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No. I don't always want to be the only one remembering days and making him feel special while he goes about his life with least responsibility.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 06:54 PM
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Yeah I know but had things been perfect from the start I wouldn't have thought about it too much and gone ahead and wished him first. I had plans, things I wanted to do to surprise him. There are lot of things that can be done digitally too and I had been thinking of doing them for a long time. But I didn't. I remembered it yesterday night when we were talking too till past midnight but didn't initiate the conversation. It's not like I never wish someone first, I do but here, I wanted to just se…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 06:39 PM
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Thanks and same to you! I called up my grandmother and wished her but not him. :p
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 04:24 PM
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hahaha .. yes sure. One of the reasons why I posted it so that I have the courage to actually do it. Have been thinking about it for some time. Putting it out there helps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 04:01 PM
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Yeah... this is the second time I have this thought. The first time was on my birthday when I had completely decided if he forgets it its going to be a 'bye' from me. But quite surprisingly not only did he remember .. but sent me a bunch of gifts and was on call exactly at 12. This time he couldn't have sent anything coz I moved to a new city recently and am staying at a hotel for the time being. I would think sending something this time is too much too ask. But I at least expected him to wish m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 03:26 PM
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Its almost 9 pm for me and 4 pm for him. We are going to do a 'virtual party' tonight at 12 midnight my time, he said for which he cancelled on his friends but its not like he made this plan for Valentine's Day coz that would be over for me by then. This dude doesn't even remember. It was generally planned as a weekend thing. And yes, there are quite a few red flags from before but this guy keeps saying he is "trying" and "learning" and that he has never done anything like a serious relationship…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 03:16 PM
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Yes! I have been thinking of starting an Insta account for spreading this vibe. Would love it if you queens joined.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 03:06 PM
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Omg ..same!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 02:57 PM
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Exactly, a guy's interest in me and behaviour towards me is the only yardstick I will use from now to measure my level of involvement with him. Just because he is a HVM type or just because he appears too good to let go is not going to make me go for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 02:49 PM
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Hahahahahaha ...this is epic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 01:33 PM
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Two things that keep me motivated : Try to become like the guy you want to get attracted to. It is going to be a lot more easier to find them and have them interested in you. Learn their ways, be as confident as them. Emulate that lifestyle. Your vibe attracts your tribe. High value only gets attracted to another high value. A HVM will never pay heed to a pickme. A HVM will test you to see if you are high value too. If you exhibit pick me traits, you are out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 03:03 PM
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This is brilliant. I wish we can share this with more and more women. When these apps came out, I did try them, but not anymore. My experience has confirmed the fact that 99.9% of men on these apps are not looking to find a relationship even though they are marketed as "dating apps". This is what got me confused in the beginnig when I tried them. I thought wow so many men are looking to date! LOL. Thankfully I know better now. I want to educate women around me who are on these apps and setting t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 02:39 PM
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This! You spoke my mind. And yet these deprived creatures have the audacity to assume that just because we are on Tinder means that we are equally deprived. How I laugh at this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 02:13 PM
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Wow ...I didn't know it was fairly new!! Not even an year old. That's amazing growth. Thank you for creating it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 02:05 PM
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Your situation is slightly more complicated because you have shared finances (your house). It can be difficult to just get up and go one day without settling these. I'm not sure how you can do this depending on how much you invested but my honest advice would be that moving out is in your best interest. This guy has probably become too comfortable with you and is taking you for granted, obviously knows that you are going nowhere so why invest in a marriage. Because you guys started so young you …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 12:23 PM
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Sure .. Check your inbox.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 11:40 AM
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Women in their 30s know a lot better and make a lot more sense than their younger selves. These idiots know they can't exploit or fool that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 11:38 AM
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Yep .... the worst part is though, my freinds not just male but also female ones psychologically try to push me into losing my virginity as if it was something I was "supposed to" do years ago and that I lagged behind. I'm like bitch please! If you guys became so great by doing it, where's your certificate? Did it land you a job? What exactly am I lagging behind in? lol. I can go on and on about this. At this stage in my life, I just love shutting them up. Hahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 11:31 AM
