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I have a secret Facebook group with over 170 people and in it I've seen the full spectrum. It's a private and secret group so those of us still "in the closet" can read up, get resources, feel a sense of community and support. As part of the organisation we have guy's nights where we meet up and over drinks we discuss how things are going. None of the guys in the guy's night out have absolutely zero action. They either have a significant other they have sex with at home or are happily dating or …
/r/TheRedPill10/10/16 02:27 PM
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Of course in the first week you will see women have the upper hand but think long term here. I'm what you call polysaturated. Even if I wanted to add more women to the mix I'd be incapable to do so. There are just not enough time slots available for more women in my life. When we did open up my wife had 150 messages in her OkCupid inbox within the week and I had 4 replies from about 50 messages. You're totally right about that effect. I knew I had the capacity to create great relationships and I…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/16 12:51 PM
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What do you call a subservient role? Feminism isn't about making men into slaves, it's about giving women agency in their own lives. I happen to prefer women when they have full control over their lives but their lives does not include making choices in mine. I draw strong boundaries and enjoy the same freedom as they do. Again this isn't a zero sum game. When there is respect and trust rather than resentment and entitlement we have better relationships and more sex and happiness. You know there…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/16 11:26 AM
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Really? The worst thing a man can be is polyamorous? You really mean I should die?
/r/TheRedPill10/10/16 04:47 AM
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Thanks for the definition. I manage a "closeted" polyamorous group on Facebook with 170 people in it and about 15% of the men there fit that description. It's mostly within my own city and the larger public polyamorous group here has about 1/3 who would fit that description.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/16 04:45 PM
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I get the plating theory and I can't say a similar dynamic doesn't install itself with some of my FWBs but I certainly don't aim for that. I think it's silly to just assume that all relationships are cold and transactional like what a lot of TRP mentality assumes. It isn't a zero-sum game for me. A lot of what I get from my most devoted relationships is not measured in what they give versus what I put to the table (pun intended). In a lot of circumstances the relationships I develop are benefici…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/16 04:29 PM
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Well for one my last 10 comments aren't single sentences with poor grammar and punctuation. Secondly I can string a coherent thought after another well beyond the reflexive knee jerk reactions you stammer out so poorly. Thirdly I had more threesomes than you had sex.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/16 12:11 AM
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Look I'm not being facetious here. I have a wife, a girlfriend and several friends with benefits. I'm invited to an orgy next Friday, a play party on Saturday and I can tell you that no one who goes to these amazing events would ever use the term "cunts" when speaking of women's genitals. For the record my wife has a boyfriend and FWBs as well and I'm actually great friends with her boyfriend. I get that a lot of men use outdated notions of romance to hit the market and get burned severely. They…
/r/TheRedPill08/10/16 10:58 PM
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I looked in the glossary but what is a nu-male?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/16 08:42 PM
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Are you sure that saying you are polyamorous "dries up cunts" or the fact that you would describe a woman's genitals in that way? Polyamorous circles tend to be feminist and if you respect women you tend to have more of them around who will want you.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/16 08:17 PM
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Less risks of STDs in polyamorous circles https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-polyamorists-next-door/201401/sexually-transmitted-infections-in-polyamorous-relationships
/r/TheRedPill08/10/16 08:13 PM
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I don't pay for women when I go on a date.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/16 07:57 PM
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Here in Canada the cold water is way too cold in winter to do that. What temperature does your water come out as?
/r/seduction09/02/15 12:05 PM
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I ask if I can kiss her. Usually the woman is clearly indicating that she wants to be kissed so it works every time.
/r/seduction09/02/15 01:03 AM
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That shows some balls. I don't think it would work out for most people but at least you had the gutso to try it!
