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3	Male Attraction is Treated as Normal and Women's Attraction is Seen as Shallow or Bad If male attraction was treated as normal, Women as a default wouldnt throw the guard up and think they are in immediate danger and start making escape plans. And guys who think women are shallow probably because they see ladies as soon as attraction is present throw all these behavouirs out of the window. I mean look at all the anti porn stance from feminist spaces/here, Which definetly is an expression of the male genders lust. Is treated with contempt but barring some legal obvious legal const…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/26 06:13 PM
1	Going Out Alone as a Guy in a New City Is Brutal You have perfectly identified the complex social web of rules you have to play by as a man and your complaining! Most bozos never figure it out, Just move in between the rules you have identified and you will be successful. Women have there own complex set of social rules that usually arise when they are friends or "friends" with each other (which to be honest I am guessing from the way my gf talks about her friends). You're a man you will never experience the social rules placed on women to wom…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 10:05 AM
1	"Nice Guys" are basically an urban legend That doesn't seem like a thing that only the "nice guy" does. I have had at least 3 women tell me in some form or another saying I spent all this time & money getting made up and all this effort looking my best for you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/25 10:38 AM
2	"Nice Guys" are basically an urban legend I completely disagree, Its a large subsection of the general population don't just casually brush off rejection. Everyone I know has had some kind of bad reaction to some kind of rejection they have faced men and women, Gay or straight, Cisgender or not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/25 03:15 PM
3	"Nice Guys" are basically an urban legend I have snapped and said something I would regret to people who have rejected me. But never apologized for any of the things I said. yet still I have had plenty of FWBs, have plenty of female friends who respect me and I have been in a relationship for 4 years. Does that make me the "nice guy" who is a loser with a bad personality? To me humans will human and with something as difficult and vulnerable as dating you will get bad reactions that's life. To say is a pattern particular to a certain gr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/25 12:10 PM
0	Why do so many young men think they shouldn’t be grinding for professional success and for women in their twenties I'm a millennial, being 22 with my first job was ez street 10 years ago. I could party 24/7 and not have to budget even and low budget travel. I earn 150 percent more than I did when I was that age. My life has completely changed and I look at expenses way more often. I don't spaff it up the walls I certainly have more money left but every basic thing I do costs loads of cash. Plus always feels like a rip off. Having a graduate job which lost people made life easy. Maybe if you stayed in working…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/25 11:08 PM
1	People angry at the term “Emotional Labor” have never cared for people. wtf is emotional labour. Worrying about something doesnt constitute work in any meaningful way and physically having to call the doctors for appointments for the kids and keeping track of birthdays and family relationships is actual labour, Just like doing the dishes. So what is "emotional labour" actually covering, Unless it is being used to say that other people should assuage your worries?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/25 03:04 PM
–	Men are not upset about not being able to date, they're upset about not being able to participate in hookup culture. Dunno where you got that idea from. I have a girlfriend of 5 years. It's not like I'm using said ability to sleep with other ladies. It gives me lots of certainty that she actually wants to be with me. Not rich me, not hyper social me. Just who I am as a human bit of meat.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/25 11:56 AM
–	Men are not upset about not being able to date, they're upset about not being able to participate in hookup culture. I personally wouldn't trade my conventional attractiveness for anything less than 100 million. You may think its impoverished. But as a guy having the ability to get women into bed with very little effort due to my looks is one hell of an advantage I would not give up for anything less.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/25 11:32 AM
1	Men cannot complain their way to sex and relationships People are allowed to be bitter about getting no play. Just like they are allowed to be bitter about being miserably poor, Or whatever other deficiency they think they have. Who cares whether it is conducive to results or not. You nor I get to dictate someone else's feelings. However If I don't care about it then I won't personally listen or empathise.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/25 07:00 PM
2	Marriage is for the poor,children are for the rich In this imaginary scenario. The living standards of bezos heirs would collapse and they would most certainly return to serfdom. The only reason paper and assets wealth means anything is due to the collective labour that humans put into maintenance of the systems that we create Say tomorrow the bottom 10 or 20 percent of the lowest income strata decided not to have children. Society in the next generation would collapse.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/25 06:02 PM
