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8 seconds in... nope. What the fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:11 PM
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But women need to be held accountable and be perfect virgins housewives. But women who actually save themselves for marriage and dream of being homemakers get stuck with this lot of men who actually believ their value doesn't go down with their number of sexual partners as well. I dont know how these people were raised, but if my male cousins were out running the streets like this, my grandma would have put them all in the hospital.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 06:53 PM
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Except this entire sub believes that women cannot separate sex from emotions, and one of the biggest things mentioned in these comments is basically how the difference is that there's two types of women, low value who sleep with anyone, and high value who are virgins. But there's only one type of man apparently... a high value man who sleeps with low value women until they land a high value woman to marry. I get what OP is trying to say, albeit poorly. Its hypocritical as fuck to think this way.…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 06:32 PM
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No woman used the term "bangmaid" to refer to a relationship that she would enjoy being in. I've explicitly stated that I'm not infected by the term but rather the fact that you truly believe bangmaid and homemaker mean the same thing. And the fact that you think they also mean the same thing to women is just straight up delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 02:22 PM
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I'm describing what the word "bangmaid" actually refers to and your calling me sexist. Wow, almost like the type of relationship that actually gets classified as a "bangmaid" is incredibly sexist. And you saying that "bangmaid" is just the word that feminists use to discredit homemakers is actually a stupid take. I hate feminists too, but again... there IS a difference between "bangmaid" and homemaker. Nobody is happy being a bangmaid, but millions of people are happy being a homemaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 02:17 PM
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I mean I've literally stated 5 times now that I am the homemaker who is happy to do all the chores and fuck my husband every night. Im not claiming we don't exist, I'm simply telling you that your idea that the word "bangmaid" is just a derogatory cover for what a home maker really is, is bullshit. You're not understanding so I'm not wasting anymore of my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 02:14 PM
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Again, being a stay at home mom and a homemaker in a relationship that is healthily built for it is a much different thing than a "bangmaid."
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 02:03 PM
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Every relationship advice thread is full of men and women alike who are unhappy in relationships where they are treated like a machine where money goes in and sex and a home-cooked meal fall out. There are also equally unhappy men in relationships where they just feel like an ATM and their wives only fuck them to keep the illusion of a happy marriage so they don't lose their meal ticket. I'm actually not offended at the prospect of 2 people being happy in a bang maid relationship, I'm "oFfEnDeD"…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 02:00 PM
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Please point out where I have been sexist. So far you have made this post to fit both men and women into a box and you get defensive when someone tries to discuss the fact that this scenario you describe is not realistic or possible. Everything in your argument depends on the man making $1m a year from a high stress job working 60 a week, non-negotioable and coming home to a clean house, happy kids, happy wife, etc. without having to do anything to contribute to that happy and healthy life other…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 01:51 PM
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But thats the problem isn't it? Your post is so unrealistic that it can be picked apart by simply observing reality. If the point of this post was to only choose one option amd have no discussion, then you could have just not posted it. Of course everyone chooses option 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 01:37 PM
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So your ultimate point is that neither option in your post is good and men should just get rich and be whores instead? Okay den. Fair enough I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 01:35 PM
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Also look at you making generalizations about men. Not every man works a high stress labor intensive job just because he has a 60 hour work week. I know people who work 80 hours a week and have a smaller workload than people who only work 40. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 01:31 PM
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Thats 100% on you for not clarifying your statement in regards to which scenario you were saying that no man was thinning. I made no generalizations about men as a whole, don't know where you got that. Plenty of men think that way, as seen in these comments and across the internet. There are thousands of people, male and female who are in "bang maid" relationships. You cannot deny that there are selfish and troubled people who think this way. This sub even calls them they dark triad.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 01:29 PM
