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No advice because I just recently had to end an LDR, but you have my sympathy. It's great having visits to look forward to if you can. Otherwise just try to stay busy and let him set the pace for the conversation so you don't feel like a burden.
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/17 11:16 AM
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We did discuss our future. He doesn't want a relationship because he wants to be able spend time together, go on dates, cook for me, take care of me, etc. He said it's difficult for him to have just an online/text based relationship, which I get. He loves spending time with me and we had an amazing time when we were together, but distance is tough. We're also very busy. I get it. I'm just concerned that he may end up wanting to be friends with benefits. Sometimes I think he wants the benefits of…
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/17 02:55 AM
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Trust me, I went NC with my narcissistic parents last year. I'm well versed in cutting contact with toxic people if needed. I think he will be respectful and give me the space I need. He's well aware of what happened to my parents. He's also been a decent person in general.
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/17 01:50 AM
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We dated three months so I think a few weeks break should be fine. We'll see. I told him I need a break if we're going to be friends and he responded positively to it. My only concern is I don't know I can handle being a friend without wanting more or being offended if/when he finds someone else. I think there's a chance he's holding out hope that we'll go back to our old arrangement too.
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/17 01:47 AM
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That's basically what I told him. I said I still like him and I need a few weeks apart if we're going to try to be friends. It might take longer than that. I'm honestly surprised he's texting me again so soon. I'm the one who initiated the breakup but he's the one who couldn't handle a LDR. Edit: He responded saying "Alright! Whatever you think is best :)" I'm not used to being with someone so drama-free, it's nice for a change.
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/17 01:40 AM
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Hilariously enough, he literally just texted me "Hey! How are ya? :D" Impeccable timing haha. I have no idea what to say or if I even want to reply. I'm actually doing well, but I'm afraid that continuing contact will make me miss him. sigh
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/17 12:48 AM
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Thank you. I don't feel good about it now, but maybe it was for the best.
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/17 07:05 PM
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I ended it. We really care about each other but long distance won't work for us. I'm so sad :/
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/17 10:19 AM
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Thank you. You're right, but it doesn't make me feel any better. I'm devastated. If we lived in the same city things would be so much better. It's always that one little thing. I keep saying this, but he's truly an amazing guy and I wouldn't want a LDR unless that person was special. I feel like no one else I have met comes even remotely close.
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/17 03:30 AM
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That's actually a great way of wording it. It sounds less confrontational. And that's pretty much exactly what I want to say. I know we care about each other, but I don't feel like I fit into his life. Thank you, I think I will ask him this tonight or tomorrow when he isn't busy.
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/17 03:15 AM
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Unfortunately our careers will keep us in separate states. I kind of already knew that this had an expiration date, but I wanted to enjoy it and have fun while it lasted. You mean I am scared of him saying he doesn't want a relationship? Yeah, I am. I really like him a lot and I feel like I am giving up too easily.
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/17 03:13 AM
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I haven't really communicated that I want a serious relationship lately. I feel like ending things without trying to talk about it could be a bit premature don't you think? And if he says no, then I have to end it.
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/17 02:44 AM
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You're probably right, I shouldn't bother worrying. I have been enjoying things the way they are for the past three months. I guess my irrational fear is that he will start talking to someone else and I can't complain because technically we aren't in a relationship. I have no idea if I will meet his parents or spend time with him over the holidays. I hate that everything is in the air. Can you tell I'm a control freak? Haha.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/17 08:51 PM
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These are excellent questions, thank you. I agree, I think he's a good person but I'm not sure if we are compatible. Am I happy seeing someone once a month? Honestly I don't mind. It gives me the space and freedom to work hard, save money and pursue my hobbies. Visiting him once a month is like a fun vacation for me. Would I like to see him more? Eventually, yes. I think the LDR works for him because I am letting him set the pace for communication. We still talk everyday but I usually let him te…
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/17 07:33 PM
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Just playing devil's advocate here: on RPW, isn't part of the goal finding a successful man to marry? One of the things that attracted me to this guy was that he was so career driven. He makes great money and is very successful. I used to date guys that had no ambition, no money, nothing. I hated it because these guys had no future. The guy I'm dating now is building a future and he will be able to provide for his future wife someday. I'm attracted to that security. So in a sense, as much as I l…
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/17 06:34 AM
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Hey I've seen this channel before! Awesome guy, he has a very calming voice. I find that ASMR and meditation channels can help. Definitely need to work on quieting my mind more. Thank you :)
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/17 04:54 AM
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You have no idea how much I needed this. Thank you! As a recovering control freak it helps to STFU and usually I can calm down within a day or two. What's difficult is trying to distract myself during that time. Any suggestions?
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/17 04:26 AM
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I agree that it isn't necessarily bad, but I bragged about it in an obnoxious way. Like I would try to prove I knew more than the guys hoping it would impress them. Turns out when act like a guy you get treated like a guy haha!
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/17 11:11 PM
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Pros: long highlighted hair, pretty brown eyes, slim physique (working on getting more fit/curves), tall, long legs. Calm and easygoing most of the time, calm voice (not loud and annoying haha), quite a private person, don't post much on social media, have a well-paying job, enjoy cooking and cleaning, submissive, low n-count, no swearing, love to travel. Cons: some light acne scarring (trying to get rid of it with facials and peels), teeth are slightly crowded (getting Invisalign soon), no musc…
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/17 02:19 PM
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Something I didn't clarify is that neither of us are seeing anyone else. So in those terms, we are exclusive, just not "official" yet. It's that awkward stage. RPW urges women to wait for exclusivity before having sex but I'm not sure if that means just not seeing other people or being in an official relationship. My SO and I talked almost everyday via text or FaceTime for a month before meeting each other and being intimate. Not sure if that breaks any rules, but I certainly feel like I waited …
/r/RedPillWives04/08/17 09:27 PM
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Thank you! :)
/r/RedPillWives04/08/17 09:19 PM
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