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Discriminationthrowawayiamdone/r/MensRights19/09/18 08:45 AM
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Marriage/Childrenthrowawayiamdone/r/MensRights08/08/22 01:46 PM
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Exactly. We teach boys to be harsh and strong and then when they are that we draft them to fight wars and force them to do manual labour. Then when they cry we call them weak. So of course people fear men, and try to make them be the boogeyman (remember boogeyMAN). I have dated my fair share of psycho women, so I know people can be psycho and it is not a gender issue.
/r/MensRights19/10/24 07:38 PM
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No one is good, nor bad. Look at peoples actions instead. Does it seem like he is aware of the negative impact of his actions? Does he takes measure to make sure his actions have more positive impacts? How about the impact on him? Does he make sure he and his friends benefits the most?
/r/MensRights09/08/24 11:50 AM
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Yeah, all women look for strength in a man. If we do not reflect that strength we are no longer a man in their eyes. What they want when they talk about an emotional man is emotional support from a man.
/r/MensRights11/07/24 04:12 PM
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Yeah, I got into a meeting with a woman that I had met before. We had a great work-vibe so I let my guard down and accepted the meeting. 3 days later she accused me of being inappropriate during the meeting. I do not even recall being close enough to touch her with a long stick but anyway she accused me of touching her. So in short I made sure no one is ever working with her ever again in my industry.
/r/MensRights05/04/24 07:40 PM
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Exactly this is the problem. Why should all men worry about SA charges when there is a few men, and women, responsible? I never take any professional meetings anymore alone with women. I also avoid any professional meeting with men if women are present. It is very easy for a woman to accuse a man and destroy his life. It is very difficult to protect yourself as a man against getting your life destroyed. So feminism really messed up the movement where women should be given power in the world by g…
/r/MensRights05/04/24 12:49 PM
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Exactly, I tend to judge based on how a person reacts and acts. Roma is very aggressive so even though she is on ”my side” as a man I feel I can not trust her because if she would turn against me I am dead. So her character speaks volumes about who she is.
/r/MensRights04/04/24 09:32 AM
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Not just this generation. Every generation of men gets chewed up and spitted out.
/r/MensRights23/02/24 07:44 PM
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Story time. I was about to be fired from a good paying job, so went into depression and needed to work through anxiety and panicattacks to try to save my job. My wife thought her help was enough by taking our kids to the playground a few times. 10 years later she still brags about how supportive she was, and how bad I was and that she was very upset with me. If men are not superheroes they are worthless to women.
/r/MensRights15/02/24 05:07 PM
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I have called bioth police, insurance, hotline etc. and they all told me the same thing when I was mentally abused, that as long as no one is stabbing me with a knife they dont care. And if someone is stabbing me they will anyway assume I did something to deserve it.
/r/MensRights09/02/24 08:01 AM
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And that us the point. 30 guys are working their butts off, usually for a job women do not want, and have a huge (unthankful) impact on society. But 100 000 women, larger part of the societal group, can go on a protest and nothing happens. So societal value then shows that 1 guy is worth more than 3000 women, and if you had percentage to that he is worth even more. This does not mean that women are worthless, nor that every man is worth more than any other woman.
/r/MensRights26/12/23 10:58 AM
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So wrong. I am demisexual. I need closeness and sex is nice but not the main selling point a woman has with me.
/r/MensRights12/06/23 06:31 PM
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I read a sad post on another sub, where a guy got raped at his bachelor party. His “friends” convinced a woman to rape him. He then afterwards, with a huge hangover, remember what happened. He goes to his fiance and calls off the wedding because he thinks he cheated. Really horrible story.
/r/MensRights28/05/23 07:08 AM
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Exactly. 1. Be attractive 2. Dont be unattractive. The two simple rules to live by for an easier life.
/r/MensRights24/05/23 06:55 AM
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Exactly. I had a group of female friends once. It was like a study group and I refered to my then girlfriend as my partner and they assumed I was gay. Later one they did meet her and understood that I was not gay. But before then I had the same experience as you. They do not see men as human. Men are tools/objects for them. We need to serve them, read their minds, do everything right, and then when we are tossed a aside for a new “toy” we should not complain. I am still a romantic guy at heart, …
/r/MensRights23/05/23 06:37 PM
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Yeah, if I do nothing I get zero attention at all. I am not a good looking enough. But if I hit the gym, wear a suit, fix my hair etc and then flirt with women I might get some attention. When women actually get to know me they tend to like me even though I am not a model. But initial attraction is so clearly based on looks.