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I'm sorry, did you just say that no man is capable of being a present father and partner? You must be out of your mind LMAO Please do not have children if you don't want to be a parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 01:24 PM
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Uh no... In one situation you think only of yourself and what you recieve out of the relationship. In the other situation you are thinking of your family as a whole and healthy unit. The fact that you can't see the difference is troubling.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 01:18 PM
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It was totally a circle jerk setup. I didnt read the flair so my comment got deleted. I basically said the same thing in another response though, it's VERY clear that this person doesn't have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 01:09 PM
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In option 2, the children go to daycare for at least 8 hours a day, plus commute time. I fail to see how mom at home with the kids for the time dad is a work is much different at all from mom being at work and kids being at daycare. Both are the same time commitment and unless she's working in a heavy labor trade, her workload would actually decrease because she doesn't have to do the day to day of chasing after kids, making lunch and breakfast for all of them, etc. A lot of moms in SAHP groups …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 12:58 PM
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I cant tell that you don't have children yet. There's no flexibility when you have kids. Everything is on their schedule until they are at least 5-6 and independent enough to make a PB&J without help. Infants wake up about every 4 hours to eat. They dont sleep through the night until about 9months to a year, possibly longer. Young children wake up pretty naturally in the early morning around 5-7am. Mine only sleep in if they had a late night, IE going to bed when we get home from outings around …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 12:43 PM
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No, but as a stay at home mom, she would be effectively "on-call" 24/7. If the only thing you do is work, they your wife is handling the other 3/4 of family responsibilities. Dishes, laundry, dinner, bath and bed for kids, making doctors appointments, etc. If she homeschools thats another job added on.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 11:55 AM
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...they got the idea from their real life feelings. And then thousands, if not millions of women shared it and sent it to their boyfriends who are actual car guys with shitboxes, not "car guys" with a BMW ass class that only impresses the other men with money.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 07:56 PM
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This really puts into perspective the kinds of women OP surrounds himself with.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 03:03 PM
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What are you supposed to do??? Quit hanging out with drug addicts!!!!! My guy are you serious???
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 02:38 PM
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XJ was my golden child until she blew a rod. I too would rather be smiling in a CJ with the doors in the backseat than crying in the back of some overpriced pleather BMW nightmare
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 02:28 PM
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Everything you do is attracting the exact sort of woman you hate. Materialistic women go for men with expensive cars and who take... livestock steroids? Is this post a joke?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 02:26 PM
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One of the most liked and shared videos on tiktok/facebook like 2 years ago was a skit of girls being catcalled by dudes in expensive cars and them being disgusted. And then the econo shitbox rolls by and the girls run over to him because they know he has a big dick. One of the girls says it in the video. Its over dramatized for sure, but the emphasis is that it really doesn't matter what you drive. Having a complete joke of a car might not actually get the results of the video, but the truth is…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 02:23 PM
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Yes but this is the problem. We cannot inherently trust all women as a blanket because many women have lied to men. In some states, if you sign the birth certificate, thats it. Sometimes even a paternity test won't get you out of the fact that your name is on the birth certificate after a certain number of years. The only solution is for a paternity test to be standardized in the hospital as a requirement for men to be able to sign a birth certificate unless they have legal authorization/bio-fat…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 01:24 PM
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Look up weaponized incompetence. Its the difference between calling your wife and saying "hey honey, the guys invited me to the bar tonight, do you have any objections to me getting home late?" and "oh sorry wife, I didn't make dinner for the kids because I didn't know what you wanted me to make them" or "I dont know how to do laundry/dishes/cooking/etc."