/r/seduction05/02/15 02:26 PM
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I recommend this book: http://www.amazon.ca/How-Talk-Anyone-Success-Relationships/dp/007141858X
/r/seduction04/02/15 02:58 PM
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A lot of really hot celebrities could be considered to have dysmorphologies. It doesn't mean they cannot be very attractive. A lot of their attractiveness comes from what they say, how they act and how they really don't give a shit about something insignificant like a minor sunken jaw. See this for a list of really hot celebrities http://twelvethingsyoudontknowaboutme.blogspot.ca/2012/05/celebrity-dysmorphology.html I think what you need is more confidence in yourself. Have you worked on yoursel…
/r/seduction29/01/15 01:58 PM
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With this kind of advice the world will not be a better place.
/r/seduction29/01/15 01:40 PM
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I read between the lines that's what this has to do with the OP.
/r/seduction29/01/15 01:30 PM
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I'm polyamorous and I frequent this forum because I occasionally date new people. My most important relationship is with my wife. We've been together 14 years and it's going great between us two. I feel this gives me a unique perspective about what seduction is and how it relates to creating relationship. My wife just broke it off with this guy in his 30s who did a great job getting her interested but he didn't know how to satisfy her beyond the initial seduction. It's like all he had was an emp…
/r/seduction28/01/15 03:14 PM
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How about not having an excuse? It should be clear to both of you that you want sex. "Want to continue this at my place?" should be all you need.
/r/seduction27/01/15 03:51 PM
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I hate the dismissive nature of so many people on here. I think you should ask her "should we move this conversation to email?". She is most likely super busy, or works in a place where texting is frowned upon during business hours, or she is with friends and they like people to socialize with them instead of looking at their phone. Ask to meet her in person if you can. Sometimes taking things slow is the right way to take it.
/r/seduction23/01/15 02:45 PM
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/r/redpill is where men who resent women for not loving them go to feel good about themselves. It mostly consists of denigrating women and self-congratulating themselves for life decisions that any AFC needs to take anyway.
/r/seduction18/01/15 06:12 PM
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It actually does and there are a few factors at play. 1) People drink just a sip and the one with the most sugar wins it out 2) The test was rigged... they gave away free prizes if you won and hinted at which side would have the pepsi
/r/seduction04/01/15 07:44 PM
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The amount of banter against women on TRP is scathing. You are right that men and women are different in a big way but this doesn't mean that one should respect the other any less.
/r/seduction03/01/15 03:13 PM
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My opinion on RSD is quite negative. I think their advice... though some might be good... has little to do with seduction and more to do with screening the women who have higher standards so they can target the mentally unstable, the troubled spirits and the bad self-esteem cases, ideally in all cases if they've had something to drink and only if it's dark enough. Take Owen for example. His favorite opener (video removed from youtube after the Julien disaster) is to call a woman a slut and dare …
/r/seduction19/12/14 12:26 AM
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Imagine a lawyer or a doctor making this exchange of services. It cheapens both your worth and that of PHP developers to ask this.
/r/seduction18/12/14 12:44 AM
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HB-n is useless because your 10 is not my 10. As far as the other terms I feel they're useful jargon that can speed up communication.
/r/seduction15/12/14 09:57 PM
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I found women were quite understanding if and only if I made it clear that: I'm honest My wife and I both benefit from this freedom I've had maybe 10% of women say they weren't interested after hearing that. They were looking for a provider and it was clear I wouldn't be that. The ones I had success with wanted a companion or a lover.
/r/seduction11/12/14 02:36 PM
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I've winged for a woman before but she has to have the balls to strike up a conversation with someone. I didn't hang right by her side but would look her way. If she looked at me when a guy would talk to her I'd go over and introduce myself and she'd say one of two things: "Here is my friend" or "Here is my good friend". "Good" was the keyword. I'd say a couple nice things about her (conversation fodder) and then say something to the effect that I wanted to fuck that hot lady across the bar and …
/r/seduction06/12/14 08:16 PM
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To anyone not willing to get past the obnoxious formatting don't worry... you're not missing out on anything.