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LOL..... screenshotted this and saved on my computer. Hahahahaha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 11:24 AM
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Yes seriously! ...Cannot stress this enough and when people get to know I'm a virgin they automatically assume that I hate sex or that I think sex is a bad thing. LOL. I seriously start laughing in my head because I know what I think and it is far from that. They will never understand that I'm only waiting for when it is worth it, with the person it is going to be worth it for. Till then, I don't mind having fun with myself or some foreplay with guys but nothing more than that. There's absolutel…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 11:17 AM
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Yep. I've seen so many men falter at this. Even very simple things like "I'll text you once I reach home" and never does withouht any valid constraints is a deal breaker for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 11:48 AM
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Completely agree. Specially point number 1. I'd also add .. Respects women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 11:44 AM
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Usually relationships start well and then become stagnant or stale as time progresses. But what if its the other way round. What if it started on a bad note but is progressively becoming better and the guy is genuinely trying to make it better over time. I'm facing this issue because I'm unsure what should be done in this case. But the ghosts of the past keep haunting me and I often find myself questioning him on those while not paying much attention to things he has improved. I've felt like bre…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 11:14 AM
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Hahahaa ... thanks for reminding.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 12:46 PM
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I enjoy cooking too and once upon a time I used to cook for a guy thinking I was "impressing" him. Turns out he walked all over my emotions and completely used me and dumped me. Learnt the lesson the hard way. So now, I had to live with a guy Im dating for 15 days before moving out of the country. I never cooked for him even though I loved cooking. He did all of the cooking all the time because it was his house and I was the guest. He was the one who asked me to stay there even though I wanted t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 06:16 PM
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I had someone ask me for a faceless pic just for keepsake coz we were going to become long distance for the next few months. We had been dating for around 6 months at that time. I said under no circumstance is that going to happen. He tried to convince me there's no way anyone could ever know it was me even if it leaked (which he promised wouldn't happen) but thankfully with my sane mind I called him cheap and said NO WAYS. In fact I never even shared with him a pic of us kissing. I only have it…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 11:30 AM
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Wow ...I couldn't imagine what the replies could be and then I saw them and I have no words. Lol. Some women have really brought the bar too low for everyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 11:21 AM
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Oh god ...Can't upvote this enough!! Wish I had this in mind everytime a guy threw this logic on me. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 05:45 PM
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I've lived alone for 12 years all on my own and have done my fair share of online dating. I've made some mistakes but thankfully nothing happened and I was lucky. I can say some basic things to keep in mind while dating someone in a new city or meeting someone for the first time in a new city : Always tell someone before going to meet them. It could be a friend you trust, a family member (even if they are not in the same city). Tell them as much info about this person you are about to meet as yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 07:20 PM
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Exactly my sentiments right now. Im so glad I stumbled upon this sub while scrolling through r/relationships where someone was talking about it in negative light. I just got curious to check what it was about and I couldn't be happier. Want to thank you all strong women here who have finally helped me open my eyes. Wish I knew about this before and I've been on reddit for almost 8 years now. I now realise all the mistakes I've made and the reson why I was used. I was struggling now with a guy wh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 12:07 PM
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Seems like she is using the FDS strategy to make him chase her. Maybe she is not having sex with him too which is making him chase her still. (my guess) Anyways this guy looks like one of those who is just looking to get laid with different women for fun. More the merrier for him. So if he is chasing someone its probably for the same reason. The sooner you think like this the better for you to understand that guys like these will never be truly attracted to anyone, just only till they get what t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/19 07:29 PM
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I'm sure American men are like that and everytime I come to reddit I feel so nice reading comments from both men and women (majority American I assume) who write their love stories the kind I dream of. It makes me feel things like these do happen and I really want to believe. But unfortunately I'm Indian and have only been around Indian guys and Im soon to be 31 but I have never met any guy who was willing to wait. Guys approach me with only one intention and that is to get laid asap with no str…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/19 09:15 AM
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This is great advice and I wish I knew this when I was in my 20s. :| I wasted a lot of time on guys who were just using me in the hope that one day they will change and things will be in my favour. But I have a doubt about this strategy ... in my experience guys in their 30s will not wait at all to have sex with anyone, let alone marry them only to have sex because it is easily available to them from low value women. I'm having trouble here getting a man to even call me his 'girlfriend'. No one …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 12:00 PM
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