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 12:13 PM
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It entirely depends on your individual sources, and what age ranges they use, but The CDC and the NIH say that women aged 25-49 average about 5 partners in their lifetime. Their numbers show about 60% of women are between two and 9 total sexual partners in their lifetime. I rounded up to the highest number as its also likely that the younger age group who have slept with less people are likely to reach that number of partners eventually. The CDC also doesn't have any info regarding 18-24, as far…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 01:40 PM
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I'll agree to your comment because yes, everything you said is true. However, the internet also loves to hate immediately on someone who expresses a negative view on dating,, especially when it comes to the dating habits of women,, no matter what the actual subject is.. So I guess can we (general we) stop immediately jumping down the throats of anyone who dares to have the audacity to feel a bit cheated by life because they have been unsuccessful at finding long term romance? Go read the article…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 07:36 AM
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I wish I could give you an award, friend. I always tell people that my cars are only worth their stories, same with people. Thank you, I just care too deeply for all people, sometimes to the point of expending myself, but like you said. Its all about knowing the handbook, having the knowledge. And then experience. Sometimes you get burned. But yes, there is a very big difference between the uphill relationship and a toxic mess.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 06:25 AM
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Because the person I responded to brought up the specific instance of a man finding out he wasn't the father of a boy he raised for 7 years. Im not going to shoe-horn women in there, just like I wouldn't go around shoe-horning men into conversations specifically discussing the woman point of view. I'm seriously confused by you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 06:19 AM
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I never said either opinion was exclusive to women or men. Aplly both opinions the same in both gender directions. Men can decide not to participate in a babies life if it is disposable on a whim to the mother. Child support should be at-will. Men and women have their own personal belief on when life starts, but in this country and by law, the latest it is considered a life and not able to be disposed of, is at first breath. Then its not abortion, its murder. Furthermore, if a woman enters into …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 06:08 AM
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Okay... You can't really tell me what I do or don't believe. Not sure what your question or point is here...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 06:01 AM
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I usually hate it when anyone compares people to objects and I started reading half prepared to give a statement in preface to my response, but damn dude. But the more I read, the more I liked the analogy. Your explanations definitely go a loooong way and most people don't bother to explain the "car=woman" thing, in this case, men. Im kind of blown away that I have nothing to say here. Yes, "fixer upper men" are a totally different category (I "saved" in his words, and married one). Maybe anothe…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 05:59 AM
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Yes, the other 4 shelters got closed down because nobody used them. Such is life. We simply could not keep the cost of keeping them open. The state and individual donors simply pay more money for females and children in DV shelter than men alone. I don't know the exact number, but its one of the things that were cited in the closing paperwork packages I got when they shut down. The problem is, the shelters are absolutely not advertised in the same way. I have barely seen a single ad for a Men's …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 04:49 AM
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It's almost as if women aren't a monolith, and speaking to even 1000 women will not give you a good generalization of women. Just like speaking to 1000 men won't give me any sort of position to generalize all men either. HOWEVER - You have a slight point, although its not what you thought it was. Put on a wedding ring. This is the single most effective dating advice a man can receive. Every man I know who has done this has had immense success. But only at sex. Very rarely a relationship. See, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 04:00 AM
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The difference is that if you want to equate it to abortion, this statement entirely depends on if you view it as a life from the point of conception or if its not a baby until a certain point in development. Personally? I dont have an opinion on where life starts for anyone except my own kids. Their life started the minute I knew I was pregnant. But according to the Bible, its not a life until it takes a breath. According to science it can be a life when it has a heartbeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 03:30 AM
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Literally nothing. This guy is just posting his weird fetish here... again.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 03:13 AM
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If you dont want to, thats your personal decision. Nobody is making you a hostage. Nobody is saying you have to keep a relationship with the child or get any sort of custody. I'm literally just saying that if you can, on a dime, stop loving a child or wanting to be in their life after raising them for 7 years, you're an asshole. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 02:57 AM
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How? I never said that the man had any sort of responsibility. Im not trying to make this a law. Im simply stating my opinion that this is the correct moral action that minimized damage to the most important person in this situation: the child.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 02:52 AM
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I mean... this whole situation is dependant on the fact that the woman cheated and had a kid that is not her husband's. So no, she won't know which of the 2 or more men that would have came in her are the father. She does however know she's a cheating whore and I advise all new fathers to get a paternity test done before signing the birth certificate (you can get them done during pregnancy but its expensive af) unless you can be 1000% certain that it's your child.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 02:05 AM
