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I'm not saying being a lesbian woman prevents you to discuss about this particular topic But why doesn't it? I think this is the crux of your entire discussion bro. Why is it ok for women to talk about it and not the other way around? Why do we have a word like "mansplain" and why is it a common complaint that male lawmakers shouldn't be regulating the female body. The thing is, there might be a nugget of truth that if you don't belong to that demographic, you shouldn't speak on topics regarding…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 04:02 AM
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It was only two times dude. Third times a charm
/r/seduction29/03/19 10:53 PM
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this literally isn't a thing lol or if it is, it's very rare, men can't afford to be choosy on dating sites
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 07:43 AM
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Anecdotally, I know 3. One is a bona fide "career woman," the other only dates casual and the third one always torpedos her relationships somehow. I'm not saying that it is rampant but I can say that I've observed it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 03:38 AM
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The goal is to broaden and enrich your taste and judgment to the point where you are able to find someone attractive that you wouldn't have normally found attractive before. If you're not exhibiting this kind of growth then yes your dating pool will be limited.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 03:29 AM
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Keep thinking that...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 03:25 AM
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Bingo. I'm surprised people aren't getting this from the jump and keep insisting that this women is saying no women are trying to partner up in her 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 03:24 AM
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I read this in a totally different way. She's not speaking to women who tried and failed at partnering up. She's speaking to women who, in their 20s, think they are above settling down and want to put it off until they're older. Of course she's wrong if she thinks women simply aren't trying to partner up. That's a bit too silly to think of as truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 03:22 AM
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Are you currently masturbating? Why don't you let it go for a week and see how hungry you get for some action.
/r/seduction02/12/18 03:50 PM
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tinder is low risk and usually low reward, sometimes you get a gem but you need to calibrate your expectations when using it
/r/seduction12/09/16 03:08 AM
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What you may not be realizing is that a much larger percentage of women are satisfied with the men they meet. You just don't hear them being vocal about it. I beg to differ. You're saying you don't see the sappy "How did I get so lucky?" "I'm in love with my best friend" "MCM" posts from women who are happy in their relationship? Oh they let it be known. I actually have to hide happy couples when it gets too excessive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/16 03:12 PM
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My next sentence adds the caveat: but somehow their stances change when the guy is over 6ft and has a beard They're not looking for a hookup with Beta Bob, and they'll abandon whatever stipulations they put on their profile for the right guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/16 03:07 PM
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Yeah but isn't the flipside that the man doesn't have as much pull as far as getting the women he wants because women are in the passive dating role? And yes, you could say "But there are plenty of women who go after men" it is not the norm and it is not the majority. I see plenty of "I won't message first, so send me a message" from women on these dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/16 03:05 PM
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This is probably the most concise answer here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/16 03:03 PM
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(seriously, saying 'Chad' in any post immediately makes it seem lower quality) Why? Chad is an archetypal guy. It's useful shorthand.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/16 04:29 PM
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Anecdotes about your female friends are largely useless because it could well be your area of the country or your poor taste in friends as any other reason. I make a lot of online friends, so it's not really my area that I'm talking about here. My friends are sufficiently different. I am not simplifying the discussion, I'm simplifying my stance and not expounding on the other side, so that I'm not making a 5 page essay for a post. I want the expounding to be done in the comments! Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/16 04:27 PM
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Now the narrative is shifting toward "He was abusive"
/r/TheRedPill27/05/16 11:29 PM
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i think you've misrepresented the CC. it's not just a "Few awful lays" it's a long-span of lays until she feels the wall coming and wants to settle down.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/16 02:08 PM
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Again, I made it clear I'm not here to be her friend. Hop skip and a jump later, she's at my place and I'm fucking her. Wait a tick. What else ensued leaving up to that?
/r/TheRedPill19/06/15 04:00 AM
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I'm with you, feels very questionable to me.
