuriating/s/SAGe4QeTr5 Such a depressing thread, people sharing how their 5-6 years long relationship just ended, that's such a long time, 5+ years of being connected to someone, thinking this man/woman is the one for me and then they just end it. Like you can't even feel secure even after years into a relationship thats such a long time wasted. Honestly, humans and relationships just terrifying me, I fear connecting with people, all of it could go to waste and t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 04:31 PM
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Besides OLD or any other virtual/online spaces, what are the best ways to date women? Can't do it in your office, gym, even friends groups sometimes. I know one most people say is different hobby clubs but women don't like being approached there
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 07:33 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/CasualConversation/s/sfPtEOXbS5
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 07:12 PM
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I can't seem to connect or bond with anyone and idk how to fix myself, i don't even know how or where to start with this. I can hold a normal conversation sometimes but it never leads to any sort of deeper friendship or connection
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 04:26 PM
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I have noticed that i subconsciously copy other people's personality, anyone that im talking to or even some film character and i hate it, i don't do it intentionally I just notice myself talking like someone else. How do I stop this
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 10:12 AM
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Any specific artists, genres that you'd consider a red or green flag
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:51 PM
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What fragrances do you all like? Guys, have you ever received a compliment for your perfume from a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:42 PM
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Any specific examples that you'd hate or love if the guy likes?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:35 PM
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Do you care about the book/music/film taste of your partner or when on a date?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:28 PM
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Have you seen that video with Neymar playing women's football? The skill difference is crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:09 PM
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5'6-5'7
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:58 PM
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It's really convenient tho, you never wake up with bad hair, you never gotta groom, they get dry quick after you shower
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:57 PM
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Thoughts on buzzcuts/short hair on men?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:51 PM
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Do you know what gives you tingles? If someone has given that feeling before, what qualities did he have?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:45 PM
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Can you describe what makes one unremarkable or remarkable to you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:41 PM
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Tall guy that looks average (not ugly) or short guy who's really good looking/handsome Who would you choose to be with
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:30 PM
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What do you guys think of Patrice o'neal
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 05:58 PM
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Do you ever fear sudden behavioral/personality changes in people? Like, you like this person you're dating, have seen their nature for months now and you like it but the one day you see a completely different side of them that you don't like
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 05:55 PM
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Is it even possible to find someone that fits you? Like the perfect match? Human personalities are so complex, nuanced that it doesn't seem possible. So many divorces, so many people just settling for the partner they've got
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 05:43 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/facepalm/s/jEu1La6Yld Why is this such a common thing? A lot of people deny this but I see it a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 04:01 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/WitchesVsPatriarchy/s/3axagv2kJE Roasting a man that was mentally ill and committed scide, some comments call it out others support
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 07:22 AM
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Beard or clean shaved. Which is more desired?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 02:12 PM
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Are there ppd posts/thread/comments that have really stuck with you? Anything that you still think about, thought made a good point, insight or actually helped you or anything else that you still remember
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 07:41 AM
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People talk of this dynamic where a guy treats his girl like shit but she likes him, even seen online how they sometimes breakup but she still has feelings for him and even gets back with the guy after going through all that. How? Seen this in other relationships too to some extent, where the son is like this to his parents, in all girl friend groups, in siblings. How do some people keep getting love despite their bad behaviours?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 06:34 PM
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What are some good examples of highly charismatic, socially intelligent men?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 05:33 PM
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I don't ever drink alcohol, smoke anything, or do any similar substances, how much would this affect me socially? Will people straight up reject me or not want to hang out cause of it? I feel like this can be an obstacle, is there any other way i can compensate/make up for it without actually consuming any of these?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 05:55 PM
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How to not be boring to people? How to be interesting to talk to? Man or woman, i just come off as uninteresting to people, how do I improve upon this? Any specific things i can do daily to improve this aspect of myself like the way you exercise daily? People are interested in talking to me when we first meet, then in the first few days of convos idk what happens or what they notice but they lose all interest, I can't figure out what exactly do i say wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 05:47 PM
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How many of you guys play sports daily? And which sport? Does it affect you positively? I love them and feel like they help your confidence a lot more than gymming for me
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 04:33 PM
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"Treat people the way you want to be treated" How true do you all think this is? I've never found this to actually work. Whats the better advice for someone that wants to be taken more seriously and respected by other people?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 04:29 PM
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Dudes, out in public, you see a girl that you're attracted to and want to talk to her, but you're both complete strangers, how would you approach her? I personally wouldn't even approach because we're strangers and idk if cold approaches ever work but want to know what would you do if you had to approach her
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 06:30 AM
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Hitched a ride with another guy and didn't have anything to talk about the whole time, occasionally I'd ask a question, get an answer then back to silence. Bruh why am I like this lol and how do i fix this problem
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 06:45 PM
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Thoughts on this thread and it's replies? Ignore the main post, it is vile
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 04:01 PM
