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#JustLVMThingsthrowawayforunethica/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 01:39 AM
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I bought my bf a laundry hamper that was white, dark, and mixed. I told him anything not put in those hampers wouldn't be washed. This was after several years of him throwing his clothes on the floor, and me telling him I would no longer wash them. He left his dirty socks, in the middle of the carpet, during a party. They had been there for two weeks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 07:47 AM
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These are lifetime pieces.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 07:40 AM
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Kitchen Aid and All Clad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 07:38 AM
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It's smallish, but so comfortable. My landlord come over last year and he was like, the place looks so nice, we could raise the rent! But we won't because the place looks good thanks to you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 07:37 AM
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Omg they have infiltrated!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 07:30 AM
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How's that ring?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 07:26 AM
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Mmmmm...All Clad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 07:24 AM
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To be able to come home and not hear about my mood (anything I don't agree with) my period (I don't even pms) in my own space. "Why didn't you wash the dishes? YoU mUsT Be On YoUr pErIoD! God you're so emotional! All I did was not do the one thing I said I would do but you're such a bitch for calling me out! Ugh must be on the rag!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 07:22 AM
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I live in California. I bought my first house at 21 and my second at 25. And that was crazy. It's not that way anymore, it's so much worse. Like I said $1700 is a bargain. They could rent this property for $3,000 tomorrow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 07:12 AM
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Eww. They use packages as furniture?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 07:01 AM
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Good cookware. I bought a set of All Clad 18 years ago. I always had shit cookware and was like the minute I get some money, I'm buying them. They are thick, gorgeous, and go from stovetop to oven. They get no special treatment except some barkeeper's friend. No non-stick, but I still make the best pancakes. I also bought a KitchenAid stand mixer and JA Henkels Knives. These are the foundation of my kitchen. Furniture: it's so subjective. I worked in furniture for years. I choose comfort first w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 06:56 AM
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In my experience, they worm their way into it, and shower you with praise. "You are SUCH a good cook! Omg, your food is amazing. Let me tell all my friends and family!" "Wow, you got all the dishes done in 15 minutes? It takes me an hour, and I've been at work all day. You're so much better at it!" "You're washing and ironing and folding your clothes? Not much of a bother if I toss mine in right? You like doing it and...I've been at work all day." Except I've also been at work all day. I think a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 06:20 AM
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If the man can build and fix things, I will very happily cook and clean. Of the men I've been with (and I'm in my forties), there have been exactly two that could. Story time: I was in a serious relationship (engaged) with an ex pro linebacker. 6'4" used me as a bunch press. Sweetest, kindest man until I found out he was an absolute liar and thief. My BMW got a flat. They have a special little jack and notch on the frame to jack them up. Super efficient. He was dicking around and finally admitte…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 06:04 AM
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Exactly. Your home is set up for you...have you had men wanting to infringe on that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 08:10 AM
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He LOVES ME!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 08:07 AM
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I like when men spend the day with their child/children and the moment the woman steps inside he says "I've been home all day with the kid/s I'm going to the gym/hanging my friends/ locking myself in my gaming room. Here's your kid. Women home all day with kid/s: yeah, I've been working all day, so could you not expect any help? I mean you just sat on your ass while I actually earned money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 08:01 AM
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No butt crumbs. If I have to conduct an ass inspection, I will. I have a bidet he is welcome to use.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 07:50 AM
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But they're helping you! They're showing they're serious about you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 07:44 AM
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Haha, if you are a clean and like minded woman I have an entire living room, bedroom, and half bath available.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 07:37 AM
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You forgot the military stories.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 07:33 AM
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Lol, The Chair
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 07:29 AM
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Do it for you. I get in a funk and my kitchen is a fucking disaster. My friend and I send each other before and after pics for motivation. I clean it for me, no one else. No one else gives a fuck if my kitchen is clean. Terrible cook? Look up a recipe that sounds like something YOU might like. Watch the video. Make it for YOURSELF. I find simple recipes that are incredibe. That I make for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 07:23 AM