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I mean cool that you feel that way, but I mentioned nothing about responsibility. Of course he doesn't have any responsibility to the kid. But can you honestly say after raising a child as your own for 7 years that you could just... not care about or love that child anymore? If you can do that, then yes. You are absolutely an asshole and you have traumatized a child by essentially taking away the only father figure in their life. Edited to add: people on this sub complain about women having dadd…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 01:59 AM
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Yeah, its massively fucked up and I truly don't understand the process. I get being abused to the point that you think its normal, but with the amount of resources available to women and the knowledge of all this shit being beaten into all of our heads - that men are dangerous, lying, manipulative, abusive pieces of shit, until proven otherwise - then nobody can honestly keep making excuses for women in abusive relationships, ESPECIALLY without kids, ESPECIALLY without entangled finances, etc. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 01:52 AM
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Porn is made by men, for men. Straight women don't want to watch plastic tittied bimbos getting 50 ounces of cum shot in their ass. Onlyfans/sex work doesn't appeal to straight women and male sex workers are rare in comparison to women. Women don't approach men often because it is potentially dangerous. Women would also rather the man make the first move, personal opinions on that to the side. According to actual research, men think about sex on average 19 times a day. Women think about sex on a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 09:44 PM
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The only reason I can really come up with for being here is that I like to learn. Pretty much all day I am researching something. And I like to help, if I can. And I like to have discussions about nuanced topics. I also advocate for and have helped open 6 domestic violence shelters for men. Unfortunately most of them get shut down. Go figure. I think the focus on women's problems in dating and relationships is important, but how can we sit here and as a collective society say that mens dating an…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 09:23 PM
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Thank you for sharing this, I skimmed some of the beginning and I will definitely be finishing later. We all know a Henry. Unfourtunately complaining about how Henry gets girls with no problem and you don't understand why you can't get a date because you're a nicer guy than Henry is... is definitely not going to go over well. Its the same for femcels or whatever they're called. Complaining isn't attractive, no matter what the complaint is. But I think that having your own space to be able to com…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 08:11 PM
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The fucked up part of that one is that its complicated. That dude spent 7 years raising a kid he thought was his, I dont think that attachment and love automatically goes away. If that situation happens and the man leaves the kid behind because of it, he's totally an asshole. Ditch the chick and go to court to keep custody of the kid you raised. If you don't want to, thats your personal decision. If you dump the kid and the woman over the woman's mistakes, you're only making yourself look worse …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 07:10 PM
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This one hits the nail on the head. Yes - Being a "nice guy" doesn't automatically entitle you to sex. Being truly a nice person means not having to say "but I'm a nice person!!!" on the flip side No - being a "nice guy" isn't a crime. Being kind of a passive aggressive douche is generally frowned upon, but people should put their energy towards stopping actual terrible shit from happening. For some reason in the world of "looking at me is sexual assault," it seems to me that "he said he didn't …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 06:50 PM
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I need your flair 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 03:24 AM
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yeah, checked more posts, dudes IQ is legitimately 79. he definitely needs help for his "Russian girlfriend" problems
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 02:21 AM
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Holy shit man, you're right. this guy is unhinged.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 02:16 AM
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add to red pill that all women react the same to every instance, are all the same, a monolith while simultaneously complaining that they lump all men together. add to the blue pill that they would rather deny basic science than confront the truth add to purple pill that nobody is owed anything, life is unfair and nobody is living by a listed out set of criteria for dating partners unless they are delusional and nobody should date the delusional someone else said that black pill is just making te…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 12:09 AM
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This comment should be top
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 12:05 AM
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Wrong, go read deadbedroom subreddit posts from the low libido women. That is EXACTLY what it is. Overworked mothers who have to take care of their men like children will not want to sleep with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 08:42 PM
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Go visit the high libido subreddit, and the female high libido subreddit. then visit the dead bedroom subs. Then come back here and comment about how you now realize there is no standard to sex. At all. Men can love their partners and be incredibly attracted to them and still have no drive. Women as well. Everyone here views dating as trying to find the perfect puzzle piece, and to an extent, it is. But you have to remember just because someone else's puzzle piece is different than yours, or tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 03:53 PM
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Agin, ignoring the point that not all abusers have a criminal record. Not all abusers even have an abusive past before their current relationship. You are delusional if you think that finding out who someone really is is as simple as a Google search or a background check.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 03:36 PM
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Again, it is the same percentage in the United States. Different world views and cultures are especially important when talking about this topic because if you are going to generalize women, but you don't want to include the other 3 billion women on the planet, maybe say that you're only speaking of the United States. Not all of us are from the US and this is not a US exclusive issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 03:34 PM
