| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 78 | If they didn't do it for themselves, they're not going to do it for you.This was me. Thinking I could love him a little more, give him more attention so he’d fix up. He never did. They never do. It’s either there or it isn’t. I told my ex LVM everything, wrote him a ‘prescription’ to fix his ways- he asked for it. But they just don’t care. He knows exactly what he’s doing. I think of it in this way- if someone offered him a million dollars to change he would do it in a heartbeat- but he didn’t for me and I’m worth a lot more than that- just not to him. So boy 👋 off … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 01:43 PM |
| 15 | I wanted some advice on a few things if y'all are up for it.You need to throw all these men away and start again! | /r/askFDS | 12/10/20 10:30 AM |
| 6 | He's driving down to my city for the first date, does that mean I have to plan it?I’m not sure to be honest. He probably won’t be familiar with the city- but then again these days of google etc I’d expect him to put some effort in and plan something. Everyone has access to that kind of info these days. If it were me I’d just let him deal with it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 01:43 PM |
| 11 | Does following FDS leave you a little guarded in relationships? Or are you open and all in, but still “ready to walk” at a moment’s notice (if he acts up)? Does the balance come naturally with time?Teach me your ways wise one! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 11:02 AM |
| 44 | What is the worst suggestion for a date you have ever had?I was asked to come ‘chill in the car for a few hours’. Wonderful! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 10:52 AM |
| 39 | The red flags here... so painful to read after FDS!! 🚩Heartbreaking to say the least. Unappreciative scrotes- even after 10 years! No shame | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 06:26 AM |
| -5 | Do not be beholden to your parents after you marry your husband!I get what you’re saying now. But for me I just can never put my partner before my parents. My mother and father literally went hungry some days to feed and clothe me. I never wanted to get married just so I could be there for them in case they ever needed me. I don’t want kids for the same reason- I just want to be there for my parents at the drop of a hat. They have never ever asked me for a single thing- I don’t know perhaps it’s something in me! | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/10/20 09:46 PM |
| -13 | Do not be beholden to your parents after you marry your husband!Blood is thicker than water... always. When he cheats/ leaves you- not if-when. It’s usually the parents putting you back together again. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/10/20 09:31 PM |
| 1 | Girls any tips on how not to get attached? Or how to detach? I’ve been ghosted and I just can’t move past it.Definitely bought up some valid points! It didn’t help that he was extremely attractive and very wealthy.. I guess this is more of the loss I’m mourning- not the actual individual! I’m not sure if it’s low self esteem as I really think it’s his loss, but it’s just curiosity as to why. I know it’s all about him. | /r/askFDS | 26/09/20 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Girls any tips on how not to get attached? Or how to detach? I’ve been ghosted and I just can’t move past it.I get what you’re saying, I wasn’t fully disengaged, because I had agreed to go out with him. Usual male female flirting dynamics were in play. But it is what it is! | /r/askFDS | 26/09/20 07:09 PM |
| 10 | Racial fetishization and pedophilia. He wonders if he should learn to speak Chinese so he can have a better chance of targeting women that have the body type of school boys. Reddit is a cesspool of depraved LVMsVile creature | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 07:44 PM |
| 4 | I think she discovered FDS.. better late than never 👑I’m reporting yours because I didn’t see rudeness anywhere | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 10:41 AM |
| 2 | What is very unflattering for a woman?Making spelling errors when calling others out | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/09/20 09:30 PM |
| 2 | What is very unflattering for a woman?Why would you donate any of those things you mentioned? They should be binned. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/09/20 09:27 PM |
| 2 | Sharing a drink and wanting her to buy him bubblegumI love this! Hahaha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 12:56 PM |
| 3 | Sharing a drink and wanting her to buy him bubblegum‘Literal fetus children’ I cannot stop laughing at this. I’ve reread it so many times 😂😂😂😂. OP you are hilarious | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 12:54 PM |
| 26 | Don’t forget to peep around his room a bit!I have the strangest collection of books. I have books on manipulation and serial killers- they don’t reflect my personality. I just love reading and it helps to be well read so you can identify problem behaviors in others. I would probably have no friends or relationships if someone judged me on the contents of my bookshelf 🙄🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 06:14 PM |
| 3 | Riddle me this.This thread made me laugh so much! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 02:42 PM |
| 3 | r/NoFap gets itHaha, better late than never! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 11:48 AM |
| 1 | No.. just noHe made me better for the next. Jokes on him! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 06:49 AM |
| 1 | Do you think LVM/NVM can really change and become HVM some day? If so, should we give these men a chance?I’ve discovered that men don’t usually change. Especially once they get past 30ish. Women are much more adaptable and self reflective. He may change for a bit, but the base material is the same. He will revert back to his original ways eventually | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 12:12 PM |
| 20 | It’s Happening!These kind of passive men aren’t usually that dangerous. I was with one of these lazy pigs. They don’t even want to fight for the relationship let alone try and make you stay. It’s far too much effort. So glad I found FDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 08:58 AM |
| 16 | When emotional labor follows us into the bedroom. A passage from “Rage Becomes Her”I always faked it with my ex nvm, now I wish I hadn’t. The nasty scrote must have had a lovely ego massage from me. Ughhh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 07:07 AM |
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