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Hanging around a lot of men isn’t necessarily a “clue”. It’s understandable that a man might feel threatened/insecure as he knows that she is exposed to possible “competition”, but having male friends doesn’t imply anything. Same with gestures and dressing. Lots of girls like to dress up for attention, w/o having a lot of partners. And a child is visual information, not verbal information. Although I imagine that there is an argument that a beautiful woman with a child could actually be alluring…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 03:23 AM
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You don’t know a woman is promiscuous unless she tells you. We don’t evolve to be turned off by information. Disgust is either perceptual, or moral, and moral disgust is largely influenced by culture / religion. You could only make an evolutionary argument against male disgust with promiscuity if it where based off of a physical response, such as the sight of a mothers body or presence of a child. If the disgust response requires verbal disclosure it’s a clear sign that it’s rooted in the person…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 03:04 AM
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Upon rereading, I may have come off a bit hostile there. Apologies for that. It’s all good and understood. men have to gamble their entire genetic survival on a woman's faithfulness. Sex has always been higher risk for women. It’s only today that sex is “relatively” low risk. When a man takes a risk on a woman he faces the possibility of “fathering” a child that is not his. When a woman takes a risk on a man, she faces the possibility of extreme vulnerability for herself and her child. If she ga…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/18 08:58 PM
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It does matter because I want to respond to what you’re saying and not what I think you’re saying lol I’m just asking for clarification so that we can be on the same page. What I think you’re saying is that men instinctively don’t want a woman that has had multiple partners, and historically it makes sense because for the vast majority of time, sex resulted in a child, and pregnancy makes obvious changes to a woman’s body. A woman that already has a child to care most likely has already been “cl…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/18 07:25 PM
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Before I can respond, what do you mean by “instinctive reaction” ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/18 07:02 PM
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Mostly just bothers me because these same men think that their biology somehow excuses their own sexual promiscuity. Like, no, if men are the gate keepers of commitment, a man with a large n count loses some (in my opinion a lot) of their appeal. I think the primary difference is that women will not prefer a virgin, while men will, and that is understandable. But a man that has slept with 100 girls is not in any way, shape, or form, ideal. In fact, It’s a huge red flag that women happen to be mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/18 07:38 AM
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Isn't it like where on the one hand you're ok with making broad secondhand assumptions about people on the internet with little insight into their lives, personality, experiences, etc, because they did something you don't like, but on the other hand you hate nazis and racists for making broad generalizations about large portions of the population just because members of those populations did something they don't like, and so you have to internally justify through reconciliation or avoidance or s…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 12:42 AM
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I wouldn't know
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/18 11:21 PM
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Love, in general, is a byproduct of the most necessary kinds of suffering. If someone doesn't know how to suffer, I can bet you they won't be a great lover either. For someone that doesn't know how, suffering only feels like pain, and love; desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/18 07:13 PM
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That's because men don't know how to handle their emotions
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/18 07:02 PM
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External taming is how you find meaning in things outside of yourself, internal taming is how you find meaning in yourself. Just my perspective tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/18 06:44 PM
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That which you tame gives purpose to your life
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/18 04:21 PM
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solid
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/18 12:24 AM
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I believe about 99% of ‘oops’ babies that women keep are actually pre-planned pregnancies they lied to their partner about. source
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 11:34 PM
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Or maybe like possibly idk she's against abortions?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 11:22 PM
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to be attracted to black people means there is something wrong with you. He assured me that was not how he felt and that his "moment of silence" was reminding himself that not all black people are like the ones he knew while growing up in a poor neighborhood. Hes had plenty of time to evaluate he hasn't exactly had an easy/happy life and has had to struggle with a lot of things that can prevent you from living a normal life and that can keep you spending your time questioning why your life is fu…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 08:31 PM
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Of course!! I love how you worded this, as well Thanks! Historically, though, women are more stressed than ever when they try to balance a full time career, housework, and children Oh I agree. I should have added that when I do adopt children I plan on working either part time or not at all. I think it is incredibly important for a mother to have a large and active role in their children's life and learning experience, especially adopted children that may not have gotten proper care during those…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 08:19 PM
