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Fool me once... shame.... shame on you! fool me twice...... fool me you can't get fooled again.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/15 06:58 AM
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oh yeah she was defiantly trying to set it up as I was jealous mate guarding and in a couple of moments I seriously considered if I was doing just that. she would say things like I love you, she claimed in a playful manner, don't you say I love you to your friends. But they were heavy flirting talking about how they felt horny or how she wants to come to school early "just to see you." He was throwing a lot of sexual advances at her and while she did not say yes she did not say no and continued …
/r/TheRedPill27/11/15 06:57 AM
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In small things like that it can be frustrating when women do not want to be wrong. My mom for example a great women and if she is wrong and I point it out she will apologize and say she was being irrational. However in this case I was accusing my LTR of being a cheater, if she had accepted the accusation then in her mind, deep down it would mean she is a bad person and women cannot be like that. I even find it rare among-st men.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/15 06:46 AM
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I think that I at least put my foot down and decided that I would end it with her, albeit a little too late. I honestly do not think I would have done so without TRP. Using my ability to walk away was thanks to all you guys.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/15 06:42 AM
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Mom and family, one of the only people who cared was one of my friends who could empathize as it had happened to them a little earlier.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/15 06:39 AM
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yep his friends bragged often to my face. It was really weird in that I just did know people were capable to be that shitty, but like I said nobody cares, sure if someone did not like her in the first place they will take whatever she did and run with it. "Bro I told you she was a bitch from the start like the time she didn't help me with the homework, just shows you how much of a bitch she is." While if lets say if she were friends with an ultra-traditionalist that person wouldn't judge as much…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/15 06:37 AM
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She had invited him over "sometime in the future" I know he hadn't come over because that text was sent about a couple of days before I read it and there was no real opportunity. Does it mean that she would have, maybe, but the important thing was the stuff she did was bad enough.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/15 06:28 AM
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haha, I would agree with you, but the reason why I think they hadn't fucked yet was because she didn't really have a chance to do so. Plus I looked through all their texts and if they had fucked then they would have said something like "Last night was great, the way you fucked me." Plus the guy asked for her picture in the sweater and she said no. But maybe I am wrong.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/15 06:26 AM
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An emotional affair can be emotional sexual without being physically sexual. They would talk about their kinks what turned each other on. about her back-up plan to be a "cam girl" and tell him when she was turned on.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/15 06:17 AM
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Good on you. I honestly expected my girl to react like that, but alas. For example I had fucked up at one time and she gave me another chance so I came from the mentality that if she gave me a second chance I should at least give her a chance to prove her loyalty, I mean it would be only fair right? Dumb thing is one of my good friends was begging me to go ghost or say something like "I'm just no longer attracted to you," but I wanted to be "fair" about it plus I was in denial, emotional cheatin…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/15 06:11 AM
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When I first met this girl she would apologize for everything, it was adorable. Mostly everything even if there was nothing to be sorry about. Ironically she was not sorry this time.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/15 05:57 AM
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It was the emotional stuff, but it was also flirting and he would hit on her and she would encourage it. stuff like "If you were throwawayy I could totally suck your dick and that would be so much easier" and "hahahah you totally have to come over to my house sometime" then he would say how he wants to see her naked. At one point she sent me a nude of herself in his sweater which was what got me to check her texts. I didn't want to get too much into it, she didn't fuck this guy but still.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/15 09:28 PM
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Fair enough. But if I had wanted her back, told her to break-off all contact and then say all is forgive I take you back, doesn't that sub communicate to her that my threat to leave wasn't serious.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/15 06:53 PM
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Maybe my abilities, but with me at least, we are both highschool seniors so I never did give her access to my resources as we both payed for stuff 50/50.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/15 06:40 PM
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Or the fact that it was an on-going thing for about 2 weeks.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/15 06:27 PM
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If you tell someone they can't do something, they won't stop doing it, they'll do it while hiding it from you. Spot on, this is something I took a while to really internalize. Even one of my feminist friends told me " well what did you expect, if you tell a girl not to do something she will do it" I think the way I handled the entire situation was honestly the worst I could have done. But my question to you is then. If you want them to stop doing something that what do you do? in the moment I th…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/15 06:25 PM
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Exactly, even if she did care about you, your inability to give her what she desires (in my case commitment) makes you useless to her. Briffault's law.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/15 06:21 PM
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should I have just not let them hang out from the beginning? or would that be persevered as scare mentality? Also the main reasons I did such a poor job of validating her is because I only wanted to validate her when she "earned" it e.g. rewarding good behavior. Was I wrong to do that?