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Why is so much of the discussion in men's communities focused on physical traits that, at the end, you can never change, so what's the point? And I see so many average looking couples and even ones where the guy is below average in height/face/physique. I've personally always believed that you're personality, characteristics, charisma matter a lot, lot more not just with women but everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 03:59 PM
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Saw a thread asking women what they like in men and it's just random stuff in truth they already love them so anything they do is endearing to them. If a guy was a complete stranger personality traits do women find the most attractive? I already know the physical ones, is it like that, that if a guy is pretty enough then the weirdest personalities get overlooked? Women, what really gets you to like a guy when in conversation with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 09:31 PM
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There must be something really wrong with me if I can't make any sort of connection or bond with any human whatsoever, not any other guy friends, no rapport with even blood relatives. People are nice to me and we sometimes talk but its all very formal, never evolves into anything deeper. I have tried asking people but they just say "you're fine", "nothing's wrong with you". Idk I'm not any sort of "piller" or other online lingo but this gets me sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 04:11 PM
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https://youtu.be/1XkPeN3AWIE?si=P2TDNHxA_vf9K7bb
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 03:49 PM
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I'm not asserting this as a fact, so don't get mad at me but I've always thought that women just aren't as much into men, as men are into women. Yes they too feel lonely and want a partner, but they just aren't as desperate. When a guy's outside he finds a lot of women attractive and would be okay with being with any of them, compared to that, women just don't even register men that much. That's the difference, they like men too but not as extremely as much men are into them and how they stress,…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 06:05 PM
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How come some people are horrible to their friends/loved ones/gf but still keep getting love and loyalty from them?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 08:03 PM
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How much does getting shredded increase your attractiveness? Any guys here that got better results? What do women here think of it? Also how long does it take to get shredded at minimum if you're currently unfit?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 07:31 AM
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6'3!!?? Bruh wtf is this inflation 😭 i thought 6'0 being was enough. 6'3 is like 1% of men
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 06:47 AM
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What do you guys think of Craig Ferguson
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 01:52 PM
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A lot of times when I'm in a social situation and a girl talks to me, like she might not even be interested and is just talking but suddenly every other guy starts bringing up embarrassing or dumb things up about me to her. This has happened to me thrice, any other guy here faced this? Crazy how competitive and desperate dudes get
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 12:56 PM
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Do men that have been raised their mothers have a hard time fitting in male groups and at understanding the dynamics of male social circles? I've faced this but didn't know until recently that it was cause of how i was raised
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 07:19 AM
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Can you give me a list of all the books you've read?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 07:12 AM
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what exactly should I even do? I do put myself in social situations but i keep failing over and over again, idk what I'm doing wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 08:16 PM
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I'd love to see this posted as a cmv here
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 03:58 PM
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So, you say you're interested in them from the beginning? When they barely know you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 06:24 PM
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Isn't the "you're running the friendship" the issue here? Cause then they think that this guy was only pretending to be friends and wanted to date this whole time
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 06:21 PM
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Someone explain this to me, I find it confusing when a friend confesses and the girl doesn't like it, feels betrayed and lied to, but I've never understood why is that bad, i honestly don't, isn't that kinda the natural progression of things, you were great friends, helping each other, have chemistry, like each other's company so seems natural that you both could be a couple. Sorry if I've said anything wrong, l didn't mean to, just trying to understand this dynamic. What is the better alternati…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 06:15 PM
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Being settled for is such a sad and terrifying situation cause this person probably had their fun and is now only with you for stability not because theyre attracted to you. Y'all ever fear that? What can someone do so that it doesn't happen to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 07:50 PM
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So much advice on the internet is: work on yourself, gym, fitness, develop a more interesting personality and the most repeated one: find hobbies and work to get good at them. While i completely understand that these definitely would help, I still see so many people irl that do none of these and still have a thriving social life full of friends and a dating life. They have no hobbies or special interests, and just scroll ig and reels when free, aren't funny or interesting in nature, then what gi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 06:45 PM
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The best type of women are the ones that can banter and are very goofy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:57 PM
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Anyone here that has actually benefitted from this subreddit? Like advice/you learned something that actually helped you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:56 PM
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A lot of these women only subs centered around looks and ratings have such high standards for women, and so many comments on how they don't like that men overrate simple faces, I'm like isn't that good? That we have low standards? For me, simple plain faces with doe eyes are quite cute
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:42 PM
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How much height privilege do 5'11 dudes get?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 05:21 PM
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https://reddit.com/r/amiwrong/s/FnkuTHBU8F Both guys were on tinder, what do you assume was the difference in personalities and the way both talked that one got used and the other didn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:04 PM
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I want to learn how to be funny, how do I start jestermaxxing? What i usually do is just observe popular comedians and read more humour lit
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 06:43 PM
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Them Sky Ferreira type women >>>>>>
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 05:31 PM
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Can one make their personality more fun, charismatic, funny? Or are you stuck with the one you're born with? I feel like I'm very bland and uninteresting, i never have anything interesting to say and add to the conversation, it's deeper than just getting girls cause I'm like this even with the boys. Can I do anything to change this?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 07:45 PM