2	When telling women to "choose better," take into accountability how excellent some men are at leading women on just to get laid. Plus, most people think they're good guys. Your joking right? The dude in his interviews was spouting pure esoteric nonsense. Did you see his court case where he tries to defend himself? Its literally a comedy show of amateur hour.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/25 10:07 AM
6	You are not a victim just because nobody wants to date you. Loneliness and sexlessness is just an unfortunate by product of free will, which proceeds all other rights in dating Yeh you are exactly right. There is no victims or blame to be attributed anywhere in regards to dating, Natural selection is a brutal force. But the realpolitik of the situation is that there will be some very angry men who have never gotten any and will never be able too and personally I don't want to be at risk of being gunned down or knived by some incel. I would rather society come up with some coherent solution rather than whats on offer, which is A. Shitting on them and calling them names …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/25 02:18 PM
1	Is It that Men are Intimidated by Successful Women, or is it the Fact Successful Women Tend to Be Agressive? It doesn't exist to the point you think it does. This is the apex fallacy for women. I don't really see a lot of successful women in the same way I don't see a lot of successful men. I see lots of flavours of average. So from my experience. I have a friend who loves 1 night stands with older successful women (genuinely successful) I know a guy who is into established older women. And the only successful women I know is with someone equally high powered. From my experience you couldn't draw any c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/25 07:34 AM
1	How true is the notion that you all are lonely as well because of a lack of good options for boyfriends, not because of a lack of options in general. I reckon if i didnt have a partner. Even though I have a massive friend group who are really close and constantly arrange outings, I have solid male friends who I have been friends with my entire life and supportive family members. I still would end up feeling very lonely. Especially if I couldn't attract casual flings at the very least. I think a large majority of men actually have no problem maintaining good friendships but long term importance of those are dwarfed by a a partner. There simple…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/25 11:44 AM
1	An Assertive dirtbag is much better than a super shy guy. Lol what being more confident was accepting my sexuality a bit more for sure. But going from justifying it to myself as befriend the lady in question and see where it goes, to more of an honest I'm horny, you are hot, I want to get it on. When making the approach doesn't suddenly mean because I'm more honest I'm being a better person.. I have a feeling that lots of sexually successful guys think the latter rather than the former when they first approach women. Which is great they are being hones…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/25 02:56 PM
2	There's a narrative out there that someone who has never been in a relationship is undateable because they "don't know how to be in a relationship". What are some examples of this? What a total load of bollocks. My current gf who has never has had 1 short term partner is the most emotionally stable/mature partner I have ever had. The woman I was in a situationship on and off with for 2 years had 1 partner for 7 years. And my first girlfriend who lied to me about being pregnant had 3 boyfriends before me. The only pattern I have noticed is that it is completely RANDOM. And the only way to find out if you are compatible is to actually try.. Sorry there aren't any shortcuts.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/25 07:55 PM
7	The patriarchy isn't real Patriarchy definitely exists. How much it exists is for you people to discuss as please.. But it takes a backburner compared with the current issues that affect us all. Like unaffordable housing. Systemic wealth inequality and the general living standard decline of the middle/lower classes at expense of the upper class increase. Women rights have had huge leaps and bounds over the last 50 years. But now all of us are getting bent over and fucked. The last decade of focusing on social issues is w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/25 01:39 PM
1	Women are dating the same terrible dudes Huh naivety doesn't explain shit. Pretty much everyone has an ingrained reflex to a dodgy area and dodgy people. Literally no one is that stupid. They could be misguided or wrong but everyone makes assumptions about someone without even having to talk to them. The fact that everyone has that reflex means they are fully aware there is an "underclass".	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/25 12:58 PM
–	Women in this subreddit are always confused about 'high standards'. This argument about standards is due to the disconnect in experience those guys have. Honestly I couldn't care less if women are superficial or have arbitrary standards. But I can safely say from my own lived experience. I am not a (because I'm not the son of god) 4 or 5 on any your latter examples. Yet I am a taken man with plenty of previous experience. However the guys who easily are 4 or 5s (out of 5). Typically are single and struggle to attract any women whatsoever.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/25 12:56 PM
