throwawaysunflower77 Archive

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1	I hear a lot of people spreading the idea that a lot of men are MISSING opportunities with women by not approaching. The reality is they aren't > 2. Warm approach or just hope I get lucky This part mainly sounds kind of black pilled. It gives off the vibe that you sort of drift around and don't feel like this part of your life can be controlled, and that getting lucky is one of the only ways out of your situation. You are at the mercy of the universe. I mean, it does loosely fit the definition of being black pilled. > 4. Because I know women. And I've approached enough to know. That's the issue. Alot of guys are simply promoting that th…	/r/seduction	08/05/26 08:43 PM
1	I hear a lot of people spreading the idea that a lot of men are MISSING opportunities with women by not approaching. The reality is they aren't Bro you seriously think the average guy has good in person game, let alone cold approach game? I don't even agree with OP's primary thesis but I recognize this part of his argument, that for most men, they will have very poor approach skills if any at all. The main part that I disagree with OP is that I do not think it is a futile effort as the activity in itself is a really good way to develop in person game and confidence, while also being a very direct and simple (not easy though) way of sett…	/r/seduction	08/05/26 08:35 PM
1	I hear a lot of people spreading the idea that a lot of men are MISSING opportunities with women by not approaching. The reality is they aren't I actually agree a bit here with you. A lot times, more attractive girls can be easier to approach because they're approached less often. The boldness alone grants you some points. As for taking cold approach rejections so personally, I think that's a flaw in your view. I don't really think there's a good reason to take it personally. Unless you'd try and argue that a quick 2-10 minute interaction is an accurate representation of you as a person.	/r/seduction	08/05/26 08:27 PM
1	I hear a lot of people spreading the idea that a lot of men are MISSING opportunities with women by not approaching. The reality is they aren't I don't even completely disagree with you, but this is like saying that sales people are also wasting their time making calls because so many potential clients don't want to talk with them. Like yeah, maybe that's the case. But how many girlfriends do you need at a time? The answer is only 1. Which on another note, when people complain that only like 15% of women will date a shorter man, all I can think about is the fact that most people only have 1 wife. You only need 1 lol.	/r/seduction	08/05/26 08:04 PM
3	Getting fatigued at this shit Yes, I foolishly followed the exact rule you're referring too blindly for too long. Just ask yourself, if you have the contact info now, why not start nurturing sooner? Businesses do the same thing with their funnels, they don't ask you to buy straight away, they nurture their leads first. I think this works so well nowadays because the girl is often going to be far more cautious & unsure than you are. So this builds rapport and comfort for her, it's less about you. The date is still vital howev…	/r/seduction	08/05/26 02:29 AM
5	Getting fatigued at this shit lol quit being stubborn and start learning text game. That's what elevated my game with very strong results about 2 years ago. Found my current partner from it shortly after a (personal) historic run of 5 new partners in 2 months, it is currently the longest and healthiest relationship I've ever had by a long shot. Plus it's way easier than it looks. I'm not sure how exactly to help OP with it because I don't know him, but a tried and true method for most people is to be genuinely curious and bo…	/r/seduction	07/05/26 08:15 PM
2	I've learned here's the best method to ask a girl out and maximize the odds she'll say YES and (most importantly) she won't end up FLAKING. Y'all are thinking about this too hard. You could do almost anything if you guys vibe together. I honestly think a quieter casual activity could even be better because it's so low distraction, leaving just you and the girl to connect. I've had a number of same day lays from just walks in the park.	/r/seduction	24/04/26 05:52 AM
20	I've learned here's the best method to ask a girl out and maximize the odds she'll say YES and (most importantly) she won't end up FLAKING. lol, it doesn't have to be literally coffee. Just any low pressure casual activity, could be muffins or a snack at a café. I'm partial to the idea of a café first, then park walk. Especially since I do not drink.	/r/seduction	24/04/26 05:42 AM
1	Guys who are late bloomer, how did you do it ? I never really tried to "win" anyone over, if they didn't like me I'd just move on. That's my tech lol. In terms of useful daygame strategies, it was mainly just to generally improve my speaking and people skills. So talk to all strangers, not just girls you like. But do make sure you also talk to girls you like. Once I moved over to dating apps, I completely stopped typical daygame. But the skills I learned from it were definitely useful. I don't know anything else about you, so my assistance i…	/r/seduction	22/03/26 04:04 AM
1	You Fixed Your Body and Bank Account - But Still No Girls Turns out attracting girls is a skill, so you usually have to practice that to get better. The opposite happened to me. I focused on working out, hobbies and career. But then one day, I realized how much more valuable (for this anyways) just learning to attract and holding interest was, that I kind of lost motivation for the other things lol. Now I'm working on improving my inner drive to get those other things back.	/r/seduction	21/03/26 01:39 AM
