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| 0 | Non-beta ways of discussing things in a relationship? Do the rules change? | throwawayonsex | /r/seduction | 13/10/16 11:46 PM |
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| 1 | Non-beta ways of discussing things in a relationship? Do the rules change?I'm sorry to bump this again. The issue is this: one week I feel like she puts in effort the other it's like she's really meh about everything. To answer your stuff about being wanted or unwanted: last week when I spoke about it being the best day I've had with her, she was ridiculously receptive about everythin' -- being really excited when speaking, being really into all the romantic stuff like kissing/sex etc. and often her wanting it really bad. She also sounds like she's enjoys speaking on … | /r/seduction | 29/10/16 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Non-beta ways of discussing things in a relationship? Do the rules change?This is great. I think I might've been overreacting a bit to be honest because these past few days have actually been good. I'm seeing her tomorrow so I'll see if I notice anything bad from here. But this'll be quite useful if I do run into a predicament. Can I ask something else though? This is my first relationship; so obviously I get a few worries that I'm doing something wrong or feel like I have to be perfect. How do I maintain what got her into me in the first place? Like it's easy to say … | /r/seduction | 15/10/16 10:48 PM |
| 1 | Non-beta ways of discussing things in a relationship? Do the rules change?I can't imagine myself saying "The door was left open" without creeping into passive aggressive territory. Unless I play dumb and act like I didn't know who did it, but if it comes to talking about fears I can't just play dumb -- obviously there's an indirect accusation here. So if I say "I feel untrusted" I might not be directly stating that she doesn't trust me, but at the very least assuming that she doesn't, right? Same with the following sentence. If I felt like she was very keen at the sta… | /r/seduction | 14/10/16 01:02 PM |
| 1 | Non-beta ways of discussing things in a relationship? Do the rules change?Communicate with words. And as I mentioned, stick to reporting your own feelings and asking about hers. Okay, so if I say I feel something is off, and ask her what she feels about me or how much she trusts me. If she asks the diagnosis question 'Have I done anything to make you feel like I don't trust you?' or 'what made you feel like that' then how do I avoid going into these assumptions Sounds good, though obviously this is only a sentence of information on the whole interaction. ;) Opened wit… | /r/seduction | 14/10/16 02:51 AM |
| – | Non-beta ways of discussing things in a relationship? Do the rules change?No one is psychic. There's no right way. You HAVE to communicate with her, not us. ;) Absolutely. But I'm asking what the most effective way to do so is. I thought it might be needy to ask How did you guys meet? Online, oddly enough How did you start dating Told her to come for a cocktail with me and hit it off from there How long have you known her? Since a month before we became official so from mid July. No way to know. We aren't her. Surely there are general rules here in the same way there … | /r/seduction | 14/10/16 01:36 AM |
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