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| 10 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (March 23rd 2020)Yes!! This is me happening with me and the guy I’m dating right now. Everything was going really well, he was chasing me because I wasn’t all in on him and I was still a “moving target”. The moment I asked him for exclusivity, it was essentially over. Almost the exact same thing happened with the last guy I dated as well. The last guy also seemed to really like me, then the day I said something implying exclusivity, he went cold. Lesson learned — I’m never showing my cards again. Never going to … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 02:08 PM |
| 6 | Why are women suck pickmeshas sometimes?! Honestly part of me cant feel bad that she feels bad for giving him "what he wanted" due to all the red flagsI think you meant to type "such Pickmeishas" but in this case "suck Pickmeisha" also works. 🍆 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 07:41 PM |
| 11 | FDS has ruined most of TV for me....Miss me with "asking a man to love me". If he doesn't love me out of his own volition, tf do I want him for?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 07:38 PM |
| 53 | anybody else unable to tolerate normal relationship subs anymore?I stumbled across an old post on r/askmen where a woman posted a question about fuckboys she has dealt with. Someone responded and said "fuckboys are a myth, like 'the friend zone'. If you're getting repeatedly fucked and chucked, it isn't the guys." "Fuckboys are a myth." Imagine fucking thinking that "fuckboys are a myth" and all men are actually good people. Imagine thinking that the woman is probably the problem and that "fuckboys are a myth". Boi i- | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Quit Texting HimNot dating anyone in the moment, but definitely feeling more empowered to "kick his trash ass out" if I do date again and the guy dares to do me wrong! Fuck that shit. It's amazing what I've let myself tolerate in the past because I liked the guy. (Which is ironic, because you'd think that a guy doing me wrong would immediately make me not like him anymore). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/19 06:20 PM |
| 2 | Men are really out here thinking we “have it easy” and “don’t need a dating strategy” because we have dusty cumskulls willing to pounce and bounceI am deceased. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/19 10:10 AM |
| 2 | Quit Texting HimI feel so empowered whenever I read literally anything in this sub, holy shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/19 10:07 AM |
| 3 | Friendly Reminder Not to Take Dating Advice from Men.lord, I really wish I had seen this before I decided to pursue a guy earlier this year -- a decision influenced by answers I'd seen on r/dating, r/dating_advice, and r/askmen about how "we love when women initiate" and "we love when women make the first move". And guess how that worked out? I'll give ya a clue -- it didn't. Never again will I try to be the pursuer when I like a guy - 0/10 do not recommend lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/19 10:04 AM |
| 1 | Leave! Him! Now! These men are TRIFLING! Why ask Reddit what to do when he spelled it all out for you?That line from Eleven is such a mood. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/19 09:40 AM |
| 2 | FDS done right. She was busy, unavailable, didn't worry or obsess over him, created a dynamic where she was being pursued, was high value, and he committed. She still left but did it right, tooWhat did the post say? It's been deleted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/19 09:29 AM |
| 25 | Don't let your desire for love translate their bum ass behavior into something you feel like you deserve or can tolerate. He's not texting you back because he doesn't care. He's not committing because he doesn't care. He's not treating you like a priority because he doesn't care. Don't be stupid.The post title is an especially hard pillow to swallow... but imma swallow it anyways, 'cause if he doesn't care, I can find another one who does. Don't chase, replace. 💅🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/19 07:55 AM |
| 3 | Best dating advice you've ever heard?What’s going on in Harry and Meghan’s marriage? I don’t keep up with them, but I’m curious. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/19 05:19 AM |
| 17 | Best dating advice you've ever heard?Don’t chase, replace. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/19 05:18 AM |
| 2 | Typical lifecycle of an FWB situationThe OP also posted this in this sub as well lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/19 02:32 AM |
| 4 | I HIGHLY suggest every woman in this sub watch SheraSeven1 on Youtube.Any videos in particular you recommend from her? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/19 02:31 AM |
| 41 | PSA: FemaleDatingStrategy doesn't believe in asking men out and initiating dates/texts with them. If you believe that, /r/dating_advice is the sub for you, not FDS.Oooh, you right. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/19 04:25 AM |
| 2 | Cut him off or clear it up?I would recommend that you end it via text because if you see him in person you might get tempted to hook up again. I would also only feel obligated to end things in person with someone who values me, it doesn’t seem like this guy values you that much (I know that probably hurts to read, but I promise you you can do much better!). So don’t feel bad about ending it via text. You can also call him, anything but actually going to see him. Can you deal with losing the stuff you’ve left at his place?… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/19 04:13 AM |
| 3 | Cut him off or clear it up?This is good advice, thank you. Had a guy screw me over this past summer — I could tell he initially liked really me, then later lost interest but kept stringing me along because he was too much of a coward to properly end it (and probably to get laid a few more times as well). Some nights I get lonely and wish we were still talking and that things were back to how they were at the beginning with us — back when things seemed really promising. Then I get on this sub and am reminded that I’m a cat… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/19 04:06 AM |
| 2 | Cut him off or clear it up?I once dated a guy who dogsat for his ex. It was just once, but I later found out he still had feelings for her. My only advice would be to run. Anybody who’s close enough with their ex to dogsit for them is a red flag, in my opinion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/19 03:56 AM |
| 5 | Need some help - 27 and stuck in a dead end with datingIs the Rules similar to Why Men Love Bitches? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/19 03:45 AM |
| 62 | PSA: FemaleDatingStrategy doesn't believe in asking men out and initiating dates/texts with them. If you believe that, /r/dating_advice is the sub for you, not FDS.I pursued a guy earlier this year (he started out as a friend, I kissed him first and tried to make our friendship more romantic than it was platonic). He seemed to have a lot of fun with me at first, then eventually he felt the pressure of me wanting a relationship too early on (I didn’t realize this until I looked back on it), and ran the fuck away. I was the “pick me” girl here. Tired of men on Reddit preaching how they love when girls show initiative and go after them. I’m sure taking initia… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/19 03:36 AM |
| 3 | Advice on how to proceed with a guy you’re into but he’s now pulling back....I feel like I just read a page from Why Men Love Bitches, lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/19 02:57 AM |
| 5 | Stay woke!Haha I think you're definitely an exception to the rule! You're a lucky one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/19 06:10 AM |
| 5 | Ladies, what should. you look for as a sign of a healthy self-esteem in men?I dated a guy this past summer who told me a lot about women in his past - not just exes, but even girls he dated briefly. For example, I once made a playful joke along the lines of "it's not like I'm obsessed with you lol!" and then he launched into a serious story about this girl he went on a few dates with who once said to him "omg I'm obsessed with you," (he had a hot foreign accent and we live in America, so I believe it), and how he was really turned off by her after that. This definitely … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/19 06:00 AM |
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