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No, as someone that used to train and compete this is factual. Compression clothes have a purpose for both male and female training. The bikinis, volleyball rules are just sexist and ridiculous. I think the misunderstanding here is that tight compression clothing (like leggings) fully cover a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 10:58 AM
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Absolutely, sex Tourism is completely different to mail order brides.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 01:01 AM
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No I absolutely agree that women do it more. But the tight fitting tops many men will wear. I understand that some men are put off from wearing leggings and this would stand out more than a woman doing it. But these products do exist for this reason!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 04:05 PM
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Men do as well, I know many that wear compression long sleeve tops and leggings to assist with this also.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 04:02 PM
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Clothes with compression are better for working out in because it helps circulation performance. There is a reason for tight clothing! And not all women think the world evolves around them! I get annoyed at these videos of women getting annoyed at people walking through their gym videos etc very frustrating also! I don't think these "influencers" accurately represent most women in a gym. I think most of us mind our business, keep our heads down and listen to music ... Everyone else should do the…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 03:36 PM
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It is neither non-ethical nor is it "Barbaric" It is controversial, yes. Usually (and not always) it is Western men and Eastern European or East Asian women. These relationships are usually fully consensual and done between two adults. Typically the western man that has a "mail order bride" or is a "passport bro" likes the look, youth, temperament of the foreign woman. This is ok. The woman engaging in this typically is looking for financial benefits, to send money home to her family, to legally…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 03:25 PM
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The way this was written reads as though you suffered a seizure whilst typing. You might actually have valid points that I agree with but this level of English means that I have no idea what arguments you're trying to make. Let's maybe proofread before we post on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 03:07 PM
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I've personally never understood this advice. I'm autistic as well and my girlfriend is not - people just loved to give me crappy advice like this. Don't just treat them like humans, treat them with the respect you would afford them if they were your partner, wife etc. My girlfriend was looking for a serious relationship so I treated her seriously from day 1. If a woman is looking for something easy and casual then don't be too intense etc etc. That's my take anyway. You can't change someone's m…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 03:04 AM
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Completely disagree. Do you know any women? The reason why I'm with my partner is because he does ALL these things. WOMEN LOVE THESE THINGS! He compliments me multiple times DAILY. So I feel better about myself. He makes it known that I'm the only woman for him and he would never look elsewhere. So I feel secure and can trust him easily/not worry when he goes out. My boyfriend has cried in front of me and I thought it was the sweetest thing ever. I think it is so brave to be emotional and show y…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 04:41 PM
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What's the red flag?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 04:33 PM
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I'll explain why I have done this. It's down to respect for yourself and that other person. When I meet a person I really like, I don't want to ruin the potential for a relationship or something more meaningful by rushing into sex. If I don't care about a person, I don't care what they or I think of each other and I can just (in theory) have sex with them. I don't want "high value men" to think I'm easy, so I make them wait. And I don't care about the opinions of "lower value men". Works the oth…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 04:32 PM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 03:17 AM
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Weird answer but i love when my man cries. Shows he's human and trusts me with his emotions. I'm away for several months at a time, he cries when he misses me and it makes my heart swell. It's so cute and very touching.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 01:38 AM
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Most definitely. After being in a terrible relationship, it changed my tolerance, boundaries and standards. I would never put myself in that position to be hurt like that again.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 01:28 AM
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They use words and terms that no person off reddit would understand or use.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 01:25 AM
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I disagree. I loved being single. I also nearly died at a young age. Let me elaborate. My relationship before my partner ended 5 years ago. It was toxic and abusive. Being single, i felt free, calm and at peace with my own company. I could do what i want with no recourse and felt no guilt for prioritizing my wants and needs I almost died in March 2022 and it did hit me that not only was i sad to potentially go so young, that i didn't get to have a loving partner or family around me for if i was …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 01:22 AM
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This !!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 05:08 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 05:08 PM
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Disagree personally. I love to feel appreciated/respected and worshipped by my man. How you're treated is everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 05:06 PM
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Personally 30+>20s As a woman who's 25 and had an awkward/ugly start, i had little to no sexual experience in my early 20s and had to work hard to become of average attractiveness. I'm working hard to be in better shape and i am getting cosmetic surgery to look better than I ever did in my 20s. I'm really looking forward to my 30s and would certainly be significantly more desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 04:46 PM
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Personally, no. Anyone I've ever done that with I've slept with them also. I was unaware of this being a thing lol. I wouldn't ask my partner how many people he's been down on and only have a rough idea of how many people he's slept with - it's better that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 02:33 PM