-1	Sexualization isn’t inherently wrong - it’s all about the where, when and who. If you decide there is going to be no filter between you inner voice that's a choice you can make. But you deal with the consequences. if your internal monologue is telling you that your boss is a sexual enigma and all you can imagine is the naughty things you want to do to her. But you always act professionally and do your job. No harm no foul. If you have a filter you can think whatever the fuck you want. You are falling into the trap of thinking something about someone instantly colours your …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/25 08:42 PM
0	Sexualization isn’t inherently wrong - it’s all about the where, when and who. Why is there even a time or place for it. Your mind and eyes are allowed to pretty much whatever the fuck it wants. It's your actions that should be limited. I don't have to be at a strip club to check out a pair of tits and appreciate them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/25 08:25 PM
4	People (and red pillers) often underestimate the necessity of young love/teen love and the impact it can have on am average guy's dating life in the future. I think you are right. Not getting it in school/college puts you at a disadvantage. But you are missing the point which is dating for men has very much to do with your current reputation. School and college you really only get 1 shot each at reputation building. If you lose and are seen as a loser its really hard to reverse that. As an adult its much more anonymous. If you come off as a loser in 1 social circle. Drop out move to the next one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/25 02:46 PM
2	If you believe in "Nobody is entitled to a Relationship" and "Nobody is owed anything in a Relationship" then you believe in the following: Using your example look at the state of the job market. It's a shit show. There is no human decency, no commitment, No security and everyone loses from it. Is this the state you want the dating market to look like as well? Most people clearly don't like hyper individualistic, no entitlement environments. Where every single stipulation is enforced in writing or else anything goes. With the job market you are entitled to a job, jobs are entitled to the work you produce. With relationships you are …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/25 07:45 PM
2	Q4M: do you find healthy relationships boring? Boring in terms of I don't get the highs and lows. But before my current gf. Who is ultra stable. I had an ex who was super exciting and toxic and all in-between. Now that I am out of it. I would hate for that to be my life now. I much prefer answering the question of how things are with your gf, By saying chugging along just fine. Rather than the 50 percent chance of well I got dumped twice last week and then we had an amazing weekend together. And also from a more practical standpoint. Your li…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/25 01:07 PM
1	“Needs Vs Wants” (The Truth of the Matter) This is such a nonsense argument. From the second we finish puberty our bodies develop an impulse to reproduce. Exactly like the impulse for warmth, community, food and drink. Whichever one you don't have your brain is going to hyper focus on it because it's a base impulse. That makes it a need. However it's not a requirement for society to get all your needs met. For instance we only conditionally provide your food/shelter/drink in most developed nations without the requirement to work for them…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/25 05:27 PM
2	Many young men struggle because they internalize internet opinions This is why you should have woman friends. Just so you can see how much of an influence intimate male partners (or lack of) have on an average woman. Its most likely a top 3 issue. So whenever you see someone bleeting onto the internet complete nonsense. That should signal to you that for that individual, men take the number 1 top spot in her life. In the same vain that men bleeting nonsense are clearly as obsessed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/25 01:50 PM
-1	Self improvement leads to resentment A lot of guys haven't actually checked whether they have genetic potential especially in their early to mid 20s. Instead they decide that the results from their teenage years are the results they are getting now. Before you start the never ending treadmill of self improvement. Double check. Present yourself as a man who is attracted to women today and see what happens. Then you can make better decisions based on data. However I would agree with you. Self improvement driven by other people can ma…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/25 05:43 AM
16	I have a weakly held view that many red-pillers underestimate the success of the average man because they overuse dating apps, and there are tractable ways of improving their luck. I've seen this happen in real time before. I'm part of a Facebook group which is for meeting travel friends. The group is like 10k manz in size. It's huge. I went on a trip via the group with a couple of my friends in my city. This random guy decided to try and chat up a few girls before going. I mean in all reality he was basically trying to start a conversation with them about what they should do? or how much are they packing? I saw the texts via a friend of mine. However since some girls susp…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/25 12:34 PM
2	If you have no kids, there´s honestly no reason not to leave your boring, unappealing husband/boyfriend and seek a better life if you are not married. Yeh go for it. It will suck but there technically isnt the same level of commitment. Divorcing even without children involved, results in 3 - 5 years of irreversible emotional damage because you are bored! Remember at some point you took vows which were for better or worse until death do us part. The solution to that problem is don't say vows to people you dont want to marry.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/25 08:05 PM
