throwawayraye Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Mixed signals leading to frustration	Removed: Specific Situation / post on r/askseddit	throwawayraye	/r/seduction	30/04/21 08:35 AM

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1	Why does this sub massively exaggerate male sexlessness and the plight of the average male? Your projecting. You're acting like just because it was made in 2019 it's somehow invalid? You said the number drops to 20%. You are my source. Females who haven't found a sexual partner by 30 is 1.2%. for men it's 30%. What's 30/1.2? You are playing semantics. You're entire play is that it's not as big of a deal as it's being portrayed. Because the statistic was from 2019. Under the false pretense of "bad math".	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/21 06:22 AM
1	Why does this sub massively exaggerate male sexlessness and the plight of the average male? 30% of adult men between the age of 18-30 have had no sex. That is the definition of a adult male virgin. And the people who haven't had sex till after 30 weren't magically suave when they were a kid. If someone has the inability to get a partner with an adult mind, they likely didn't get one when they were younger and dumber. But I'm researching right now so we'll see. And still. You act like 20% of men between the age of 18-45 haven't had sex is not note worthy. Like that's some minor like (oh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/21 06:12 AM
1	Why does this sub massively exaggerate male sexlessness and the plight of the average male? The average age of lose of virginity is 17-18. And then the next statistic is 30% of men between 18-30 haven't had sex. So while there is some grey area to it. It's not a big stretch to assume most of them are virgins. I'll do more research after I get food.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/21 05:36 AM
1	Why does this sub massively exaggerate male sexlessness and the plight of the average male? I'm connecting 2 studies. One study says men who haven't had sex in a year, have often not had sex ever. Under the age of 30. I'll look up the actual study later. At McDonald's right now. Also, we are talking about male adults. Not children. If you haven't had sex between the age 18-30 statistically you are prob virgin as a man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/21 05:32 AM
7	Why does this sub massively exaggerate male sexlessness and the plight of the average male? 30% of men are a virgin by 30. 1.2% of women would say the same. But since we are on the topic of completely invalidating issue of a gender. How about we talk about how women aren't in positions of power. I'm sure it has nothing to do the increased difficulties women face in getting the position rather then men. No it's just cause all women "aren't comfortable in leadership or science careers" The world is much easier to understand when you replace all that ugly grey with crisp, clean and mental…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/21 05:46 PM
0	“Stop withholding sex if you want a relationship” is not advice that is geared toward helping you find a relationship. What a brilliant example of projection. Well done.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/21 05:39 PM
2	“Stop withholding sex if you want a relationship” is not advice that is geared toward helping you find a relationship. Correct. Prostitutes have been around for as long as society has. And if you wanna treat you having sex as a currency, you are a prostitute with extra steps. And yes, I can say it's the same. Men use their bodies to get the money. And provide. They have to work for that money they spend to appease you. It doesn't magically shoot out of their ass. It comes at the cost of their mental and physical health. Your last statement made literally no sense. We aren't talking about solutions. We started th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/21 05:33 PM
2	“Stop withholding sex if you want a relationship” is not advice that is geared toward helping you find a relationship. You misunderstand how the dating world works for men. If a man does not pay for dates, and provides, he will not find a partner(outside of outlier cases that are far from common). Many men will spend hundreds to thousands of $ in an attempt to peacock their worth to women. Should men start expecting that women owe them sex because they paid for the dates? Saying women are "using them" for free food. Because in their mind you accepting the money they spent was signing a contract to mate? Calling …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/21 05:18 PM
1	“Stop withholding sex if you want a relationship” is not advice that is geared toward helping you find a relationship. Yes, in the real world rape happens. So does murder. And child molestation. And torture. And fraud. And exploitation, and war, and famine, and mass genocide. But that isn't the topic. We are talking about women seeing sex as a contract, that once a man signs he either provides for her permanently or is seen as a scumbag who uses women. In a situation where sex is mutually consenting. It's prostitution with extra steps. A man is not obligated to provide for you just because you fucked him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/21 05:08 PM
4	“Stop withholding sex if you want a relationship” is not advice that is geared toward helping you find a relationship. You are talking about rape. This is not about rape.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/21 05:03 PM
1	Mixed signals leading to frustration I ain't even worried about wither I'm her top pic. I have 2 other women trying to get me in a date. I'm just frustrated at why she wanna play this stupid game. Like why would I go after someone who is only interested in being interested in? I'll find out next week I suppose lol.	/r/seduction	02/05/21 01:10 PM
1	Mixed signals leading to frustration I'm not insulting your worth as a person. The manipulation is in the phrasing , you told me to refer to her as a cumbersome wall. That's guilt tripping. And it's inappropriate in any situation. Much like your last paragraph was a attempt to tear my self esteem down. You are both telling me to defend myself while being the exact type of person I would need to defend myself against. It would be against your own wishes for me not to rebuke you. We haven't been on a date yet. The date is next week. …	/r/seduction	30/04/21 12:56 PM
2	Mixed signals leading to frustration She is definitely aware of her appearance. She has a instagram where she posts images of her modeling. Her entire account is also flooded with recruiters trying to send her stuff to model. Also one thing she said was "I've never had a boyfriend cause I've never felt like anyone was enough for me. I don't wanna settle" for reference she is 25. She also brought up the fact that there are lots of other men before in an awkward as fuck flirt. "I hate how there are so many guys here who won't take a …	/r/seduction	30/04/21 12:46 PM
1	Mixed signals leading to frustration I'm not going to use toxic manipulation to guilt trip a person into changing who they are. Her not being interested in me isn't a flaw. Regardless of how frustrated I am. These emotions are mine, and thusly are my responsibility. Not hers. Thusly me going on the internet lol.	/r/seduction	30/04/21 12:31 PM
1	Mixed signals leading to frustration I am basically planning to ghost her. I just ranted out of frustrations. Like why even put in the effort of asking someone out if you are arnt actually interested ? Lol , my monkey brain is telling me she's trying to get a free meal outta me.	/r/seduction	30/04/21 10:23 AM
2	Mixed signals leading to frustration I can understand that. But for context let me you in on something. Previous to this year I had never in my life had a women ask me on a date. Mind you most of my life I have been near 300lbs and rather.....ugly. For whatever reason at some point 3 years ago I decided eating is for losers and stopped eating enough for a while. (I lost 100 lbs in 3 months , my doctor and family were freaking out lol) and now I'm at 180lbs, have full beard. And am generally considered Attractive now. So now we get …	/r/seduction	30/04/21 09:02 AM
3	Mixed signals leading to frustration That's is true. But the girls a solid 10. No lie. She would be easily the most attractive women I have ever been on a date with. By a mile. Come to think of it that's probably why she doesn't talk. She probably hasn't needed to. I can guarantee she has dozens of men waiting in line to talk to her.	/r/seduction	30/04/21 08:52 AM