/r/MensRights16/04/15 04:46 AM
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I think it is more common that the female doesn't know because beta orbiters often don't ever say anything explicit about their feelings, and many girls see the positive attention as "he's just a sweet guy" Come on. That's bullshit. Females know when a male likes them. They're more cunning than you think. To deny them this agency is actually more harmful than admitting that they are deliberately stringing men along.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/15 05:55 AM
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The media does socialize shit. On that, we agree. But I am not trying to analyze the meat of some TMZ article here, I am looking at Chris Brown's candid facts and opinions of this girl. So there is no media sensationalism at all; during the time it was posted the media hadn't even caught wind of it yet. I only caught wind of it it as I was checking twitter before my night out. Yeah, TRP should be rooted in more concrete, but, it's still interesting to how TRP played out here.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/14 02:25 PM
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First of all, thank you for your criticism. You are right, very few are likely to reach that level of SMV. The point I'm trying to make though, is that it doesn't matter if you have major league SMV: the tenets of TRP still apply at that level. So, she's not your typical woman; right, but she's in bed with two of the most successful artists of this time. And yet.. she still behaves exactly how you'd expect her to. Chris Brown started losing value and she jumped ship. No loyalty whatsoever. The "…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/14 07:27 AM
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Obviously nothing will ever work flawlessly on everyone, but insofar that it works a significant amount, what do you have to say about those situations in which it works? I mean, that's what blows my mind about vehement backlash against TRP. are you so ready to discredit so many confirmed experiences of people that TRP works... i mean, who should you be getting mad at, TRP or the women? If women didn't like this shit, men wouldn't have to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/14 02:03 AM
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First of all, let me start by saying women aren't a hivemind. Just because you feel like it was rape and that you wouldn't want that kind of sex, doesn't mean she thought it was rape or doesn't enjoy it. You seem to think that all relationships should play out the way you think they should play out, well, false. The thread is actually still up; I'm not sure why you thought it was deleted, but it's still up and going off what the OP said, she ENJOYED it. The next day she is so horny and wants the…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/14 10:40 PM
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Good tips! Thanks.
/r/seduction27/04/14 10:02 PM
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See if your school has a "class of" page you could join.
/r/seduction25/04/14 08:36 PM
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most of the time you're being cynical as fuck while giving advice but I gotta say I fully co-sign what you're saying here.
/r/seduction25/04/14 08:34 PM
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i'm gonna parrot what everyone else said: get out of the relationship. that being said, have you tried online dating?
/r/seduction25/04/14 08:22 PM
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post photos online of you and him bonding. this one guy i know has been making a killing, but he has a daughter, so women find that cuter than a dad and his son. sorry to say.
/r/seduction25/04/14 08:05 PM
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Meeting women at concerts is the easiest thing ever. Don't think too hard on it, just comment on anything that is going on.
/r/seduction06/04/14 01:15 AM
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She doesn't think she's attractive. She told me that when she dances, she consciously puts up the most arrogant face she can to avoid dudes dancing her up and chatting her up. I guarantee if she's conscious enough to make an effort to avoid male attention, she thinks she's attractive. She might not think she's a 10, but that's for certain a cocky HB8 tactic right there. Put it this way, do you think a 5 or 6 would be putting up "arrogant faces" at the club? Bottom line man a lot of girls that ar…
/r/seduction24/03/14 03:21 PM
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your post was relevant, don't worry. i'd even through it in the sidebar if it was up to me. too many people are quick to down a post because they have it figured out; it doesn't mean the rest of us do. lol
/r/seduction19/03/14 06:07 PM
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Own what you are. You're a typical weak nice guy, that won't change overnight and may never change. Chances are you're gonna have to change some things about yourself to get more confidence with women, whether it be working out, changing your wardrobe up, expanding your social circle, flat out doing more approaches, etc. But don't think that you have to be the stereotypical GUY. You will have to express some male interests (sports is a good example) and get a little cocky sometimes, but you don'…
/r/seduction18/03/14 08:11 AM
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i participate in "mutual flake" where if she's not down to hang out, I don't call her out on it, I'm likely to not even mention it. I'm basically taking part in the flake myself. bottom line: it's no big deal. meetups can be had down the road. plans with other girls can be made in the meantime
/r/seduction10/03/14 03:06 PM
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what i've learned though, is if you're in the friendzone, that's not the kind of girl you want. sure, she's hot and she came around to her friend, but as she said she was "tired of the assholes" which indicates she had shitty taste in men to begin with. then, as she's describing what is characteristic of putting a guy into the friendzone ("omg you're like the big brother i never had" and "i wish every guy i dated was like you" she's actually laughing about it. the guy got out of the friendzone, …
/r/seduction06/03/14 04:10 AM
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Self centered people (primarily women) are so desperate to be victims and have cultural buzzwords (such as bullying) to apply to them. This. This all day.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 01:31 PM
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Yeah, that's a good point man. I moved from my hometown to an area that is more liberal and accepting of people, so I haven't had a bad time here. Confidence and the way you carry yourself is key.