/r/MensRights22/05/23 12:49 PM
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Exactly. Physical attractiveness means a lot. Whenever a woman say she is attracted to a smart guy, a funny guy, a decent guy etc she also means that of course he needs to be in the top 20% in looks. Men tend to have no problem admitting that with all other things equal he would choose the prettier woman. Women tend to argue they would not. So back to rule 1 and 2 of dating.
/r/MensRights22/05/23 12:47 PM
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I am a veteran, and what I was taught was to de-escalate all the time. Always use less force than your opponent, and of course if we are talking lethal then end them if you need. This has been very true between men and women. Women tend to eacalate and push men into situations, where as men are taught to be stoic and do not match the energy a woman brings. So you saying the same thing as her is not equal in societies mind, it is you escalating something. And if she repeates after you it is of co…
/r/MensRights22/05/23 10:24 AM
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Sounds like you have been through a lot man, I really hope you are feeling better and managed to have a support network around you! And it is insane if she can do that to you and still claim money.
/r/MensRights22/05/23 10:19 AM
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Exactly. Women fear being held in a basement and having a husband beat her. I believe more men are stuck in mental abusive relationships with no way out than there are women stuck in physical abusive relationship with no way out. I still believe there are women out there that are mature, honest, kind people that would be great partners. Culturally though they are not promoted as the ideal woman.
/r/MensRights22/05/23 08:53 AM
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I assume you are also paying childsupport, alimony etc to her “like a real man”?
/r/MensRights22/05/23 08:50 AM
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I did not mean all women, so leave the incel-stuff out of this. Some women behave and think like this, and that is a problem when men gets the blame.
/r/MensRights22/03/23 09:55 AM
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Did you read the post? The easiest way is to ask them and then they are upset because they deem you unworthy to breathe the same air they do.
/r/MensRights22/03/23 07:27 AM
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And in turn that means that any decent attractive guy will avoid women because they are worried being labled a creep. And then the women complain more about never getting a guy they want. In conclusion women suck at being honest in their communication and guys tend to be a bit to much honest.
/r/MensRights22/03/23 07:26 AM
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Exactly. That was why I wanted to ask them to see if they would be stupid enough to tell the truth.
/r/MensRights01/03/23 07:21 PM
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I once posted a question to a sugardaddy/sugarbaby community. I asked basically if it was about sex or if it is a relationship where I can talk about emotions. I got thrown out and it was made clear that men do not discuss emotions, in that kind of relationship the woman wants money and will need to provide sex in return. She will never provide any kind if emotional support. I found it very interesting and telling of how the world works. So even if I literally pay someone to care, they will not …
/r/MensRights01/03/23 09:31 AM
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So if I stay as invicible as possible I might not be seen as a predator but if I do any normal randol thing in life people will see me as a predator? Sounds like a typical man-experience actually.
/r/MensRights13/02/23 11:29 AM
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Exactly. Better focus on social connections so you can get a good job and money. That is how you increase your value as a man. I am lucky I am demisexual, so the act of sex is not so important to me.
/r/MensRights03/02/23 07:06 PM
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Well, that is whats happening. More people are not having kids. Men never remarry after divorce. Redpill. MGOTOW. Incels and so on. Earlier men accepted their fate. They got married, had kids, spent their free time drinking beer and watching sports. Now more and more are realizing how unfair life is for men.
/r/MensRights03/02/23 07:04 PM
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My favourite phrase about marriage is from Socrates. “Marry if you want. Either you marry a good woman and have a good life, or you marry a bad woman and become a philosopher.” His wife, Xantippa, also gave name to “a woman argumenting and quarreling all the time”.
/r/MensRights03/02/23 12:15 PM
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And the women in that documentary did not seem to have learned anything either. It was all his fault and they did nothing wrong
/r/MensRights25/01/23 12:19 PM
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I guess she wanted you to pay for the nanny as well, yes?
/r/MensRights24/01/23 01:50 PM
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I found it so odd how office ladies podcast always highlighted how smart and great Mindy is. Now we know, it is just typical feminist girl power protecting her.