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Both men rented rooms. Another man I DID move in with (like over a decade ago) couldn't wait because of all the "good stuff" that he could use. The other man I moved in with was devastated because "she took everything" when I moved out. Ugh, because "everything" was mine? I worked in high-end furnishings for a long time, and aquired some cool pieces at cost. Cooking has always been a hobby of mine so I buy the best, a piece at a time if I have to. Not once in my life have I been invited to move …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 06:58 AM
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I read this and my heart breaks for you. I love white, and I made my bedroom all white. I got a new mattress and pulled my old one away from the wall and found boogers smeared down the corner of the wall. The only two men that have ever slept here was an attorney and a mechanical engineer. And they only slept here a few times. I wanted to vomit. I love my house. I love living alone. I love getting up when I want (weekends), I love making whatever I want, whenever I want to eat. I love my puffy c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 06:18 AM
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Don't commend me. I learned this the hard way 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 02:49 AM
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If I found a craigslist post that said "$850. Access to full, well appointed property. Live in maid, chef, house manager, and laundress including. All groceries and utilities paid. Sex on demand with a hot male." I'd jump right on that lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 02:07 AM
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Eww. I had a guy from OLD tell me that he would have to kiss me the moment he saw me irl. Told me he would not be able to control himself. I played along out of boredom and said that was unacceptable. I would meet him but he was not to touch me. He said he couldn't and, again, would try to kiss me. He had no control. Ugh. The stronger sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 01:52 AM
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The first guy didn't touch me until the end of the night when he cornered me away from my friends. But the entire time he was staring at me like I was prey. "He's just friendly! You interpreted his intentions wrong!" Was their excuse. I was the only person he was trying to buy drinks and leering at. "Why do I have his card?" "Networking!" "Did he give all of you his card? No?" Surprised Pikachu Faces. The second guy, that was totally his wife projecting and taking any responsibility away from hi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 07:16 PM
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Same. Went to State Uni a few hours from my 5 years older than me boyfriend that didn't have a car. He begged and pleaded for me to move back and just go to community college. After the first semester ended I withdrew and moved back, got my own apartment and started at community college. I was 18, he was 23 and he was sharing a bedroom with another guy. He dumped me a few months later, right before my birthday 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 06:49 PM
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I went out with a group of girlfriends and my friends sister brought her live-in boyfriend with her. I was in my 20's, they were in their late 30's. The boyfriend zeroed in on me and would not leave me alone. Kept offering to buy me drinks. I would feel eyes on me and turn around and he was just staring at me. Everyone saw him doing it. He finally cornered me and said that he really likes me, wants to be with me, and doesn't even like his girlfriend and then shoved his card in my hand and told m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 06:36 PM
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She's thinking about having a third child with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 08:40 AM
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At one point the doctors husband was unemployed for about six months, they had just the one child at the time and they were two. She had to hire a nanny. To take care of their child while she supported the family. He was home the entire time and couldn't take care of his own child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 08:14 AM
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Dude, I posted somewhere else but I've been taken home twice to and air mattress on the floor and a blanket thrown over it. One guy was an investment banker (he really was, I'd been to his work many times), the other had a painting business and did really well. In both instances I said "if you think I'm going to have sex with you on an air mattress, that's not going to happen. I'm going home." I was definitely a pickme, but that was something I would not compromise on. Both men purchase bedframe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 08:03 AM
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With the exception of one married friend, not another friend or coworker is in a happy marriage or relationship. One of the doctors I work with is absolutely stunning, dresses beautifully, is obviously smart, and super kind. Her husband is an absolute jackass. We all go out to dinner and he will make shitty jokes about her not wanted to have a baby right away. Another time we were at a festival and she had her hands full with food, so she asked him to grab her purse off the lawn. He looked at he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 07:02 AM
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I hated her boyfriend and friends in the movie. They were happy to get expensive gifts, Nate liked the expensive lingerie, but they all just bitched and moaned about how her work affected THEM. None of them supported her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 06:28 AM
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Savage! Love it hahaha!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 10:30 PM
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My ex, who wasn't working, would act like a fucking excited puppy leading me to show me he washed the dishes and swept the floor. He wanted his praise and to be told he was a good boy. Living in the house I paid for, the dishes I paid for, the meal he ate off that same plate that I also paid for, with the water and soap I paid for. I told him I wouldn't praise him for the bare minimum of being a functioning adult by washing the dishes and pointed out they weren't even washed well. There were bit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 08:18 PM
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Dude! SAME. I love the women in my life. I've told them we should make a little all-women community where we'd have a little farm together and work together and help each other. One of my friends asked if I thought I might be gay, and honestly wish I was sexually attracted to women. I just really love the company of women. My coworkers are almost all women. We are all shapes and sizes, ages, and ethnicities. I love being around them. Thinking about it more, it's the fact they aren't being funny …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 07:50 PM