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How much do women care about men spending money on them for all the things like dates, gifts, paying for stuff when out together. I know everyone's different but I want to know what does an average woman in general expect?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 07:32 PM
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Is it bad that i find this sub entertaining for all its gender wars and shit slinging more than the actual dating concerns? Think I need to find healthier means but this place is hilarious sometimes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 04:20 PM
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My height seems to fluctuate by 0.5-0.8 inch a lot of times that I measure, anyway I can keep that extra length all the time and have it stop fluctuating?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 03:36 PM
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I was kidding lol i know you meant a drum kit
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 04:42 PM
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What about bongos? They're a type of drum too
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 04:28 PM
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Well no amount of self improvement can help attain good taste 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 04:27 PM
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That's why I added the last line, I'm personally very passionate about music and don't do it for a party trick or to impress, but for myself cause I like it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 04:23 PM
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I think one way guys can make themselves more attractive is by having a music related skill like singing or an instrument like guitar or drums (not shit like piccolo), look at prince and look at the weeknd, even on this sub I've seen women say that musical skills are attractive. Agree or nah? Although I think you should have a natural interest in it in the first place, doing it just for an ulterior motive like getting girls would be quite sad
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 04:12 PM
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What about irl?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 03:16 PM
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Absolutely not, not even entertaining that as a joke
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 03:16 PM
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Seriously is 5'10 considered not tall/short now?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 03:14 PM
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https://reddit.com/r/redscarepod/s/sdZckvWxs5
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 03:08 PM
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What are the best things a guy can do to improve his personality, looks, svm, all of it? Besides "join a gym" and isn't vague like "work on yourself" Edit: besides any sort of surgeries
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 02:55 PM
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At the risk of sounding like a r/niceguy™ , I feel like it's true that the more nice you are the more people treat you like shit and take for granted, guys that are jerks, have had habits, did shitty things still have loving friends, family, and a relationship. A lot of their bad habits get ignored cause "thats just how they are" and people are used to it. But when you're nice everyone's expectations are high, make a small mistake and everyone's mad at you. As cringe as it is, i wonder if any gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 10:43 AM
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I wonder what percentage of men never get to experience the feeling of a woman absolutely fawning over and romantically infatuated with them. Like for women this is a far more common experience cause men simp, but I feel like a great percentage of men spend their while lives without every getting to experience this
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 09:07 AM
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How can one change this aspect of their personality?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 02:44 PM
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Women, what do y'all think of a guy that wears eyeglasses? In terms of attractiveness? Is it ever a negative for you? As a guy that wears them that's my only insecurity. Does it make one come off as a nerd? And can you be attractive with glasses? Any tips for what can someone do to improve their looks while wearing glasses?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 12:07 PM
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I'm not proud of it at all, what should things should I change? How can I start changes?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 02:32 PM
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How do y'all manage time? Get time for yourself and your interests? How do you not let job and studies take up most of your day?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 08:17 AM
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Questions for both men and women: If someone has a bland or no personality what can one do to improve it? Similar but if a person is horrible at all social skills and at understanding social cues and situations, how can he improve his social skills? Those that are out of college, how do you meet new people and new friends offline ?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 08:15 AM
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Already am lol, not to brag, doesn't help
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 07:34 PM
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Idek man, I've had these issues even when I was a confident child, my biggest insecurity is my inability to make any sort of friends, connections and bonds with any person in the world and not getting respect by anyone. I've had this since birth and it makes me doubt myself, my social skills, personality. Very honest I don't even care about women and sex at all, just wish I had a normal friend group or at the least be respected. I was confident as a child but then I kept failing at these 2 thing…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 07:17 PM
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Feel free to make more assumptions, cause the ones you've made are right
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 07:01 PM
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How to stop being a pushover and doormat?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 06:01 PM
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Lucky in what regard? Cause I've been told that this is the reason why people don't want to befriend me, cause it makes me boring
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:34 PM
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This is helpful cause I've understood that what you wear should say something about yourself instead of the common clothing everyone usually has. But could you answer the same question personality wise rather than looks/dressing? Sorry if too many questions lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:03 PM
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I mean, "anything" isn't very specific and can be many things, can you be more specific about what makes someone an npc and what doesn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 04:30 PM
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What does it mean to not be an npc? What personality, traits or habits are attractive to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 04:16 PM
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This subs for romantic relationships, but I have trouble making any sort of friendships and connections. I can never connect with any human, feels like I'm one stage below y'all cause atleast you guys have other normal friendships. I just get treated very formally by others. Idk what is exactly wrong with my personality, what makes a good personality? I feel like I'm quite boring and I don't know how to be fun. The times I've asked friends about (and I'm talking about normal friendships with oth…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 07:35 AM
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Does this sub allow asking questions about my personal problems for help and advice? And am I allowed to ask/discuss about all other types of platonic friendships and social issues? I could ask on socialskills sub but I've found the takes in this sub are more deeper and varied
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 05:56 AM
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