| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 95 | How to not seem needy when you kind of are | Fundamentals | throwawayvirginac | /r/seduction | 25/10/20 03:16 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | 25M Loneliness is setting inI already have the short beard which I keep clean and trimmed,I always keep my hair combed,my posture is good. I've got a bit of a gut but I do have muscles (I have an active job,plus I used to lift regularly) Most of my problems are confidence based not looks. | /r/seduction | 25/07/21 02:28 PM |
| 3 | 25M Loneliness is setting inYou're correct. However its kind of a catch 22. How can I develop confidence around women when no woman has ever been interested,but what woman would be interested in an unconfident man. | /r/seduction | 25/07/21 05:59 AM |
| 1 | Sex won’t make you happyWhy is it always the people who are having sex that say it doesn't matter. Sex is only part of what I want,honestly I want a relationship but this is like hearing that money doesn't matter from a rich person. | /r/seduction | 07/07/21 03:21 AM |
| 1 | Getting massive shame and FOMO from being a virgin at 21, keep getting blocked by the universeI do but my hobbies include cigars and guns,so not a lot of girls around. | /r/seduction | 05/07/21 03:52 AM |
| 1 | Getting massive shame and FOMO from being a virgin at 21, keep getting blocked by the universeI do but my hobbies include cigars and guns,so not a lot of girls around. | /r/seduction | 05/07/21 03:52 AM |
| 1 | Getting massive shame and FOMO from being a virgin at 21, keep getting blocked by the universeI do but my hobbies include cigars and guns,so not a lot of girls around. | /r/seduction | 05/07/21 01:43 AM |
| 1 | Getting massive shame and FOMO from being a virgin at 21, keep getting blocked by the universeI'm suffering from constant FOMO. I'm 25 and never even kissed a girl. I hate this feeling,I see happy couples and it makes me feel lonely. At least it seems like girls are interested in you. | /r/seduction | 04/07/21 12:22 AM |
| 3 | Stop worrying about stupid shitI am by no means making excuses I am simply eliminating self pity and feelings of unworthiness. To me its a first step,lack of confidence will get me nowhere. | /r/seduction | 26/01/21 08:50 PM |
| 92 | Stop worrying about stupid shitI'm an adult virgin at 24,and with that comes the question of why I didn't start dating/meeting girls when I was younger like everyone else. This used to really bother me but lately though I've been reminding myself that its my life not their's,basically I'm learning to stop comparing myself to others. It's my life and I do with it what I damn well please. | /r/seduction | 26/01/21 01:44 AM |
| 1 | Catfished?The Tinder verify thing is asking for a credit card. I'm being catfished. | /r/seduction | 05/12/20 10:43 PM |
| 1 | What exactly is a late bloomer?Probably me. A kissless virgin of 24,assuming i will ever bloom. | /r/seduction | 28/11/20 11:47 AM |
| 3 | Just lost my virginity at 20, and learned a whole lot about myselfCongrats man, I'm 24 and still a virgin. I'm just now starting to realize that I've been rejecting myself for years,so I'm trying to be more positive. | /r/seduction | 17/11/20 01:38 AM |
| 2 | How to not seem needy when you kind of areStarting is my problem. I'm not worried about rejection,its a good thing because it stops you wasting your time on someone who's not interested. Rejection is not whats stopping me, I think its trying something completely new that I've never done before, like I said the concept of me dating is completely foreign to me. | /r/seduction | 25/10/20 12:34 PM |
| 2 | How to not seem needy when you kind of areIt is you're correct,but its difficult not to look around at other people and wonder "why not me?" | /r/seduction | 25/10/20 12:19 PM |
| 2 | How to not seem needy when you kind of areI've been on several dating sights/apps over the years and only ever got one match that would give me the time of day (most never said a word back)and she only did for a little while and stopped talking to me shortly after. Dating sights these days seem like they are largely ego boosters for women who just like to see the amount of Men who are interested in them. Not to mention that on most dating apps if you're not six foot and six packed (I'm neither)you're going nowhere. I've deleted all dati… | /r/seduction | 25/10/20 12:17 PM |
| 2 | How to not seem needy when you kind of areI have a few hobbies that I enjoy and I'm trying to take care of myself, but not looking for a woman is what I've been doing this whole time and here I am. There's basically no women in my daily life so I really don't have a choice but to actively search for one. | /r/seduction | 25/10/20 11:58 AM |