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Everyone would be better off if beauty standards would be lowered to looking healthy It won't, women standards to men are AWAYS based on the top men she has ever seen, so long social media exist and someone with a square jaw is there this is your standards. This is the original comment that you made that I replied to. You said exactly that women always hold their standards to the top men they have ever seen. Your entire argument fell apart now because you're suddenly trying to fight the other si…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 03:28 PM
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Okay for one, if we are using the entire worldwide demographic of women to use as our basis for DV, and only 30% of women in the entire world have experienced DV, what does an Islamic country have to do with disputing this fact? That only means that countries with less respect for women have more violence and therfore conflate the numbers. Which makes your argument even more ridiculous. Furthermore, the amount of women in the United States only that experience DV/IPV is also ~30%. You won't even…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 03:22 PM
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Ah, so you just want to argue about background checks, nothing else I said? About how not every abuser even has a criminal records. But okay. Goo look up how much a background check costs from a private citizen, not a MegaCorp, and then you tell me if its feasible to screen every single person that way. Likewise you would say the same to men who have been abused? They should have gotten a background check?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 03:14 PM
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But you are saying that women are only attracted to men who can be more attractive than the TOP MOST attractive man she has ever seen. Thats just simply not true. Every woman I know has seen Jason Monoa and none of their husband's look close to that. My husband only kinda does cause of the long hair, but he's not built like JM or any of that. I think you're wildly misunderstanding your own argument. Of course people have to be attracted to eachother, but you live in a wild fantasy land of only s…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 02:52 PM
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What are you even saying right now? Your first sentence isn't even English. Do you think every single abuser has a previously established criminal record? Do you think women have magical access to look up the criminal record of every man she meets? You think every account of abuse has been reported or even taken seriously by the police? Abusers evade jail all the time. I know many. I witnessed a friend of mine get a pot lid slung at her head, glass everywhere. I took her and left. Police showed …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 02:37 PM
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Again, generalizing a whole gender based on the ~30% of women who have experienced IPV/DV worldwide is so stupid. Might as well call all men criminals since something like 90% of prisoners are men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 02:25 PM
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Also you will never see a man marry for JUST attractiveness either, so really you have no point here. Is she is dumb as rocks, loud as hell all the time, a bad cook, won't clean, doesn't want kids, terrible in bed, etc. would you marry her??
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 12:40 PM
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What are you even talking about? Way to generalize an entire gender based on the ~30% of women worldwide that have experienced domestic violence. Just because you see a bunch of women complaining on the internet like a bunch of vapid gossip fountains doesn't meant that the entire gender is a hive mind that men have to solve like a puzzle.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 12:38 PM
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Thats so stupid and wildly not true. If it was, not a single person would be in a relationship these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 12:20 PM
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You said "men will fuck anything" instead of "men will fuck anyone." This commenter is saying that using that language reduces women to non-human objects in your mind. anything
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 11:54 AM
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And I frequently see short men with average to above average beautiful women. Im really not sure why your personal experience in apparently never having seen a man under 6'4" get a date is relevant at all when the evidence is right outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 05:20 PM
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I haven't dated since "splitting" became the cultural norm, but even when it was normal for men to pay for dates, its not because of any sexist shit. Historically women didn't have jobs and their fathers controlled finances. Now in the modern day its not like that, but its still a cultural tradition. If you choose not to accept that tradition, good for you. Women and men both view their own preferences as benign, of course. Everyone's mad at eachother because there are instigators in these types…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 05:08 PM
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The most self aware man on the sub. Also, where does housework factor into dating? This post is messy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 04:49 PM
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It happens all the time on the internet. Sorry I don't spend my life attached to my social media watching people struggle with dating on a platform that severely hinders communication, provides a hugely false sense of self, provides anonymity and causes people to be 100x more nasty than they would ever act in person. Go outside and talk to people face to face, gain some life experience. Im my entire life, I have never seen a man turn down a woman for not being his type, and her freaking out or h…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 02:31 PM
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I do have that partner, and he has that in me as well. Don't think you are not worthy of love because you have low points. The women who aren't able to handle it, aren't worth it. But breaking up with them before you even give them the chance? Thats not fair to them and definitely not fair to yourself. Be upfront with girls. Tell them you have issues and you will be sad/low/less peppy/etc. sometimes and you are in therapy for it. Find a support group to go too, meet people, go out with them, etc…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 03:49 AM
