throwawaytheresties Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
6	Do you believe in a soulmate or that a happy lifelong marriage is possible these days? Marriage has undergone drastic changes in the last 50 years. What used to be a life-long commitment, unbreakable barring the most severe circumstances, has been relegislated into something entirely new thanks to the lobbying efforts of radical feminists and the divorce industry. In trying to make divorce “fail-safe” for homemaker or lower-earner spouses, the bad ones included, society has made marriage “unsafe” for virtually everyone else. Marriage was a worthy goal for a man about 50 years ago.…	/r/Divorce_Men	30/06/22 09:47 PM
2	How to Help my Friend Filing first gives you a mental edge, not in any legal. It’s the same principal as propaganda during war; so long as the opposing side sees it too. It inflates the narrative of one side’s story only and in certain circumstances, directs the narrative. What it does is deflate the willingness to fight back based on overinflated “facts” Get your ducks in a row, know the actual facts, and nuke em’ when they’re looking the other way.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/03/22 12:22 AM
2	Headed back to court over custody Brother, if you’re anything like me then just being around my kids and having them in my life makes me a better human being. Anything worth fighting for is always scary. Us, and all dads before us and all the dads after us are behind you one hundred percent. The times are a changin’ and it starts here. You got this.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/03/22 10:08 PM
1	How do y’all feel about ever getting married again? Absolutely not. I have 2 young daughters half the time and there’s nobody that I’ve met that even comes close to what I would consider worthy of taking my time and energy away from them, let alone jeopardizing their future inheritance from me. I will continue to have fun and play the field with complete honesty and transparency with no possible risk to my children or myself. Never again	/r/Divorce_Men	24/03/22 07:44 AM
3	Making 50/50 Custody Work It’s true, but because it’s childcare expenses a percentage of the cost can be billed back to my kids’ mother. I don’t have any family close and I wasn’t willing to give up 50/50. Where there’s a will, there’s a way	/r/Divorce_Men	02/03/22 03:18 AM
3	Making 50/50 Custody Work I hired an awesome nanny, she picks up my kids and brings them to our house and hangs out until I get home.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/03/22 02:21 AM
8	Making 50/50 Custody Work I hired an awesome nanny, she picks up my kids and brings them to our house and hangs out until I get home.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/03/22 02:21 AM
3	Music to cope with Slipknot - dead memories, vermillion pt2, wait and bleed, snuff, unsainted So good	/r/Divorce_Men	29/01/22 12:14 AM
1	Divorce advice needed - Financial aftershocks Keep it, the courts will have a hard time justifying taking the home the kids grew up in away and raising your spousal or child support payment. It is your protected retirement fund	/r/Divorce_Men	24/12/21 01:58 AM
3	This is why marriage rate is dropping…. A man has no chance when the laws punish him for his wife having an affair…. https://www.forbes.com/sites/teakvetenadze/2021/12/21/uk-court-orders-dubai-ruler-to-pay-ex-wife-over-730-million-in-divorce-settlement/amp/ Marriage has undergone drastic changes in the last 50 years. What used to be a life-long commitment, unbreakable barring the most severe circumstances, has been relegislated into something entirely new thanks to the lobbying efforts of radical feminists and the divorce industry. In trying to make divorce “fail-safe” for homemaker or lower-earner spouses, the bad ones included, society has made marriage “unsafe” for virtually everyone else. Marriage was a worthy goal for a man about 50 years ago.…	/r/Divorce_Men	24/12/21 01:54 AM
21	What are the advantages and disadvantages of single parenting post divorce for dads ? Single dad of 2 young daughters. They get the best of you now. You’re not juggling to keep their mom happy as well so all your energy is theirs. Its calmer in my house. I cook, I clean, I have friends over, we do outside stuff, we watch movies, we have play dates. (Bonus: lots of single moms). We do whatever we want, whenever we want. I’m a better dad to my kids than I ever was when I was married. I’m happier and so are the kids. You face adversity in the family courts without any recognition of…	/r/Divorce_Men	29/11/21 05:03 PM
6	In Laws I don’t know how to agree more, take this upvote	/r/Divorce_Men	01/11/21 05:56 AM
6	Meal Tips This guy cooks 👆. 👏	/r/Divorce_Men	28/10/21 11:22 PM
14	Is marriage worth it? This is incredibly accurate, well written, and on point. A+	/r/Divorce_Men	18/09/21 02:34 PM
2	Split pension or take more cash out from home equity Keep your retirement, also note the 2 are not equal dollar for dollar. Most pensions have not had income tax deducted yet. $100 in today money is most likely worth more in tomorrow money. Besides, who wants their ex to come knocking when you’re busy fishing or playing golf?	/r/Divorce_Men	17/08/21 08:21 PM
6	Remember: YOU'RE the prize. Read the original post again, the dude is proud to be learning how to do things he couldn’t do. That’s what matters here, feeling good at overcoming fear. Go back to the sub you crawled out of	/r/Divorce_Men	27/07/21 06:54 PM
5	Remember: YOU'RE the prize. Because you are not the one doing it	/r/Divorce_Men	27/07/21 06:50 PM
3	Searching for real Advice on how to support my Brother going through a Divorce. Get him to send any and all emails or texts written to his ex to you instead. It’ll give him and a chance to vent safely, give you a window into his feelings and advice and editing on how to respond safely and tactfully. Edit: if you’re married, my sisters husband was my best support during my divorce. Just a thought.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/07/21 03:36 AM
5	Law I was thinking of doing the same thing, amazing how many of us there are. Cheers	/r/Divorce_Men	12/07/21 03:40 AM