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15	Question for RP: What exactly are promiscuous women doing wrong	Question for RedPill	throwawayscubaguy	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/16 09:52 AM

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11	Q4Men - Cheating story? Would you agree with this wife? Swap the genders. OP: What do you think of a man doing this to his disabled wife? I'm hoping you answering this OP. I really do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/16 05:49 AM
1	Omegas should push themselves to greatness, not settle for mediocrity How bad looking are you? Are you really overweight or something? Why do you say there is no-one to flirt with? Are there no women nearby? BTW not many women start flirting with men (unless you're super good looking or something). From my experience, as the guy I have to start the flirting - and I'm decent at it. But unlike what you say, it has a lot to do with my skills (being good at something earns respect, which counts for a lot) and my confidence (willing to walk up and start talking).	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/16 10:57 PM
1	Omegas should push themselves to greatness, not settle for mediocrity I don't know man, you mentioned that you haven't ever flirted with a lady before....flirting isn't up there in difficulty in my opinion. To be blunt, if you are having difficulty with this, you are not capable and confident in my eyes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/16 11:28 PM
2	Is being asked out by a stranger as bad as cat-calling? Then he stumbles upon a place called redpill. He looks at a couple of there threads. He starts to post there. He begins to feel that there are people who understand him. Who don't judge him for every small mistake he makes. They listen to him. But is he listening to the right people? No, of course he isn't. The redpill community can be pretty vocal against women...but there is also a heavy focus on specifically increasing one's own value. I think this is healthy, and for a man who hasn't got man…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/16 11:25 PM
1	Omegas should push themselves to greatness, not settle for mediocrity What is your definition of an alpha? For me, an alpha is someone capable, confident and resilient. From these qualities he is able to attract women. How about for you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/16 11:09 PM
5	Is being asked out by a stranger as bad as cat-calling? What is this? Empathy on reddit? Getouttahere	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/16 07:52 AM
1	Omegas should push themselves to greatness, not settle for mediocrity Your typical alpha type gets everything handed to him in life. And no, military boot camp is not hardship. A part time job in college is not hardship. Neither is working out. In any case, even if alphas did experience significant hardship (which they usually don't), shit is still handed to them for nothing when they try to solve those problems. I don't think these guys are alphas - I imagine an alpha guy as someone who is capable of achieving difficult goals and handling setback well. The person…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/16 06:51 AM
1	Omegas should push themselves to greatness, not settle for mediocrity Do you agree with OP's post?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/16 06:32 AM
1	Will being more nice, kind and generous improve a man's success with women? Nice job dawg, sounds like you got a healthy attitude. Keep that shit up I don't really shit on beta bucks. Good luck with your finances. I'd just say do it for yourself though, not because you want to provide 'stability' for someone else.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/16 06:24 AM
1	"I'm a Feminist, but I Like When He Comes on My Face" Well I guess I learnt something today. My message to OP stands intact however	/r/TheRedPill	11/12/16 06:13 AM
2	Omegas should push themselves to greatness, not settle for mediocrity You have good friends - keep them around! I disagree with alphas not knowing how to overcome difficulties. The true alphas I know are the ones who have gone through tough times and come out intact. They did it by themselves more or less, and know how tough it is to go through struggle when you're massively demoralised and hopeless. These are the ones qualified to help what you call 'omegas'... From my perspective, the good mentors should also know that it takes a significant period of time to se…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/16 02:43 AM
-3	"I'm a Feminist, but I Like When He Comes on My Face" Lol at the commentary by OP Irregardless of whether I agree with ya, you got a nice style. Keep on expressing your sarcasm comrade	/r/TheRedPill	09/12/16 02:31 AM
1	Omegas should push themselves to greatness, not settle for mediocrity Yep. Totally agree. But a certain percentage of them will. And I've mentored people younger than me before - you can tell when they do care and want to improve.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/16 01:31 AM
1	Does TRP resent how men are expected to be providers? Does feminism not remedy this? Alright perspective noted. Thanks	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/16 01:28 AM
2	Omegas should push themselves to greatness, not settle for mediocrity Agreed	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/16 01:08 AM