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This dude compared fucking black dudes to literally fucking animals and you actually have to take time to think about how deep his biases run? I meant that was the stigma in the town he grew up, not that he necessarily believed it to be that way. Also, where he grew up there was not much diversity among social and economic class so his perspective and experience with black people is quite skewed. You're dating a white supremacist dude. Feels like a stretch. It's like the vast majority of our con…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 08:08 PM
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Liberating women sexually, letting people put disgusting things in food and overindulge, among other things - are symptoms of a collapsing society. eh you lost me there. Studies show that as women (and hence the rest of society) obtain more freedoms the better the economy becomes and the more luxurious the average persons life becomes. I understand the idea that some people want to pursue their evolutionary role, but I think as humans we have something that goes far beyond what every other anima…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 07:57 PM
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I highly suspect it's worse for women when they DON'T find someone to take care of baby mamas. No stigma, but that consequence is a real bitch I meant we don't have to carry the burden or stigma because pregnancy is easily avoidable in these times. In other words, it's not that having a child is consequence free, its that having sex is (mostly) consequence free. THis is the difference between discipline and not. Nihilism and not. In my example, discipline being overcoming our own tendencies and …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 07:41 PM
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If nothing has changed (and from certain perspectives nothing has changed as far as human nature goes) then traditionalism would win out Why would it win out if it only existed as such, due to lack of birth control and religious stronghold?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 07:28 PM
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Imagine waiting 24 years to sleep with someone and 3 weeks later when the fact comes up that you'd kissed a black person before, he has to take 15 minutes to sit in silence and think about how he feels about it because they have lower average IQ's than white people and because he comes from a place where the only reason a non-black women would be attracted to a black man is because they have some sexual fetish that, in their culture, is akin to beastiality. I'm trying to be understanding of the …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 07:26 PM
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Found out recently my bf is probably a racist. Not entirely sure how much is concealed, nor how to feel about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 06:48 PM
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I mean since when does being a pro-gun libertarian make you a racist who doesn't support LGBT people??? Most libertarians I know do support LGBT, aren't racist, and tend to side with the left when it comes to police brutality and the police state.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 06:46 PM
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I can understand that with from different life experiences come different perspectives and world views, so I don't fault someone for looking at Trump and "feeling" like he's just a poor boy who's intentions are good. That being said, if you have had the life experiences that make you look at Trump and think that he's just a poor boy who's been misunderstood, chances are our world views and perspectives are going to be so far a part that there is very little chance we'd be compatible connecting o…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 06:44 PM
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I honestly think that a lot of people have trouble with identifying when they've fallen for an idea rather than a person, but also I can sympathize with women that don't think like this. I'm lucky that I can be happy doing most things by myself, but a lot of people don't want to be/feel alone. When dating or trying to date I definitely feel pressure to be intimate so at some point you have to decide what's more important to you and what risks you are/aren't willing to take. I come from a loving,…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 06:36 PM
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I can get that to an extent because in a sense it's basically just being told that you're unattractive. However there are studies that show that compassion leads to longer lasting relationships than passion, and I'd wager that most relationships begin with passion that arises from sexual attraction. Sticking it out and really getting to know a woman can be beneficial in multiple ways. Like it or not, most women just want security and a man that sticks around despite not receiving anything in the…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 06:30 PM
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Most male-female friendships are along the lines of "he does shit for her" vs "she sometimes hangs out with him" and they say "hi" if they meet on the street, I guess I'm not the kind of person that asks others to do things for me. I like to go on hikes and take spontaneous road trips and have conversations on just about anything. As a friend, my offer is simply to be your company if you enjoy these things too. It is possible, though, that men I meet don't particularly enjoy doing these things a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 06:18 PM
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As an attractive, but extremely reserved/shy woman it's impossible to have any friends, especially guys. I find that there is this mindset among men where being put into the "friend-zone" by a woman you are attracted to is seen as sign of weakness or of being the lowest of men and so they all just disappear. Firstly, I need to be friends with someone before I have a relationship with them. I can't be comfortable with someone unless I feel like I know them/they know me and that can take me a long…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/18 08:19 PM
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