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Basically, you're fucked unless your ex has a change of heart. I was lucky enough for my ex to actually come around and see how crippling the amount I was paying her was. You can look at my post history for more details, and this will Barry by state, but here is the short version. In PA, domestics court does not give a shit about anything regarding your circumstances, bills, etc. They put your income into a calculator and it's indisputable. They don't even consider local taxes, Medicaid taxes, e…
/r/MensRights05/03/18 09:40 AM
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My obligation is officially $200 a month. I could cry right now. The officer didn't want to grant it, but my ex fought for it. I couldn't believe it. I can get my car inspected!
/r/MensRights29/09/16 03:44 PM
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Apparently"free Obamacare" is just Medicaid(or Medicare, I can't remember which one) and PA chose not to expand Medicaid. So basically, my official result was 'you qualify for free coverage, but PA has chosen not to make this coverage available to you.' It might be different now though since Tom Wolf is our new governor. I'll be reapplying in December when enrollment opens.
/r/MensRights27/09/16 10:54 AM
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Honestly, if this actually works out, the best thing about it will be that I'll be able to afford the health insurance my job offers. I haven't had health insurance in 10 years. That will be a nice change. Thank you for your replies. I do feel a little better.
/r/MensRights27/09/16 03:28 AM
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/r/legaladvice berated me for being a deadbeat and their only advice was to wear a condom.
/r/MensRights27/09/16 03:06 AM
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I'm a little freaked because the order was put in place when I was making $10.50 an hour, the support was for $622 a month, or roughly 47% of my income. That was absolutely devastating and I wanted to kill myself. The self support minimum is $931 a month. But the thing is, they don't count FICA, Local, or city taxes against your income. So long story short, I was netting $700 a month after the child support payments while working full-time. That was an absolute fucking nightmare, and now I'm pre…
/r/MensRights27/09/16 03:04 AM
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I pay $574 each month for one child. That's like 45% of my net income. The mother does not work. I want to support him, but I need to be able to support myself. If I can't do that, he'll be getting nothing at all while I'm searching for a job. When it takes me literally a month to save up for a $20 oil change, what happens if my car breaks down? That's it for me. I don't go out. I don't buy anything for me. I don't do anything. All I want is to fucking survive.
/r/MensRights30/06/16 12:14 AM
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Thank you.
/r/MensRights23/06/16 02:39 AM
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I'll do that, but my payments were calculated twice, and both had the same results. I don't think my payment amounts are incorrect. And that doesn't surprise me here in PA.
/r/MensRights23/06/16 02:39 AM
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Not that I could find. And I'm not sure it's a father's rights issue. Custody/visitation isn't an issue at all. It's just this super high payment amount.
/r/MensRights23/06/16 02:37 AM
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In PA, it comes directly out of my check. And I'm not sure I want to flee the state and worry day and night about getting arrested. Also I want to support my child, but this is too much.
/r/MensRights27/04/15 08:52 PM
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Wow there's an office literally 0.8 miles from my apartment! I'll definitely check it out. Thank you!
/r/MensRights27/04/15 03:53 PM
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I am honestly shocked and mildly overwhelmed at the support and kindness I am receiving in this subreddit. Thank you.
/r/MensRights23/02/15 07:18 PM
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Will do. Thanks!
/r/MensRights23/02/15 03:15 PM
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Can you elaborate on that job idea a little more?
/r/MensRights23/02/15 03:15 PM
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Do you have any advice on finding a pro bono family law lawyer?
/r/MensRights23/02/15 02:32 PM
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Well, I actually cannot afford one.
/r/MensRights23/02/15 11:58 AM
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I owe in arrears. No passport for me.
/r/MensRights23/02/15 11:57 AM
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I can't really afford one.
/r/MensRights23/02/15 02:17 AM
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Yeah I have a PayPal account. I'll send a PM. Thank you so much. Edit: I'll just post the PayPal email. [email protected] I don't know if this is in poor taste or anything. If it is, I'll gladly remove it. I don't typically accept money from anybody, but I'm not doing well at the moment. Edit: I can't tell exactly who sent me some money, but I am grateful beyond my ability to express myself.
/r/MensRights23/02/15 12:51 AM
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Yeah I'll do that.
/r/MensRights22/02/15 09:52 PM
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Yeah I tried the calculator, but I don't know what she pays for child care expenses. All I know is what's on the order, which is her net income of $166.
/r/MensRights22/02/15 09:52 PM
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The only reason I didn't appeal it is because my ex and I were talking, and she agreed to go to $400. I thought we were going to be on good terms. I got the appropriate paperwork for an agreed amount, filled it out, sent it to her to fill her portion out and sign. She said she got it and was going to mail it in. Then she fell off the face of the earth.
/r/MensRights22/02/15 09:47 PM
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I certainly hope so. I tried to make that case when the order was being placed, but the caseworker didn't seem to think it was an issue. I just hope my petition goes to someone a little higher up and not to that same woman.
/r/MensRights22/02/15 08:30 PM
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I really don't know. I asked. She said she just put in our info into a calculator. What gets me is the minimum self support amount is $951. When I brought up that $762 is a lot lower than $951, she(caseworker?) got really bitchy and I'm supposed to divide my anticipated tax refund over 12 months to make up the difference, which it doesn't. She wasn't very helpful.
/r/MensRights22/02/15 08:03 PM
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That's typical reddit. It was expected. I really do want to fulfill my obligations, but reddit, and people in general aren't too sympathetic for people not in their child's lives, regardless of the circumstances.
/r/MensRights22/02/15 06:24 PM
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I browse there all the time. I asked about it one time. Most of the responses were, "Wear a condom, deadbeat." I've cut every unnecessary expense out of my life. I don't have anymore money to save. It's becoming a choice of gas or food.
/r/MensRights22/02/15 06:13 PM
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Saw your edit, and thanks for the advice.
/r/MensRights22/02/15 06:06 PM
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It's based out of the office near her, so I can't really go there due to my dying car and it being so far away. I just got my petition form in the mail, and it's asking me what's changed in my life to warrant a modification. I'm working on trying to properly word, "nothing's changed, I'm just dying of poverty now." And I have to send a $25 moneyorder for them to process this paper. This is insane.
/r/MensRights22/02/15 05:59 PM
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