2	Does TRP resent how men are expected to be providers? Does feminism not remedy this? Yep. That's no good. BTW you're a lady right? So out of two assertive, confidence guys, you'd respect genuinely the one who offered to buy you coffee more than the one who didn't make the gesture? Would you subconsciously think the guy who didn't buy coffee is more badass?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/16 01:02 AM
5	Does TRP resent how men are expected to be providers? Does feminism not remedy this? If I asked someone out I'd pay for the whole thing for them. OK this is a decent point, I'd agree with this actually. I don't know, it just seems natural for me to try to gauge the person I'm dating as quickly as possible.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/16 12:51 AM
11	Does TRP resent how men are expected to be providers? Does feminism not remedy this? Its also another way to get some insight into your date - the way the lady reacts will show a bit about who she is. If she is surprised, neutral outcome I guess. If she is totally unfussed about it, positive outcome! For me its not about the money	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/16 12:39 AM
2	CMV: it doesn't really matter whether the wall really exists or not Yes in some cases it will make you a beta bucks. It depends if you are looking for a short term or long term thing. Short term, I personally think it doesn't really matter if you're beta bucks if you're getting the fun times. As long as you don't let them disrespect you and don't spend too much, it's not a bad deal if you're getting fun times with a young woman. Long term, if you're looking to LTR a younger woman, it should be based on compatibility. Specifically I mean that you should be lookin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/16 12:20 AM
2	Omegas should push themselves to greatness, not settle for mediocrity In your example, what if the rich man used to be poor as all heck, then ground his way up, failing multiple times which hurt a lot, until he slowly figured it out, and even though he has now made it, still remembers how crap it was to be poor? Does this guy qualify to mentor a poor person? In my opinion, it absolutely friggin does. Its about the journey - can the mentor explain the journey from point A to point B. If yes, you are qualified to mentor. I agree sometimes omegas do have personalitie…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/16 12:10 AM
2	Omegas should push themselves to greatness, not settle for mediocrity One step at a time for them I think. The best thing that can happen to them is for an alpha to set up and be a mentor to them. Tell them in a smart, neutral way what the problems are without breaking their spirit. Tell them its possible to change. Why would an alpha do this? Maybe the alpha used to suffer like the omega, and emphasizes. Maybe the alpha is just good at being a positive influence to the people around him. Either way, I think this one step would really help.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/16 11:57 PM
0	Omegas should push themselves to greatness, not settle for mediocrity Agreed on this post. I will always respect someone who is trying with all their might to better themselves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/16 11:53 PM
2	Men objectify women for their bodies but women objectify men for their status Na Nirvana is just good music and good timing, Kurt is cool looking but I doubt it was his looks that did the trick. Regarding the looks of the main singer....I guess its important. Though what if the guy was super charismatic but not good lookin?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/16 11:50 PM
3	CMV: it doesn't really matter whether the wall really exists or not There's always gonna be competition. However, if you're older than the guys you're competing with, you'll be offering different things compared to them. Some women will like the difference, some won't. But if you are quality, then there will be some takers. Especially in terms of stability, career, life outlook, maturity etc, you should better be ahead. Then its just a matter of knowing what you want, and going all in, shock and awe style.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/16 11:46 PM
1	Men objectify women for their bodies but women objectify men for their status Lolz. It would be interesting to see if it would work to be honest. If they really do become popular, I think they could become real handy with the ladies' if they are at least a 2.5/10. Hell, they might end up finding the best girls of all - the ones who like them for their similar talent and passion, and not the shallow ones after their looks or status.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/16 11:28 PM
8	Q4BP: How common is this type of behavior among women? This. The dude shoulda stopped seeing her as soon as she accused him of being 'unmanly' for sharing something important about himself. Friends don't even do that, let alone your romantic partner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/16 11:19 PM
1	Men objectify women for their bodies but women objectify men for their status We should try this, just to see what would happen. Unfortunately you would require competence and emotional intelligence to be a musician so I'm not sure if we are asking too much of our still learning teenage comrades	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/16 11:10 PM
