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You are trying to say that since I'm only orbitter to her and shes only draining me from my valuable time on this planet without giving me any real benefits then she deserves to be treated as just another person on this earth. And one of the reasons you guys recommend to ghost a girl who you are orbitter to is that this solution is the only real solution to stop her attention, because if i kept talking to her I would probably fell for her again and believe that she wants something more, again an…
/r/askTRP07/01/20 03:34 PM
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Well haha I will probably see how it goes. Since we have this group convo news will probably spread along fast, I may though create event on Facebook and just forget to invite her. Omg man this is brilliant, I love this approach. My Disney side of mind wants to ask though what should I do in a situation if for example 3 months has passed, we havent talked much, I organize a a party and she starts flirting with me or something. You understand the case. Should I ignore her for the rest of my life?…
/r/askTRP07/01/20 02:45 PM
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You are absolutely right man. After all, ghosting is to stop giving her attention that she doesnt deserve. I have one additional question that maybe you could anwser: I use to organize parties that my whole social circle takes part in. What I'm supposed to do about her invitation? I'm guessing that if I organize another one she will assume that she's invited. Should I really care though? Invitation wouldnt be in itself giving too much "attention" or something.
/r/askTRP07/01/20 02:31 PM
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My social group contains 5 guys and 2 girls and I already have group convo with guys that I want to stay in touch so I just can ignore the other group I guess. I dont know tho if I should "announce" in some kind that from now on shes "ghosted" or something. Sometimes I even used to organize a lot of parties which my "planet" (if i was on orbit then she was a planet(?) ) always took part in. Should I not invite her? I mean she didn't do anything bad to me, I Just need to distance myself from her,…
/r/askTRP07/01/20 02:26 PM
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Yeah I'm glad that I know about trp, else I prolly wouldnt know what to do. So many bp guys out there but I guess you cant convince anyone into seeing the truth. As for me I've read about trp in the past (a loot) but never really understood it. Its easier to behave in the old beta ways and not to change anything. Some people I guess just have to experience trp truths on themselves to really take any change. The truth still blows my mind, even the fact that most of the world's population doesnt s…
/r/askTRP06/01/20 08:13 PM
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Shame that you deleted your past response haha. It was really good, i was just about to anwser to it : Wow you understand me 100 %. I think im gonna read your post not only today, you are so much right about myself. Especially about part about seeking aprooval from other people. I dont accept myself so I'm doing this. Only thing thats gonna be hard is leaving this girl. I mean besides the fact that she's using and manipulating me she's really good talk. I thought that I can handle that but every…
/r/askTRP06/01/20 06:52 PM
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You are saying that you've had the same realization as me? To be honest for the past year all I've been doing truely was to this girl to like me more. I've got a job, I started running, I went to the gym. All of this for her to like me more and the outcome of all of that is I'm 21 yo, still virgin, never had a full girlfriend and well, at least I've got a job. I always told myself that I'm too shy to meet other people so I've been stuck with people whom I know from high school etc. But I guess t…
/r/askTRP06/01/20 05:44 PM
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Hahah i know that may sound like troll. But its just me....
/r/askTRP06/01/20 05:22 PM
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Never mind man. Too much blender today. I think I've found the anwsers. Thank you about that blender, it helped me realize that :P
/r/askTRP31/08/19 09:43 PM
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I don't know what I'm talking about and there's two ways. One has a risk of feeling bad about myself and other, safer way without it. And I don't even know if I should feel bad about myself using first way and I'm lost.
/r/askTRP31/08/19 09:30 PM
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Im already making progress since I realized my orbit. Since two weeks i picked up meditation 2x30 min, gym 3 times and 2 times running, also went on diet and lost 2 kg lol. So I guess I'm not having too much issues on self discipline.
/r/askTRP28/08/19 04:54 PM
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I know man, but who said that I cant meet other girls while having contact with her. She sometimes is good companion. Only trap is if I forget what I said today and I fall on orbit again I guess. I agree though that giving TOO MUCH attention to a girl who just wants to be friends is pretty retarded.