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You need to see a different therapist then. Honey, something is wrong and can be helped. It is not normal to shut down like that for so long. Please please please find another therapist or someone licensed to help you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 02:59 AM
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This is definitely a you problem. Talk to a therapist about how you have opened up to women in the past, what you've said to them. And how their negative response has now caused you to self sabotage by projecting your feelings of hurt and mistrust onto women you date. If you have never been able to maintain a relationship longer than 6 months because you are unable to open up to your partner, how does that factor in as generally womens fault? The average woman likes emotionally intelligent men. …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 09:47 PM
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So here's how it really goes: The average man and the average woman, in general, are decently fit, or at least not obese, have a job that pays something, are not overly manipulative, have some bad traits but are generally good people. Such is the standard. Look at the REAL people in your life, not online. What do they look like? What do they think? What do they believe? Then look online. Online, there are many types of people, but in this regard we are going to be talking about 2 extremes. The r…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 07:13 PM
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The question was already asked? Are you a toddler? Do you need to be asked more than once?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 06:44 PM
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Because men have treated women like children for too long. Men in general have coddled women, spoken for them, protected them, controlled them, told them how to act, what to wear, how to dress, who to sleep with, who to marry, have children, keep the home, etc. Like a rebelious teenager, the newfound freedom comes with many consequences. Modern feminism will run its course eventually, but there is no fixing the problem because plenty men still continually try to control women. Women are naturall…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 06:08 PM
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Where do I appear to be deliberately trolling? I do have a point, you just missed it by a mile and I don't have the energy to explain it better than this: Speak your truth, when necessary. You don’t have to be rude, derogatory or downright mean to be true to yourself. Just be fucking polite you Neanderthal.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 05:55 PM
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Take your "war on truth" and your wall of text to an activist rally and stop projecting it onto random fat women in your life. I read what you had to say, but I simply don't have the energy to say anything other than seek a therapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 05:24 PM
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I just feel like TRP is usually centered around the submissive and monogamous wife. The ideal women in the eyes of most of the manosphere, I would generally assume, would be one that is only tied to the one man. But thank you, I love to hear about other happy poly relationships!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 02:44 PM
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Okay but the whole argument is that society at large is getting upset at men for having preferences (which is gets upset at women for doing to so ???) and you are here saying you've experienced this, but you haven't. You've experienced a few women felling hurt because you specifically are not interested in them specifically. They're not offended on behalf of all brown haired women because a man opened his mouth. They treat you differently because they no longer see you as a potential romantic pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 02:35 PM
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Truth be told, ruffles get feathered over MANY things on both side. As a woman, if you prefer tall guys, fit guys, a specific race, guys with financial security or better, guys with low/high body count, if you want your partner to be okay with your sex work, if attractiveness is important to you, you will experience trouble for expressing any of these. Likewise, as a man. If you say you prefer fit women, women with money/without a job, you prefer a virgin, you're a passport bro, you prefer women…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 02:30 PM
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You're a red pill man in a polyamorus relationship? I'd love to hear this story and how you justify how your ideological views don't hugely contradict this lifestyle. No snark intended, I'm just insanely curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 02:21 PM
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Oh honey, the girls without brown hair that started treating you differently didn't do it because they were actually offended. They are interested in you, or at least see you as attractive and are now upset that you don't find them attractive. Men are so blind lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 02:14 PM
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Yes, this. Women get shit on all the time for their preferences. We have a lot more preferences than the average man and a lot of men have problems with that. Just read the comments here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 02:10 PM
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Women are very aware of what men want and are groomed by their entire family to be a perfect wife. Its been this way for nearly all of human history. Now parenting doesn't always land, or is awful and generally in the modern world, women don't care what men want. Women are free to be themselves to find a man that fits with them. Arranged marriages are not legal or normal anymore so there is no longer a standard of how a marriage works.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 02:07 PM
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If language policing is the word you want to use, then sure. Yeah, people would rather hear "I don't like to date short men" rather than "short men are so gross and ugly, I can't stand it. I would never date a short man." Likewise, "I prefer to date women with a similar lifestyle", "I don't like to date women I can't pick up", "I prefer my women to be in shape", "I don't like to date people who prefer to stay inside all day", "I prefer to date women who enjoy the outdoors/hiking/going to the gym…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 01:59 PM
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But why is that your problem to solve? Why are you so concerned about the health of women you don't know? You have a preference for thinner women, so you won't date a fat woman, so whats the problem? Grown ass women are not getting offended because you're calling them fat or your preference is for thin women... they're getting offended because 1) they know they are fat, you don't need to point it out. 2) they know it is unhealthy, regardless of what they say, so you don't need to lecture them. 3…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 01:52 PM