1	Way too many guys on dating apps are clingy and most likely conflate that with being a good lover. I used to agree with this premise myself. I would be like yeh why are people so clingy. Why do they ramp up intimacy so quickly isnt it too much? Me and my girlfriend took a while (still faster than I wanted) to be so touchy feely. But she is very touchy feely now. Plus she wished I was more willing to be much earlier in our relationship. Because the reality is that people who are open and willing to be vulnerable are the healthy ones. The reason you are like that is because you are jaded like I…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/24 07:07 PM
3	Men understand the concept of aggression significantly better than women. That thread is a complete shitshow. Men and women when you encouter a potentially violent situation occuring you book it yourselfs and call the police from safety. You dont call the police while in the vicinity of the crime because that puts you in danger. You don't get involved because that puts you in the most danger. You can if you want call help from a local establishment but they should follow the same rules as well. if OOP had actually listened in her civic classes and walked away and call…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/24 05:55 PM
1	What’s a good way to bridge the gap between men and women? You are completely missing the point. I am saying if the economy fixed itself then buying coupled up vs renting with roommates or renting at all or even living with parents. (which pretty much no one loves doing atm) will incentivise people to marry and settle down way quicker.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/24 05:38 PM
11	What’s a good way to bridge the gap between men and women? Fix the economy... This gender fighting only happens because we are essentially allowed to stay dumb children for longer than 2 years into adulthood. Before most of us would be married off and settled by 25. Being married/settled leaves no time for anyone to basically think too much. Which is what these kind of esoteric discussions are. It's overthinkers spaffing nonsense at each other. If 2 basic incomes buy you a house. Most people will settle down the second they finish uni. Because obviously…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/24 05:14 PM
4	What do you think about the idea that women may put men into two groups- those who are “hookup/ONS” material and those who are “relationship/husband” material? Those dude are definetly missing out. Experiencing a women being irrationally attracted to me and it being reflected back to turn into a quick casual hookup is a top 3 of experiences.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/24 02:49 PM
2	Women are inherently predispositioned to utilizing men in a uni-directional transactional nature in female to male friendships - and this is the reason why most male to female friendships do not have implied loyalty - a hallmark of male to male friendships. I mean it is possible that it does. The reciprocation you are talking about has happened to me. The overarching trend was that friendship eventually became sexual in some way or another. But people doing things for people they are attracted to on some level isn't a specifically gendered behaviour. It's possible to have a friendship with mutual attraction as well that doesn't go anywhere. Plus you are probably also overstating male loyalty. Everyone stops seeing their friends as much when everyon…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/24 02:02 PM
–	Wanting left winged groups to win requires more support to men I highly agree with this take. No one actually gives a shit about immigration if it has no visible impact to peoples finances. But the second low skilled jobs wages are diluted etc. People will be up in arms. Not that a place like saudi arabia is a beacon for anything. But as an extreme example 40% of the population is immigrant, alot of them are probably slave labour. But you dont see saudis up in arms about migration at all. The nationals on average are significantly more well off than there s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/24 09:15 PM
1	What dating standards are fair for women to hold? OK but none of your bullet points you are going to be able to accurately discern in a couple of hours of flirting with someone until the hookup occurs. At that exact point the only measurement you are taking of your bullet points are based on vibe. Vibe and energy originate from the way we look and reputation. There are plenty of studies on how describing someone as some way will colour there view of you and the halo effect.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/24 01:20 PM
2	Q4M: Pick 1 - great sex + bad relationship OR no sex + great relationship? I would choose A. If I had a gun to my head. I can easily stimulate myself to good memories because I have plenty of them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/24 03:23 PM
1	If You Became Super Desirable To Women, Would You Be A Player? Having gone through a 6 year dry spell and then going on a 2 years maintaining 3 FWBs. It was about 2 years until I reached a point when it wasnt that special anymore. More notably there is a point when your dick is too wet. The effort of chasing more women isnt worth it. I didnt do 1 night stands so maybe that was why it was so taxing. But maintaining a sexual relationship with 1 girl is more than enough hassle. The lessons I learnt were the reason you are so desperate is because your self wort…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/24 02:24 PM