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I had very large breasts and on one of my OLD profiles if you really looked you could tell (I was wearing a long sleeve tee, no cleavage in any of the pics. I got so many fucking comments of "nice tits" "mmm love me some large breasts" and "lucky for you I'm a breast man". Being treated like you are nothing more than a body part sucks. I ended up having breast reduction surgery due to back pain but a side effects is I don't have to hear about my breasts anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 07:13 PM
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Do not disclose it. I was molested as a child and shared it with my fiance. He held me and comforted me as I cried. He was the first person I ever told. Years later we were in a packed court room and while he was on the stand he said I was an unfit mother because my brother started molesting me when I was four, so there was obviously something wrong with me. To say I was devastated and humiliated would be an understatement. It was reliving being violated all over again in front of a room full of…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 06:34 PM
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Wow. Just wow. I seriously NEVER even thought of this. Thank you for a new perspective on their NV behavior. Even if a woman doesn't work outside the home, well you've seen the figures of all the things wife's do and how much their labor is worth if they were to be paid to do it, I think it's like over $200k a year (US). "But she never contributed financially, I paid for everything! She deserves nothing!" All while sacrificing everything to raise their kids, clean their house, wash their clothes…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 06:56 PM
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Ok...the tagging along. My coworker told me what happened to her a few months ago. She was seeing this guy (walk dates, no actual dates) when he called her and said he was going to neighboring town about a half hour away to pick up some Greek food, did she want to go? She got ready, drove to a parking lot by his house. She got in the car and he ordered several meals. She figured he ordered for her, but thought it was weird he didn't ask her what she wanted. They get to the place, he puts the con…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 06:42 PM
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I kicked me ex out (he started drinking again after being sober for 1 1/2 years, which was obviously my fault). He had just bought a nice tool box and all new power tools. He also left his clothes and iPad. At least a few times a week I called, texted, and emailed for him to get his stuff. I finally called his dad and left him a message to come get it. My ex texted me that if I ever "harass' his family again, they will sue me and they have an attorney standing by on retainer. My message was "hey…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 06:25 PM
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Oh, even though I'm not with him, I am far from escaping him. Our son is 12 and we have been in and out of court for years. His child support got raised last year so now he wants full custody. I've spent at least 40k in attorneys fees. He still controls me any chance he has. If I'm "not good" and "don't behave" he refused to return our son. Because of corona police won't enforce child custody orders. Courts are horribly delayed. I'm at the point of just giving up custody of my son because I can'…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 03:35 AM
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That's hilarious...and painfully true 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 03:26 AM
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I didn't speak to him for the rest of the drive. Not one word for the next half hour. The entire way I swore I would not allow him to be there. That as soon as I stepped out of the car I would tell him to go fuck himself. When we got there my labor was very active and painful. I have no family. It was the middle of the night and I didn't want to bother my friends. I was scared and didn't want to be alone. I let him stay and I have regretted it to this day. It was like from that moment, he knew h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 02:48 AM
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I have been called a bitch exactly two times while in a serious committed relationship (engaged). Once while in active labor: he was swerving all over the road on the way to the hospital because he was texting another woman he knew I hated; the other when he brought me home from emergency appendectomy surgery: he decided to get wasted and I asked him (nicely) if he could refill my ice pack. He then passed out in the middle of my bed and I had to sleep on the couch in total pain. Wow...this just …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 02:30 AM
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You're right! Thank you for that ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 11:28 PM
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I'm actually ready to do this. I've only been on a handful of dates in the last few years, but after spending hours getting ready, showing up to the restaurant and the guy is in a tee shirt and jeans, or dirty tee shirt and shorts is too much. Oh, and then getting to pay half. Or maybe look really good for the first date, and when they ask you to pay half and ask you out again, agree, then show up in the tee-shirt and jeans sans hair and makeup. When he inevitably asks why you aren't all dolled …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 10:38 PM
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My foundation costs $40 and powder is $30. The pedicure I just got was $28 + tip. But you can't spend $40 for dinner and a drink? OK. Cause I'm obviously a gold digger after that $50k you make a year. They really like to neg us. A walk. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 10:06 PM
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Right? I did have a boyfriend get me a bunch of the Lacy thongs, but because he knew I loved them and wore them every day. It wasn't some sexy gift for him and it sure as hell wasn't for my birthday or a holiday, it was just because he was out shopping and I'd mentioned I wanted to get more, so he picked some up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 09:41 PM
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Tattoo removal! Have you started? I had a small, poorly done tattoo removed from my wrist and man, it is so painful but so worth it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 09:37 PM