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The only problematic thing that involves women's weight in relation to a man is when a woman gains weight after pregnancy (any weight at all, even just a few pounds) and their husband's loose their fucking minds all the while they let themselves go in marriage too. Don't date fat people. I don't. Ive never once turned down a man by saying he was too fat for me. I can come up with a million things to say to someone to say "Sorry, you seem like a nice guy/lady, but I am simply not interested in yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 01:39 PM
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Yeah so don't tell a woman to her face that you don't like how fat she is? Even if you are not interested. Ive never seen a man get put down, called out or berated for respectfully turning down a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 01:35 PM
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Obesity rates in America are near equal between men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 01:33 PM
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Because the fat person knows they are fat, they don't need you to point it out. You are a person who has absolutely nothing to do with them or their weight, so why comment on it? You want then to be healthier? Its none of your business. You dont want to see fat people? Look away? You don't want to be associated or have families and friends influenced by a fat person? Don't be friends with them. Why make a comment if it has absolutely nothing to do with you and the only purpose is to make someone…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 05:17 AM
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Read carefully.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 05:07 AM
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I applied my statements generally to both genders, hence my use of "wo/man." Not sure what your issue is here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 05:07 AM
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There you go, this is the answer everyone needs to see. Its okay if you dont like fat girls. I don't like fat dudes either. But what's not okay, is to be a dick and proclaim that you can't find a half decent wo/man because they're all fat, ugly, or whatever other insult you want to throw. There are far more proper ways to have this conversation without looking like an egotistical asshole who sounds so superficial. edit: spelling/a word
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 03:25 AM
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This whole post is a mess, your comments are clearly indicating that you are a 13 year old boy with no knowledge of sex education and you just came here to write your weird cuck fantasy. Women cheat (most of the time) with an emotional connection. We don't usually thing about sex like that. Yes, we can get extremely horny but not usually to the point of sticking our asses out at random guys we work with like a cat in heat. No, penetrative sex is not going to to it for more than 80% of us. Even i…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 10:51 AM
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I'm a SAHM "trad wife" who does all the cooking, cleaning, most of the child rearing, etc. while my husband works. I am still not a "submissive" wife, in fact my husband says he loves my fire. In between homeschooling and cooking, I am working on a business plan. All those podcasts are full of shit on what real men want. Extreme red-pill and extreme blue-pill are the extreme minority sides of the spectrum. Most of those peoples expectations are so high and tight, they are probably just better of…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 08:37 PM
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As a woman in her mid 20s in America with friends from young 20s to late 30s or occasionally higher, my social media looks like young women getting engaged, women my age (including me) having kids, pictures of family, travel, sporting events, home cooked dinners, random memes, etc. These red-pill men live in a bubble of "whores" because they deliberately seek these women out. I have a few close friends who have pages for SW and other stuff of that nature. Their biggest customers are the exact pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 03:27 AM
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exactly. These dudes live in their own little power fantasy of how they "would be able to fuck the hottest 10/10 models" if not for some shortcoming they deem "unfairly placed by society" and the goalposts for these change every day anyway. They think women are most desirable when they ars 20y/o and fertile, but they only believe that because they haven't actually been with a woman in their 20s. Or any woman actually
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 03:20 AM
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I think I'm just ugly cause I see dudes say they love women approaching them, and I see women who approach dudes and it works for them like 98% of the time, but it doesn't matter who I approach, I get shot down Maybe you and your friends aren't the prize you think you are 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 02:03 AM
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Ignore the fact that the prosecutors couldn't provide one single witness. Classic. A jury saying someone is guilty is not an infallible nomination of guilt. We have thousands, if not more, innocent people in prison right now who were also condemned by a jury of their peers. The only crime committed was a bad meme.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 08:55 PM
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Thats not at all what her post said, but I agree with your point. Her takes are shit, but old men contacting prostitutes and trying to get free product from them because they want to feel "desired" without payment so they can call the woman a whore is pretty shitty to do, regardless of profession. And regardless of how you feel about said profession. Thats what the post said.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 03:38 PM
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You agree that the guy should go to jail when not one single person was brought to the stand that was actually affected by his meme? The defendant even asked during trial for them to provide a witness that felt that their civil right to vote was taken from them by this meme and the prosecutor couldn't provide one single person, despite having the phone number for the 4k people that called/texted the number... Not only that, but a witness within their group chat that was cooperating with police/F…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 03:27 PM
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