| 1 | What is the best place to pick up women? In your opinion?No idea,kissless virgin here,never picked up a woman or been on a date. | /r/seduction | 24/10/20 11:25 PM |
| 2 | What is your n-count and how old are you?Honestly I need to put in more effort. I work around nothing but dudes (I'm an electrician) and most of my activities (smoking cigars,shooting guns,etc) are male centric. I'm not unattractive,I have a bit of a gut but otherwise not bad. I'm trying to be more confident but I need some hobbies where I can meet girls. | /r/seduction | 17/10/20 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Delete The Dating AppsI deleted all of my dating profiles,I'd describe it as cutting out a tumor. I haven't had any success in real life but its better than matching with a girl who won't give you the time of day and is probably just there to boost her own ego. | /r/seduction | 17/10/20 08:35 PM |
| 2 | What is your n-count and how old are you?I'm a loser. 0 at age 24 | /r/seduction | 17/10/20 08:28 PM |
| 1 | Is she interested in me?I have little to no experience but I'm gonna go out on a limb and say that she's probably interested. If she wasn't she probably wouldn't have invited you over despite feeling like shit. | /r/seduction | 14/09/20 12:25 AM |
| 4 | How do you tease a girl without hurting her feelings and looking like an asshole ?Rick rolled | /r/seduction | 13/09/20 01:41 PM |
| 1 | SexFact #1I've been abstaining from that drug for 24 years,involuntarily.😄 | /r/seduction | 13/09/20 01:39 PM |
| 1 | How do some teenagers manage to pull so easily and already have double digit body counts?I think its because everyone is horny when they're teenagers and don't think about potential consequences. That is my opinion as a 24yr kissless virgin with no hands on experience. | /r/seduction | 13/09/20 01:32 PM |
| 1 | Being nervous but doing it anyway?"Bravery is not the lack of fear but the ability to move forward in spite of fear" | /r/seduction | 12/09/20 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Swipe LEFT on hot girls who have their snapchat and instagrams in their biosI agree with this. An over inflated ego is a serious turnoff and so is vanity. Yes Men and Women should care what each other looks like but the stupid shit like "I only date guys above 6'2' bullshit I would swipe left even if I were tall because of the superficial person they are showing themselves to be. However it doesn't matter anymore because I've deleted every dating profile,Online dating these days is largely about guys boosting girls egos and receiving nothing in return. Just my two cents… | /r/seduction | 07/09/20 07:23 PM |
| 14 | Turned 30 as a virgin. Now 1 year later after a few lays and my first relationship (Part 2)Having a loving GF is great! No matter what people will say regarding "finding a girlfriend won't make you happy or won't solve your problems". Well, if your problem IS finding a girlfriend and having sex, then it will solve this for sure. There is a GREAT sense of achievement in going through the process from approaching a stranger, to going on a date, to bringing her at your place, to calling her "baby" a month later. All due to your own hard work Thank you I've been saying this for a while. I… | /r/seduction | 07/09/20 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Last time I has sex was in March . Until last night. All night.r/ihadastroke | /r/seduction | 02/08/20 03:53 AM |
| 5 | What age did you lose your virginity?I'm 24. I'll let you know when it happens. | /r/seduction | 02/08/20 03:47 AM |
| 1 | BEING PRODUCTIVE IS BEING ATTRACTIVE. When I've been busy and had more important things than girls, I did a lot better with girls. When I had too much time and thinking too much about girls, I did worse. This may not apply to everyone, but I discovered for me my best results are when I'm productive.I'm almost constantly trying to be productive,the problem is when I'm the most productive is at my job which consists entirely of men. | /r/seduction | 21/07/20 08:47 AM |
| 1 | People aged 18-25, where are you having sex? You don't even own a house.I'm a hell of a lot more successful with money than women. I'm 24 and have been living in my own condo for a year but I'm a virgin. | /r/seduction | 03/05/20 11:34 AM |
| 27 | I’m gonna fucking explodeI haven't had sex in my 24 year life and theres no real likelihood it will happen soon. You're doing fine. | /r/seduction | 01/03/20 03:08 PM |
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