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Not interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 04:33 AM
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You know what? Just about everyone has at some stage stolen something from an employer, be it just a pencil. But our pencil filching habits are in general a private matter and an employee assuming that another employee who is a comparative stranger will co-operate in performing a theft with them and then approaching that stranger at their desk to organise such is still way out of line. See how this works? Assuming that another person a)breaks the rules in a particular way and b)will possibly bre…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 04:29 AM
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pro sports is about winning Actually, no. Pro sports is about making money. Winning is one of the major ways that happens because people like winning a whole lot, but make no mistake, it is merely one of the paths to the money.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 02:28 AM
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Oh it is the same old same old with men, they like to indulge but they don't want to accept responsibility for the consequences to their lives of choosing one path over another... they will blame literally anyone else who they can fit in the frame... like in the Bible, "It was this woman thou didst give me she did offer me the apple and I did eat" So instead of "well I sure do love this casual sex but sometimes I don't get any because I'm not making enough effort to be valuable that way and when…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 01:58 AM
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And here I was thinking that the main disadvantage I'd faced in life was less time to fit everything in because of such a short reproductive window.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 03:17 PM
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I would like to point out that the age range includes, in the US graph, in the lowest age range, a number of women who have never legally been allowed to drink. Damn right if I was still under legal drinking age I'd wonder if a guy at work who asked me to go out for a drink had sinister motives. He should know not to ask me to do that unless he knows me well enough to know I've already started drinking AND can handle my liquor. No idea what's up with the French figures though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 11:25 AM
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There's a lot of guys who just swipe yes for anything then make their mind up if and when she also swipes. Those guys mostly aren't actually interested in all the girls including the fat ones, the busted ones, the methy ones... they are interested in quickly knowing which girls are interested and only spending the effort sorting through and considering the ones who are. Women don't tend to do this, I think because the consequences of some guy they aren't in the least bit interested in having got…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 08:01 AM
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I mean I agree with what you are saying, and it seems that you agree with me too, that you can be a first choice for someone at any given time. Well maybe you could be the first choice to someone who is particularly poorly off for social circle and contact with the outside world... but only for as long as that situation persists for them. But any grown adult who knows people? Yeah they'll already know someone better for them than you. I just don't agree that everyone is automatically a second ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 03:28 AM
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Well I think you're locking yourself out of a great number of social circle opportunities there. A date is just an opportunity to get to know. Who a person chooses to rank first in priority for attempting to date at any one point in time is something that is a complex matter and not all of the factors have to do with raw attraction. I mean you could be turning someone down who approached that other guy first because she was just starting out on making approaches and that other guy seemed less li…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 03:00 AM
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What it seems to me like you are saying is you're basically OK with not having been her first choice in terms of her calculations about what she could get, just so long as there is no evidence she ever overtly tried and failed to get someone she ranked better than you. Well if this is what you are saying... and if this is also some sort of generally present form of inbuilt male thinking... go argue it out with the guys who think women should be the ones to make approaches. Because not making ove…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 01:41 AM
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I get your point but we are talking about feeling like the second choice Dude, none of us (male or female) is first choice prior to building up the relationship to the point where it is an invested one. This is reality. Are you a billionaire underwear model with a Nobel prize and the temperament of a saint? No? Well you're not first choice. Deal with it or deal with the consequences of not dealing with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 09:33 PM
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Dude... not the same thing at all, Being used to make someone jealous is not the same thing as being settled for. I'm fine with being settled for and so should every other mere mortal. If you're not a billionaire underwear model with a Nobel prize and the temperament of a saint then you're settling for material.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 09:30 PM
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I'd just assume he was trying to use me to make her jealous and I wouldn't accept the date. This is not something I would assume if we were not part of the same social circle. Look, I'm low count myself but it has nothing to do with saving myself for a "special" dude. It has to do with men being dangerous monsters who bring chaos and disorder into one's life, and me liking my peace and quiet and not wanting a revolving door of new dangerous monsters bringing new chaos and disorder each time but …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 08:42 PM