1	Question for RP: What exactly are promiscuous women doing wrong You have your right, don't let anyone tell you you don't. Women have the right too, and I don't think anyone judges them for turning down players.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/16 09:30 PM
3	Will being more nice, kind and generous improve a man's success with women? Hey, I was pretty uncomfortable in social situations until I screwed it up so much I simultaneously learnt how to talk to people and stopped caring. That seemed to do the trick. How you doing now? You got that self confidence and self belief all sorted?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/16 09:28 PM
2	Will being more nice, kind and generous improve a man's success with women? Are you talking to me?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/16 08:13 AM
5	Will being more nice, kind and generous improve a man's success with women? This is gonna sound obvious but I think it depends if the man has values that women want. Is he attractive, self-confident, funny, capable, driven towards something etc? If yes, I think being kind/nice in a non-over the top way will increase how attractive he is to women (sexually/romantically). If no, if he does not have value, then women don't really care if hes kind or not. If you want women to be more sexually adventurous with you, obtain shit loads of value, find a chick you like, get in re…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/16 08:12 AM
2	Will being more nice, kind and generous improve a man's success with women? Laugh out loud	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/16 07:57 AM
1	Question for RP: What exactly are promiscuous women doing wrong OK you seem to make some good points in paragraph 2 however I have some rebuttals (from my perspective) 1) After breaking up, it seems like you think the woman is under pressure to continue offering the same kinky sex to her next partner. She is not. All she has to do is find someone who is sexually compatible with her. If the new partner asks to do crazy stuff which she is not keen on, she should say no, and maybe keep looking if its really obvious its a big issue. I think there are many guys o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/16 01:16 AM
1	Question for RP: What exactly are promiscuous women doing wrong You're right we are going around in circles but I'm still not sure why. I'm pretty certain of my position - if someones not sexually compatible with you, don't marry them. The issue from what I understand is that you think crazy sex = compatible (and crazier sex = even more compatible). Well thats not the case for me....sure I would say yes please to crazy sex....but the person who is offering crazy sex probably isn't good marriage material. I firmly believe you should find someone who is a good…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/16 12:17 AM
1	Question for RP: What exactly are promiscuous women doing wrong I would assume that my wife would be at least open to discussing trying new things in good faith. This is because she is my wife aka life partner aka mrs till death do us part. I wouldn't marry someone who is sexually incompatible with me (if different libidos or whatever it wouldn't be good for either of us). Your example is a bit extreme though. I don't think I could ever purposely make my wife feel like I wasn't devoted - I'd be focused on solving the sex problem but I would notice if she was…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/16 11:29 PM
1	What is your view of men who like to control women? Its ok, I'm kind of forward with my questions so not first time. OK I understand. I get the idea of a decisive man leading a family etc...but what OP posted just seems like unhealthy micromanagement to be honest. Anyways, thanks for answering	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/16 02:22 AM
1	What is your view of men who like to control women? No. Been reading for a while, only started posting recently. Its an interesting sub	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/16 02:14 AM
2	What is your view of men who like to control women? Nothing at all - I guess I just assumed you would. I guess I'm trying to figure out your motivations Disclaimer - feel free to try to rip me to shreds. Key word is try	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/16 02:08 AM
1	What is your view of men who like to control women? Hi So you let your husband control you in all this stuff here? control over women's sexuality, control over where they go and what they do, control of the family finances with the woman having no say control over what she wears wanting respect from her but not giving her respect having your decisions final and her having to abide by them controlling sex and only doing what pleases him during sex manipulating relationships and trying to train the woman to do what he wants physically hurting the w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/16 02:01 AM
2	Question for RP: What exactly are promiscuous women doing wrong Hmm..good points. I've been a fan of backing my own judgement but the points you've raised are definitely possible. And maybe a masculine led relationship isn't for me :). Maybe I'm unable to wield such an object. I will find out more before I make the call tho. It was nice talking to you	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/16 01:55 AM
