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Thank you, this is the kind of support I love about FDS!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 04:02 AM
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This is such a nuanced and well written comment and I appreciate it. I’ve had women my age saying the exact same things to me and then they’re pro porn on top of it 🤮 so true that age itself can’t determine the quality of the advice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 08:19 PM
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Say it louder for the lurking scrotes!!😂😂👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 07:35 PM
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I think my mom has similar issues, too painful to admit she’s been giving and giving and giving to men and it was for nothing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 07:34 PM
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So true and thank you 🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 07:22 PM
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Such a good point, I think that might play a role too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 07:21 PM
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Preach!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 07:10 PM
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Totally fair! Just surprised how much it resonated with what was said in the podcast and what I experienced right after.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 07:10 PM
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Bless you 🙏 We need advice from our sisters and mothers who won’t take men’s bullshit!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 07:09 PM
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This got me laughing out loud lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 06:31 PM
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Maybe it’s just me but I feel that there’s a difference between having guys in your social circle who you get along with and having intense friendships with men that are exclusive and therefore in some way isolating. Acquaintances within groups is one thing, exclusionary male friendships is another. I’ve had successful friendships with guys when in a group of people who all had similar interests, versus friendships with guys who only want to hang out with me and no one else (which was always a s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 08:29 PM
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Exactly Edit to add of the guys I knew in college I’d say about half are like this now but they seem totally unbothered by it. And those that at least don’t live at home whine all day about the possibility about paying their own bills like phone and car insurance. I mean?? I can’t fathom not even having the desire to be independent people
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 04:15 PM
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YES YES YES!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 08:15 PM
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☝️☝️☝️would bet a significant amount that they’ll do just that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 12:18 AM
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Gotta love justice!! Lock him up and throw away the key forever!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 03:21 PM
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I definitely think I’ve been diving too much into the negative without focusing on all the positives in my life and surrounding myself with the things that make me happy while I’m learning and growing. Thank you for this and for taking the time to share similar feelings
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 04:01 AM
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I definitely think a soothing bath is in order. Thank you so much for your advice and kind words!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 02:55 AM
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This is amazing advice!! I’m going to start re-reading the handbook now. This post was somewhat a result of me spending the past few hours reading Pornland by Gail Dines and it resonated so much with me that I was like “I need to talk to someone about this!!” then mentally went down my mental list of close friends and realized they’re all very anti-FDS. Trying to figure out how to find radical feminist friends in real life during the pandemic hasn’t been super successful haha Edited: misspelled …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 02:40 AM
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I’ve tried to reach out to a lot of the women in my life by introducing them to FDS and most of them have actually gotten angry about this. My best friend and I actually hadn’t talked for few months because I suggested FDS and it triggered huge battle. I still interact with my female friends because I want to have some type of interaction with other people but it feels a bit shallow and forced. And I’ve had to cut out most of the men in my life because they’re very low value. I’m definitely feel…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 02:38 AM
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Sending those best wishes to you too!! It helps to know we aren’t alone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 02:35 AM
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Thank you, I needed this advice 🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 01:49 AM
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I totally agree that the gov doesn’t care at all about protecting women and kids, it’s so disgusting and disheartening
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 12:39 AM
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I think these are interesting points but ultimately I have little faith in these measures and I think we need to collectively stop tolerating men who use porn and heavily shame them in every day interactions. No porn is acceptable. If these measures happened they’d just use it as talking points to show how commodifying women’s bodies is actually fine. Women’s bodies aren’t for sale and any man who thinks they are needs to go straight to the trash
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 04:40 PM
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Seriously getting massive pick me vibes from her and he seems like a total a**hole
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 01:19 AM
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Yikes what a creep!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 12:59 AM
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YESSSS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 04:29 PM
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Thank you so much for everything you’ve done. I know I’m not the only one who feels like finding this sub changed my life for the better and really rescued me from the throes of an incredible dark future.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 04:29 PM
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This community is life changing, we’re so glad you’re here!! Welcome!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 04:26 PM
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This actually made me almost fall out of my chair. This is just incredible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 04:25 PM
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New FDS tshirt? 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 03:03 PM
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Saving this!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 03:01 PM
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QUEEN. GAIL!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 02:47 PM
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Omfg I SQUEALED when I saw Gail Dines name on this podcast episode! Can’t read the comments yet because I’m going to listen immediately! I’m so freaking excited.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 02:47 PM
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Ok honestly this comment sent me lol, like what the f*ck do you say to someone like that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 12:26 AM