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Source : "trust me bro I'm a Chad"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 02:41 PM
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No, it's not abuse. Marriage doesn't waive the right to consent. The real question is - why would you want to have sex with your wife if she doesn't want it/won't enjoy it? There's a deeper problem here and it isn't "abusing you by withholding sex" either she's lost the love or the attraction or she's going through something challenging at the moment and needs you to be there as an emotionally supportive partner more than a physical one. If it's a dead marriage, time for counselling to see if yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 02:39 PM
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No. I don't mind porn usage but the act of actually "tipping" or sending messages to OF creators I think crosses a line. There is free porn and he is meant to be in a relationship - what does he need to pay for porn?! Major red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 02:36 PM
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Self respect is what works. If someone deliberately gives me "less attention" i lose interest. Seems childish and mind-gamey so they're probably immature and not ready for a relationship. If a guy blows up your phone, is incredibly needy etc... It's not the attention that's off -putting, it's the lack of self respect, it seems desperate. You have to respect yourself enough to give what you are getting in return. If both people are interested and putting in the same effort, you don't have to over…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 02:33 PM
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Yes. It's consensual and in the past. Doesn't matter to me. All i see is a woman doing her job. The sex was purely transactional and i don't have an issue with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 02:25 PM
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Actually - I'd say the military. I'm away for several months at a time, away from my boyfriend. I of course have never and will never cheat. But if i wanted to? The staffing is about 98% male and I could have my picking. However, the military takes infidelity and drama seriously.... And regardless, you could line up a buffet table of oiled up marines on platters and I would still choose to wait for months ... For my partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 03:12 AM
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Honestly, true lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 03:05 AM
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Normal women. Now I don't really like the term Chad... However, my partner is exceptionally attractive, physically fit etc. He's modelled, he gets chased down the street by girls ... And me? Well I'm pretty average. When my partner was younger, he ran around, broke some hearts... Caused some trouble. However, he was raised well and fully supports his mom and sister financially... This forced him to grow up. Meaningless sex wasn't cutting it anymore, he felt pretty empty and was starting to feel …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 03:02 AM
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I haven't actually! But id be very open to going and I'm sure he would too. Didn't realise this was even a thing. Yeah my boyfriend is Colombian. I'm European. So very different cultures and backgrounds.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 09:24 PM
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I have every faith in my partner that he will be successful. To me, I'm creating stability before he can choose whether or not he wants to take the reigns financially. Not that it really matters, but he is definitely, significantly better looking than I am... But that's not the reason why I would be okay fully supporting us whilst he stays at home. I love my job, it's demanding, i spend months out at sea every year and I understand that being home with a family is just as much work.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 05:20 PM
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Who's a slave?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 05:03 PM
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Thank you so much! All good advice
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 05:22 AM
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Very true! I'm looking out for myself too right now, focusing on becoming more established in my career. Marriage/kids will be here before I know it I think however ... And I've always been a planner.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 05:18 AM
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What do you doubt?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 05:16 AM
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Oh absolutely. Being able to pick and choose and having a supportive partner is truly everything. I would hate to feel pressure either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 05:16 AM
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I'm thinking fireball with some extra heat. Honestly would be perfect for chicken wings.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 03:54 AM
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I'm now thinking it would make an excellent marinade for chicken wings ... Especially if it's leaning slightly sweet.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 03:50 AM
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Never tried that ... Now I have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 03:45 AM
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Maybe it does! Maybe there is something to that. Or it could be that I'm pretty easy going. If he was down to be a stay-at-home dad/husband I'd be absolutely fine with that. I just know it's something he could never be happy doing!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 03:44 AM
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I engaged as it was interesting and I'm always happy to have a discussion, but this post is far from intellectual. Your comment here didn't really make a lot of sense. I thought we were discussing the difference in the number of virgin women Vs men? So what is your real question here?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 03:12 AM
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You said there are assumptions and numbers Yes, I did. And yes, I didn't fully agree with all you said. Doesn't mean I disagreed with your entire post. 1) yes women are pickier, so yes, more male virgins than women. 2) when were we talking about girls getting mad? And body count videos??? What even is this?? You're bringing up a point that neither your post nor my comment mentioned. What is this? 3) I wouldn't consider your post "an intellectual deduction" seems more like a half minded open disc…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 02:57 AM
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I love a good fireball and apple. Beats a lot of the sex I've had. If that's any consolation? Pour one out for me pal, cheers til it happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 02:52 AM
