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| 46 | How do I stop putting every girl that shows interest in me, on a pedestal? | throwawayseduction | /r/seduction | 11/03/13 05:13 AM | |
| 10 | How do I stop equating my social value in college with my real value? | throwawayseduction | /r/seduction | 04/08/13 11:25 PM | |
| 9 | How to be a fun date and escalate at a formal dance? | throwawayseduction | /r/seduction | 15/02/13 07:15 AM | |
| 8 | Hosting my birthday party in a small apartment, never hosted before, anybody have any advice? | throwawayseduction | /r/seduction | 16/08/12 11:10 PM | |
| 8 | Getting numbers from Tinder | throwawayseduction | /r/seduction | 04/07/14 07:51 PM | |
| 1 | Where can I find David Wygant's talk posted on the sidebar? | throwawayseduction | /r/seduction | 15/09/12 05:57 AM | |
| 1 | I am bad at texting. How do I improve for online dating? | throwawayseduction | /r/seduction | 17/12/14 07:48 PM |
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| 1 | I am bad at texting. How do I improve for online dating?It's not that I think it's NOT the way to go. I definitely think it is. It's just that I am reluctant on meeting up with someone unless they seem cool over text (hence I screen) then I go for the meet up. My question is how do you develop enough attraction or comfort through text for both parties to meet up? Since both parties haven't met before. I know texting isn't meant for developing attraction but in this case, its' the only medium to do it, at least initially. In my case, if a girl I text … | /r/seduction | 17/12/14 10:53 PM |
| 1 | Getting numbers from TinderAs I've said to Spid1, I feel like thats more of an excuse to get her number. I intend to get her number so we can meet up. Doing it through some excuse, for me at least, is too indirect or that the girl will see right through your excuse. | /r/seduction | 04/07/14 08:33 PM |
| 4 | Getting numbers from TinderI feel like thats too much of masking your intentions. | /r/seduction | 04/07/14 08:29 PM |
| 4 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 10/28/13Took this girl sightseeing around our college city for our first date. And as we're on our date, she mentions that we should go exploring more, implying that she probably wants to see me more, be around me. I slept over her place after the date and she denied sex but we got up to oral. I don't know if it's me but I have an instinct that she might want a traditional relationship. At most, I would like for us to be FWB. How do I make sure I don't "lead" her on but still be down to casually date he… | /r/seduction | 28/10/13 07:10 PM |
| 2 | Bravo here and I am a mPUA- Ask Me Anything :DHey Bravo! I hope you don't mind asking me some newbie questions about club game, I'm frankly quite new to it since I started the new semester for college. On the dance floor, people have their circles, especially girls. Say I spot a girl in a circle. How do I go on about approaching said circle, then girl? Is it awkward to just dance with her while the circle is there? What if it's a tight, seemingly closed circle? Once I land the make-out on the dance floor, I'm not really sure what to do from… | /r/seduction | 22/10/13 09:16 PM |
| 2 | How to reconnect with old friends? phone, text, or IM?Honestly, this doesn't really matter. Friends aren't going to judge you for contacting them through facebook or texting or anything, they're your friends. | /r/seduction | 29/07/13 10:10 AM |
| 8 | Self-development and attraction - a different approachHonestly, this was a game changer for me. The root cause of my depression and social anxiety in high school was people's perceptions of me. I assumed having a girlfriend or being popular would lead me to happiness. However, I learned that all these things are overrated and I didn't love myself at all. Life has been infinitely better when I really focused on self-development. I have become genuinely interested in people and love to make a girl feel desired and sexy rather than have them intereste… | /r/seduction | 26/07/13 12:25 AM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 7/12/13 (please upvote - zero karma)This may be a question more suited for r/relationships but I dated a girl for a pretty long time, about 3 months. During that time, I lost myself. I became more needy/clingy, tried to convince myself that I liked her (when I actually just wanted a girlfriend) and was really indecisive about asking her to be my girlfriend. Eventually, we both hit a plateau and it went all downhill from there. She rejected me and I became even more clingy, drunkenly texting her "I miss you." That was the last text… | /r/seduction | 12/07/13 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Im embarassed to ask but im a 24 year old male and I have no clue on how to officially ask someone to be my girlfriendOn point. But I feel that you two would have to "talk" at some point. Even if things are going great for the both of you, you can never just assume that you two are exclusive until either of you verbalize it. And what if both of you never do? What if shes waiting for you to lead the relationship into exclusiveness? | /r/seduction | 13/05/13 08:09 AM |
| 7 | How do I stop putting every girl that shows interest in me, on a pedestal?I still don't see how you can make progress with a girl by feigning disinterest without coming off as not being interested in the girl. Does that mean you shouldn't ask her on a date? Does that mean I shouldn't escalate? Does that mean I should just treat her like a friend? Could you tell me a story on how this helped you and what you did? Sorry if I'm asking for too much but I greatly appreciate this. | /r/seduction | 11/03/13 09:10 AM |
| 2 | How do I stop putting every girl that shows interest in me, on a pedestal?I still don't understand how you're supposed to make progress with the girl then. So do you want just the right amount of "aloofness"? Is asking her on a date showing too much interest? Does escalating show too much interest? What exactly is showing too much interest? | /r/seduction | 11/03/13 08:56 AM |
| 9 | How do I stop putting every girl that shows interest in me, on a pedestal?A lot of guys fall for "beta-bait" when a woman shows interest in them. They assume it's ok to open up and show the feelings are mutual, when in fact, you should be ramping up the game with even more aloofness. This seems really counter-intuitive for me. I feel that being more aloof just means that you're not actually interested in the woman. How can you be more aloof yet still show mutual interest? I just can't wrap my head around this. Could you elaborate? Thanks a lot! | /r/seduction | 11/03/13 07:13 AM |
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