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"ended when she hit me with triple ultimatum marriage big house and cuckhold kids". Haha, I can imagine how easy it was for you ending that.
/r/askTRP10/08/20 02:30 PM
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(hell judges even chuck out prenups out of pity the woman felt "forced" to sign it). Any source on cases where that have happend?
/r/askTRP10/08/20 02:11 PM
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"And i always find an excuse to cancel the date or postpone it and never actually go for it." Why not actually meeting up with the girls youre talking to? Seems to me you need more experience. Take some girls out do something active, so you don't need to have a conversation all the time and reduce the risk for getting stuck in your head. I have failed many dates, but its way better than the way I used to do it when I was younger. That is avoiding girls and basically being scared to speak. Now I'…
/r/askTRP06/08/20 11:19 AM
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Good luck man, wish you the best! Take smalls step in the begining when you lay down work to improve. Don't be too hard on yourself if you feel the progress is slow. It takes time to unfu#k your self after years of bad decisions.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 11:45 AM
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I did, didn't work out.
/r/askTRP06/07/20 07:33 AM
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Thanks for the answers guys, appreciate it. I thought just before I kissed her that this is maybe a bad idea. I got the test backwards, thought maybe she would be jealous or it was to check if I was scared. Lesson learned. Good to have this place instead of asking her what went wrong and not get the real answer.
/r/askTRP06/07/20 06:44 AM
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You nailed it. Appreciate the answer
/r/askTRP05/07/20 10:23 PM
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Wasn't the first time I met her
/r/askTRP05/07/20 09:05 PM
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Believe me, it seemed more like it was some ego-thing for her. Pretty girl with less attractive me. No, at the end was not mood for threesome. The question is really, was it a mistake to kiss her friend with lower smv friend in front of her? I of course tried to dare her several times back to kiss her friend, to test the waters for threesome. But she wasn't interested in kissing her. And neither was really I. I Wasn't really attracted to her friend at all.
/r/askTRP05/07/20 07:54 PM
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"2 messaged me back". Why not call them instead of texting? To stand out and set yourself apart. You have allready spoken to them in person. Maybe you will have more success. Reminds me that I have to start cold approaching again.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 11:53 PM
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How about camping in the forest and travel to school every day?
/r/askTRP17/04/20 06:10 PM
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You must be the dude who sent OP the text. He said he haven't been in contact with the girls in the group for months. And gives no context, and you make all these assumptions? Yep, you would have sent the same message as this tool. Good to know. Because I guess the girls must have been talking about him, when he wasn't around. And this dude didn't like it
/r/askTRP14/04/20 03:00 PM
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Who said anything about impressing this guy's girl except you? Maybe OP has done improvements in the last month. If he hasn't really been in touch with the group, why was this message warranted? This message is clearly sent by a tool. Try to modify OP's over text like that. Really weird
/r/askTRP14/04/20 02:41 PM
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otherwise they will find a way to fuck up your reputation and stuff(happened to me,can tell you if you want). Would be interesting to hear more about it.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 09:49 AM
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"uneasy including my girl". Haha, I think maybe that's the clue here. Have you done any improvments the last months? Maybe mate-guarding. And I guess it's him who is the most uneasy about you. Dude sounds like a total tool, to send a message like that.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 09:48 AM
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Exactly man. It was so fucked up, because I knew what it was telling me. But I understood that it was possible that this relationship was done, without me being physical present. I thought maybe I was just too paranoid because of the red pill knowledge but nope. Something was really off.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 06:12 PM
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Yeah, I forgot. How do you deal with the question: "Can't I have male friends?". I knew about the whole orbiter-thing when she sent that "pretty" selfie. And I knew that she were only fucking me at the time. Deny her male friends seemed like the wrong boundry at the time, coming from weakness. That was early in the relationship, so I said yeah you can have them. I guess I made the mistake of not setting the boundry about no alone time with male "friends". Because I really believed she was a "goo…
/r/askTRP13/04/20 06:05 PM
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I had my last ex over at my place. Stepped out of the room for 2-3 minutes, and when I came back she was on my bed, posing and sending some "pretty" selfie. I understood immediately that couldn't been meant for one of her girlfriends. At first I was thinking about ignoring it. It would have been the best in hindsight, but my blood was boiling. She cried alot when I confronted her. Before that I thought I had found a unicorn. Yeah right. So many green flags but I guess she was craving other males…
