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| 28 | My relationship lasts an average of 3 months, what am I doing wrong? | ADVICE | throwawaywayacc | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/06/18 03:44 PM |
| 16 | How to maintain the right ratio of sexuality in the beginning of Dating phase. | DISCUSSION | throwawaywayacc | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/08/18 08:37 AM |
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| 4 | Do NOT give into wondering “what else is out there” (AKA hypergamy). A warning.I liked what u said moderator, it's sad people are giving it hard to OP and asking her to settle for people she is not attracted to, even telling her that her requirements are bluepilled. Probably men here are raged that women have some requirements, while they blatantly abuse and pump and dump women who are staggering 1.5 pounds overweight. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/09/18 05:47 AM |
| 5 | Back to the basics - abundance mentalityI didn't mean successful. I meant accomplished. I meant someone with a stable career, and a decent income, atleast to support herself because men don't want to provide in the traditional way. I am talking from experience, and truth being told I would be happy that my thoughts are proven wrong because I am soon going to hit 25, and I am all damn ready to be married. But my experience has said something else. My last ex was a successful man from Ivy League school, and his ex was also from the same… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/08/18 07:58 PM |
| -4 | Back to the basics - abundance mentalityLot of women like me would be marrying Young had the marriage circumstances been right and beneficial to us today. This was probably the case until the 1960's, when strong gender roles were prevalent. Men provided and protected, and women nurtured and took care of the husband and the children. Modern 21st century is nothing like this, the men just don't want a woman who would nurture and take care, men want an accomplished woman with a college degree and with an additional income in the househol… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/08/18 06:33 AM |
| 4 | What is it about me that repels men so much?I agree with this comment here. I am BMI 28, in the weight loss journey and never had deficit of any male attention. This does not imply that u don't have a dark road ahead, the truth is that men in general prefer thin slender and in shape woman, but even being overweight there is a way for u. Even with my weight I have managed to attract a high value guys. My last ex, was an Ivy educated tall muscular man(although not ripped). We broke up for reasons which were beyond our control, but just sayi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/08/18 02:39 PM |
| 1 | How to maintain the right ratio of sexuality in the beginning of Dating phase.Reading stories/advices like yours on red pill really makes my day. Asking for nudes right away sounds like fuckboy territory, no thank you. Not right away but within 3 weeks of talking. One of my ex was head over heels in love with me, I knew from the moment I started talking with him that he is a relationship kind of serious guy, but he was just very pushy with nudes and sex, not in a jerk fuckboy kind of way but in a loving pushy way. I guess he himself didn't understand that he was overwhelm… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/08/18 10:47 AM |
| 2 | How to maintain the right ratio of sexuality in the beginning of Dating phase.Now I literally feel envious of you. My parents were very egalitarian in raising me, even towards the extent that my mom and I used to do a lot of heavy lifting work in the house (moving furniture, carrying our own suitcases when we are traveling etc), my parents taught me that I should never depend on a man, and finance be the last of it. They were not feminist, just people who taught me not to depend on anyone for anything. So, yea I guess no one taught us anything about male-female dynamics a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/08/18 07:05 AM |
| 3 | How to maintain the right ratio of sexuality in the beginning of Dating phase.Atta girl! You are the perfect definition of RPW. Nice u had that awareness at 18. Where did u meet your SO? | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/08/18 05:30 AM |
| 3 | How to maintain the right ratio of sexuality in the beginning of Dating phase.he’s free to leave whenever he’s tired of waiting and if he’s dating other women while waiting for me then he has no chance with me. But this is to be done in a very subtle way. Once I had this very attitude, and I think I discouraged the guy I was dating because he thought I was a bitter woman rejecting him. He was very much in love with me but he was at the same time very aggressive in pushing for sex and nudes. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/08/18 04:40 AM |
| 1 | How to maintain the right ratio of sexuality in the beginning of Dating phase.Absolutely wonderful advice. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/08/18 04:29 AM |
| 2 | How to maintain the right ratio of sexuality in the beginning of Dating phase.Pheww.... Counting your n count can be very controversial. I have seen it here time and again people asking how to count your n count. Correct me please if I am wrong. The way I have counted my n-count is through my conscience and morals. I felt I truly lost my virginity (even innocence) only when I had a full sexual intercourse which was a beautiful and almost an spiritual experience for me. Before this other instances of me performing oral sex on guys, had me feeling nothing, I always felt I h… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/08/18 03:16 AM |
| 1 | How to maintain the right ratio of sexuality in the beginning of Dating phase.it doesn't matter if you wait two dates or two months. Agreed. In most of my relationships I have gotten sexual (usually not leading to intercourse) early on and I have always felt a guilt that maybe I have been too easy that's why these men broke off with me. So, when my current nun mode ends, I will very well be using the strategy of waiting as much time as I want, so that if it ever ends, I don't end up feeling guilty in this department. :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/08/18 04:28 PM |
| 1 | How to maintain the right ratio of sexuality in the beginning of Dating phase.This is a gorgeous reply!!!!!!!! | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/08/18 03:00 PM |
