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| 458 | I’m 27, a virgin, living at home, jobless, struggling with mental illness. I’m lonely and horny just like everyone else but idk where to start | Removed: Specific Situation / post on r/askseddit | throwayyyallday | /r/seduction | 25/04/21 03:57 AM |
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| 1 | Book Summary: The Book of PookI’d sooner kill off my masculinity than feed it | /r/seduction | 10/03/22 05:34 PM |
| 1 | I’ve been having a lot of sex lately.All these chicks atthe same time ? Like how | /r/seduction | 10/02/22 05:42 AM |
| 1 | Feeling hopeless in my dating lifeWhat kind of music ? | /r/seduction | 01/09/21 10:01 PM |
| 2 | Feeling hopeless in my dating lifeI’m similar. I don’t have aspergers but honestly sometimes I suspect I might be on the spectrum. Just based on some stories I’ve heard of my childhood and the fact that I have a somewhat related disorder in an extreme capacity. Also issues with social interaction my whole life. OCD fucking blows and everything that I’ve gone through with it has influenced my life and behaviors and personality. It’s a true identity crisis. So I feel you man especially when dating comes into play, mental health st… | /r/seduction | 01/09/21 09:56 PM |
| 2 | This sub is probably cock-blocking youThat’s a great point. Im a shy overthinker myself. I don’t even want to think about how many hours I’ve wasted reading shit on reddit about dating and sex or whatever. Just yikes. But your point is very good. My problem lately is masks in public and I also have a really low voice. The pandemic didn’t do wonders for my public speaking skills. It’s hard for me to not feel like I’m yelling and I overthink this all the time in public. Big part of my SA. It’s so hard for me to be natural. Idk when th… | /r/seduction | 05/08/21 04:11 AM |
| 5 | How MUCH Does Height Matter?Oh I’m sure that would be... but I feel like if my height really was an issue it wouldn’t get very far in the first place Edit: Not really sure what I’d do. Probably just move on. Even though it would likely hurt I know you can’t just get hung up on one. Theres one out there that won’t care and has the same values I do. That really goes for anything you could be hypothetically rejected for | /r/seduction | 03/08/21 11:47 PM |
| 2 | How MUCH Does Height Matter?I see. I kinda scanned your post a bit ago and I read your edit. I see the numbers are encouraging anyways! So we agree I just feel like even without the numbers, we just gotta stop putting so much stock into how many inches we are above the ground. You know? Idk man I just feel like it’s so ridiculous sometimes and any modern thinking person wouldn’t judge someone so harshly for a physical attribute made by genetics they couldn’t control. Sorry I’m kinda rambling I’m just upset that this is suc… | /r/seduction | 03/08/21 11:20 PM |
| 1 | How MUCH Does Height Matter?I don’t know if it’s true. “Height matters”. If this statement means “height means something to some people” yes. This is true. As a short guy (5’ 5.5”) let me offer another perspective though. If someone wonders if “height matters” I would say no it does not. It doesn’t “matter” at all to me. Because I can’t change it. My height is meaningless to me because of this. But hey that’s just me. Thats how I’m choosing to tackle it and It works most of the time tbh. I’m insecure about a lot of things … | /r/seduction | 03/08/21 11:08 PM |
| 8 | How MUCH Does Height Matter?Coming from a shorter guy. I can answer this question right now. Here’s the bottom line. You can’t change it so it doesn’t matter. I didn’t even read this cuz I don’t have to. No offense OP. It just doesn’t matter to me. just being real for my short bro’s on here. I don’t give a shit about the stats. I’m short and I barely think about it. That’s the only mindset you can have. | /r/seduction | 03/08/21 10:48 PM |
| 1 | I need to move tf out of the parents houseYou’re right. But I feel like it’s extra hard to not fantasize or obsess when you’re a virgin though. It’s like you’re a curious, clueless and horny teenager as far as sex goes. but you’re stuck in that position for the next ten plus years. | /r/seduction | 03/08/21 06:54 AM |
| 1 | I need to move tf out of the parents houseWow this sounds like me just a year younger. Except I barely have a job or even savings tbh. :/ I don’t see myself ever getting out at times. Might stay a virgin forever too. and if moving out is really a necessity to losing the v card I might not have sex until I’m in my 30s at least and 40s at most. Jeez. | /r/seduction | 03/08/21 06:43 AM |
| 1 | Pretty sure he wants sex, I like him but I’m not ready, next steps?How do you define a high value man | /r/seduction | 01/08/21 04:11 AM |
| 2 | Pretty sure he wants sex, I like him but I’m not ready, next steps?Ah. | /r/seduction | 01/08/21 04:07 AM |
| 2 | Pretty sure he wants sex, I like him but I’m not ready, next steps?I agree. I I have the same rule without a shadow of a doubt. I just don’t feel like it applies to myself sometimes. Like I sabotage and in essence hurt myself all the time, is what I mean. Can’t say why and I know it doesn’t make sense. Edit; Clarified myself in the second to last sentence. | /r/seduction | 01/08/21 01:33 AM |
| 3 | Pretty sure he wants sex, I like him but I’m not ready, next steps?Ok so you have to make the cut to get access to the vast variety of mates modern society has presented us with. How does that equate to pussy being cheaper than it’s ever been? Im stoned and not that smart so I could just be missing your point. also get to work That’s assuming one even wants to take part in the ridiculous game. I wish I wasn’t so jaded but after years of mental and social struggles I don’t see any other truth. So fuck it. We’re all dead soon right? In the grand scheme. Have eart… | /r/seduction | 01/08/21 01:20 AM |
| 1 | Pretty sure he wants sex, I like him but I’m not ready, next steps?cheaper If thats true then how is anyone still a virgin? | /r/seduction | 31/07/21 11:10 PM |