/r/MensRights21/01/23 07:56 PM
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And if you are stoic they will say they want more passion and emotions, but dont you dare ahow any real emotions or cry in front of them. They want a facade of perfection.
/r/MensRights16/01/23 11:40 AM
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Not crazy. The only ones being honest are sugarbabes/sugardaddies. They know they do it for the money/beauty. I would love to be in a relationship with an equal, but it is impossible with a woman. They need to see us men as greater than them, it is part of the hypergamy. We need to make more money, be more stoic, have more skills and so on.
/r/MensRights15/01/23 07:21 PM
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Exactly, I had ”friends” like that before. Every time I voiced any kind of issue they went back into the bushes like Homer. So now I am without friends, but at least I got time to deal with my mental health!
/r/MensRights15/01/23 07:18 PM
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I always hated school, decided to prove I was smarter than everyone by getting all the way to a phd. Sadly got two supervisors that both are female. They destroyed everything I ever said and tried to do. Based on me being a white male, and therefor I am worthless. I did manage to change university, got not one but two phds instead. Also international recognition after switching to a more male dominated research institute.
/r/MensRights03/01/23 07:51 PM
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I can offer some insights from my previous marriage. When she was at home I felt that I did everything and it took all my time and energy. She mostly complained about how dirty it was. While doing chores I was also with our kids etc. But whenever she was away from work the house was cleaner, kids happier, better food on the table. But mostly I felt I had time for me again. So yeah, women complicates things far more often than they make it simpler.
/r/MensRights23/12/22 07:03 PM
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My experience is that women love to talk about everything, they love getting anxiety from believing they do everything, they also live thinking they are in charge of everything. Then they play the victim card and complain that men do nothing. In reality men are doing all the million small stuff all the time without making a fuss. Then they do all the dangerous stuff, without complaining. I grew up with a single father and my brothers, so I know for a fact that a guy can take care of everything. …
/r/MensRights14/12/22 07:28 PM
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So far she seems to be a turbulent INTJ personality type suffering from something making her interested in violence and death. So I will see then if that changes, if so then I can agree that it is some sort of heroes journey or coming of age story.
/r/MensRights11/12/22 12:40 PM
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I watched the beginning, and I am planning on finishing it. But it is clearly a patriarchy in charge, and women can support the patriarchy as well. Getting things wrong is not failing in a heroes journey. What would you say is her heroes journey? In what way does she change? What can a viewer learn?
/r/MensRights11/12/22 07:11 AM
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I watched some of it, and it did feel forced into the story without as you put it have any effect. They sadly wrote her as a powerful know it all female lead. Which makes her “heroes journey” totally uninteresting (and nonexistant). Instead it is some weird fight against an imagined patriarchy, even though we see no evidence of it being her enemy. What we learn is that her father took the blame and that he as a man was the big victim. And how she is allowed to be herself.
/r/MensRights10/12/22 07:16 PM
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I have kids. If I found out they are not biological mine I would still raise them. But that is because their mother is out of the picture and I am all they got. If I had a fiance and my baby is actually not mine I would be out of there so fast. It is her responsibility to raise that kid and not mine. But I do know that men tend to be much more accepting to raising others kids than women are. A single mom can get a date, but as a single fad it is much harder.
/r/MensRights07/12/22 07:22 PM
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I did take a course once in political science, focus on political ideologies, and the teacher was female and a strong feminist. She did change my mind by explaining different variants of feminism. Then I went out into the world and realised that I agree with the original thought of equality but based on ability and interest etc. and all modern feminists believe in blaiming men in a system set up to favour a few rich white men and crap on all other men. So the system says that a few (mostly white…
/r/MensRights05/12/22 07:20 PM
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Thank you! Took the mother a lot of effort to explain that she did not want the kids before the court decided. Really crappy system.
/r/MensRights05/12/22 08:04 AM
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I managed to get full custody. Took forever, and also took the mother a lot of time convincing the court she did not want the kids. Fucked up system. While I was not allowed to see them, i made letters. Inwas basically writing a bit about how much I miss them and everything I was doing to try to be with them. My hope was that at least then they could read when they are older and realize I did not abandon them.