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but she could easily find an amazing guy I tell you what. You find that guy you think is amazing, then YOU go offer him to suck his dick. If you aren't willing to fuck him yourself, where the hell do you get off being annoyed that someone else doesn't have sex with him and then build her entire life around him? If you're not attracted to him you're not attracted to him. If she's not attracted to him she's not attracted to him. Case closed. So, how can I not be the 'nice guy' equivalent of Anna? …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 11:06 AM
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Start with this one. This also explains why girls have roast beef lips. Vagina prolapse.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 10:48 AM
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This also explains why girls have roast beef lips. Vagina prolapse. No.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 10:46 AM
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To the "nice guy" this "other guy" is obviously not as "nice" as him. I mean how could he be? Did this other guy help her move that one time? Did that other guy stay up all night and listen to her problems? No, of course he didn't. I think it is also worth pointing out that it is very rare that the spurned suitor has witnessed every moment of the interactions between the woman and her new boyfriend leading up to their eventual announcement to the world that they are a couple. I certainly don't k…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 09:00 AM
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I suppose for men that would mean stop asking and for women it would mean stop leaving a trail of indicators of interest to prompt being asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 01:49 AM
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I think if you don't know by the end of the pregnancy which your wife would prefer and are willing to do that, you're living your life wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 01:43 AM
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I've never asked for money from a guy I wasn't residing with in an intimate relationship... the sort of relationship where you just cover things if the other person can't and it goes both ways. I mean seriously I've never even asked for someone to cover a cup of coffee when I've forgotten my purse and show up to a cafe to meet a bunch of friends. Oh and I guess bank workers when I've put in an application for a home loan, and the person who processed my student assistance claim might have been m…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 01:40 AM
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People with unhealthy views on the other gender face an impediment to getting good results in the dating market, they aren't out of it altogether. Where did you hear someone tell you guys with fucked up views don't ever date? Of course we know they date. There's dating horror stories all over that involve them. there are some guys that aren't even in the dating market and don't know it. I don't think this is the case for women. Are you using "dating" as a way to refer to the search for casual se…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 01:31 AM
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We've already got a process that does roughly the same thing (tempts a woman via spending of money to prioritize you over other similar men for a first date) without being such a slippery slide into sex work/buying sex. You just tell someone you are asking on a date that you'd like to take her to a particular event or eatery that is maybe an experience she wants to have but a little beyond her desire to pay for.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 12:46 AM
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Pretty much. Just about anyone can go nuts for a while and exhibit mentally ill seeming behavior over a short time frame while under stress. So she threw your laptop out a window? Well yeah to what extent has she done such things before, to what extent has she done them since, and did it sort of make sense emotionally at the time even if it wasn't the best decision in practical terms? I mean not saying that someone who throws a laptop out a window doesn't have personality issues, just maybe not …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 10:44 PM
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Niceness can produce a sexual response. Usually a slow building response that quietly abides waiting its turn should its turn ever come. I'm talking radical niceness of the sort that is difficult to accomplish, not just doing a few small pleasant things then waiting for vagina to be provided in return. Just about all women know a shortlist of guys who they would immediately either try to get with or match up with a friend if those guys became single, simply due to the quality of the niceness inv…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 10:03 PM
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"linked to bad health outcomes" You need more than that to argue that something is a survival necessity.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 12:33 PM
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For almost all social purposes, and for most practical purposes they are women. Most of my barriers to choosing to befriend people have nothing to do with gender. I think the rules around hitting people are capable of being distilled down to ones that aren't gender specific. You have to be more careful with anyone weaker than you no matter why they are weaker. I think sports should have to sort these things out within the sport and the rest of us should butt out of that process for sports we don…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 07:04 AM
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Yup. Marriages are systems that need allowance for dropping the ball. We're all human and humans drop the ball occasionally. But when someone treats that allowance for dropping the ball as a bank account they can just keep finding new and innovative ways to draw upon the whole system breaks. People know when they are being gamed no matter how plausibly deniable the individual excuses are. It hurts them. It hurts them beyond just the time and resources involved. It hurts their pride, it hurts the…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 06:22 AM
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He probably means moderately intelligent and charismatic dudes who repackage ancient ideas as entertainment for other dudes who have no cultural education at all and can't even begin to think of such things without help. Think Jordan Peterson.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 04:36 AM
