throwinsilaway Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
47	You should not shame people for liking someone that's fat, it's already hard enough to date as a fat person	CMV	throwinsilaway	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/23 02:44 PM
3	r/Feminism literally thinks men can not be abused	Feminism	throwinsilaway	/r/MensRights	12/06/22 10:58 PM
1	r/Feminism literally thinks men can not be abused	Feminism	throwinsilaway	/r/MensRights	12/06/22 10:57 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	Online dating has permanently damaged the way we perceive and value others, both online and offline. If it's 2% of the population, and presumably not extremely clustered, then most people have met one lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/24 03:43 AM
1	Do single dads ever request or desire for a woman to "step up"? These are still statements specifically about having kids in general, not about dating a single dad. You've just conjured your own after the fact. I've been on r/childfree a lot, these are not remotely only dished out by single dad's.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/24 01:27 AM
0	Do single dads ever request or desire for a woman to "step up"? All those statements are specifically about having kids in general, not about dating a single dad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/24 01:20 AM
1	50/50 relationship are one sided benefiting only men I don't feel like correcting most of the mistakes in your response nor rebutting, so I'll just try a 3rd time with my original point. I said "a woman", not women. I don't think it applies to all most and if it doesn't apply to you then it doesn't apply to you. And if a man only found 20% of women attractive that would be his own bad trait too. It's shallow. Attraction and mate selection should be based mostly on factors besides appearance, and attraction should not be so discriminatory from appe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/24 11:11 PM
2	50/50 relationship are one sided benefiting only men Sharing genes doesn't rebut anything, okay so genes don't influence being attractive? The fuck is the argument about selection for them? Women have and had more agency than you claim. You said ""our bad trait"" but I only said it's if it pertains to you not a general group. You claimed it as your own trait too by saying "our". I'm reiterating the distinction, including my own personal difference in case you thought it wasn't possible to be different.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/24 10:53 PM
5	50/50 relationship are one sided benefiting only men Men and women share most genes. Most of our evolution has not been under modern conditions. And in fact men have always been less likely to pass genes on than women, so men have been more "selectively bred" in a sense. If you only find a few men attractive, that's a personal flaw. Personally, I find men just as good looking as women. You're arguing for hypergamy, with your reasoning being you like it and we haven't had enough hypergamy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/24 10:22 PM
5	FEMINISM WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD Ummm yeah you usually don't get directly paid for doing chores. What's your point?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/24 08:56 PM
3	FEMINISM WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD Like unpaid OT? Driving to work? Illegal wage theft? Are you talking about labor or unrelated work?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/24 08:53 PM
4	FEMINISM WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD Women earning less than men isn't inherently an issue. They choose comfier jobs, more enjoyable jobs, work less hours (and therefore also gain less experience), work safer jobs, etc. That's the bulk of reasons why they earn less. These are not issues. Discriminatory pay is negligible. Teachers and maybe to an extent nurses are underpaid and it's an actual issue, and those are mostly women so that contributes to the pay gap.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/24 08:04 PM
2	FEMINISM WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD I think the only major issue relating to women earning less is teachers being underpaid. Maybe nursing too but that's relatively minor. Other gendered professions don't have an issue and there is negligible discriminatory pay. Heck if anything we need better unions and blue collar pay that are mostly men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/24 07:56 PM
3	50/50 relationship are one sided benefiting only men What exactly is the 80 20 you are referring to?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/24 07:30 PM
1	Does paying for everything excuse you from chores? In general, yes. If you have a newborn, multiple very young children, or a sick partner or children, then maybe not fully. Also bonding with children, reading to them, tucking them in, etc. should be done by both parents and hopefully isn't seen as a chore even if you don't always like it. And every so often your partner might visit family or take a trip with friends or some other type vacation. So always? No.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/24 07:17 PM
3	Attention, a blessing or a curse Nice take	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/24 06:54 PM
8	Attention, a blessing or a curse Women get way more than just sexual attention. If you think you have 100s of sexual attention seekers and none are deeper or more connecting, you're wildly incorrectly discerning (or doing something regarded to warrant only sexual attention). If you already recognize the many that aren't just sexual then how do those feel?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/24 06:50 PM