/r/seduction02/03/14 02:21 PM
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Black guy here. Let me start by saying it's always gonna be hard to quantify and pinpoint if it's your race that's off-putting to women or if they just plain don't find you attractive--but I'd like to say that I've been denied, on average, by more white girls and more likely to attract girls of other races. I think location makes a little impact too. I live in the South. These women often come from a strong conservative and RACIST background, so it affects how they view men. And it sucks because…
/r/seduction01/03/14 01:15 PM
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Also, I'm in a city for work and I've been Tindering and Okcupiding the local scene. Haven't gotten any hits but at the same time, these are just supplemental things you could try. I never put too much stock in these online services.
/r/seduction23/02/14 03:34 AM
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I can attest to this. While I was in New York, where apparently the females outnumber the guys and therefore are more receptive, the principle is the same: open with you being out of town, and more importantly, UNDERSTAND THAT YOU'RE OUT OF TOWN. You're most likely not going to meet your wife in your town. You're there to have fun. You should be in state by virtue of the circumstances. ;)
/r/seduction23/02/14 03:31 AM
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you deserve gold.
/r/seduction17/02/14 01:29 AM
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I've powered through the "I've got a boyfriend" response by saying "Oh I was just asking as friends".
/r/seduction12/02/14 05:29 PM
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protip: never make it clear too early
/r/seduction12/02/14 05:28 PM
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Wow. I needed to hear this too, even though I know I do this all the time... that excitement weighs on me until I need to spill it to anyone who will listen.
/r/seduction04/02/14 01:22 PM
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I'm glad to see the input of women here. I'm a lurker of fPUA myself.
/r/seduction02/02/14 03:18 AM
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http://www.reddit.com/r/askseddit/comments/1wromg/update_23m_unable_to_escalate_with_28f/
/r/seduction02/02/14 01:04 AM
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My text game is based on light banter and setting up meets. So there's usually two states here: Either we've agreed to meet or we've not. If we've not agreed to meet and I'm texting her and not getting much feedback, if she doesn't agree to the meet I start texting other girls to meet (abundance mentality) until I get one strapped in. I only text a girl back when I'm ready to give it another go. Sometimes that's a few days, sometimes that's a week, sometimes that's months... hell, sometimes I'll…
/r/seduction01/02/14 07:35 PM
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I've never even heard of this show, but now I know what I'm doing all next week. haha
/r/seduction01/02/14 06:12 PM
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He was a weak beta male pussy. How is that being overlooked? Go back and look at how he tucked his damn shirt into his pants. Dude prolly wakes up and cries to Bright Eyes every morning.
/r/seduction01/02/14 01:03 PM
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Did you see the guy calling him out? With his fuckin shirt tucked in well coiffed hair? He wasn't gonna knock anyone's teeth out. That guy wasn't alpha, he was a beta white knight virgin. You're right, the blockheaded gymrat alpha probably won't listen like the weak-bodied hipster white knight will, but that's two different things.
/r/seduction01/02/14 12:58 PM
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also, some girls are just cocky and pretentious about getting male attention. You don't want a girl like that.
/r/seduction30/01/14 02:07 PM
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www.reddit.com/askseddit come on now
/r/seduction29/01/14 04:30 PM
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Too long, didn't watch?
/r/seduction23/01/14 11:21 AM
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I've just been incorporating this into my game. Whether you get rejected for being aggressive or whether you fail to act and nothing happens, the end result is still the same: no action. I'd rather go down TRYING to get something. Plus, it sharpens your skills.
/r/seduction19/01/14 10:09 PM
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going for a kiss while knowing the girl is not interested is a good way to be labeled as a creeper. But who gives a damn? It's like sure enough, you might be unfairly labeled as a creeper but fuck what she thinks.
/r/seduction15/01/14 02:42 AM
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There is no one-size-fits-all treatment for texting. It shouldn't never be used to build attraction. It shouldn't be solely relied on for building attraction. You will know, instinctively, if you can build rapport over texting. It either works for you or it doesn't. The key is to figure out early on if a girl is receptive to texting or not and use it to your advantage. 23 years old, grew up in the era where boys and girls passed notes in class/AIM chatted/myspace messaged/texted/facebook chat in…
/r/seduction13/01/14 04:56 PM
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First of all I would like to point out that just because she's 20, doesn't mean she's wildly more mature or anything. That being said, I got with a 23 year old girl when I was 20. And I thought it was a world of difference too. But my confidence got me through. So confidence is the name of the game here, and don't let the age get to you. At 20 she's still VERY young and still trying to figure the world out, etc.