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Since discovering this site, I have carefully reexamined all of my past relationships, and I think about all of the terrible things I put up with, excused, and ignored. I always considered myself to have high self-esteem and would silently put-down woman who took back cheaters or had to pay their own way on dates. Maybe it's karma but with my last ex, I was everything I criticized. I took back a cheater, I paid my own way. I was physically, emotionally, sexually, and financially abused by this "…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 09:32 PM
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My ex got me a cheap hard floor vacuum and a slide out shelf that goes under the sink "for all my cleaning products." These were wrapped and placed under the tree. He also got me a pair of really cheap fake leather boots. I lived in his house (he repeatedly reminded me I lived in HIS house and to not consider it in any way mine). He got me stuff to clean HIS house. Oh, and I had his baby. This is me:🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 09:16 PM
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My 5o something year old coworker was bragging that he got his girlfriend lingerie from Victoria's Secret and a night at a mediocre hotel in our town. I asked, "so what did you get for her?" He looked super confused and said those WHERE her gifts. "Oh. Well that sounds more like things for you, not her." Happy Birthday...here's your costume to make my old pp hard and a cheap hotel because I expect to fuck on your birthday 🤡.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 09:08 PM
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Right? Here's to never being girlfriends!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 06:18 AM
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CILD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 06:09 AM
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Same. You call a guy out for their shitty behavior "yOu MuSt bE oN yOuR pErIoD". No. Just no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 06:02 AM
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My mom was horrible to my 9-years older sister. Calling her a bitch and "you must be on the rag!". When she had her own period she was hunched over in bed exclaiming that she was hemorrhaging. I didn't tell her about my period for two years. She only found out because I was in the ER with a migraine (they got really bad, non stop vomiting, couldn't stand light, wanted to die). I was 15 and then they asked when I first started menstruating. I told them 13. When they left my mom gently asked why I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 04:09 AM
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Yes. He was one of several that did this. If men age so much better and get "hotter" with age, then why do they lie? Another guy I went on a date with (Tinder) his profile said he was 41. A few days later he was 42. I asked if he had a good birthday. He laughed and said he's actually 48, he just likes to "change it up." What.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 03:55 AM
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You forgot holding a dead fish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 03:28 AM
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I met a guy for dinner that said he was 42. He then started telling me about his 38 year old daughter and seven year old granddaughter. Honestly, I knew from his pic he wasn't 42, it was just kind of funny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 06:30 AM
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Didn't Ray Ramano do that to his wife? She gave him a kidney and then he divorced her?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 06:25 AM
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Ok, so a somewhat decent meal my portion might be $50-75. Guys have no problem dropping that on the boys for a round. Or a video game. Or a Jersey. My shoes alone are at least $100. Tanning $110 for eight sessions. Gym $50 a month. Coco Chanel $150. Pedicure $30. Manicure $20 (just clear). Outfit at least $300. Time getting ready and blowing out my own hair: two hours. Makeup and skincare products: in the 100's. Razors, shaving cream, white strips, sonicare toothbrush $100's. Time driving: usual…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 06:48 AM
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I live in a cabin and I have it beautifully decorated. The view is incredible. My bedroom is like a fluffy white cloud. My kitchen has every appliance I want. It is an oasis. The thought of sharing it gives me anxiety. I love my home and put a lot of work into it. I don't know, the thought of some guy just waltzing in and getting to enjoy everything I created and worked my ass off for?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 06:26 AM
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Eww. My ex bought me the same hat as some MySpace (I'm old) girl he was lusting after. Then, he kept insisting I cut my almost waist-length hair to a pixie cut. Relentlessly. I constantly got comments on how beautiful my hair was. He constantly wanted me to cut it off. After I left him, I checked out the Facebook posts of like seven of the women he dated after me. They all posted selfies of their newly short haircuts. Usually in his bathroom. He talked them all into cutting off their hair. He ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 06:05 AM
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I'm almost 5'7" and dated a guy that was 5'6". He was really good looking and we had a lot of shared interests. After a few dates he told me it made him uncomfortable for him when I wore heels. I needed to wear flats. I bought flats. I was still too tall. He became demeaning and made me feel like shit for my hight, all his ex's were tiny petite women. I was just this huge ogre at a size four. Meanwhile my best friend dated a guy who was 5'5, she was 5'9" and he LOVED when she wore heels. Securit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 05:56 AM
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"your kids"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 06:55 AM
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I went out with friends and stayed the night and I let my lv ex stay at my house (we didn't live together and it gave him a night away from roommates). He called me three or four times to tell me he made me breakfast, each time sounding more and more drunk. It was like 730 in the morning. I got home, and he stumbles up, totally drunk and slurs "I made you brekfasss" by this time it's 8 am. He was SO PROUD. My kitchen was destroyed. I have a gas stove and it was covered in food. My $50 non-stick …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 06:04 AM