10	50/50 relationship are one sided benefiting only men A woman finding most men unattractive is their own bad trait	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/24 06:42 PM
2	What is your solution to the issues in dating? Does your solution include take steroids, become shallow yourself, and like shallow women?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/24 06:19 PM
3	What is your solution to the issues in dating? 100s of men existing (what you describe) is not remotely the same as 100s initiating with them (typical modern tinder experience), nor having the potential to do that on tinder or seeing friends do it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/24 06:14 PM
1	What is your solution to the issues in dating? Well it probably won't happen for us, but China might.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/24 06:10 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Yes, they are hating on most men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/24 01:44 AM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread I wish it worked like that	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/24 01:42 AM
1	Let’s talk about incels If by blackpill it means believing physical attractiveness matters the most, then yes. It's not a core aspect of my personality.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	24/02/24 10:40 PM
2	Let’s talk about incels I don't really fit into any of those tiers 🙃 Unattractive (to most women, not even all), but no disfigurement autism poverty low IQ etc. I think you just need 1, not multiple. I have a disabled in a wheelchair friend who might be similar, idk. I have post history if you care to look deeper before asking stuff	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	24/02/24 07:03 AM
1	Does the fact that many children are raised in fatherless homes explain why most women want a tall man who 'protects' them? Are they seeking to have the father they never had? Certified "Poe's law?" moment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/23 05:49 AM
1	Only men can solve the male loneliness epidemic (and most so called male issues) I'm not proposing something, I'm pointing out the black hole-sized error in OPs post. Nor am I 2% as shallow as you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/23 04:58 PM
11	Only men can solve the male loneliness epidemic (and most so called male issues) Very wrong, because you can't force yourself to be gay. NEXT	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/23 08:06 PM
1	Is it true that women's standards are higher for casual sex than for a relationship? I've experienced lower standards from women for sex, than for dating. Had sex and opportunity a couple times, but never dated. See here for more details I don't know if/how it's true in general. I think generally they have even higher look standards for hookups, but lower other standards.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/23 12:17 AM
–	Self Improvement Discussion Thread No	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/23 02:58 AM
–	Self Improvement Discussion Thread I've been shedding weight super easily and don't even feel hungry anymore. I just eat every second or third day. Before fasting I exercised about 15hrs a week not including the 1-2 hours a day of walking I also do. Now I've toned it down to a lot less exercise but I still walk the same. Dieting actually was absolutely constant stress and hunger, and I do not have that problem anymore.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/23 02:57 AM
1	Self Improvement Discussion Thread When I diet every day, yes. But not so much when fasting every other day. Even if I get hungry in the day I'm only going to be hungry for that day, because I can eat to not be hungry the next day. Normal dieting would just leave me hungry and eventually starving every single day. After the 8 day fast it's been easier for me to do the 1 day (~36hr) fasts than it used to be, too. I've regularly done fasts twice a year and day 1 is normally hard. But it's not too bad for me so far, and I'm at the l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/23 05:21 AM
2	Self Improvement Discussion Thread It's been easier for me to alternate between fasting and eating. When I diet every day, after a while I'm just starving every day. When I alternate fasting and eating I'm only hungry sometimes and not much starving, at least so far. When I fasted 8.5 days I stopped feeling starvation after day 3. I would've fasted longer but the supplements I was taking I puked up and I felt light headed on day 9, so figured I should eat food.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/23 04:07 AM
1	Self Improvement Discussion Thread It's seemingly impossible to find a reasonable woman who doesn't hate fat men. I've tried losing weight for nearly a decade to much struggle, pain, and failure. Currently I'm doing lots of fasting. First 8.5 days of no food, now I'm only eating every other day. May do some more longer fasts. This seems possible for me, though it does come with physical, mental, and academic costs. But I don't know if I will be able to like women after, as I'd know it's for shallow reasons and that previously the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/23 01:07 AM
1	CMV: Why some women have a problem with age gap relationships and why men seek them I've had men quadruple my age make sexual advances on me. I didn't think much of it just said no. Why would you feel bad? There is no reason to, and is a personal mental problem. And if you shame others for your own problems then you're doing bad things.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/23 09:08 PM