| 1 | Here's everything I've learned about women, dating, sex, PUA, and seduction in my decades of life.Holy shit great post. Just thought I’d throw some thoughts out there. I’m basically like the polar opposite of you lol never had sex with one woman. Well I guess I’ve kind of had sex. I like how you don’t boil sex down to one thing in your post... even though I’m technically a virgin I know sex really is all about sharing pleasure with someone else. I’ve done oral but that’s the furthest. But damn just reading your post I feel like I could spend a lifetime studying it. And it was overwhelming. N… | /r/seduction | 31/07/21 12:13 AM |
| 1 | I missed out on my teens, and I fear my 20s will be the same. Advice?It’s complicated for me. Some people would say I’m not even a virgin just cuz I’ve had oral sex. But I still feel like a virgin even though I’ve done stuff. It causes me to fixate on PIV sex. I worry about it a lot and it kind of scares me at this point to be honest. It’s been built up for so long. I probably need a sex therapist. I haven’t had success with women at all recently. Probably due to sabotaging myself. I upped my tinder game and my appearance/physicality and I get matches all the tim… | /r/seduction | 29/07/21 08:40 PM |
| 16 | I missed out on my teens, and I fear my 20s will be the same. Advice?It’s all relative man. There’s thousands of guys out there that envy you for even having sex once and that’s their dream. Including me. I wouldn’t say it’s my dream but I’m envious to an extent. I understand the constant comparing. I do it all the time and it’s really held me back in life. But we just have to not engage in that. I’m just starting to try. Think of it as useless. What good is comparing going to do us? I can say it’s done none for me in the last 6 years. I’m 27. | /r/seduction | 29/07/21 12:33 AM |
| 1 | No one on the planet knows your low value until you demonstrate it.And being social... which i guess is part of attraction obviously. But that’s something I struggle with so I focus on it quite a bit | /r/seduction | 28/07/21 10:56 PM |
| 3 | No one on the planet knows your low value until you demonstrate it.And people who dont have their lives together bang all the time. Sure it’s great if you can do it no denying that. It’s ideal. But In a lot of places it’s not that easy to just get a career and have your own place. There’s also social and cultural factors and family dynamics that can be a huge factor. And it’s not always that easy for people struggling with mental issues. Sadly thats what I have going on. If having everything together is the requirement for me I won’t have any success with women… | /r/seduction | 28/07/21 10:14 PM |
| 1 | To those feeling like crap because you missed out "the best years of your life" (AKA high school or college):The point of life is butts ? | /r/seduction | 27/07/21 07:36 AM |
| 1 | Being shy and being introverted are not the same. You can be introverted and still be extremely good with people.You’re right it’s all about being socially competent. I’m a huge introvert and too many people drain me in a really bad way. Even small amounts of people can do it too, depending on the context. But somehow at times with one on one I’m able to come off as sort of quiet but friendly and able to go with the flow. I was lucky in some genetics and I think I’m actually good looking but inside I’m a virgin lol In my head it’s usually a hurricane of thoughts and self doubt thanks to ocd and other self … | /r/seduction | 25/07/21 09:39 PM |
| 7 | The Importance of Being Good in BedMaybe in the next life | /r/seduction | 25/07/21 01:49 AM |
| 1 | Just got rejected 12x in a row at the mallHow about me though, I’m 27 and it’s mostly despair and grief and anxiety mixed with a little bit of dopamine now and again | /r/seduction | 12/07/21 09:21 AM |
| 1 | To those feeling like crap because you missed out "the best years of your life" (AKA high school or college):Yeah nothing else you can do I guess. I know this is the answer but I just can’t accept it. It’s too weird and too spooky | /r/seduction | 06/07/21 12:14 AM |
| 2 | To those feeling like crap because you missed out "the best years of your life" (AKA high school or college):And we all get old eventually so What’s the point of anything | /r/seduction | 05/07/21 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Rejection depressionDamn is that what I was missing lol. I had a horrible break up that fucked me up for a while and I’ve been dry for 6 years now. Technically I live my entire life in the dry state though cuz I’m a piv virgin | /r/seduction | 28/06/21 02:15 PM |
| 1 | How do I meet girls and how can I get to know them? Looking for casual sex and/or a long relationship.But not everyone can do it I disagree :/ do some people not actually die virgins? idk how you come to the conclusion “everyone can do it”. | /r/seduction | 25/06/21 08:39 PM |
| 1 | How do I meet girls and how can I get to know them? Looking for casual sex and/or a long relationship.If you can never do it is life worth living | /r/seduction | 25/06/21 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Book Summary: The Book of PookLol. All the stuff about being a “man” is complete bullshit. I have no connection whatsoever to my sex that I didn’t choose. I could care less about masculinity. If I did care I could have it changed and become whatever I want to be. But I just don’t. Whatever, I was born with a cock. When I feel the need I’ll get myself off and go back to everything else that life is. I don’t care about my gender or think about it hardly at all. Sorry y’all but guy who wrote this book is an idiot with a narrow … | /r/seduction | 27/05/21 05:54 AM |
| 1 | Average men never truly experience a women's love at its full extentYeah but you never know. Plenty of hot people out there who have mental and social problems that prevent them from being “jocks” like you say. The world’s not that black and white | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/21 02:44 AM |
| 2 | I’m 27, a virgin, living at home, jobless, struggling with mental illness. I’m lonely and horny just like everyone else but idk where to startWell yeah... im reminded of those things all day every day so | /r/seduction | 25/04/21 06:02 AM |
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