/r/MensRights04/12/22 07:13 PM
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Took me a bit longer than you to understand that. I am soon 40 and in a few months divorced and alone with my kids.
/r/MensRights02/12/22 07:24 PM
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I have had girlfriends, and a wife now. All from different backgrounds and cultures. What they all have in common is a refusal to be an equal partner, refusal to be a submissive partner. They only wanted me to pay for everything and act surprised when I say no (or at first when no money left) because I hide it from them. They refuse, and some straight up admitt that they do not know nor care, household chores. So as a man I realized that if I need to take care of a family myself, why do I need a…
/r/MensRights02/12/22 07:22 PM
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The problem here is not her, nor your, beliefs. The problem here is blaiming someone else for the problems you see in life. She choose to blame republicans, men, and anyone not agreeing with her. I am a stoic, so I believe in the basic idea that everyone needs to deal with their own crap that they can control and then help and receive help when needed.
/r/MensRights30/11/22 08:35 AM
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Never stick your dick in crazy. Might be the best sex ever, but consequences are never worth it.
/r/MensRights26/11/22 07:54 AM
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And with women you mean bots.
/r/MensRights04/11/22 11:13 AM
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That sucks, I know the situation very well myself. We need to be Kings and not devalue ourselves. So good that you stood up for yourself! I am myself trying to do the same, while I am slowly exiting my marriage.
/r/MensRights30/10/22 07:30 PM
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The only way we can “control” them is to make sure that we are their best option, and that it will be painful (economically and socially) for them to cheat. Sadly the system is against us and tend to favor women, no matter what they do.
/r/MensRights26/10/22 12:23 PM
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I get that. I got married before realizing this, and I am slowly distancing myself financially from my wife so I can divorce her whenever I can take kids with me or they are big enough to take care of themselves. I have seen zero evidence of women being able to be a lifepartner for a man. Either they are loyal in the sense that they are controlled by a man, or they tend to flirt with others and keeping their options open.
/r/MensRights25/10/22 05:40 PM
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Exactly. The problem is not being attracted to beauty, the problem is that a lot of women say that they are attracted to smart, funny, nice men. But in reality it is clear that they pick attractive, powerful, rich men. If you ask men, then most admits that being beautiful is part of the attractiveness.
/r/MensRights18/10/22 01:10 PM
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Men are also attracted to beauty, most men have no problem admitting to that. Women tend to not want to admit that they are attracted to beauty, money, and power. Men on the other hand seem to be more open about being attracted to beauty and femininity.
/r/MensRights17/10/22 02:16 PM
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No need to change the rules. Everytime a woman says she prefers personality or confidence and so on, she imagines that it is still a better than average looking guy. I saw a “test” on youtube, where they asked young women which body type they prefered. All the bodytypes shown was rather fit. The supposed worst type was a “dad-bod” but it still was rather atheltic, a bit of a belly with barely visual abs. No hair, good skin etc. so even the worst one being way above average most of them wanted an…
/r/MensRights17/10/22 05:58 AM
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And there are guys who do nothing to improve and anyway get women. It is a messed up world we live in.
/r/MensRights05/10/22 06:14 PM
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Exactly. That is why you do prenup and write contracts for purchases outside of the marriage, and invest in yourself. And if you like having her around you should probably make a contract as a sugardaddy instead to keep it simple.
/r/MensRights27/09/22 11:29 AM
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Exactly, thats why I dump them when that is clear and I try to find women without using my wallet. The dream is someone attracted to me and whom will not care about my wallet/status. Sadly that seems to be a dream and not reality.
/r/MensRights13/09/22 08:07 AM
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The problem is that a lot of women agree either knowing what will happen or being tricked and then accepting what happened. Afterwards they either regret or see a way to be relevant again. The problem here is that it takes away focus from the real discussion, which should be that if someone wants to have sex it should be consensual and afterwards it should not be easy to regret it and ruin someones life. Of course abortion, pills, protection and so on should be widely available. Feels like we en…
/r/MensRights12/09/22 12:43 PM
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Exactly. Took a while for me to figure out my style and game. When I did it was like flipping a switch, I get approached a lot based on my looks and charisma. They stay usually based on my wallet.
