The fact of the matter is that in today's age, especially with women in their low 20s, they are judging your SMV based on your social media, how many girls you friends with, photos of you with girls, etc
I used to have fb, with about 800 friends and lots of good pics with chicks, but i was very depressed in my mid 20s and deleted it, total beta move. I had to get it back recently so I could reconnect with my long distance friends and family.