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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 94 | Ladies, I think I found a HVM | #JustHVMThings | throwedaway17 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 09:10 AM |
| 31 | Love bombed, slow fade by fuckboi - how do I respond? | SEEKING ADVICE | throwedaway17 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/19 04:39 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | Ladies, I think I found a HVMI don’t think I ever want to get married. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 01:10 AM |
| 6 | Ladies, I think I found a HVMMy post wasn’t just about flowers, food and sex. It was also about how he called out sick at work to pick me up at my house and take me to the emergency room at 4 in the morning. When I was released from the hospital with 6 prescriptions, and I passed out on his couch, he carried me to bed because he knew I hadn’t slept in 3 days. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 10:40 PM |
| 9 | Ladies, I think I found a HVMI mentioned I was struggling to install brackets and hardware in my kitchen. He came over on his lunch break with his toolbox and did it for me. He provides for me. He insists on treating and paying for me even when I want to go dutch, or treat myself. Again, he wants to provide for me. He noticed my favorite drink, and keeps his fridge stocked with it. Attention to detail. The rare evening we were able to stay in for the evening, he cooked me dinner. I have a very specific diet, that he doesn’t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 10:25 PM |
| 7 | Ladies, I think I found a HVMOh not at all. This was a very concise post about my experience with something new. I’ve definitely dated men who appeared HV and turned out LV. But this man is so attentive to me and my needs, and his desire to make me feel appreciated, valued, and provided for, it’s just not something I’m used to. Others seem to think he’s love bombing me (he’s not) or think being casual is a red flag (he’s hinted multiple times and explicitly stated recently that he wants to be exclusive but being casual is m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 10:03 PM |
| 2 | Ladies, I think I found a HVMI’ve been love bombed. He’s not love bombing me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 09:58 PM |
| 2 | Ladies, I think I found a HVMLaundry was done before I flew home but sure | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 09:57 PM |
| 2 | Ladies, I think I found a HVMHe wants nothing more than to be exclusive but I’ve been reserved and he has been respectful of my hesitation and decision to take it slow. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 09:55 PM |
| 11 | Ladies, I think I found a HVMI work in a very masculine, alpha, male dominated field, and men definitely get weirded out by it. Threatened, intimidated, they mansplain. But this guy... he’s been nothing but supportive, even when I vent about disadvantages of being a women and the ways I get fucked with by coworkers sometimes. We had lots of these types of pro-women discussions when we were friends, before we even started dating. He appreciates I need my own time and space sometimes, he respects that I have guy friends and w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 06:03 PM |
| 4 | Love bombed, slow fade by fuckboi - how do I respond?Lol no, there must be a broken mold out there somewhere though 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/19 11:15 PM |
| 5 | Love bombed, slow fade by fuckboi - how do I respond?Updated. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/19 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Love bombed, slow fade by fuckboi - how do I respond?Updated. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/19 09:45 PM |
| 4 | Love bombed, slow fade by fuckboi - how do I respond?Updated. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/19 09:45 PM |
| -2 | Love bombed, slow fade by fuckboi - how do I respond?Meh I’m not sure i want commitment myself right now though. I’m over this fuckboi though. See update to post | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/19 09:35 PM |
| 6 | Love bombed, slow fade by fuckboi - how do I respond?Hmmm it’s not the missing opportunity to date that bothers me, so much as the lack of mutual respect and his inability to use his big boy voice to just be a man. But I guess that’s why they are referred to as fuckbois and not men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/19 07:55 PM |
| 2 | Love bombed, slow fade by fuckboi - how do I respond?Not really. I frequent an area 40 min outside where he lives and have mutual friends in the city where he lives so it’s not the most unreasonable thing in the world. I’m not viewing anything through rose colored glasses or trying to minimize that it’s a distance - it is. But I’m in the area quite often as it is already. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/19 07:52 PM |
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