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Why are most girls not virgins then? I answered this. They have more options for NSA sex. If you’re saying my point is wrong? Could it be you’re are debating the imaginary argument I never made? Not saying you're wrong, this is just a discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 02:48 AM
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I think you're throwing around numbers and assumptions here. Something we can all agree on is that it is easier for women than it is for men to find partners for casual sex. As men, are typically, easier to sleep with, with NSA. This might be why you're saying that there is fewer "attractive women" that are virgins as most decent looking women, can normally find someone (if they so wanted to) to sleep with. However, women are pickier and whilst many enjoy casual hook-ups, many also prefer to wai…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 02:45 AM
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I think how a person presents themselves, their manners, how they treat women is everything. I've been on dates with handsome men, not so handsome men, tall men, short men, rich men, men I supported financially... The turn off for me is always based on how they treat me and how respectful they are of women. I won't lie, of course we are initially attracted to what's flashy. However this is short lived after you get to know a person in my experience. I personally don't care for money too much, I …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 02:32 AM
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You can work at finding love all you want, but you will never find it. It finds you. You know when you lose that one thing and you turn your house upside down trying to find it? And then you leave it for a few weeks, forget all about it ... Then BAM there it is between the couch when you went to reach for the remote. That's like falling in love. It's not like it's something you can train for. You're not enlisting in some special service with a deadline. You don't need a training plan or to creat…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 02:12 AM
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Honestly there is kind of a double standard and there is a natural advantage/disadvantage. However, looks will only get you so far. But yes, a good looking guy will get away with a lot more "creepy" behaviour... Until he doesn't. And he's branded as a creep. "Ugly people" with ugly personalities are definitely doomed. Which is why working internally and working to become the best version of yourself is so important. Attractive people with ugly personalities will forever be disappointments for pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 02:04 AM
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I absolutely agree! I just want to see my friends happy and love playing match maker. A true friend wants to keep her circle loved and loving. And besides - I want to make sure they end up with a good egg - that I can hopefully be friends with too!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 02:00 AM
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24F in a happy relationship. Honestly, I agree. Love is hard work. It's also expensive. My boyfriend and I take it in turns to pay for dates and things but I won't lie, he picks up about 60-70% of it all in (gifts, dates, gas, food). I truly believe that dating is becoming a luxury few can afford as whilst love doesn't have to cost money, there's a societal expectation that it should and a want to woo and impress your partner. I can't speak for dating apps as I don't believe in them (for me pers…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 01:54 AM
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24F, 5'4. I couldn't give a damn, and neither could my friends or any women I personally know. I think "I'm not tall enough" or "I'm tall so I should have no problems" is such a COP OUT for men to blame something they can't change rather than look internally as to what they could be doing. My current partner is 5'8/9 so average-ish height. I have however dated shorter and taller - one was even 6'7! And I can honestly say it doesn't make a difference, nor do my friends ever ask such a thing. Girl…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 01:41 AM
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Hi 24F and I guess you kind of described my partner. He is Colombian, living in America and wasn't fond of American/LA women and their temperament. Whilst he is not one to generalise, the women he had dated in America and South America were argumentative and apparently made his life stressful. I'm Eastern European and to him, he loves the way that I love him and it is unique to the other women he's been with. I do believe different cultures have different temperaments. To me, I've experienced th…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 07:31 PM
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I don't agree. My life and relationship experience speaks to otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 06:40 PM
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As someone who's been through some shit, men that wear their heart on their sleeve are incredibly brave to me. I wouldn't say that has anything to do with feminism - infact I would say the opposite! I believe feminism encourages the break down of traditional gender roles and how men/women are meant to "act" and express themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 05:31 PM
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My partner, before he got fit to the extent you're describing was pretty chubby. He now takes great care of himself and it turns out that hiding under his "average/chubby" face was a very handsome one! So I'd say yes, physical fitness plays a big role in helping a man's attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 04:34 PM
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I would disagree actually. (From my experience as a 24 y/o) Nice, respectful gentlemen make me feel safe and comfortable. Therefore I'm more likely to feel comfortable with them at an intimate level. Moreover, it takes a lot of strength to be vulnerable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 04:12 PM
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Yes, absolutely. My current amazing partner. I felt an instant chemistry. The fact that he's gorgeous didn't hurt either. There was always something "chemical" about him. He was charming, polite, a total gentleman. His manners made him ridiculously attractive. He's got tanned skin and perfect teeth so when he smiles it's almost all you can focus on. He's also very well groomed and keeps himself in excellent shape (+tattoos so a big bonus). He was overall a total dreamboat and I instantly found h…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 03:30 PM
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I'm loyal, have options but believe no better options exist. I think you know a relationship/love is real when it is challenged. LDRs, sickness, difficult economic status, stress etc... All put a relationship to the test. Having options does question your loyalty. But not in the way you're suggesting in my experience. I won't even go for friendly drinks with another man unless he is fully aware I have a boyfriend and isn't at all interested in me that way. If I'm uncertain? I cancel. Nothing is …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 05:18 PM
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