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There is no harm taking it out the next morning on my way to work when I'm dressed for the weather. The harm is that she's going to go to lay in bed waiting to sleep, doubting and hating you, regretting marrying you, vowing not to bring any more children into the relationship, planning how she's going to have to get in a reminder at 5am in the fricking morning or it just won't happen (who da fuck wants to start their own day that way? "I wake at 5am to do unpaid work supervising a grown man to d…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 04:08 AM
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Ideally, a man would admit that he was being selfish and didn't care about how she would felt about it. That way she could just break up with him. This. Relationships have delicate system of balances of "getting your own way against the interests of your partner/the household budget/the sane running of an orderly household" and generally the behavior that leads to nagging is behavior in which you are getting your own way but trying to do so in a manner that isn't going to be counted against one …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 03:52 AM
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I don't. And if I'd been willing to nag ruthlessly like his mother did, I'd probably still be married to my first husband. It was the only approach proven (by his mother) to reliably work and I wasn't willing to make that my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 03:03 AM
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under what conditions will you be 100% truthful to ONE lover and be loyal to him Well I've never cheated but I did kick to the curb a husband who cheated on me. Don't cheat on me, I'll be gone. even in your prime years? If by "prime years" however you mean "in high school" well yes I did start my first relationship in high school and I did not cheat, however goddamn you can not expect teens to as be wise consistent or reliable as adults. Their brains are undeveloped and that's one of the reasons…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 07:36 PM
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Somebody (not me) was doing keto so dinner involved me browning some very fatty minced beef, adding some water, cumin seeds, pepper, gravox powder, roughly chopped broccolini, chopped celery then cooking it until enough of the fat been mopped up by the broccolini heads that it was palatable. The things we do for family.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 07:10 PM
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Dating is a voluntary activity undertaken to achieve goals that are fulfilling but not essential to continued existence, nobody "has" to anything about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 03:39 PM
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Why would anyone challenge your view? It is your life. Live it however you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 07:20 PM
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We were young and there weren't a huge amount of assets when I divorced so I wasn't ever going to be bothered by the amounts. I think what annoyed me were the little things. I'd done a lot of hunting really cool things down cheap (furniture, light fittings, curtains etc) in the days before the internet made this easy, and he didn't give a shit about style but I knew I couldn't take all that labor away with me because there would be too many gaps left in the fit-out of the household if i did that…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 04:48 PM
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Female. Understood and respected. If someone "loves"" and "cherishes" me but does not understand and respect me, it isn't me they are having a relationship with it is my body plus their own imagination.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 04:38 PM
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If you go to the right audience you can find applause or condemnation for any viewpoint. There are people who think wanting a tall rich etc man is shallow and unrealistic. There are people who think wanting a pretty skinny virgin is shallow and unrealistic. And there are people who are of the opposite opinion. I think a more pertinent question is why are some people so fixated on needing everyone to applaud them for every decision they make or preference they have? Why are they so fixated on nev…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 07:24 AM
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Conscientiousness as a trait is one of the best predictors of success and current thinking is it is about 50% inherited.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 05:02 PM
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As usual, my disclaimer... you do you, there's very few paths in life that don't have risks and disadvantages, every person needs to weigh up what they can handle and then accept the consequences of their choice. The flipside of that is you don't get to judge what other people can and should be able to handle. They make their choices. So for you? Can't challenge your decision, that will be up to fate to deal with you and your choices. But for others? Some of them will reasonably choose in the ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 03:04 AM
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"believe women when they say..." is a gross oversimplification of a bunch of concepts around how we should initially treat people who report having been victimised, and how we should treat them as the consequences of the report are followed through on. Sort of a blunt instrument that can't be ignored, to beat people over the head with who haven't bothered to take a more delicate, precise and well thought out approach to making sure they don't treat victims unfairly. If you've done the work on yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 01:26 AM
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Well for starters if you're just saying what YOU would find best/worst then there's no challenging that. You're allowed to be the the expert on what you want. After all, you're the main one who suffers if you get that wrong. However don't assume everyone wants the same sort of relationship you want. While it is somewhat difficult for workaholics (male or female) to find suitable partners, quite often the most suitable partner is someone exactly like them who will be capable of even over the long…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 04:07 PM
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