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I had a horrible English teacher my freshman year of high school. She LOVED the jocks. Loved them. They could rough-house, straight up cuss, do absolutely nothing in class and she just stroked their egos and giggled at how clever they were. I was a cheerleader and she, for whatever reason, was in charge of monitoring our grades. For info, I didn't care for jocks and the only reason I cheered was for the dance competitions. Those were awesome. I was talking to someone and they asked why we didn't…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 05:51 AM
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Lol, "laid" on the bed. Although the thought of a grown poo-covered man playing on the bed is pretty funny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 05:25 AM
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I don't wax anymore. I just shave and trim. I posted somewhere before (prob on alt) about my coworker that kept getting skin infections. The doctor finally swabbed the sores and it was caused by feces. Her boyfriend pumped septic tanks for a living. He admitted that he came home from work and sat on the couch and played on the bed without changing or showering after work. The fucker pumped SHIT for a living, and thought this was fine. She had to force him to get undressed in the garage and showe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 04:27 AM
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Sorry, it was removed for being low quality :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 03:04 AM
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Lol yup, I'm in the US. Men touching their own asshole to wash it is also gay. I've dated way too many men here with this view for this to be an anomaly. It's disgusting. But I'm expected to spend $600 a year on Brazilians because "hair down there is gross". Guess what's grosser down there? Shit. Shit is much grosser. Wash your ass. Everyone wash your ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 03:00 AM
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Ah, you've met my NV ex. He bragged that his (soon to be ex) wife did all the paperwork because he didn't bother to. The things I found acceptable 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 02:25 AM
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My mom was my dad's mistress for 22 years (until he died). My dad was a multimillionaire way back in the '80's. Lived in a five bedroom estate with a six car garage for his car collection (Mercedes Gull wing, Laganza, Mazarati, etc.) with a stable and arena in an incredibly expensive area. We slept in shitty motel rooms, our shitty car, and an RV until my grandma took us in. And my mom constantly bashed his wife that she was stupid, fat, and old, meanwhile my mom was driving HER old car. The Stu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 01:02 AM
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It's so crazy because in my early twenties I absolutely expected the man to pay pay for everything. I tanned, got a manicure and pedicure every two weeks, gym membership (which I utilized), cosmetic facials, beautiful clothes, expensive perfume, waxing. If he wants to take me out, of course he is paying. In my late 20's I took up the whole "I need to pay my way so the guy thinks of me as his equal." No, they won't think of you as their equal. You're just a hot girl they can fuck at a discount. T…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 08:52 PM
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I have the neo lux bidet. It like $39 on Amazon, takes less than ten minutes to install, requires no hot water or electricity. I HATE using a restroom elsewhere. My son has always used it, but questioned it when his dad called it "gay" because he asked his dad to put one in his bathroom. "Guys, is it gay to have a clean ass??"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 08:33 PM
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I mean it must work, right? Some woman out there is like, "yes strange man that I've never met, come to my house so we can have mediocre sex, potentially give me an STD, get me pregnant, or if things take a really dark turn, murder me". So here's my address.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 08:24 PM
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I have a Rott/Cane Corso. She is totally bonded to me and my son. They are very sensitive and won't put up with mistreatment. We have total respect for her and she keeps us safe. I live in a remote area, and anyone that comes over I have to have physical contact with (handshakes, hugging) and she closely watches our faces to make sure they are safe. She is extremely wary of men, and she has never been abused (go figure). I don't think I'll own any other breed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 08:18 PM
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I'm trying OLD again and they don't even want to buy you McDonald's for sex. They just want to come over and have sex. My profile is very clear I'm looking for a ltr leading to marriage. I matched with a guy and I found him attractive. We started talking on the phone and had a lot in common. I was excited to get to know him. The next day at almost ten at night he asked if he could come over. He lives an hour away, and I live in a remote area. I told him that him asking that made me feel really u…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 07:57 PM
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Yup. My ugly, self-proclaimed "dork" that I mistakenly got into a relationship with abused me so badly. He would constant say I was out of his league, too pretty to be with him, dressed too nicely. When they say this they are telling you the truth. YOU ARE TOO GOOD TO BE WITH THEM. He cheated on me when our son was five weeks old with an acne scared meth addict with shitty tattoos because she rejected him in high school and now he finally had a chance with her. He has ruined my life. I should ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 07:38 PM
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This was my morbidly obese 40 something coworker. "Omg, why is he with her, SHE IS SO UGLY, she doesn't deserve him!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 05:52 PM
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The neo lux bidet is great. I think it's $39? I hate using a restroom anywhere else. It really is that good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 06:20 AM
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But bidets turn men gay!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 06:18 AM
29