0	Looks will get your foot in the door, but these days the door is on the top floor 1 and 2 are so false. Those women do get attention. 3 I don't know. 4 is misleading at best, as fat men are hated by women but fat women have many options.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/23 06:17 PM
1	You should not shame people for liking someone that's fat, it's already hard enough to date as a fat person Bro I know it's hard for women to like me because I'm fat, that's not what I'm on about. It's that the ones who can or do still like me are held back by being shamed for it or made fun of, active intervention from friends, etc. You think I'm wrong for saying we shouldn't do that to them? Why do you support making fun of women (or men) for liking a fat guy? Shaming them, saying they shouldn't do what would make them happy? It doesn't hurt them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/23 02:49 PM
1	You should not shame people for liking someone that's fat, it's already hard enough to date as a fat person I need love and dates, not kept private and only used for sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/23 11:53 PM
1	You should not shame people for liking someone that's fat, it's already hard enough to date as a fat person My second sentence was literally "At least not in public." and go on about how I can occasionally sext and hookup.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/23 04:38 AM
1	You should not shame people for liking someone that's fat, it's already hard enough to date as a fat person I'm American I just thought of curry as a healthy food I like at that moment. I didn't know of curry as a kid though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/23 04:19 PM
1	You should not shame people for liking someone that's fat, it's already hard enough to date as a fat person You either didn't read or didn't comprehend what I wrote	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/23 04:17 PM
2	You should not shame people for liking someone that's fat, it's already hard enough to date as a fat person I did ask for other food and complained about eating McDonald's and instant ramen so much. And no, I wasn't given curry and roasted vegetables and shit. I was told I'm eating McDonald's for dinner or nothing. So I ate McDonald's. Kids do not have vast knowledge needed, nor often the agency you suggest	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/23 06:14 AM
1	You should not shame people for liking someone that's fat, it's already hard enough to date as a fat person Well you shame someone for dating or wanting someone who is a fast 2 person, smoker, etc. or not? The thing this entire post is about.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/23 06:06 AM
2	You should not shame people for liking someone that's fat, it's already hard enough to date as a fat person Sorry for your mind	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/23 05:52 AM
2	You should not shame people for liking someone that's fat, it's already hard enough to date as a fat person That's awful. Are you doing better now?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/23 07:38 PM
1	You should not shame people for liking someone that's fat, it's already hard enough to date as a fat person Holy shit, idiot fucking anti science the post. https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2009/03/090319224823.htm I'm not 400 pounds. This source says 3 years less life expectancy for moderate obesity. I don't feel bad about the way I look, don't have trouble putting on shoes, don't have trouble running moderate distances. I guess you're a "woman" for denying reality bro bro.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/23 07:30 PM
4	You should not shame people for liking someone that's fat, it's already hard enough to date as a fat person Should every single fat, smoker, drinker, vaper, underweight, etc. person be single? When you say beauty standard do you mean ideal? Because that's not whats being discussed. Or do you just mean acceptable?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/23 07:06 PM
3	You should not shame people for liking someone that's fat, it's already hard enough to date as a fat person Obviously I've thought of not being fat like everyone else, and I've thoroughly tried. And no, it would not solve all my problems. Even if I became not fat it would be hard to know if I'm dating someone who contributes to the problems I discuss or if they are shallow. Neither of which I want in someone I date.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/23 06:58 PM
1	You should not shame people for liking someone that's fat, it's already hard enough to date as a fat person What is "across the room" type? I'm 24 and in college (grad school). It's been my experiences throughout highschool and all of college, though the specific examples are all in college.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/23 06:55 PM
2	You should not shame people for liking someone that's fat, it's already hard enough to date as a fat person (In America) My life expectancy is about 4 years less than average thin people, or 2 years less than average. But I also don't drink, smoke, or vape, I'm active ~15hrs/wk+lots of walking, eat well just more, have a lower resting heart rate (50s), and have other good health markers. Those all have various health effects and combined make me "get back" those 4 years. If it's about health then I should be way more desirable than a thin smoker (vapers too?) but that's not the case. People who say it…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/23 05:30 PM