1	Guys who are late bloomer, how did you do it ? Bruh, this is such a broad question. And I can't give pointers unless I see what you're currently doing. So I'm just going to list out the mistakes I see the most often. Stop making the chats about sex and innuendos right away. I don't care if you both have casual and hookups listed on your profiles. How often do you think she gets messages like this, you gotta stand out and more importantly, show you're a cool & normal person. I don't know how retarded the average redditor here his, but for the…	/r/seduction	07/02/26 12:48 AM
2	Guys who are late bloomer, how did you do it ? I started day gaming in college for about 10 years with little success, only had 2 casual partners. Then I made it big after learning dating apps and better texting game about a year ago. From there, I had 6 more sexual encounters in just 3-4 months before settling down with partner #8 for the last 14 months in hopefully my last long term relationship. The key breaking point I think was rounding out my game. I had the day game and approaching technique down, as well as the general socializing sk…	/r/seduction	05/02/26 10:39 AM
12	Did finally getting a partner live up to your expectations? 200% yes, it blew all my expectations out of the water. Deep and connecting healthy relationships have so much more depth compared to casual relationships than I could have ever imagined. It's helped me to grow so much as a person, I'm far more compassionate and full. I've been challenged to grow into a more capable adult. The love and affection continues to deepen and grow every day. I am still so surprised that it just keeps on going! The difference I believe is leaving your heart and mind ope…	/r/seduction	12/01/26 05:01 AM
-2	I easily get 8s and above in nightclubs/partys but tinder/bumble is a desert lol, skill issue. I never understand why people will spend all this time learning in-person theory and game, but won't spend a lick of effort learning the online dating game. I honestly felt like it was way easier to learn, especially since it's so mainstream, there's so many case studies of both what to do as well as what not to do online. Most notably optimizing bios, photos and your text game (I think most important and overlooked part). And of course, your in person game is necessary for clo…	/r/seduction	03/11/25 09:36 PM
5	On first dates that seem to go well, about how often are women inviting you back to their place? All I'm hearing is new cat rizz potential, turn that shit into a wingman and optimize!	/r/seduction	19/08/25 05:59 PM
2	On first dates that seem to go well, about how often are women inviting you back to their place? Once I called up a girl to arrange a date and she was immediately impressed haha. Nothing came of the date, but I remember her saying something like "Most guys just text me, it's been a while since a guy called me for a date". This was back in 2023/24 I think. That said, a lot of girls are intimidated by calls, so you gotta adjust and pick the right tool for the job ;)	/r/seduction	19/08/25 05:58 PM
3	On first dates that seem to go well, about how often are women inviting you back to their place? Plus if the date doesn't end up at your place, you'll still have a really nicely cleaned space. Like the saying goes, nobody cleans faster than a man hoping to get laid.	/r/seduction	19/08/25 05:55 PM
2	On first dates that seem to go well, about how often are women inviting you back to their place? Bruh, who are you hooking up with for this to happen to you? Maybe you gotta vet harder, I've never had this happen to me or anything even remotely close to this.	/r/seduction	19/08/25 05:53 PM
7	Thanks to this sub i get to enjoy my fwb walking around my room naked .. Thanks seduction! Yeah it just means that you must be authentic. Don't pretend to be someone you're not. A person with manners isn't being inauthentic, the same applies to techniques. You can apply techniques without losing your sense of self.	/r/seduction	07/08/25 05:38 AM
1	What’s up with dating apps? a lot of time gaming the apps. I don’t personally enjoy that activity. Well shit dude, isn't that the whole essence/point of this subreddit? To learn and enjoy the process of game & seduction no matter the environment? What are you here for then if not that? that’s about all I find them good for. And that's probably all it'll ever be good for with that attitude. But if it's working for you, then keep at it. I just think with a little more effort, you would - and a lot of people honestly - have a…	/r/seduction	16/10/24 08:44 PM
1	What’s up with dating apps? Can you tell me more about the shift in 2022? I just started this summer of '24 and have had great success there.	/r/seduction	16/10/24 07:26 PM
7	What’s up with dating apps? Just git gud But seriously, just like how you need game for real life, you need to learn game for online dating. A lot of skills translate between them, but you still need to learn how to play. My personal story is that I started out getting zero quality matches the first month or 2 of "trying". Then I completely submersed myself in the study and really tried hard to change my tactics, and after just 30/40 days, I started seeing significant results. Now I can pretty regularly get 1-3 new dates a…	/r/seduction	16/10/24 06:55 PM
1	How do men who aren't on this sub get girls? we still have the right to complain about the unfairness of life. No one is saying you can't complain, they're just telling you it's unproductive and we don't want to promote that sort of behavior.	/r/seduction	01/09/23 01:48 AM