I've had a bidet for years, my son loves it (as in getting clean, not spending time in there). My ex/dad came over and told our son that it was "gay" for him to use it. Our son was upset for days until I could convince him a clean ass isn't gay. Why is that even a conversation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 07:10 AM
24

I showered with a boyfriend when I was 19 and he was 22. He got into the shower, washed his hair, splashed water at his armpits, spun around, and started to get out. I asked what he was doing, he wasn't clean and literally pointed out he didn't wash his ass (or feet!). He said it was gay to wash his ass. GAY TO WASH HIS ASS. I tell this story to my son, who washes his ass and his penis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 07:01 AM
12

He was left with a projector tv (not even a flat screen) and a shitty Walmart desk. That was it. I worked at a high-end furniture store and my furniture was beautiful. My crate and barrel dinning room chairs alone were $199 each. But I was a total bitch for not leaving MY furniture to impress his next bangmaid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 04:28 AM
1

Lol yes. The funniest was the shower curtain and shower head. Like, imagine you couldn't even provide that. The Christmas present cleaning shelf was straight petty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 04:21 AM
1

Apparently people who do construction and are licensed and insured are really not happy about people like them lowballing (since the don't pay for license or insurance) and they have an organization, which puts them out of work for being legitimate). I can turn him in for that too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 04:14 AM
16

When we got the house (sent in a picture of our family and why we wanted the home to raise our family) he carried me across the threshold to "our home". A few weeks later we were at the Home Depot discussing can lights, and he told me, "it's MY HOUSE. I'll decide which lights we get." That's when I realized my place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 07:40 AM
32

First fine was 50k, I gave them the court minutes to them, admitting the 6k and he got hit with another 50k. So two 50ks. Sorry, worded that weird.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 07:10 AM
40

He worked under the table doing construction for daddy. When we went to court for child support daddy lied and said he didn't work for him. Ex claimed he did "odd jobs" and "barely made minimum wage". Child support was assessed at $250 a month, him making minimum wage. The house was transferred to his name, and he bragged during custody evaluation that he made far more than me and owned his home, making him the more fit parent. He admitted in text messages he made $6k a month (tax free, no rent …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 07:06 AM
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I did. I brought the u-haul with two men. We took everything that was mine, which was ALL of the furniture, all of the cookware, all of the dishes, silverware, showerhead, shower curtain (fuck yeah I took the curtain), the pull out shelf he got me for Christmas for my cleaning supplies that he bought from a place that he was trying to fuck the girl that worked there, my garden hose. Everything. The house was empty because everything was mine. He was pissed that I "left him with nothing".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 06:03 AM
26