/r/MensRights12/09/22 11:39 AM
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It sucks. I wanted to be a kindergarden teacher growing up. Decided against it due to all the pedophilia accusation. So now people complain instead that men are either not taking care of kids or are pedophiles. There is no winning as a guy.
/r/MensRights06/09/22 10:34 AM
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Exactly, they ended the relationship as soon as they saw that the “investment” is not increasing. Sure she loved you at first and you provided for her. But after a while you provided the same and it was not enough. They are looking for growth (hopefully exponential growth), and therefor chooses to cheat and find that “value” in other people.
/r/MensRights29/08/22 06:12 PM
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Yeah, I am 5’6” but have long arms. I get to reach for stuff all the time for others. Get a chair please.
/r/MensRights25/08/22 06:14 PM
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Yeah, I am not sure about your percentage but at home I am invicible but whenever I went abroad I even have had chicks flirt with me. Which was odd the first time and then it was awesome!
/r/MensRights25/08/22 06:12 PM
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Exactly. It is a family unit, if an adult wants to leave by cheating and then relocating let them leave. Family stick together.
/r/MensRights11/08/22 07:19 PM
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True, I got married and after that it did not take many months before the garbage part came out and I stuck around due to baby.
/r/MensRights22/07/22 01:40 PM
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Usually background checks has two purposes. First to make sure you are decent dude, secondly for them to know what might cause issues in the future. It is not a way to judge you and try to stop you from getting a job. So be honest.
/r/MensRights21/07/22 08:57 PM
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My current job has more female managers than male, and none of the females has done any or very little of the grunt work and all the males spent at least 10 years at the place before promotion.
/r/MensRights16/07/22 06:03 PM
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Work with men more. Work with women less. That is probably true. I will never go into healthcare or other service professions with women. I thought mechanical engineering would be a safe place, but alas it is not. I will try to keep this as a mantra "Work with men more, and women less". Thank you!
/r/MensRights20/09/18 08:05 AM
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I have contacted a specialist now, and hopefully they have time soon. I have been looking into drugs as well, but earlier when I tried it (boosting seratonin) did not really help so I need probably to find an MD that can prescribe something a bit stronger.
/r/MensRights20/09/18 08:03 AM
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I have heard about MGTOW, and I did start to try to get the power back in my life by not letting others run my life. It is at the moment a slow progress, but I try to push forward. I have already cleaned out most of the stuff that is distracting. I can almost fit all of my "stuff" into something I can carry by myself, so not that much crap wearing me down. I need to resolve this situation somehow, but I did regain some power by deciding that I am moving away from this town soon no matter what th…
/r/MensRights20/09/18 08:00 AM
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It is strange, I spent a lot of time with my grandmother growing up (she was like a mother to me). I have also had many females friends growing up. With these two points it should be possible to conclude that I know women, but it is evident I do not. You are probably right, I have been either unlucky with meeting bad women or most women are this bad. I have started to look around for skype-sessions or similar online sessions for help. It is a broader market so should be possible to find someone.…
/r/MensRights20/09/18 07:49 AM
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I do not wish to doxx myself, so I can tell you I am in the field of Mechanical Engineering with a focus on Product Development. And I am right now situated in Europe.
/r/MensRights20/09/18 07:44 AM
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Thank you, it is nice to hear that I might have given something positive to another human. I try to remind myself of what my grand mother told me when I was a kid. She grew up with an alcoholic father and left home very early to work and care for herself. She told me that life is crap sometimes, and there is no other way of dealing with it than just survive it. So she gave me the spark to keep on pushing, and the army took that spark and turned it into a fire. ​ When I have talked about some par…
/r/MensRights20/09/18 07:43 AM
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Thank you for your, and your fathers advice. No one ever told me this, instead people keep telling me that everybody cares for each other or that a specific group cares as long as I agree to hate another group. I figured out that I am alone when I was 11 years old laying down in some bushes after being beaten and pushed around. I decided then and there to never back down and as soon as someone tried to hit me again I would hit them faster. I also decided that even if I am alone, I will do what I…
/r/MensRights20/09/18 07:37 AM
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Yeah, I tend to sometimes do that myself (risking an existential depression) and usually end up not really caring that much. Not caring is maybe not the best position to have in life, but it beats being depressed/suicidal.
/r/MensRights20/09/18 07:19 AM
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