/r/askTRP13/04/20 05:53 PM
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I don't think this problem will be solved by gaining any weight. He's around the same size as me. But I guess I didn't check him immediately. And I know shit like this can go on for ages
/r/askTRP28/03/20 01:46 AM
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I'm talking about two whole different groups here. One I used to hang out with a couple of years ago. That one day, suddenly saw me started to give a shit about my education. Like actually trying to get my life together. And they didn't like it. Sure, I used to be a loser and the punching-bag of that group. I'm trying to change that, not other people. This new group is basically people I barely know, and try to befriend. I'm maybe coming off as a bit weird, due to lack of social skills and years…
/r/askTRP28/03/20 01:30 AM
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"And they really didn't like when I tried to change that." No, I wrote that wrong. Let me clarify. I didn't try to change them. I tried, and did make changes for my self. Like studying harder, and hitting the gym more often. And that didn't my former "friends" like. The old crabs-in-a-bucket. And they started acting shitty, and I guess I got really offended by their crab-mentality.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 01:10 AM
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Now calm down, let me clarify. I was sick of hanging out with people that weren't really interesting at meeting new people at all, or doing anything besides sitting in front of a computer all day. Like the dudes I still am friends with, but doesn't hang out much more with. So I decided to start meeting new people. The guy I'm referring to doesn't really know me. And I have tried to be as friendly and outgoing. Been in this social circle for two months and try to get to know people. Alot of the o…
/r/askTRP28/03/20 01:02 AM
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Hey man, thanks for the reply. I believe this dude see me as a threat. Like a intra-sexual competitor. The key is, should I actually fight him if he doesn't stop giving me shit. It's so fucking annoying because I try to engage like the whole table with a conversation. And this dude doesn't say that much but tries too diss me when I'm talking. I kinda hate that stuff, when someone really doesn't try to add to the conversation, but just tries to poke at me to get laughs.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 11:20 PM
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The reason you’re struggling with “male shit-test” is because deep down you subconsciously agree that you’re a loser. Exactly. It's the main thing I've struggled with my whole life. I had no idea how to change this before I discovered the Red pill 3-4 years ago. And this is all new and unknown territory. Especially when I've struggled with depression and social anxiety for years. Before I discovered the Red pill I was more of a recluse. It's so frustrating when you actually try to meet new peopl…
/r/askTRP27/03/20 11:07 PM
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"It’s evidenced by the fact that you feel you need to respond with a comeback." You hit the nail on the head here. I've been like this for my whole life. Like a reflex that I have to respond. This dude does show up some times here and there, not everytime I'm in the social circle. I'm in a new situation, so I've currently have very limited options in regards to who I hang out with right now. I guess I made the mistake of trying to befriend this dude. I've also tried to befriend worse dudes than …
/r/askTRP27/03/20 10:58 PM
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Yeah, the key issue at my old job was probably this: "Most guys were either jealous of my youth and health". I stood up for my self and gave a guy a real shouting at my old job. I'm proud of that one but these situations seem to happen to me over and over again.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 10:39 PM
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Thanks for the advice. It's like everything adds to recent stuff because of past bullying. Like you remember earlier stuff, which have nothing to do with the person you barely know who just disrespected you.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 10:35 PM
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I'm glad you have time to answer then. Sure, peanuts for you. But this is my struggle
/r/askTRP27/03/20 10:30 PM
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I get the whole stoic thing. And I've also tried this. Do you mean just to ignore? Isn't that just taking shit? But getting AMOGED in front of girl's youre interested in? If a girl sees that I'm "shat" on several times, I'm sure that lowers her interest.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 10:27 PM
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"I grab her in a corner and say, "I'm going to kiss you now". No need to tell her beforehand. You are much more bold if you just go for it.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 10:46 AM
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Hey man, thanks for your answer. Really appreciate to get some other people's perspective. I think she enjoyed some of the times, don't really know. Think I tried to please her too much I guess. Left her a bite mark on the ass, which I'm hoping some other guy noticed. Because she mentioned some days later. Red flags like: too much active on social media, attention-seeking from dudes, loves clubbing, one tattoo. Yeah, way to many too LTR of course. I'l think I'l go soft next and just ingore her. …
/r/askTRP10/03/20 04:04 PM
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I know, this was her answer when I texted her to come over. Of course I get it was a no.
/r/askTRP10/03/20 03:48 PM
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