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Yeah as for the right times thing, I heard and agree with some advice that you should escalate physically when she is laughing at something because its a state that is hard to be disagreeable in. Are there any other pointers you can give as to the right time?
/r/seduction31/10/12 12:33 AM
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haha yeah thanks for the advice, i've gotten into nofap and cut down fapping to maybe once a week. I have a problem of hooking up with ugly girls if I go too long though...happened a few days ago again, had to jerk off to lower my libido afterwards. Also been reading eckhart tole and been greatly working on getting out of my head, and i'm vibing fairly well, its just not as sexual as i want. Thanks for the advice about possibly being too gamey too, i'm going to try and be more real with my texts…
/r/seduction31/10/12 12:12 AM
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Will do
/r/seduction30/10/12 03:15 AM
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I've gone out very consistently for about 5 months, and less consistently for several years. I've gone to nightclubs by myself and befriended almost everyone that I meet, gotten flings, long term dating, lays and one night stands from cold approaching and being the life of the party. But I lose girls through texting. Even when I get a makeout and a reliable number afterwards, i feel like i didnt build enough sexual tension before the makeout, because it wasn't even that interesting or hot for me…
/r/seduction30/10/12 03:06 AM
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As someone who is hovering somewhere between beginner and advanced is there a similar resource you'd recommend for beginner game? I know a lot of advanced concepts, but basics like text game, body language, venue changing and kino escalation are lacking significantly, and would be interested in something that could help fill the gaps.
/r/seduction30/10/12 01:59 AM
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Not going for it is what you're doing wrong. Even if you awkwardly get rejected or say a cheesy line (can I get a goodnight kiss), doing anything is the right thing to do. If you go for the kiss 10 times, you'll get some kisses and some rejections but you'll start to get the feel for when she's ready for it. Think much more long term instead of worrying about short term rejection
/r/seduction15/06/12 10:35 AM
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thanks for the input! Going to spend some time today deciding on some new clothes now :)
/r/seduction30/05/12 02:54 PM
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My biggest problem is developing a sense for fashion while not having much money. I have to be very careful and choose maybe 4 or 5 nice outfits that will look good on me for a while. I've got a slightly muscular body (and getting more beefy every week) and i'm 6'4 with wide hips and i'd love to know a few reasonably affordable 'cool' outfits of clothes I can wear out and look good in. I also have blonde hair if that helps point towards certain styles
/r/seduction30/05/12 02:17 PM
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I'll be moving there in the fall, so count me in
/r/seduction13/05/12 06:53 PM
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No, unfortunately. Maybe at one point, earlier on, but I think she had that 'have to pee' feeling, because everytime I started getting rougher with my finger, she'd be enjoying it and then suddenly clench and tell me to go lighter. Happened enough times with my ex-GF like this that I think that was the case. Or I could have just not been doing a good job, which is entirely possible, but it would be the first time that would be the case, normally i get huge compliments. It sucks because that's us…
/r/seduction06/05/12 07:59 PM
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Tried like 2-3 times to move it down and rest on the opening, and she physically moved it away and said no. I tried. After the first time I thought it might be because I didn't have a condom on, but I got one out and the second time as i started to grab the condom while she was grinding is when she said that stuff about it being her rule or w/e.
/r/seduction06/05/12 07:55 PM
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Sorry to hear it happened to you. It's awful that growing up involves getting crushed huh? Do you feel like you can't be vulnerable around women now, or do you feel like you just have to be vulnerable around them anyway and if they can't reciprocate, that you're better off without them? I feel like a lot of people here might say (and i could be wrong about this) that you need to grow out of being vulnerable, that being needy or vulnerable to any woman is an instant turn off and never to do it. B…
/r/seduction22/03/12 06:37 PM
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no, I totally understand. I love the grind of self improvement. I just invited the aparment full of girls living in our same apartment complex (whom ive never talked to before) to come out with us tomorrow night because I enjoy the fact that I was nervous about doing it. I get addicted to progression, especially in myself. I think once I have gotten to the point where I don't care if I get her back anymore from feeling great about myself, she'll want to be back with me anyway, and if not, it won…
/r/seduction22/03/12 06:33 PM
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I agree with everything you said. However, don't demean how important it was to me- it was a 1.5 year relationship which escalated very quickly- we had a few very serious conversations about how we'd love to marry eachother. It meant a lot to me. But yeah, I agree. Thank you.
/r/seduction22/03/12 04:04 PM
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im also not so sure she's completely over me- she posted this to reddit a month ago when we were on a break so i could get my shit together- The title was "Reddit, what are your song suggestions to brighten up a depressing day? " and the text said "My boyfriend and I are in a really uncertain place right now and we're currently on a break. I miss him like crazy, and all my songs seem to be depressing love songs (typical girl stuff - you know). So redditors, what songs do you rely on to put you i…
/r/seduction22/03/12 02:34 PM
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FTOW?
/r/seduction22/03/12 02:23 PM
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It's weird though because from social conventions, I agree- it's totally and completely unacceptable. From an attraction standpoint, I cant blame her for losing attraction to me. She also said that she couldn't be intimate with me because she couldnt handle the negative emotions and said she had a breakdown on a night out because she was so unhappy. If these are true, I feel like I can forgive her. Knowing her for 2 school years now, I feel like this is the case, and I hope it's the case. If she…
/r/seduction22/03/12 01:28 PM
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2 things-I do not want to put up a front to be happy. I am making a lot of strides towards just becoming happy and myself again, I have no intentions of faking anything. I'm normally a very positive and happy person, I'm confident I will be again shortly. I do agree about the open relationship though. I can't be with her if shes fucking other guys. If she is being hesitant to having a closed relationship I think the most I could do would be say, we can kiss and flirt with other people, but not f…
/r/seduction22/03/12 12:45 PM
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