/r/seduction05/12/14 05:34 PM
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I'm happy to share! As far as I know I've always been polyamorous. I fell in love with other women while married to my wife but never acted on it. What opened up the possibility was a threesome proposal from a friend that we acted upon. My wife had never even thought of the possibility of having sex outside of our marriage before then. Later on... friends I knew through sports and colleagues had spoken to me about their swinging or open relationships and I relayed what I had learned to my wife. …
/r/seduction04/12/14 09:19 PM
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I'm worried what young boys are learning from articles like these. Being emotionally available when it matters is most likely better for your success in life than ensuring at all cost that you're never invested with a woman beyond what it takes to have sex with her. My wife and I are super happy together and I get to pick up girls whenever I want and have quick hookups or more meaningful ones. Coming from my perspective the more meaningful and profound the emotions go the more you can get or lea…
/r/seduction04/12/14 08:15 PM
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Just ask her to kiss you. I've done it before and it can work.
/r/seduction21/11/14 04:23 PM
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I'll echo what Pchiodo says about you being the prize. Here is how you could ask her out. "Where is a good place to take a girl out on a first date?"... whatever she answers ask her if she'd like to go out with you to that place. If she says no then be prepared to gracefully accept it. "Sorry Heiligkreuz, I see you more as a friend|already have a boyfriend|have a crush on someone else." You can simply say: "If ever you change your mind just let me know. I find you interesting." The thing is in h…
/r/seduction20/11/14 09:16 PM
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I find asking more probing questions leads to more interesting conversations. FORD is just a starting point in many cases and you can ask connected questions. Heck still using FORD here is what I came up with: Family: Where abouts are you from? Do you miss your family/see them often? Are you close with them? Do you plan to see them for Xmas/next break? Occupation: Why did she choose that field? What's fascinating to you about that field? What are your favourite classes? Do you look up to anyone …
/r/seduction20/11/14 07:12 PM
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I think with the right words and confidence you can pull it off.
/r/seduction20/11/14 03:07 PM
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He promotes sexual assault. Do you realize what that means? It's a different thing having an opinion on the way we organize our government or how we spend our tax money than telling socially inept (in some cases) guys that it's ok to grab a woman and use her body without her consent. Julien has been shown saying it's alright to do so and showed it in some of his videos.
/r/seduction19/11/14 08:41 PM
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Did you see the videos of him assaulting women in the streets? That's illegal.
/r/seduction19/11/14 08:39 PM
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This is the best post I've read on /r/seduction. :-D A lot of people are too concerned with picking up HB8+ when they could be having way more fun with a HB6-7. They don't have to be someone they aren't and embrace who they are. I'm in my mid-thirties and not that great looking. I can pick up in a bar with no problem because: I walk in the bar knowing I'm the good catch of the day Hot women have to prove they're not boring to get with me I actually dress reasonably well I clean up I'm proud of m…
/r/seduction18/11/14 02:21 PM
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I'm sure you could get straight men to hop into that car if you had it.
/r/seduction17/11/14 08:42 PM
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This worked for me. We started making out back at my place and I said "I want to undress you and shower with you." In the shower I washed her and made it foreplay. /edit the part I found toughest is stepping out of the shower and drying off. That almost killed the mood but I dried her down while still wet and told her I was cold and she'd need to warm me up.
/r/seduction13/11/14 04:02 PM
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I slept with a 42yo when I was 19. I was horny and wanted to see her again so I dropped by a week after fucking her. She said to me: "I'd never sleep with someone as young as you so don't go imagining that anything could happen between us two." I was completely taken aback by this and thanked her for the drink and left. She ignored the fact that we fucked a week before like she had remorse or something about it. This isn't enough of a sample size but it was my only experience with a large enough…
/r/seduction13/11/14 03:56 PM
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How would you respond if your best friend canceled for the same reason? "Family is important and _____ sounds like a great way to spend time with them. Have fun!"
/r/seduction13/11/14 01:57 PM
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View your approaches as you vetting her and not the other way around.
/r/seduction13/11/14 01:52 PM
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This... so important. People are so stuck up and the connections they make are not memorable unless they show some vulnerability.
/r/seduction13/11/14 01:51 PM
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I actually am married but in an open relationship. I have the best of both worlds and I feel bad for anyone who won't live a long term, committed relationship because they're really wonderful.
/r/seduction12/11/14 05:13 PM
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Put the onus on her now. "When should we schedule something?"