| 3 | How to maintain the right ratio of sexuality in the beginning of Dating phase.Thank you for ur advice, u have written it beautifully. One more thing if you would give ur view on how I can handle this better. My N count is really low (1 overall, if you count partner with oral sex it's 4), but I have very high sex drive and I watch a lot of porn too. I just know way too much about sex because it's on my mind a lot. There is no way for me but to absolutely pretend to not know anything at all, and it's even more clear from your comment how you describe that it's rather attrac… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/08/18 01:29 PM |
| 11 | How to maintain the right ratio of sexuality in the beginning of Dating phase.I'd simply assure him that all of my photos were current and change the subject. 👍 clever strategy. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/08/18 12:52 PM |
| 3 | Where to find a man? XDAlways a fan of whispers words! | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/07/18 03:31 PM |
| 1 | My relationship lasts an average of 3 months, what am I doing wrong?Just think about dating as a 'trial period' for wife job. Like an internship. Interns are there to help and add value. Think of what is helpful and do it with a smile. Beautifully said. Thank you. It does seem u hv a great wifey! | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/07/18 06:56 PM |
| 1 | My relationship lasts an average of 3 months, what am I doing wrong?Great prespective u have given me. Browse TRP and see what red flags you may be giving off and work to prevent that. Some of mine are: obsessed with social media, overweight or average but doesn't workout (will become overweight eventually), no hobbies, no "traditional" skills (cooking, cleaning), has cheated before, attention seeking, nagging, afraid to be single, no goals... there's a lot. But each one of those will immediately place a woman in "just fuck" category and would take a ridiculous … | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/07/18 05:46 PM |
| 1 | My relationship lasts an average of 3 months, what am I doing wrong?The easiest way to secure commitment is to add value to their life beyond sex. Can you please eliborate this point please! | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/07/18 04:49 PM |
| 1 | My relationship lasts an average of 3 months, what am I doing wrong?In all sincerity I wrote this post because I am questioning myself what else other than sex do men need. If I were to answer the question what do women need from men, I would say - We need good company, a man who is pleasant to be around, a man who has a spine and he can hold a conversation. I would want a man who would be protective of me. This is my list obviously, and other women will add and minus accordingly. I do not know how a male mind functions. I have no idea what men need from women o… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/07/18 04:39 PM |
| 13 | Trust in relationshipsWow! This is beautiful and heartfelt! | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/06/18 07:54 AM |
| 1 | My relationship lasts an average of 3 months, what am I doing wrong?Plus, you're deployment schedule is a hard pill to swallow, unless that person has their own. Not everyone with a military tag is a soldier. I have a sedentary job where I have to study missiles deployment. And I m not from the US. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/06/18 02:28 AM |
| 1 | My relationship lasts an average of 3 months, what am I doing wrong?Thank you for ur reply and for helping me in my situation. This screams red flag. Why are you saying this exactly? I mean, in your relationship phase before the three months mark and the stage where you are both having fun and knowing each other your needs are completely ignored? That would mean you derive no enjoyment in having sex, knowing each other, being together just for being together. You make it sound like all you want in a relationship is commitment, and everything else is just a way t… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/06/18 05:46 PM |
| 1 | My relationship lasts an average of 3 months, what am I doing wrong?Inspiring commitment is your responsibility. If you can't do it, then blame the man, you are basically the girl version of /r/incels. I wouldn't disagree! I don't know how a woman inspires love. I wish to change what I do, hence this post. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/06/18 10:18 AM |
| 4 | My relationship lasts an average of 3 months, what am I doing wrong?although it would personally weird me off that someone needs a nutritionist and a personal trainer to better themselves. It shows that you aren't capable of taking care of yourself without help or lack the willpower to do so. It is also a bit in contradiction with claiming to be a good cook and domestic where you need to know how to be independent and self-driven. I appreciate your comment but this is honestly a bit over the top. A trainer will help me get to my goal quicker than what I can do b… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/06/18 02:59 AM |
| 1 | My relationship lasts an average of 3 months, what am I doing wrong?Again, what does commitment mean to you? I bet in your response we'll find the answer to your questions. Yes, Exclusivity, the relationship has a name and we both are gf-bf, love yes, a relationship where my needs are taken into consideration. A place where we are workin towards building a future. We are introduces to each others friends and family. I am not ur side piece, neither am I your dirty little secret which u have kept hidden from the world. And yes where We say I Love you to each other… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/06/18 07:12 PM |
| 25 | My relationship lasts an average of 3 months, what am I doing wrong?I agree with this. Let me give you a counter example that u may be able to relate. A guy I was dating a while ago said, "I am interested in anything more than a Friend-Zone" which translated to me as - I always get friendzoned. You need to fix me and get me laid. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/06/18 06:37 PM |
| 1 | My relationship lasts an average of 3 months, what am I doing wrong?I really like ur advice and what u have said. B) It was a turbulent relationship and you claim he was abusive but in reality you were and probably still are abusive just as much as he was, which would explain why you can't keep a relationship going for more than 3 months. I would like to believe I can never be abusive to anyone. My relationships don't last more than 3 months is because I bail when the guy cannot commit to me. I suggest you to focus on yourself and solve this issues before going … | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/06/18 06:19 PM |
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