/r/seduction11/01/14 12:32 AM
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Almost an impossible task. She will have local men vying for her attention. In my experience a long distance girl never stays single forever. So unless you can get in there and get with her in person... might wanna hang it up lmao
/r/seduction06/01/14 01:40 AM
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how much distance are we talking here?
/r/seduction05/01/14 11:14 PM
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Use that rejection to FUEL yourself. You don't like getting rejected. You shouldn't like it. Nobody likes it. It's a new year. Switch up your offensive playbook. Start thinking of new ways to game. Are you being too safe? Try telling a girl what you want to do rather than asking her. Switch "do you?" to "let's" You said you've had girlfriends. So you know you can get women. It's only a matter of time before you get some bait back on the hook again.
/r/seduction04/01/14 01:08 AM
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Just go direct. It's 2014. Tell her, don't ask her, to hang out/go out on a date, whatever. If she says no, think of it like this: if you DON'T ask her out, that's also a no. Go out swinging vs. waiting and taking no action.
/r/seduction04/01/14 01:03 AM
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Yes, multiple girls is good, but even if you DON'T have multiple girls in rotation, that's no excuse for owning a positive attitude toward texting. Try this: (I know it's often repeated advice but it needs to spread more) Text her, then put your phone down and do something else. Set it and forget it like fucking Ron Popeil. Do other things. I text girls when I'm at work, or playing video games or watching a movie, etc. situations where I am not going to drop everything and reply immediately. Whe…
/r/seduction01/01/14 09:55 PM
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I'm glad that you didn't get chewed out for posting this. Like others said I'd cut out some of the emoticons and whatnot.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/13 05:07 PM
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He's the lead singer of your band. I think women are more attracted to his status than they are his personality. Leaders attract women because they are perceived as high value.
/r/seduction23/12/13 03:18 PM
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don't sweat not getting the number the first time! I've ran into girls for several meets before i got the number. it's not absolutely critical to first night #-close.
/r/seduction19/12/13 07:55 PM
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your "problem" will go on as long as you allow yourself to tolerate it. source: pined over a girl for a year, realized enough was ENOUGH.
/r/seduction19/12/13 10:14 AM
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I did not. I should have asked and then if she resisted left it at that, but tbh I was trying to be all "outcome independent" not caring if she came home with me or not.
/r/seduction14/12/13 08:01 PM
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Well, I didn't mean go join a dance class or something. I just meant, be able to move with a bit of rhythm to whatever music is playing. I used to go to dubstep clubs (I was 18, that's my excuse and I'm sticking to it) and there was no real way to dance to dubstep and people just ended up grinding or whatever. Last night was a mix of indie and trashy pop and stuff. Just be able to look like you're having fun with it is the most important part.
/r/seduction14/12/13 07:59 PM
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Stop trying to fuck every girl you are talking to. As I talk about meeting up with two platonic female friends of mine, one which I did not know was going to bring friends along. Yup. Should have read the post lol.
/r/seduction14/12/13 07:41 PM
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good point
/r/seduction14/12/13 07:39 PM
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She rode in a car with another friend that was gonna take her home. She didn't drive her actual car
/r/seduction14/12/13 06:23 PM
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Grinded with the HB7 that was hanging around the HB9, but only briefly and I think she knew we were kind of doing it behind the other HB7's back because she backed off when she saw her. Weird lol.
/r/seduction14/12/13 06:22 PM
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Hide her off your feed.
/r/seduction14/12/13 01:59 AM
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It pains me to see how many people says that online game is bad. I mean obviously you have to meet in person to f-close or whatever; that's a given. But come on man. I cold-added both of my girlfriends from Facebook, escalated through text, then met up after we were both comfortable. It can happen. My first gf was mostly text, not even calling. My second gf I called/skyped more, but still, online. (Our first meetup was literally an f-close in my car). Had a lay through last.fm and we weren't eve…
/r/seduction11/12/13 02:26 AM
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23/male. Black, living in the south, predominately attracted to nice white women but I don't think many of them are into black men. A quick stroll through OKCupid confirms my theory on the daily.
/r/seduction08/12/13 01:25 AM
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