2	You should not shame people for liking someone that's fat, it's already hard enough to date as a fat person I became obese as a kid, and was ignorant of all these "rules" until well after that, more recently. You even say "stay in shape" not "become in shape" naturally, probably without considering it that deeply. Obviously I don't want to be treated so negatively by women, I don't choose that. I don't know why you doubt that happened. Care to explain? Do you also doubt that friends makes fun of my guy that likes fat women, or getting cockblocked by womens' friends? All of your examples are rich celeb…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/23 05:16 PM
2	You should not shame people for liking someone that's fat, it's already hard enough to date as a fat person Girls' friends have cockblocked me, not my friends. How am I framing the issue wrong? Also your 3s aren't responding to anything I said..? I'm just talking about not shaming people for what they like or pressure them to not like fat people. But if you want to talk outside of a simple PPD context, then society can do more. Personally, when I diet enough to lose weight I become much more stressed, less physically able (workouts are shit, feel weak, lethargic, can't run 5k, etc.), and less mentally…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/23 05:04 PM
6	Obesity has absolutely nuked the chance to go on a date with even regular women Literally this that's what it's made for	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/23 02:15 PM
1	Women's selection criterion have changed, but men have remained largely the same I'm 6ft1 and 7inches, not making 6 figures yet still in school. Women still don't like me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/23 12:54 AM
0	Daily Community Chat Megathread I thought that way too, but then was able to get sexting and hookup opportunities, but never a date.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/23 12:11 AM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread daily average users, monthly average users	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/23 10:59 PM
2	Start a family with fat girl or marry a single mom? You think sugardaddies want marriage/life commitment? and not revolving sugarbabies? And how tf is it misogynistic to not think that?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/23 08:49 AM
2	We know women love hot guys. But the average guy doesn't focus on looks-maxxing. Why? Same thing, that's just a type of diet, which I've done before.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/23 01:35 AM
2	Start a family with fat girl or marry a single mom? I had a wealthy older bf ... therefore not every woman is like that. Great argument	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/23 12:05 AM
7	We know women love hot guys. But the average guy doesn't focus on looks-maxxing. Why? I can fast 5 days, not even huge deal. But I had to start eating again. When I diet for months I get incredibly stressed, only think about food, man I go crazy. OTOH I've been addicted to games and just uninstalled them or gave my account away, no problem. I wish I could just cut out food altogether.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/23 11:52 PM
1	We know women love hot guys. But the average guy doesn't focus on looks-maxxing. Why? Being fit, relatively muscular, or semi-jacked can do wonders for a guy's dating life. Why do men refuse to do the work? It's not a refusal. It's that there isn't a sure fire way for it to work. There is no strategy that has been proven to work for most people scientifically. CICO? That just explains the physical process of fat loss. That's not a strategy that scientifically cures obesity. I can watch baseball film and "know how to throw a 100mph fastball", but that doesn't mean I can physically…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/23 11:48 PM
1	Why is it so hard to believe women can willingly date shitty men ? It's not common sense. A lot of people esp. blue pillers think women aren't shallow. I've actually heard lots of stories on 4chan where it goes pick up a fat chick and help her lose weight. But I've never seen it in person I don't know if it actually happens with any regularity. It's something I'd do personally, given the opportunity. (Never seen nor heard any story of a girl doing it.)	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/23 04:51 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread Why would you call someone stepfather material and not father material? You are saying you'd be good to raise some other guys kids but not have your own. Of course that's an insult.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/23 05:24 AM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread Yes. Santa will be real for them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/23 05:10 AM
1	What are your most important attributes in a women? Personality>career>age>N/weight/looks Most people are no from personality. From there, some majors/careers I don't like. But that rarely cancels someone out in my experience. Age also rarely cancels someone out. Most people I meet are also in college but I've asked out women around 30 too. Never had someone get weeded out from n, weight, or looks, though it could happen (as some who would got weeded out from earlier stages anyway, at least I think).	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/23 03:23 AM
1	Why is it so hard to believe women can willingly date shitty men ? Always shallow with it too yea? Never a fat or weak good guy they try to change for thinner or stronger. Always a good looking guy, trying to change his character.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/23 03:05 AM