1	Question for RP: What exactly are promiscuous women doing wrong Oh don't worry, I have seen the internet alright I guess I can only speak for me. If I had a great wife, and we had a pretty good sex life, I'd be fine with that. I'm an introvert and don't need to go out and seek excitement - excitement wears me out. If I wanted to try something in the bedroom, my wife would be my go to, one stop freak shop I believe. Her consideration of my needs and ability to figure out how to meet them would be why I married her..... Note I'm not married so take what I'm sa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/16 01:09 AM
2	Question for RP: What exactly are promiscuous women doing wrong Agreed, the last two lines sounds like how I want to be. Its just sometimes I felt I was an asshole if I was too direct with questioning what others were saying. Especially if it was important to them. So I've corrected that now to gentle questioning. I think In terms of the woman leaving behind her world to enter the mans world and direction..........I dunno man. The girls that I liked were all very quietly competent and focused. It was what I respected about them, and what made me like them, b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/16 01:03 AM
1	Question for RP: What exactly are promiscuous women doing wrong From an armchair analysts point of view, that just sounds like poor communication. Why doesn't the guy just ask his cool wife to try some of this funky stuff out? You don't jump straight in the deep end but you gradually express 1) you want something different in the bedroom 2) maybe something in this direction 3) I read about this what do you think, over a couple weeks or something. If the relationship is good and trusting, as we are implying I think, the wife should at least hear him out and m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/16 12:48 AM
2	How comfortable are you with unknowns Now, there's a possibility that there's one slut out there who would be great for me. She would be a really good mate. We're compatible in every way, she's super attracted to me, maybe even "pair bonded". We really could make a good relationship together. But i'll still cut her loose. Why? Because the odds are, she is just like every other slut out there -- a bad bet for a relationship. And I'm not betting everything I have on this ONE girl, when there are 3.5 billion other women out there, many…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/16 12:40 AM
1	Question for RP: What exactly are promiscuous women doing wrong No I admit I have not, but googled it just now. How is it relevant what we are discussing? That a man cannot see his loving wife as a sexual partner so he goes out and finds a slut?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/16 12:35 AM
2	Question for RP: What exactly are promiscuous women doing wrong Good for you man! I've met a few cool girls like that, but I didn't get far with them due to differences in what we want in life but I know they're out there. I think I'm getting closer to riding the line between asshole and general confidence which seems to do the trick...but hey...once I'm in love, I could be the most well trained medieval martial practitioner in light coloured metallic platemail you've ever seen	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/16 12:26 AM
1	Question for RP: What exactly are promiscuous women doing wrong How do you know men want 'better' sex with the 'sluts', when they're in a good relationship with good sex already? Honestly, unless its been a long long time in the relationship, I can't see many men abandoning a reliable and decent woman who he can maybe have a family with eventually, for a woman who is obviously short term fun (and after which he will have to go through the entire LTR vetting process again)	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/16 11:51 PM
1	Question for RP: What exactly are promiscuous women doing wrong Well that really sucks for men lol. This is your life partner we are talking about here....if they're not willing to understand/attempt to meet your needs, that pretty sad	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/16 11:01 PM
1	Question for RP: What exactly are promiscuous women doing wrong I don't know man, when you're on a date, you have no choice but to read people on an individual level. I think they're trying to be better at it by dispelling the incumbent notion that women are super cool, which helps them see things as they are. Basically they're on guard I would have thought	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/16 10:58 PM
2	Question for RP: What exactly are promiscuous women doing wrong Has it been easy to find women who hold herself to the same standards that you hold yourself to	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/16 10:54 PM
1	Question for RP: What exactly are promiscuous women doing wrong Well that true, it could be based on things that are no longer accurate. But can we be bothered to manually override this feeling? If not, if we don't have the energy to do this, then I'd argue that its still applicable (even if illogically)	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/16 10:53 PM
