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Leader, driven, smart, resourceful, clever, we have the same hobbies, he's a good father, work ethic is great, strong, logical, provider, protector, he makes me stronger. Everything I could want minus animalistic sex. Pulling my hair is "too kinky" he told a counselor I can't get off with out being hurt in some way I.e spanking...
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/14 02:58 PM
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http://mojoupgrade.com/ You both take it. Find new things you both enjoy.
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/14 12:55 AM
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Does he ever reject you? From what I'm learning is you have to start "doing" literally. Talking won't fix much after you guys have fully brought the issue to head. Start initiating. Sex might be bad but it will get better with practice. Start giving head. Get your brain to love giving him head if you hate it. Get more sexual with him outside the bedroom. Touch his manhood when you kiss or pass him by. Get him to start thinking about you sexualized. I'm in a similar boat so take my advice with a …
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/14 12:25 AM
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"Fully evolved" is the issue.
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/14 12:18 AM
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A fully evolved man does want the sexy wife. Its the broken ones who can't see those 2 sides in their wife. Sexy or not.
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/14 12:16 AM
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Its a slippery slop. My s.o was raised by his grandma. Amazing. Loving. School teacher. I'm kinda wondering if this is what I'm getting in to. I'm def not his mother but I'm raising our kids. Keeping house up. Caring. Cooking etc doing my wife duties but he's complained about me being too kinky. My head is spinning.
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/14 12:00 AM
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Lmao
/r/askTRP23/04/14 09:52 PM
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Can you schedule sex with him. I know it sounds blah but maybe it will help you. Also try thinking of sex different. See it as connecting and bonding rather than goal of climax.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/14 12:55 AM
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Tried. Sent some today. "Thats sexy." "Now thats really sexy!" "Thats hot!" Nothing in return other than acknowledgments. Idt hes interested sexually. I can live with that. I need to find someone who is though. Im bummed because im not a landwhale or slob. Ive seen his ex's and i just dont get why he does this.
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/14 12:08 AM
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I could totally accept this. I know theres other fish in the sea. I want truths. I have always been "1 mans God or 1 mans Dog" being lead on is the worst. Man up tell me im fat. Tell me im ugly. Dont force me into celibacy because you are a coward.
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/14 07:50 PM
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If I lost 20-30lbs id lose my boobs and butt. He would def lose attraction to me. I do need to tone up though.
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/14 12:15 AM
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I was planning on reading in front of him my book and handing the other to him when he asks what im reading. Lol
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/14 06:16 PM
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Im a mess. Hes a mess. Its 1 big mess snowballing. All I can do is focus on myself. Focus on impoving every aspect about me. I have a lot of work to do. Whether or not it will work for us. Idk we have cancerous habits, but I look forward to rewiring my brain. I think deep down every woman just wants to submit and devote themselves to a great man. I see it in him but im not sure im the one to bring it out of him. im going to try though.
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/14 05:17 PM
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Im not sure but im going to have it in my hand ready when I tslk to him.
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/14 04:44 PM
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He does not use reddit. He hates the UI
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/14 04:02 AM
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Just purchased both books.
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/14 04:00 AM
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/r/RedPillWomen13/04/14 03:59 AM
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I lost respect when the sex dropped off. I didnt mean to. Hes a man in every other aspect but being raised to believe men are ALWAYS horny has confused me. When im not thinking of the lack of sex I feel I respect him.
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/14 03:58 AM
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Ive never experienced rejection. Ive always dated men who were like minded. The reason I thought he was gay was because I sleep naked and would rub against him and get nothing. My brain couldnt understand why a heterosexual man wouldnt react.
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/14 03:55 AM
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Hes the boss. Is there a difference?