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It’s not your fault! It’s him 100%. He’s a total scum bag for his behavior and I’m sorry he made you feel unsafe at work. Does your building have security cameras around the area by any chance? I had a situation years ago where I worked in a service role and a guy came back multiple times to talk to me during my shift, then showed up when my shift ended, then followed me around the area for a while trying to talk to me until I managed to duck him. It was really scary but when I told a higher up …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 12:22 AM
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Don’t forget though that these guys lie on Reddit all the time to make themselves look like poor victims to get validation because they’re incapable of taking responsibility. This probably isn’t even close to the reality of the situation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 07:29 PM
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This is the truth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 01:14 AM
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I’m glad someone else picked up on this too. I hope you’re right that it’s corrected in future versions. And I agree that everything else she said was fantastic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 03:25 PM
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Agreed. I was surrounded mostly by male friends for a while and it was so harmful. Now I’ve dropped them and I’m working on cultivating my friendships with women and I feel so much stronger! To answer OPs question I think that focusing on caring for yourself and cultivating your internal strength is the first step. Everything I was reading and learning about from this sub overwhelmed me and at first I felt helpless, but by taking charge of my life and myself first and foremost I started feeling …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 01:52 PM
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From a younger woman who recently discovered this community thank you for fighting these fights for so long! I have hope that younger women will see reality but it’s going to take a lot and the younger women who are here need to really stand by our values and standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 01:27 PM
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Interesting, good point!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 09:26 PM
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I also really liked this book but tbh got a bit uncomfortable with what seems like her acceptance of porn use?? Maybe I was just reading into it too much, would really like to hear thoughts from anyone who’s read it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 06:46 PM
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Yes this comment is perfectly written!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 04:37 PM
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This is a great list! The only one I was uncertain about was the “sex is a natural drive” because I’ve been hearing that calling sex a drive implies it’s a need like how hunger and thirst is a drive to get food and water. Especially liked the point that sex requires certain conditions and that it is NURTURING not hurtful. So many of them don’t get that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 02:48 PM
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☠️☠️☠️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 12:33 AM
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I honestly don’t think he misinterpreted her. He knew exactly what he was doing and didn’t care because mUh PeNiS. He was turned on by raping someone. Because he’s deranged.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 01:24 PM
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I million times this. I’ve had people throw hissy fits because I don’t tolerate jokes about porn and degrading women around me and they act like I’m too sensitive. Excuse me!! Some of us don’t want to hear your depraved bullshit day in and out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 10:35 PM
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And then it’s reinforced by pickme women who get pissed at women who don’t accept their bfs watching porn, but secretly would never be ok with that for themselves 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 05:38 PM
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Scrotey mcscrote I am dying 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 04:50 PM
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LMAOOOO they can stay fucking mad. Go cry to your video game girlfriend scrotes 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 04:32 PM
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Same!! I think seeing this in mainstream media might encourage more women to start engaging with rad feminism
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 04:06 PM
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Totally agree with the age restriction. I saw a video in which Gail Dines was speaking in a panel and an audience member actually brought up regulating porn by needing to call your internet provider and “opting in” to access that content. If anyone has seen that or remembers it better please drop a link or let me know. I’ll try to dig it up later. Anyway the porn industry shills on the panels started shrieking about how that was a violation of free speech or some bullshit 🙄 they’ll really say an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 04:05 PM
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I see what you’re doing with anticipating the potential criticism from scrotes but honestly who cares what these scrotes think and what insults they’re going to hurl😂 don’t even give them an inch because they’ll take the whole yard. It goes without saying that women celebrate their husbands on Father’s Day and tbh I don’t think we should dedicate even more space on Reddit talking about how to pamper men, goodness knows they get enough ego stroking
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 05:20 AM
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Absolutely!! And side note I love your username!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 06:31 PM
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Sis I am so sorry that he did that to you. That is assault, period. He’s absolutely despicable and I am sending you all my thoughts and well wishes, and I know that doesn’t do much but you’re in my thoughts. I hope you keep revisiting this community and finding support in the women here. It’s helped me through really difficult times. I don’t know the details of your situation but if you can find someone you actually trust to talk to please do. Everyone here supports you and is on your team
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 12:19 AM
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They definitely justify it with what they see in porn too 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 08:05 PM
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Those flowers are stunning!! Good for you for treating yourself!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 08:00 PM
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Girl this gives me hope that they do exist!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 09:41 PM
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We can only hope lol, it’s all those guys deserve.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 05:28 PM
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I think it’s worthwhile to read some of the posts on here analyzing BDSM and why it’s not empowering to women. There was a recent post from someone who was heavily involved in BDSM and she discusses her changing perspective on it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 12:51 PM
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Honestly THIS! I’ve definitely been through years of that kind of gaslighting because I grew up religious and any time I had hesitations he would bring up how he wanted me to overcome my religious aversion to sexual exploration and try new things 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 01:55 PM
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