/r/askTRP28/08/19 04:51 PM
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Consider whether all of this is actually “fun” for you or whether you’re hamstering it as “fun” because you truly don’t want to block her, lose the tingles you get when she replies or suggests meeting up and that hope you have that something will happen between you two. This is partially true but I came to an understanding that since I'm already deep in to this shit orbiter hole I guess I may just learn something from this without giving her all this free attention. If I fall to giving her one t…
/r/askTRP28/08/19 09:00 AM
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I think I didn't say enough about myself. Since 2 weeks I'm already meditating 2x 30 mins, lifting gym 3 times a week , run 2 times, having diet etc. so I think I'm working on myself. Already lost 1 kg (: . I mean I'm honest to myself - I want to fuck this girl some time but at the same time I'm aware of all you've said that I'm free attention-ATM now. I used to text with her for hours but lately I've started to give her less attention: responding after hours, not reacting to her beggining some …
/r/askTRP28/08/19 08:54 AM
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I dont know why I thought yesterday that it would be a good idea lol. Thank you man. Everything is starting to click now.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 02:57 PM
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Thank you man thats a good idea. She also goes to the gym so I can take her with me. I could exchange numbers with her on the next party in not direct fashion such as "uhh, I've lost my phone could you ring me?". What do you think
/r/askTRP22/08/19 02:39 PM
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Yeah, maybe I will do something but I'm pretty bored with her shit. Its like I hear from our mutual friend that she's so pervy and direct overall. Who knows, I dont want to commit really hard not to make my same old mistakes as I did 2 years ago and got blocked lol. But who doesnt take risk, doesnt drink the champagne or how they say it. I guess little to loose here
/r/askTRP22/08/19 02:36 PM
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Hahaha yeah I am the virgin. Is that a problem for you? I dont need her really, if I wanted her then I would chase her. Im working on myself man. I will not change myself into chad in one day. Thats why im asking questions.
/r/askTRP22/08/19 02:31 PM
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Yeah I ask those questions because I didn't ever had that kind of interaction with "after date handling". She's my kind of "scientific experiment". I texted her now, did some teasing etc and I guess we will be going out again and then I will try to escalate. Rome wasn't built in a day :)
/r/askTRP28/10/18 10:12 PM
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Nonono you missed my point, I don't really have oneits. I just made long post since this is my first "date" not because I have fallen in love with her. Thank you for your tips tho, after I did that for the first time things will get better other time /with other girl.
/r/askTRP28/10/18 10:04 PM
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I mean I care, although if 20 older post wall woman doesn't want me that's ok. But if I have chance to make fbw with 20 older milf then I will attempt to do so and fix my mistakes to call her my slave and she calling me her master as it used to be a year ago. I know that I'm far from it that's why I'm asking for advice.
/r/askTRP28/10/18 02:25 PM
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I know that I should escalate but if I escalated now when we will meet next week it will probably be rejected since she is pretty distanced from me. Regarding "boy toy" she was saying that I should find myself a girlfriend and me and her will be friends but still while saying that we were going out and kissing so that was like a shit test,i guess. Once I tested her and said that I'm going out with one girl (which was a mistake) she was distancing herself but I don't know.
/r/askTRP28/10/18 01:19 PM
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Regarding being caught I have nothing to loose, that she cheats on her husband is her problem. I'm living in other city after all. All I can loose is my friend after he found out that I was fucking his mom but I don't really care. Regarding reframing : Well, I will try to meet some girls at my uni, no contact with milf(only for logistics) and we will see what I can do with "respect" thing. After all she doesn't have any alternatives other than me to get either attention or to fuck (she doesn't f…
/r/askTRP28/10/18 11:38 AM
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My parents know about her. Even if she was moving mountains I have screenshots of her writing me "things" even that "her marriage is boring etc etc". Thank you for your advice, I actually after my last break up with "thot" got pretty frustrated and set up a date for today so I will see. When I meet this mother should I try some Kino though to make her hamster and oxitocine spinning? In addition to no communication but logistics she will start texting me every day "when we can meet " pretty soon …
/r/askTRP28/10/18 11:19 AM
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I'm not living in my home city so I don't care really. It's only every other 1 or 2 week thing and she's pretty good with hiding things from her husband (we are meeting when she takes her dog out). I forgot to mention that one of her sons Is my friend from high school but I don't really care. I just want to get my frame back so she's in my control again.