I turned him in for tax evasion and he got hit with a 50k fine. ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 05:54 AM
9

In my late teens, early twenties, guys in their twenties were GORGEOUS. I live in an active beach town, so tanned and toned surfers and skateboarders. My forty-something ex in a gross town a few hours away pulled a few teenagers (18 and 19). Several others in their early 20's. I cannot image seeing his gross, hairy, no muscle tone, white, noodle arms, pot-belly and being like, "oh yes, way better than guys my age!" And he was cheap af, he didn't provide these girls with anything but promises and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 05:52 AM
3

I got my first hate-mail from a scrote today!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 05:30 AM
6

"what do a fat woman and a moped have in common? It's fun until your friend sees you on one!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 05:14 AM
10

I saw The Last Samurai with a friend and she was gushing about how gorgeous Tom Cruise was. I was drooling over Ken Watanabe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 05:13 AM
435

My ex-fiance was gifted a house by his grandmother. It was a short-sale and filthy. I cleaned the entire place, purchased all new appliances and painted 1200 square feet of house by myself. With a nine month old. A few months later he changed his mind, didn't want to marry me, and I needed to move out. Bangmaid that did thousands of dollars in work, just to be discarded 🤡.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 04:53 AM
4

I'm in my forties and overweight (still pretty and myself and home are very well maintained). There is no issue with getting laid. Finding it attached to a hvm is another matter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 07:13 AM
26

Nope. See my post. Don't fall for the ugly guys "poor me" BS. He will treat you worse to get back at all the woman who denied him. And make you feel "special" for seeing "him for him". And then make your life hell. Don't date ugly guys. They hate us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 06:41 AM
24

Nope. Done. Don't do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 04:03 AM
5

Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 04:01 AM
88

My gross (now ex) showed up with a shirt that said "I Support Single Mother's" with the siloette of a stripper on a pole. I was a bikini dancer and paid for half or all of our dates 🤡. I asked him in what way was he supporting me since I paid for everything? He looked embarrassed and I never saw it again. But this fucker went online, searched for, and bought this shirt. While I paid for everything. 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 12:27 AM
3

My ex was unemployed for a few months. He would proudly show me how he did the dishes (for the food I bought and the meal I cooked in the house I paid for) and was just so pleased with himself. I pointed out there was still milk in the cups and food on the dishes and he was pissed. "You should just be grateful I did them at all!" He wanted to be praised daily because he did the bare minimum and couldn't be expected to do it correctly, you know, like NOT leaving food on plates? I just can't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 12:15 AM
324

I was the beautiful woman with the scrawny scrote. He would tell me how I was out of his league, that people would wonder why I was with him. He put me on a pedestal. He also cheated on me repeatedly, gave me HPV while I was pregnant, and contracted herpes (thankfully I didn't). I was smart enough to have his child, before I knew any of this. I thought he was "different" from the other guys I dated. That I was special to him. He abused me so badly and I'm a year into an intense custody battle be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 11:51 PM
26

Supply and demand lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 11:40 PM
12

Forgot greasy hair.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 11:09 PM
7

This. Nice outfit, makeup and hair, it takes me two hours to get ready (shower, shaving, blowout), in addition to the mani and pedi I got the day before. But these fuckers will brag about how much money they make and then ask you to pay for your food while you just sat there for two hours listening to them talk about how great they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 11:08 PM
13

What is that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 10:47 PM
144

I can go on tinder and have dick here faster than a pizza.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 10:42 PM
3

I love her. My first question was "do you have any females and are their ears and tails intact?" Thankfully they were. The few men I have allowed over seem to be on their best behavior because she just observes them. Closely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 08:25 AM
20