–	Normal men don't care about women who are attracted to terrible people. Because in a just world criminal men shouldn't be having sex. Especially especially over a basement dweller. I highly doubt the guys complaining about it are targeting those women in general. For them it is a moral outrage. I don't see how this is such a complex issue.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/24 02:58 AM
1	The expectation for men to be completely self-actualized before even entering the dating market is absolutely ridiculous. Its because there is this generic idea that men need to be better at pretty much everything. So that societies woes will go away. Obviously this is BS. Also the idea that anyone but the top 1% will attain self-actualization is ridiculous. Most people will die when they are in stage 3 at best. No amount of self improvement is going to be actually helpful relatively. So what you should aim for is fixing the bits of yourself that make you unhappy. But not by subjecting yourself to mental torture to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/24 12:26 PM
1	The “men get other men, that’s why we don’t trust men with our women” and “women are unfairly judging men” dichotomy The first position is typically about hot guys. Because men who are hot know they are. So will act accordingly. The second position about the treatment of ugly guys. They dont deserve to be pre-judged as a weirdo by women for their looks. There isnt any dichotomy. This is some hyperbolic false dichotomy that you have concocted.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/24 02:21 PM
–	If you’re not going to hold men accountable for their own actions, don’t be shocked that feminists see men as wild animals to be caged. Unfortunately your US crime stats are about kids getting expelled so I am going to have to use another napkin model. We will be making lots of assumptions but at the most basic level you want to avoid men who rob. So lets work out how many robbers there are in the US. Reported robbery in 2020 was 267k lets assume 50 percent of robberies are unreported so 620k total. An individual who is a robber will do 2-3 robberies over there criminal career. So there are 620k / 2.5 = 248k individuals robbing …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/24 08:46 PM
0	Women simultaneously dislike men approaching because they feel treated as "romantic prospects" instead of "regular people" yet dread the moment a male friend would suggests something more You have to go back to the drawing board. As a guy who has gotten with all of their closest female friends. The recipe is pretty simple. If you guys are close enough to hang 1 on 1. at some point mention they are "bare fit" and make a move. You are nuking the friendship as it is either way it goes. Its the high emotional & social intellegence that is stopping you. You need to switch that shit off. If there wasnt some base level attraction to each other. You probably wouldn't be hanging 1 on 1. E…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/24 01:18 PM
6	People who think being single is no big deal have no way to know how time would affect them. Why are you being so dense. The chart below is why. Family and friends drop off. The only person who is actually living the same life as you is your intimate partner for your entire life. https://ourworldindata.org/grapher/time-spent-with-relationships-by-age-us	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/24 11:04 AM
3	Manipulative, charming, uncaring, lying men get laid the most Clearly you were vulnerable. Also sorry you had to learn the hard way that no one gives you up front value without wanting immediate rewards. Plus to anyone who goes how was he playing this game with you for that long. You werent the only women he was giving it all that too. Its kind of like how someone serving you at a resteraunt is being nice to you because they want a tip. You give them 10% of the bill not your entire life savings. No one is a miracle. Always put your needs and desires first.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/24 12:07 PM
1	Most men are not friends with their girlfriends/wives No I absolutely do not consider my partner my friend. With friends I put myself first. I expect less of them in general. I dont expect them to put me first. Friends in general come with much lower commitment and much lower expectations. My partner is someone who I put at equal consideration with my own desires. I expect them to share my life goals (the ups and downs as well). I expect them to put me at equal consideration to their own personal desires. And a whole host of other socially contract…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/24 11:10 AM
3	“Getting off the apps” doesn’t help when the same mindsets are predominant Yeah it's true. However getting off the apps is about your mental health. Swiping on apps comes at an extremely grave cost to self image as an average man. Where it wouldn't have anywhere near the same effect for hot guys and most women. No one on earth can weather large scale rejection without becoming massively embittered and then everyone eventually starts calling them entitled on top of that. That's like a 2 punch knock out to someone on the floor. Don't let anyone say what you can or cannot…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/24 12:27 PM
2	Social circle game Quite a while. But thats because you are neurotypical. Not because social circle game sucks or whatever. You won't burn out your friendship circle if you are always successful/succesfully fail. If burning out your social group was common there wouldnt be so many "incestous" friendship circles where everyone has dated everyone that survive for any amount of time, Especially while your young IE under 25. The rules of how establish a sexual relationship of any kind do not change. You always work ou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/24 06:10 PM