/r/askTRP28/10/18 10:53 AM
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Yeah but like I told her about my plate she was instantly distant to me. I guess I shouldn't tell her anything?
/r/askTRP18/08/18 08:22 PM
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I'm not sure what were the fuck ups tho, the last one is obvious but what about me joking about her trying to eat my finger(me trying to bring up that situation) and discussion about who selects chat colour and emoji 🤔
/r/askTRP26/10/17 01:37 AM
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Who cares lol, yolo
/r/askTRP01/10/17 07:19 AM
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That's what I'm planning to do now, I've got enough kino experience with her to do it with anyone now. Two days ago it worked with 19 yo, everything had the same schemes as with 40 yo so yeah.
/r/askTRP30/09/17 07:49 AM
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He's my friend from secondary school. Story with mom is preety complex but basically she bought a dog because she was getting really bored (she constantly stays at home, her husband is providing for whole family), we started texting and she was getting really lonely as she stated. I decided to join her and as my confidence was rising I slowly started getting closer to her, at first hand over her shoulder, then messaging her etc, we were drinking at every walk so that helped, then we kissed as go…
/r/askTRP30/09/17 12:47 AM
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That's the whole deal, only I and her know, If my friend knew then her husband would and I would be dead :D
/r/askTRP29/09/17 11:20 PM
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She doesn't really have that many "friends" so I don't think that she has other people. She has been with her husband since elementary school :O You might be right with what you are saying, I'm going to test it on another woman that I meet or even with her when I'm back to the city after getting back from the university next year. Now I started acted blue pill ish and suddenly she unblocked me from everywhere, maybe I should use 50 TRP 50 BP rule into this... Who knows
/r/askTRP29/09/17 11:02 PM
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It's like over now, up to today she blocked me everywhere and said she doesn't want to meet anymore. Although today when I texted her through phone (where she didnt block me) to set up a meeting at said time with saying that I will stay there to wait for her for another 10 minutes and then I will go, she showed up even when she said that she won't come. I don't really care though, she was a first woman that I tested TRP stuff on so now I will test my experience on another woman. I'm going to the…
/r/askTRP29/09/17 10:56 PM
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It isn't like I was getting boring, every other walk with her was more and more kissing and only on the latest she gave me blow job and we were additionaly dancing. She might have felt like a whore cuz she is married after all...
/r/askTRP29/09/17 10:44 PM
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Finally I can agree 100 % with all that you said. I don't care whether she cheats on me, she is that old that soon her looks will massively decrease, all of this is just for pure fun and temporary so I will drop her sooner or later . My friend himself is a beta on his own, even when he found out about us going out he didn't say a thing to his father, just said some stupid shit to her. I'm gonna finish what I have started here, my morals already disappeared when I kissed her multiple times
/r/askTRP31/08/17 10:12 AM
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You are right about control thing, in the inside I've been scared a little all the time about that whole "mother of a friend" thing but after all of that I think there's no such a thing
/r/askTRP31/08/17 08:26 AM
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Today as we were texting she kept telling me of her getting wet, a lot of sexual stuff and even suggested about inviting "that girl =her to my home" . She tried to convince me to masturbate while thinking about her, I don't know whether I should do it, is it some kind of a shit test? I might lie about it after all.
/r/askTRP31/08/17 01:19 AM
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I don't think that this is necessary, our texts on messenger are enough, I also have one recording of our phone call before we were meeting.
/r/askTRP30/08/17 09:55 AM
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My question is though whether she is indeed wet for me because she puts all those barriers with "one kiss" and standing up from me and saying that we have to go, maybe it's a part of a game and I should be more dominant as obviously it's her mind saying those things, her emotions are showing otherwhise. Earlier when I just started being kind of dominant irl she said she liked it
/r/askTRP30/08/17 08:55 AM
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I do have indeed, we were planning to cook with each other in there
/r/askTRP30/08/17 08:33 AM
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The worst thing would be her husband finding out but after all what happened till now even if he did we would be fucked anyway I guess
/r/askTRP30/08/17 02:03 AM
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If it was that simple I wouldn't make a thread about it
/r/askTRP30/08/17 01:47 AM
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