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/14 03:03 AM
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I really wish I could disagree
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/14 02:26 AM
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This is why I like this sub. I want truths. I appreciate your reply snd am very thankful for it. Im working on myself. Im not a snowflake. I do shit tests. I can be very childish. I have a hard time communicating and expressing myself. Ever since I found rpw ive been so much better and are catching myself. I wouldnt consider myself as having been wretched but im not the same women I was 6m ago. I dont know if enlightened is the correct word but its relieving. The only thing that throws me off is…
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/14 12:58 AM
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I do respect and admire him. Its hard to blindly follow my leader when hes crashing the ship.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/14 09:34 PM
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You seem to be just as lost as I am. Ive never been in a relationship where I was the higher libido until now. If this situation was as simple as hes the gate keep of relationship and I am for sex we would be having sex. No I dont want romantic sex. Hell weve never mad love in that way even when times were good. Im asking how to get an extremely dominate man that can live w/o sex to understand its importance. Im human and cant just survive on giving blow jobs when I want sex myself.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/14 09:33 PM
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Im talking this way because in the past his complaint was im not being direct. Im vert feminine I think. I wear dresses or yoga pants and mostly wear heels. He often tells me I look beautiful. The other day he said I look sexy. Im thick but same size I was when he met me. And he likes my body type. 5'8 155-160. I have a pretty face and my best feature is my hair. Long curly thick beautiful hair. I have lots of room for improvement though. I work out regularly. Do all the cooking cleaning and ser…
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/14 09:24 PM
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I needed to hear this.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/14 07:07 PM
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Very good information. Ty for your thoughts. Im gonna read this a couple times.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/14 07:06 PM
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Lol it doesnt work that way. If tried this way. Theres never a good time or some excuse is made.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/14 07:04 PM
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This is what ive been working on the past few months. Ive stopped complaining or feeling sorry for myself. Ive been getting my ducks in a row. I accept I cant change him and am trying a different approach. Good advice. Ty
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/14 07:03 PM
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I was never tit for tat until I realized my needs are completely ignored. Im not just talking a month or 2 of giving blow jobs with zero repay (hate using brepay) im talking years.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/14 07:01 PM
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Completely agree
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/14 06:59 PM
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The sucky part is I feel it was just another hoop for me to jump through. If I sent a pic it would have been another reason why I did it wrong.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/14 06:58 PM
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It typically happens to more men then women. Sadly its not everybodies love language. Sex to me isnt about climax its about bonding. Our lease is up in june and thats when I will decide. Ive attempted to leave in the past and he will fight for me just the actions dont last long.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/14 06:56 PM
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The way it works is he will bring a mood home where he knows I wont try. I.e. pick a fight, talk about how much hes be going to the bathroom or talk about how tired he is. I initiate and do the work if it happens. He controls the "go ahead" I feel like the resentment is because I wont let our bedroom die completely. Its the only issue I bring up and im sure its annoying.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/14 06:54 PM
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I will try this monday. Im not really aggressive but hes used that as an excuse in the past so im trying to be direct so theres no confusion on whether or not I want sex. Im missing the mark because my brain doesnt work like that. Lol great advice. Ill report back after.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/14 06:00 AM
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Weve had heart to hearts and "the talk" so many times.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/14 05:50 AM
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Ive thought he was secretly gay when it first started, then I was sure he was having an affair. Ive been through all the grieving of death of a bedroom. Sucks.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/14 05:23 AM
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Ive tried to break things off over this and he begs and pleads promissing to change. Idk what to do. I know he loves me and sees my high value he just but i think he doesnt see me in that way. He spanks me all the time. We kiss. Hug. Cuddle etc. He doesnt think sex is important. I feel its me he doesnt want sex with. His ex told me they had a dead bed for 2 yrs with zero sex. When she told me we were still having sex daily so I blew it off. He wont go to the dr for it or anything else.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/14 05:22 AM
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Yeah im going about this all wrong. 8 (
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/14 05:04 AM
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Sex is so damn complicated. Lol. I feel hes lost his attraction for me. I need to figure out how to mend this or make it a hunt. I dress nice, I weigh the same as when we met. Im not a 10, but im not a hag. Its like im his bestest friend or roommate. If I leave sex up to him we probably wouldnt have it. He loves bj's but I slowed down because I would be left untouched. Never came across this in a relationship before. He wont get kinky he likes vanilla sex. Im so past the point of "winning" .I ne…
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/14 04:56 AM
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"Dick pics or gtfo" is extremely childish and way outta character for me to talk like that. I think part of me was trying to be silly and yet put pressure on being sexual.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/14 04:28 AM
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Lol I thought this was real. I started imaging some poor little girl getting fatter and fatter and fatter (honey bo bo)
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/14 11:43 PM
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The women who were models when I was young still had womens bodies I.e. Cindy Crawford, kathy Ireland, cristy Brinkley etc. They were thin but they had some curves. They models now ive noticed are extremely thin with little curves. Thigh gaps etc. I dont worry about women my age being bombarded but the teens I think its an issue. The young girls who arent comfortable with their bodys or curves I fear are being effected.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/14 09:26 PM
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Lol I went back further in post history and saw others asking similar questions. Im so sorry! Just some posts were so off topic it confused me.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/14 09:16 PM
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On my phone so no sidebar. Think I found the links. It interested me but reading posts and comments confused me on what this was about. I didnt mean to offend you or make you personally feel responsible for recruiting me I was genuinely intrigued but did not want to fall into a bitch clique. I thought this was a females version of the red pill for guys or some sort of group of women in my same situation that support each other.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/14 08:58 PM
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My heart dropped reading this. Your mother should be so proud. Ive read a lot of these posts but this one is sick. Break it off now.
/r/askTRP03/04/14 05:10 PM
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