1	Question for RP: What exactly are promiscuous women doing wrong Man its good a man then	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/16 10:50 PM
1	Question for RP: What exactly are promiscuous women doing wrong Hi, your reply seems to be based on non 5/5 women screwing themselves out of LTRs with decent men due to their promiscuous nature. Thats fine But as men, would you agree this really doesn't affect us much does it? I guess my point is that we should just do our own thing and make something of ourselves, as the RP pretty much states, but while we are doing this, there is no need to hate (or care really) about these ladies being promiscuous and rekking their future?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/16 10:50 PM
1	Question for RP: What exactly are promiscuous women doing wrong Fair point comrade	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/16 10:45 PM
1	Question for RP: What exactly are promiscuous women doing wrong Is male promiscuity a sexual strategy mistake?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/16 10:43 PM
1	Question for RP: What exactly are promiscuous women doing wrong You're right, it is complicated. I don't think I have the time or energy to go into the depth that you have, however, I am willing to go as deep as I need to get a sufficient understanding of how to navigate this world as a man. Interesting bit here though: In a society where sex does not lead to babies, does the concept of slut even exist? Does any morality even get attached to sex? Anthropology seems to suggest no. but men's unconscious reactions seems to suggest yes	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/16 10:41 PM
1	Question for RP: What exactly are promiscuous women doing wrong Thanks for your honest opinion. Out of curiosity, what are you going to do about this situation?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/16 10:38 PM
1	Question for RP: What exactly are promiscuous women doing wrong No, I don't think rejecting promiscuous women is wrong. I think if you're going to do it though, do it gently (no need to rek someone's self esteem like that by telling them they're too promiscuous at point blank range).	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/16 10:37 PM
2	Question for RP: What exactly are promiscuous women doing wrong Hey, yes I'm still leaning red because I'm a guy and I'd like to not get screwed over later in life. So I'm taking precautions while still hopefully remaining respectful enough of people (i.e. not intending to hurt them for the sake of hurting them). Anyways, I agree with this part here You don't have to subscribe to this theory and you can call it sexist if you want. Though I think it's simply differentiation and not discrimination. We do ultimately teach men not to hate women for being shitty …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/16 10:32 PM
1	Question for RP: What exactly are promiscuous women doing wrong Do you think most guys would abandon an LTR just because there is no pornstar sex? I thought if they're getting enough sex to be on par with their libido they would be pretty happy	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/16 10:27 PM
1	Question for RP: What exactly are promiscuous women doing wrong I think its fine if a man thinks like this. As long as we are not throwing this in the face of promiscuous women with the sole intention to hurt them	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/16 10:21 PM
1	Question for RP: What exactly are promiscuous women doing wrong Well I'm not sure why the redpill has a problem with women damaging themselves - just avoid these women, and don't give them serious consideration as wife material...no need to hate them The problem is when they hide their uhh damage....and try to trick you. But hopefully the redpillers are aware enough to read this. If any subset of men can do this I would have thought its the group of men who are naturally suspicious of women Regarding jealousy - not sure what there is to do except work on imp…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/16 10:19 PM
1	Question for RP: What exactly are promiscuous women doing wrong Well like you said, its up to you whether you take her offer of getting serious. If you judge that she is not really up to the task/serious enough about being together forever, then don't do it, or have some fun while it lasts I do find it funny how women slut shame more than men tho. Lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/16 10:13 PM
1	Question for RP: What exactly are promiscuous women doing wrong Only appropriate response to this is 'lol' I do agree a woman who does this is not treating the "chump" as her life partner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/16 10:08 PM
1	Question for RP: What exactly are promiscuous women doing wrong Unfortunately I can't change reality, but I understand why they're frustrated. Maybe they just need to up their game (as much as a life-changing set of discipline and self-improvement can be distilled into one word)	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/16 10:06 PM
1	Question for RP: What exactly are promiscuous women doing wrong This seems fair enough - do what you want, as long as you know others will judge on your actions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/16 10:02 PM