/r/seduction11/11/14 07:13 PM
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Yes they did. It's all in answer to Owen's and Julien's comments which were promoting sexual assault on women. In one video Owen actually states very clearly that he assaulted a stripper and that one was removed by them (see my comment history where I discussed it). They're trying to remove anything which makes them look bad right now.
/r/seduction08/11/14 10:48 PM
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It's funny you say this because I actually became popular in college. I didn't really plan on it or anything like that, it kind of just happened. I can attribute it to a few things though but I could be missing some key points. High school was shit for me and I really wanted people to be nice around me so I was really nice to people in a few ways. 1) I remembered everyone's names. My father was a stickler for memory tricks and told me that if I had to learn one skill it was to learn how to memor…
/r/seduction08/11/14 06:54 PM
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He says he took a stripper... goes on bashing her saying she's the full whore type with tramp stamp and all and decides to pin her down... "she doesn't even want this ... but I fucked her just the same". I'm paraphrasing from memory. I watched the video just a few hours ago but that's pretty much what he said. /edit other details of the encounter he mentioned: "she's dry and clearly not ready for that but I don't give a fuck because I won't see her ever again".
/r/seduction07/11/14 09:16 PM
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I wished I had done a copy of this but here was a video of Owen admitting to sexually assaulting a girl and it was just taken down by RSD claiming copyright infringement: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LQBEnjs5UGU Julien and Owen both have techniques that are degrading and misogynistic. As a community we really should be more careful with who represents us.
/r/seduction07/11/14 09:11 PM
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Maybe you can say the same with less words but I find being vulnerable isn't a bad thing when you're in the friend zone. Saying what I said short-circuits the friend zone but I agree that it could finish on a question though so she has two options on the table. 'Would you want to go out on a real date and explore whatever it is we could become or do you want to just be friends?' This kind of talk worked for me in the past. It's how I got my wife and my girlfriend as well as a few other conquests…
/r/seduction07/11/14 05:15 PM
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Just ask her point blank: "Look I've made it rather clear I liked you and find you attractive. You turned down my advances. Is there anything that is holding you back? I'm OK with you saying you're just not attracted to me. I'm a big boy but I need to know if you need to take things slowly or if I'm just wasting my time with you." This shows balls to say something like this to a woman. Trust me... it's worth it.
/r/seduction07/11/14 03:31 PM
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I'm polyamorous and my wife and I have other partners and lovers. I'm polysaturated and need to feel connected to someone before having sex with them. I'm pretty much the worst swinger you can imagine :-P My wife on the other hand asked one guy out by "showing them about Secret.ly" and posting "I want to sleep with a someone but I don't know how to ask him" in front of him. She also had a few partners from OKCupid. It's as easy as saying "Hi. Could you send me more pictures of yourself? I find y…
/r/seduction07/11/14 03:27 PM
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A lot of the videos from PUA show them living the life travelling to remote places. The reality is that a lot of time they travel to places where it's easy to pickup girls. You don't see the pickup artists try in Paris for example. They'd get shot down so much that they'd go home with their tail between their legs (oh wait...). I find that in a more conservative country social validation plays a way bigger part. If you're friends with everyone a girl will be more likely to listen to your advance…
/r/seduction07/11/14 02:43 PM
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Sorry but if he lives in Canada like I do it is necessary. :-P
/r/seduction06/11/14 09:33 PM
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If a girl is genuinely busy... simply say: "I'd love to do X with you. When's a good time for you?"
/r/seduction05/11/14 08:02 PM
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I don't blog but I found a few of the posts really nice. Sometimes they are evident to us but not to others. Frankly some of the blog posts and videos were more interesting than the text posts.
/r/seduction05/11/14 05:19 PM
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I'm 36 and married but in an open relationship. I think I'm the lucky one to be honest. I have the best of both worlds.