–	Women's attraction based on career and income is weird. I would argue it shows none of those things. Considering the fact that most Americans don't have more than 2000 or so dollars in there account and are on average living paycheck to paycheck. Plus a large working chunk of the population are either 3/7 months away from being homeless depending on if they own there home. The stats make it very clear if you lose your job due to a layoff (remember lifetime jobs are GONE) you have about 7 months on average at most until you are a bum on the street beg…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/24 02:57 PM
2	Men should stop asking women for advice Yeh stop asking for advice for actual suggestions. However asking for advice is a good way of connecting to some lady acquaintances and becoming closer friends. But disregard the information. You can use your friends a barometer, If you basically act like a total horn-dog in front of them. Checking out women walking by left, right and centre. If they don't instantly react badly and tell you to stop you creeper. You are probably not stupidly ugly. If they laugh and join in then you are probably q…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/24 12:10 PM
1	Opinion on a woman saying she'll take anyone at this point ? Wtf are you talking about? There are some poon hounds out there that would jump at the chance. In fact if I took my male friends as a representative sample it would be about 30 percent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/24 11:33 AM
–	Why is it unreasonable for a woman to want a man who earns the same salary as her or more? The simplest one is that the salary isn't always going to be there and unless you come from a very privileged background. Once the salary is naught you will dive very fast into poverty regardless of how much cash you were making. Because you are making a decision about supposedly a life partner. You are guaranteed to experience together the loss of a family member which could financially cripple you or the decline in health of one of you with the same effec.. So you probably want to look for som…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/24 12:24 PM
2	Would you trade your inherent male strength in order to be considered as non-threatening as a woman? No I wouldn't change it at all. Too few men in society are the issue for men in general to be culturally seen as dangerous. The only thing I would actually change is the narrative that men should change there behaviour in regards to female safety. They shouldn't.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/24 05:34 PM
2	Girls always shame you for approaching or “hitting on” multiple women, sharing screenshots of their dms trying to humiliate you but men are FORCED to cast a wide net due to the fact that most women are taken or “uninterested.” I mean would you want a husband that saw you as nothing more than a good pair of birthing hips to spawn together some children and then 10 years later turns around and goes you have done your job at motherhood. Time to find some young poontang vs 1 evening of unsatisfying sex? I would personally rather be seen as a walking cock rather than just a good sperm donor.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/24 02:10 PM
6	Seems you're just as likely to lose a lady for taking things slowly than you are for moving too fast Your post is the epitome of doing things to please women. Do things to please yourself first and foremost. If you like taking things slow than do it shamelessly. If you like being hot and heavy right out of the gate do that shamelessly. Own your decisions! Except for dick pics. Don't do that. The regular (without literal crime happening) bad date stories you hear from them is for people they dont like. So of course what they did sucked. So take the stories you hear with a grain of salt and dont …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/24 10:15 AM
1	People used to openly acknowledge that women liked assholes until Blue Pillers fabricated this whole narrative, making it a taboo subject and trying to shame people for it I've seen "asshole" used to describe everything from someone who playfully teases I would say this is a pretty good metric for what an asshole guy is. It clearly explains it someone who pushes boundaries. In a neutral context for the example you give. You were objectively being a bellend, you just knew what you could get away with. If you were behaving that way and misjudged what they will allow you to get away with you would have been a class A douchebag in that persons eyes. A nice guy simply …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/24 02:37 PM
1	Women tell men to look for subtle signs to approach, then say those are just women being nice If you want to cold approach. Just do it. Be more greedy for yourself in your life. You are doing it for you. Not for the person you are chatting up. If you dont want to do it, you are making an equally valid decision for youself. However the only reason I would side on just cold approaching if you want to more often is because your time is limited. You are only degenerating into the grave.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/24 05:09 PM