/r/askTRP10/11/15 05:46 PM
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Thanks, it makes sense.
/r/askTRP10/11/15 05:41 PM
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While I do appreciate your advice, you have to realize that a lot of people who post on asktrp ( including myself) are socially retarded.
/r/askTRP11/10/15 05:44 PM
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One simply does not read the sidebar once and becomes knowledgeable. You must read it till you can recite it. Why is it the first time I am hearing this?
/r/askTRP09/10/15 08:51 AM
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check her texts
/r/askTRP09/10/15 08:49 AM
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yeah i think i may have to read the sidebar 90 more times, something i obviously missed the first time around. I tried to apply dread but i guess I was doing something wrong because it had the opposite desired effect.
/r/askTRP07/10/15 02:51 PM
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AMEN to that brother.
/r/askTRP07/10/15 02:27 PM
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Thanks! Honestly the "She was never yours, it was just your turn." thing really just reminds me of the guys she will be fucking that aren't me.
/r/askTRP07/10/15 02:25 PM
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she was my first love and she cheated. been together for 2 years, we are both 17.
/r/askTRP07/10/15 02:24 PM
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While I do agree with some of your points, I do believe that a high-quality women and LTR material women are defined by their ability to counter their instincts and their need for validation. Those few who are worth the LTR will counter the worst part of their AWALTness because they have a better self awareness than others.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/15 07:47 PM
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It's like two years of a pretty great LTR, then 1 month when you hit a rough-patch and everything goes out the window. I knew about Biffault's law before, but fuck man really so soon?
/r/TheRedPill06/10/15 04:34 PM
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Lift, Lift and then Lift some more. If the balding is an issue then maybe shave it all off. Also the point of approaching many women isn't just a game of numbers, eventually when you approach enough women you will learn to be more relaxed and confident talking to people.
/r/askTRP24/09/15 09:40 PM
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Makes sense, is negging usually counter-productive in an LTR then?
/r/askTRP22/09/15 06:48 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1c7khz/on_confidence_vs_asshole_and_on_nice_guys/ When I mean asshole it's stuff like this.. right?
/r/askTRP22/09/15 06:10 AM
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I'm only half-way through the book of Pook, i might have missed that part though. Which part is that in.
/r/askTRP04/08/15 04:50 AM
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I came over to her house, and at first she resisted but after a while of me going to steps forward and one step back (which drove her crazy) she blew me.
/r/askTRP03/08/15 08:42 PM
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I'm not muslim and the parents do not know, we are in highschool so we plan on breaking up when college comes along.
/r/askTRP03/08/15 08:40 PM
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nope in fact during my BP days when I offered to pay she usually wouldn't let me and insist we pay 50-50 which we did.
/r/askTRP06/06/15 06:27 PM
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yep, calling her out on it was defiantly not the best course of action, now she's pissed and won't talk. oh well I will defiantly be following this course of action in the future.
/r/askTRP06/06/15 06:21 PM
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I know, I called her out on her hypocrisy and asked her how she justifies being with me.... she told me she doesn't so I guess it's hampstering? to be honest when she first told me it kind of took me by surprise. But other than that, she was pretty LTR material...
/r/askTRP06/06/15 05:28 PM

Let's say for example that I want want to do x. If I say I want to do x and will not accept anything other than doing x for the day. Would that be holding Frame or being stubborn?
/r/askTRP

thanks, can you provide an example for me understand it better?
/r/askTRP
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