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Circumcision.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/02/24 12:32 AM
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Oh shit I’ve seen her profile before. Actual piece of shit.
/r/EverydayMisandry10/02/24 09:09 PM
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I tend to find that these misandrist types are almost always abusers themselves. The woman who sexually assaulted me fit the same characteristics.
/r/EverydayMisandry07/02/24 07:30 AM
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It was from this thread. Here's the comment in question.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/01/24 10:57 PM
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I’ve had this said to me when I’ve told my story about being sexually assaulted by a woman. Feminists claim constantly that “men interrupt women’s survivor stories by saying men get raped too” When we actually tell our story, in our own post we are told “men can’t get raped” or “women have it worse, get over it.” Unironically saw someone on r/ptsd get upvoted heavily for saying “men don’t experience sexual assault the same way women do.” Society’s views on male sexual assault have been getting w…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/01/24 01:10 PM
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Am I even surprised that the OP of that post is a nurse? That field seems to attract the most rancid people alive.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/01/24 01:37 PM
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I am almost positive that one of the myths you listed (every man will want sex) led to me being raped in 2022.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/01/24 03:19 PM
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Wait until you see threads on r/TwoXChromosomes complaining about men speaking out, or ones on r/FourthWaveWomen saying that men don’t experiments sexual assault the same way as women, so it’s less bad.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/12/23 06:27 PM
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Sounds a lot like my ex who sexually assaulted me.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/12/23 11:07 PM
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It makes me feel very unsafe as someone who was raped by a feminist in 2022.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/12/23 06:30 PM
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It’s even more insulting when they place the blame on male rape victims by saying “men are their own worst enemy, they created the patriarchy.”
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/12/23 05:33 PM
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A lot of rapists will accuse the victim as a way to absolve themselves of responsibility (especially female rapists). My rapist claimed I was a sex pest and only cared about sex after I confronted her about sexually assaulting me. For some reason feminists refuse to believe this happens because they think solely in blanket generalizations and black and white standards.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/11/23 09:52 PM
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It’s definitely not harmless. My feminist ex who sexually assaulted me spouted misandrist rhetoric constantly.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/11/23 07:36 AM
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Yeah I’m not going to side with a movement that allowed me to be sexually assaulted, and contributed to my suffering following my sexual assault. My abuser was a staunch feminist and constantly spouted instagram and Tiktok feminist rhetoric.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/11/23 05:47 AM
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Absolutely. My ex who sexually assaulted me constantly said “all men are trash” or told me that “I’m such a man.” She would constantly accuse me of only wanting sex and told me “all men want is sex.” Leading up to the sexual assault she had withdrew all affection (sexual and non sexual) and then suddenly one day decided to become very sexual. It was painful and I asked her to stop, she looked at me and said “why.” I kept saying stop and tried to move her hand. She got angry and said “NO!” while …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/10/23 03:12 AM
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It's mixed for me. My girlfriend is a feminist but also supports mens rights. She is very empathetic and has supported me greatly through my struggle with PTSD following being sexually assaulted by an ex-girlfriend.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/10/23 04:40 PM
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I know right, it’s such a fucked up double standard. I empathize greatly with men who are struggling with this alone because of society’s fucked up norms.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/10/23 12:30 PM
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The amount of times I’ve been told this when I tell my story is insane. I’ve even been told that men don’t process sexual trauma the same as women so it’s less bad.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/10/23 07:58 PM
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Yep. When both are drunk the man will always be guilty - it’s ridiculous.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/10/23 07:55 PM
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“Teach boys not to rape” implies that women can’t rape. It contributes to rape culture and is the reason men don’t speak up. It’s a fucked double standard.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/10/23 05:12 PM
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I failed to see what happened to me a year ago as sexual assault because I was taught that “men only want sex”, “men should enjoy all sexual advances”, and “erections mean consent.” My abuser spouted these beliefs as well. She was extremely controlling and even threatened to kill us both on one occasion. I stayed because I thought it was normal. It was only when I began displaying PTSD symptoms and went to therapy I realized what happened was sexual assault and abuse. It’s so normalized it’s act…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/10/23 04:00 PM
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Misandry led to my sexual assault by my ex-girlfriend. When feminists say “misogyny leads to rape, misandry leads to hurt feelings” they are forgetting the fact that so many women feel entitled to a man’s body because “men are the oppressor, they can’t be raped like a woman!”