1	If you start doing looksmax prepare to be ridiculed (by other men) I don't think I've literally experienced this even once in my life. Friends and strangers seeing me workout or diet or take pictures or whatever have never made fun of me for trying to look better.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/23 02:41 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread A tabletop convection oven.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/23 01:14 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Black men do better if you adjust for income.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/23 01:09 AM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread Blasians are fucking hot fr Asian men and black women should get it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/23 01:08 AM
2	They’ve tried nothing and they’re all out of ideas Tfw you do all that and still have nothing	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/23 01:06 AM
1	Patriarchal violence explaining all domestic violence? What about when a mom abuses their daughter? Or son? Still doesn't really fit with that domestic violence "logic".	/r/MensRights	05/10/22 10:15 PM
3	There is more to incels than just "entitlement" I'm a guy and have occasionally been able to have sex with someone or had some opportunity to, but never once had a date (at least, not one that they went through with). I think they don't want to be seen with me in person or have their friends know. Or maybe some of them are only wanting sex I don't fully know.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	01/08/22 09:36 PM
7	Incels exist because no one started social media campaigns for unconventional men. They were instead continuously ostracized and their insecurities made the butt of jokes. I hate it all	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	18/06/22 11:42 PM
11	Patriarchal violence explaining all domestic violence? They think men can't be abused https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/vaxsw0/rfeminism_literally_thinks_men_can_not_be_abused	/r/MensRights	13/06/22 12:42 AM
1	r/Feminism literally thinks men can not be abused I do not want to focus on me being banned, I want the focus that they think men can't be abused and silence abused men to erase their existence. How can I rework my post to be compliant?	/r/MensRights	12/06/22 11:23 PM
1	"very old school" entitled Chad Chaser \| WhereAreAllTheGoodMen That's almost exactly what I am thinking. But are you joking and there is a different meaning?	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	03/06/22 05:36 PM
1	An example of how society views male sexuality as unacceptable: social ostracization for being unrequited. This happens to me too. Multiple times. Ask a friend out and then lose her and 4 other friends. Strangers aren't receptive to me. Online no one will even text me.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	20/04/22 06:20 PM
1	An in depth response that analyzes the draw behind PUA/TRP and even incel communities and why criticisms of them often miss their mark. Hah! Speaking of Activision, it went up like 30% bc microsoft buying it. Not related to a short term prediction I made on it though.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	18/01/22 08:28 PM
1	An in depth response that analyzes the draw behind PUA/TRP and even incel communities and why criticisms of them often miss their mark. You said it yourself, you are slim. I also think I have really good "bait" as you put it, but the problem is no woman has agreed. They don't care about all the things that should be important, and as much as I thought height and strength mattered they don't for me. They just care that I'm fucking fat and they hate me for it. They think I should never be given a chance and even go out of their way to make sure the rare ones who would don't, by stopping their friends. They stop their fucking frien…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	16/01/22 09:17 PM
4	An in depth response that analyzes the draw behind PUA/TRP and even incel communities and why criticisms of them often miss their mark. You've made a lot of wrong assumptions and read right past something too, so let me add some detail and reiterate to clarify. People don't know I have a big dick, I've stated I don't mention it. The exception was trying it once on Tinder and on Grindr. I actually got better results doing that, so you are wrong anyway. My dick is the only reason I could have sex, so it's relevant to include that detail. Otherwise it wouldn't make sense saying I cant get a date but can get hookups (maybe). I haven…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	15/01/22 04:14 PM
9	An in depth response that analyzes the draw behind PUA/TRP and even incel communities and why criticisms of them often miss their mark. Part 3: Childhood and fatness I'm going to keep this short, not going into too much detail compared to what I could. My mom was abusive in multiple ways and later committed suicide when I was 9. She had been forced out by CPS/courts before that. Around that time I quickly packed on the weight because I had a diet of mcdonalds, pizza, and ramen, and I've been obese ever since. That was all my dad could manage. He had 3 kids, a fulltime job, and my brother was extremely problematic. My dad threate…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	15/01/22 05:49 AM
8	An in depth response that analyzes the draw behind PUA/TRP and even incel communities and why criticisms of them often miss their mark. This is a 6 part story of my life as it involves romance. Part 1: The nothing zone The friendzone is when you ask someone out and want to or do love them, but they just want to be friends. I have entered something much much worse many times before, that I call the nothing zone. It's when after asking them out, they want nothing to do with you after previously being friends. I was friends with a girl, and after asking them out they completely avoided me. The first time I asked someone out I was r…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	15/01/22 05:49 AM