Dang. You just brought back a memory. My ex (boyfriend at the time) lived together and went halves on everything, although he made more and liked to rub it in my face constantly. But I wanted to be the cool girl who paid for my own way. Condom had broken, says he didn't feel it and just kept going. I asked him to go to the pharmacy and get me plan b, it's only $40. He flipped out that this was too much, he shouldn't have to pay for it, and I "needed to at least pay my half." Cause a baby would b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 08:57 PM
1

I've always said if I ever got married, the only stone I would want is moissanite. It's beautiful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 08:41 PM
5

My dog HATES men, except for my son. I've had her since nine weeks old and she has never been abused by anyone. The few men I've had over were never alone with her. Men hate it. "all dogs LOVE me!" With their stupid hand reaching out to pet her. I'll say "please don't pet her, she is not friendly." Then she inevitably growls and they act all shocked and hurt and tell me I need to train my dog because they are entitled and should be allowed to pet any woman's dog. I didn't get a Rottweiler/Cane C…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 08:18 PM
4

I met a date at a restaurant, and he'd already had a few drinks. We get seated and he "surprised" me with a bottle of wine and a bottle of champagne. I had a glass of champagne and he was pissed he spent all that money and I wasn't drinking. So he drank it all and got trashed. Another dinner date I had one glass of wine. The guy kept pushing me to drink more, "I just want you to have a good time!" The waiter asked if I wanted another glass and I declined. I went to the restroom and when I came b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 04:39 PM
19

Gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 03:17 AM
38

I love pubic hair on men. They shave it because they think it makes it look bigger. It doesn't. I like to know I'm fucking an adult man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 02:47 AM
117

He was a really good looking guy, an investment banker, had a nice SUV and just bought a condo. Wanted kids and marriage. Would buy me nice gifts and pay for my sitter when we went out on dates. I ran into a guy I knew at the club that night and spoke to him for about 30 seconds in passing, if course introducing my boyfriend. He flipped out. I'd never even dated or slept with the guy. I later found out I was his third case of domestic violence in the last few years. His mother contacted me a few…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 02:39 AM
111

I was afraid to watch it my entire life. I finally watched it last year at 42 years old. I was like, that's it? A guy unhinged? I had an ex break in and hide in my kitchen. He was texting crazy stuff and I finally texted him back. Heard his message alert go off in my house. It was terrifying. He held me hostage for about six hours abusing me before I tried to escape and the neighbors heard me (I ran to my garage, hit the open button and Indiana Jones'd my way under the garage door, screaming. He…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 02:14 AM
37

I see you have met my ex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 02:03 AM
45

I was watching Iron Chef tonight and it was a special about the personal lives of the chefs. The newest Iron Chef is a young woman with several successful restaurants. They go to her "husband's" bar (that I'm sure she bought for him ) and they are interviewing them and he turns to her and belches in her face. He says something along the lines of "see? She loves me no matter what." Would he do that to a man? His mother? His sister? I was so disgusted. They have a young boy together. He disrespect…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 05:31 AM
192

I snapped my collarbone in half and it didn't go all the way through the skin, it was "tenting". It was extremely painful and I couldn't afford surgery, so it had to heal naturally. After a few days of no sex, (the jarring would be unbearable) he loudly proclaimed "your mouth isn't broken". Just wow. A bad accident, my bone snapped in half, intense pain, but all he cared about was his sexual pleasure. Like, yeah, stick your dick in my mouth, that will be great for me. Dumped his ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 06:16 AM
29

I work in a doctors office. A woman came in with her two boys, about two and five, and her oldest boy, her husband. The kids ran around the waiting room like maniacs, the oldest kept threatening to run outside, prying open the doors. The youngest kept trying to lock himself in the bathroom. Mom kept trying to entertain and distract and redirect them. What did dad do? Sat there, in a chair, hunched over his fucking phone. He didn't look up once. The kids were literally SCREAMING. Mom was exhauste…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 06:04 AM
126

Can confirm. My (now) ex cheated on me when our son was five weeks old. I thought we were really happy and everything was going really well. Baby was thriving, I was back into my pre baby jeans, we were sexually active, house was always clean (I even ironed his fucking t-shirts) and I made a beautiful home-cooked meal every day. We had great conversations and loved watching movies together. I'm also an ex bikini model and exotic dancer. I thought he was my soulmate. Nope. Not good enough. He was…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 07:22 PM
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