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/09/23 01:00 AM
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You can blame Lundy Bancroft and Mary Koss for this.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/09/23 03:49 AM
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"Rape Culture" is definitely real, and people like Mary Koss perpetuate it. According to her, men being raped by women is not rape, rather "unwanted contact." She excluded men from her rape statistics purposefully and has spread many false narratives about male survivors. Don't even get me started on Lundy Bancroft. He's an idol among many, but he is truly the most sorry piece of shit I've ever seen. He's the reason why men are not taken seriously when they come forward about abuse. He denies me…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/09/23 02:39 AM
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Because people tell me that I should have fought back, so I don’t even bother.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/09/23 05:11 AM
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Wait until you see this. The comments are extremely triggering for male survivors of abuse. https://www.reddit.com/r/Feminism/comments/163ey2w/i_find_new_attitudes_towards_violence_against/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=2&utm_term=1
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/08/23 06:13 AM
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Wait until you see this cesspool of a thread where feminists complain about men sharing their stories about being raped. The person who raped me was a feminist and believed that erections equaled consent, and that men only want sex. Needless to say, I am very cautious of anyone claiming to be a “feminist.” https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/wjre4b/men_of_reddit_who_have_been_raped_by_women_what/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=2&utm_term=1
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/08/23 03:15 AM
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There is no separate page for male victims. This page was titled “sexual assault.” https://www.eriecounty.oh.gov/SexualAssault.aspx
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/08/23 04:12 AM
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Thank you. I’m surprised that even .gov websites don’t recognize that men can get assaulted by woman. It’s insanity.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/08/23 02:34 AM
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Yeah I got sexually assaulted by a woman and have a fear of it happening again. Yet I can’t speak about it openly due to being viewed as misogynistic and an incel. I got called misogynistic online once when I spoke out because saying that I felt invalidated by society was somehow anti-woman. I watch my back in public, and I assume every woman I meet (besides my girlfriend) could hurt me. I hate thinking that, but it’s my lizard brain trying to protect me from a threat.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/08/23 06:27 PM
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Same reason I’m not pressing charges against my ex for raping me. It would backfire on me horribly. She has blackmail too. I’m so sorry that happened to you, it’s horrible that some women aren’t held accountable for rape against men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/08/23 02:17 AM
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Yeah I’ll never understand the hype around “Why does he do that.” As a man who was abused by a woman, it is so fucking harmful and I’m frankly tired of seeing it recommended.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/08/23 11:13 PM
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I’d imagine some false accusations are to gain leverage over victims of rape as well. For example, a woman who raped a man says that the man raped her, or vice versa. It’s a way to beat the victim to the chase. I’ve seen this quite often in recent times.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/08/23 05:31 PM
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I came out with my story of being sexually assaulted by an ex girlfriend and was called a misogynist for feeling invalidated by society because women have it worse. I even consider myself a feminist, but if anything stuff like that drives me away from that ideology.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/08/23 11:41 PM
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Can you imagine if there was an app like this for women? I was sexually assaulted by an ex girlfriend and I am so fucking sick and tired of the “men are rapists” mantra. It’s so invalidating and insulting.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/06/23 12:32 PM
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My abusive ex was stronger than me, and absolutely had power over me. I don’t buy the whole “power dynamic” bs.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/03/23 05:41 PM
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Apologies, I haven’t been diagnosed or anything but I’m likely somewhere on the spectrum and I do struggle with multiple mental health issues. I tend to word things very odd, and not come across as clear as I’d like. My apologies.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/02/23 06:56 AM
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That whole relationship was me being controlled and manipulated by her. I’m a fool for not realizing it earlier, and I beat myself up over it now. We took a “break” in the relationship, initiated by her, and she told me to redownload my dating apps. I didn’t want to, but I did anyways since she did as well. I thought this meant we were done for good. It turned out later that she wanted this break to have relations with another man and then come back to me. Therefore it wouldn’t be “cheating.” Tw…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/02/23 12:01 AM
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My ex used to pull me out of the car during arguments and hit me and I thought it was normal because society told me so.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/02/23 06:28 PM
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Thank you. 🙏
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/01/23 01:46 PM
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Good point, but at the end of the day she was way stronger than me and I was kinda scared of her at times. I’m a weak ass dude, and I did try to move her hand but she pushed me back. In retrospect, I should have defended myself, but I froze. And I feel very stupid because of that.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/01/23 03:01 AM
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I would have felt bad if I did. I feel like such a tool though. I’m never opening up about this to anyone besides my current girlfriend, because I already know how other people will treat me.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/01/23 12:27 AM
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I was told today on Reddit that I’m a disgrace to all SA survivors because I didn’t fight back my rapist (a woman) and because I let it happen despite withdrawing consent. Was also told I’m weak and I let her overpower me. The way male rape victims are treated too is fucking insane. I feel so alone.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/01/23 12:20 AM
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