/r/seduction04/11/14 10:00 PM
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The guy in the video doesn't say it but he's using a neg... at some point he almost says it but he comes back and says "a neg... hmm something negative". It doesn't matter where you're from to me this is not a good technique. It works on emotionally unstable women really well but that's like going for a hb1. It's easy but it is no fun for those who really care about the value of their dates. You might have a point that I know nothing about pick up as it is played right now but I find it really d…
/r/seduction28/10/14 08:37 PM
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Great way to get emotionally unstable women to love you but this isn't going to work with a well balanced individual. They'll find the games unsatisfying.
/r/seduction28/10/14 05:33 PM
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This is awesome. I like how they said it went well when the girl said she had a boyfriend and they didn't exchange numbers. They saw that as a win just the same.
/r/seduction21/10/14 08:58 PM
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1UP you've learned here. :-D Not getting screwed by that again.
/r/seduction08/10/14 10:03 PM
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I've gone to therapy to help me deal with some issues of mine. I'm feeling much better as a result. If it's an option for you you should consider it! Lots of people are in the same place you are and need help. It's not a sign of weakness but a sign that you've been too strong for too long.
/r/seduction08/10/14 01:12 PM
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Oh man... I could use a free babysitter. Make sure to give them lots of ice cream and return them with all their body parts.
/r/seduction07/10/14 06:29 PM
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I like how you are saying we should use our kids as accessories to peacock.
/r/seduction07/10/14 06:10 PM
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How does a guy go about getting you sexually attracted to them?
/r/seduction07/10/14 02:50 AM
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Don't let the result of this one dictate the confidence level on the next approach. Confidence is the #1 here ;-)
/r/seduction02/10/14 04:00 PM
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You see that's where I think this sub is fooling us a bit. We're in this hive mind mentality here where the prize is sleeping with a HB8+ as if that's the only way to consume or experience a relationship. My wife and I enjoy so much more than sex together and the strength of our relationship isn't based on how well I perform in bed with her (or her with I). The last sex partner she had has a cock twice the size of mine. The evening she saw him I was a bit of a wreck... felt jealous and insecure.…
/r/seduction02/10/14 02:27 PM
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I'm polyamorous and dating for me means I sometimes have to schedule 1 or 2 weeks in advance. Plenty of time for the initial contact to fade into oblivion with a woman I met. I use a sprinkle strategy. I send no more than one text a day... unless she makes the conversation last a few texts. I always find a way to end the conversation by saying I need to go do something important and wish her a good day/evening/whatever she's doing to finish it. You can have really nice conversation over text but…
/r/seduction30/09/14 08:12 PM
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Hey Vadim, I'm new to PU and I don't look very good. It's great to have role model like you that don't let that stop them. Also I liked the videos where you teach to hide natural halitosis with cigar smoke. It's helped me overcome my fears. Seriously though... you disarm women with your outrageous confidence and wit. I think it's wit classes that you should give. What are your inspirations?
/r/seduction30/09/14 07:18 PM
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Well the first thing you need to know is that our relationship is extremely good. We talk about absolutely everything. It all started when a friend asked to do a threesome (guy friend). You can read about it here: http://www.reddit.com/r/sex/comments/p45dj/account_of_my_first_ever_threesome_mmf/ This helped my wife to feel comfortable with the thought of having sex with someone else than myself but it didn't get into more than that until much later. Around the same time as that threesome a frien…
/r/seduction30/09/14 06:35 PM
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Read desiderata my friend... read it! :-D
/r/seduction30/09/14 03:22 PM
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You know what's funny about this question? I'm a bit older (37 next week) and I'm on this sub because I'm picking up again despite being married for 9 years. My wife and I both date other people and we're learning a lot from these seduction tips. The amount of self-help stuff that is worthwhile to read/hear on this sub is awesome but in a relationship you have to go well beyond what's in here and there is plenty of good material for that as well (edit see http://www.reddit.com/r/relationships). …
/r/seduction30/09/14 03:08 PM
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Even if we don't agree it's a good idea to read these things.
/r/seduction30/09/14 01:31 PM
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I like how the title is "How to give any girl a squirting orgasm" but the reality is that 90% of the work falls on the woman. She has to decide consciously to have it and even then it's not a given.
/r/seduction29/09/14 06:15 PM
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