3	Is there dating advice for Men that all (Blue/Red/Black/Purple) pills agree on? I'm only going to counter your first point. Typically who you spent the most time with after your 30's is your partner and yourself. All other forms of human interaction drop off massively on average at certain stages. So not finding a romantic partner you are taking a massive risk with your future social connections. Personally I wouldn't want to advice anyone that they can make it on their own. This is regardless of the hard reality that you will spend more and more time alone as you age. http…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/24 04:40 PM
1	Have you ever had a realization, or epiphany, about dating that helped put things in perspective? Your self belief that you cant land a partner is probably correct. No ones gut instincts are that stupid. But you also have an image in your head about what will work. So influence your personhood in that direction. Remember no one is the same person as they were a one/three/five years ago. (for when you have no options) Also unless you had the grade A perfect childhood. You most likely react well to some kind of toxic behaviour. If you learn to identify it. You will realise that strong attracti…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/24 01:10 PM
-6	Are assumptions around women based on lack of exposure? Wait what! That's a ridiculously high number. That's roughly same as the same as the US prison population and men are generally seen as potentially violent and criminal. If your statistic is true. You can kind of see where these podcasters are coming from. It would need to be 0.1 to be benign.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/23 02:02 PM
1	Technology killed regular socialization and that’s why dating is so hard now. I'm not talking about asocial people. I am talking about an average person who maybe doesn't want to spend an evening at home. Where would they go tonight to just chill out and meet some random people local to them, nearby? Historically places like that have always existed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/23 05:09 PM
1	Technology killed regular socialization and that’s why dating is so hard now. Well you literally described the exact issue going on in my city at the moment. The number of pubs/cafes/nightclubs and generic music venues is going down over the years IE quintessential third places being replaced by generally bougie dining places. Which contribute to less places to just hang about and socialize with randos. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VvdQ381K5xg&ab_channel=NotJustBikes This link explains a definition of "third place" better than me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/23 04:40 PM
1	Technology killed regular socialization and that’s why dating is so hard now. Well I mean that is exactly what "third spaces" are for. People who don't have hobbies or particular niche interests. Plus most people don't have hobbies that will be a good way to get a "third space" at all. The majority of all socializing is shared eating and drinking. Which nowadays needs a pre described friendship circle to do most of the time. Everything you list are niche things that probably wont hear about if you're some random person looking for anything to do. Most people need someone …	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/23 04:16 PM
1	I think the red pill is morally wrong in almost every aspect. Well unless you talk to your boss about every time you go out and do a bunch of coke and vomit into the toilet. Technically when you are at work you are maintaining frame there. I'm pretty sure you are not trying to lie to your boss to get them into bed?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/23 12:54 PM
1	Are women actually attracted to toxic men? No I got what you meant. What I was saying that if you are a confident self assured, take no prisoners. Do it your own way kind of guy you are gonna automatically shit on people. It's the trade off to being that way. Just like if you are a genuinely nice person you expose yourself to being used by other people. You can't be a particular set of traits and not suffer the trade offs for them. The set of traits you want in a man, inherently mean you will find a lot of toxic people within there. And …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/23 05:03 PM
4	Are women actually attracted to toxic men? I mean what you described is a toxic guy. The 2 fundamental traits you need to be a good guy is to be able to take shit from people and actually give a fuck. With the only redeeming traits being confident and banterous. Plus you shouldn't party all the time. This is from my experience of being that person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/23 03:36 PM
1	many men need to do a better job at realizing that wanting sex =/= “dating options” This is complete nonsense. The grass is just greener having more options. If you agree that that a women having 100 matches is better than a women having 10 matches along with a man having 100 matches is better than 10 matches. Under the assumption that we are swiping on people that we fancy chatting to. The only conclusion from that is that having more options is beneficial. In my personal experience this rule held true as well. As I got older and larger amount of women wanted to have sex with …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/23 02:23 PM
2	When did the switch flip for you? It was a few years ago. I was at a friends birthday and one of the girls brings a friend I have never met. She was decently attractive. She goes outside for a cigarette so I venture out to try and make small talk with her. She turns around when I say hi and she gives me the most recoiled look I have ever seen. First thing she say is "I have a BF" and "No thank you". Treating me as some class A creeper. My internal voice start raging saying fuck this I am a good person. Like the way I look in the…	/r/seduction	19/10/22 02:43 PM