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| 3 | Do you keep a list? | Conversation | throwitnow | /r/seduction | 20/12/21 12:12 PM |
| 3 | music/youtube channel for home date? | Logistics | throwitnow | /r/seduction | 27/11/21 06:03 PM |
| 0 | I got good but it makes it so much harder to find something I can commit to | Conversation | throwitnow | /r/seduction | 27/08/21 04:56 PM |
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| 2 | Do you keep a list?about finding a good partner for meaningful long-term relationship... with complete confidence that I'm not going into it just thirsty for sex, or tolerating some terrible personality from a bad partner just because I'm afraid to lose access to sex. Totally with you on this one... this part of the game seems so much harder. I'm 35, and its extremely rare for me to meet a woman who I think I could actually build something with | /r/seduction | 21/12/21 01:08 PM |
| 2 | Do you keep a list?Haha that's pretty cool! | /r/seduction | 21/12/21 10:04 AM |
| 1 | Do you keep a list?because my need for validation had been met Interesting remark. I just reached hundred myself and you probably might be right. How did you get to this insight and how did you change it? | /r/seduction | 20/12/21 05:57 PM |
| 1 | music/youtube channel for home date?Thanks for the tips! | /r/seduction | 27/11/21 11:52 PM |
| 1 | music/youtube channel for home date?thanks alot! | /r/seduction | 27/11/21 11:48 PM |
| 1 | music/youtube channel for home date?care to share the playlist? :D | /r/seduction | 27/11/21 11:48 PM |
| 2 | Signs that I am attractive?What's weird is I'm very successful in online dating, I would say I'm rather confident, and generally seen as a attractive guy (not model looks, but nerdy attractive). But I almost NEVER have women check me out or make eye contact. | /r/seduction | 26/11/21 09:39 AM |
| 1 | Women never look at me or make eye contactbut it's the suspense is killing me! haha Maybe you're coming across as to Beta Nice Guy I probably do, but it's also my strength. I come across as a nice guy and women are quick to feel comfortable with me, and then they're surprised I have a whole "other" side to me as well. Bit of a clark kent / superman kind of thing. I don't want to pretend I'm some alpha chad when I'm out but I wish I could find a way to be succesful in party situations | /r/seduction | 17/10/21 02:54 PM |
| 2 | Women never look at me or make eye contactThanks for your reply! Sounds like you already found your niche with OLD and should probably stick to it. It sounds like you have to build a rapport with a woman before they truly see you in a sexual way. The guys in the club who are attractive and fun just make women horny. Their charisma turns women on. Its just a primal attraction that you either have or you dont. The only thing you can really do is fake it till you make it or stick to what you know. Im terrible at OLD but have no issues irl … | /r/seduction | 17/10/21 02:51 PM |
| 1 | Women never look at me or make eye contactIt's not about looks, but vibe. If you're chill and calm, you should be seeing reaction. Get Zen with the situation, stop desiring for a while and just watch the people around you. Hmm. Usually when I'm in a club I'm dancing and having fun. Maybe I should try being more chill? | /r/seduction | 17/10/21 02:38 PM |
| 2 | Women never look at me or make eye contactPractice your eye contact every day, all day long while out in public. Look at everyone in the eyes as you pass them. Men, women, young, old, fit, fat, doesn't matter. I've been doing this forever. That's why I notice how much people never look back at me haha. Stop watching porn as it's only killing your Game. You lose all your sexual desire and become more passive. Versus horny and trying to find a girl to have sex with. I don't think that's it. I'm getting laid a few times per week :) | /r/seduction | 17/10/21 02:38 PM |
| 2 | Women never look at me or make eye contactI was talking about 1:1 female/male ratio :) It was a couples-only evening even, but the girls I was there with already knew plenty of guys in the scene so they weren't occupied trying to meet new couples But the dynamic i'm talking about is exactly the same in "normal" clubbing, or even walking in the street | /r/seduction | 17/10/21 12:08 PM |
| 1 | I got good but it makes it so much harder to find something I can commit toSure. Thanks for the advice, Karen. :) | /r/seduction | 27/08/21 10:51 PM |
| 2 | I got good but it makes it so much harder to find something I can commit toI completely respect people who work in porn - just like I respect you for trying to use your body to sell your furniture. No judgements at all here. Just saying it's ironic to call people "vapid". And yes, I've done plenty of self-reflecting and soul searching. And I'm very comfortable in saying I do think I'm a quality guy ;) Again: have you looked in the mirror lately? All your replies reek of some kind of superiority complex. I didn't mean to sound negative about the women I'm seeing. They'r… | /r/seduction | 27/08/21 10:43 PM |
| 2 | I got good but it makes it so much harder to find something I can commit toDo you see the irony of calling me a vapid person while hosting a porn site and selling your body? :) | /r/seduction | 27/08/21 09:51 PM |
| 2 | I got good but it makes it so much harder to find something I can commit toCurious how you are managing to find so many threesomes and moresomes. What's your technique? Well, at some point I became very unapologetic about being sexually adventurous, and it made (even otherwise pretty vanilla) women curious. I introduced many women to swingerclubs etc. Other than that, using apps like Feeld also works. And at some point I simply got a pretty open-minded set of women that I see on a regular basis and introduced them to eachother. it sounds like due to your abundance, you… | /r/seduction | 27/08/21 09:46 PM |
| 2 | I got good but it makes it so much harder to find something I can commit toWhat is that supposed to mean? :) | /r/seduction | 27/08/21 09:45 PM |
| 1 | I got good but it makes it so much harder to find something I can commit toHaha. You seem very quick to judge without knowing much about me, other than me being a sexual person. It's also really obvious you think very highly of yourself, but it seems like you're actually the one lacking self-reflection. I'm going to write this one up as sarcasm since you're basically an account promoting your cuckold porn site. :) | /r/seduction | 27/08/21 09:40 PM |
| 1 | I got good but it makes it so much harder to find something I can commit toBut if I wanted to look for a serious thing on tinder maybe I change my strategies. Maybe I wouldn’t bring her home the first date (even tho I could) bc if we sleep together in my experience it just doesn’t let emotions develope later. Or I wouldn’t prioritise the ones to text whom are most likely to bang me but instead the ones I’m more interested in a serious way. I agree - when I see someone as serious potential, I won't sleep with her haha. even if they beg me! But it's suuper rare for me to… | /r/seduction | 27/08/21 08:13 PM |
| 1 | I got good but it makes it so much harder to find something I can commit toYea I've been thinking the same thing... but I really would want a woman to settle down with, but where else could I find her than tinder you know... especially with covid its just so hard to meet people elsewhere ;/ And even if I do find other places, I usually won't like the women that go to clubs. The only thing I thought of was trying yoga but there were only old women there haha | /r/seduction | 27/08/21 07:15 PM |
| 1 | I got good but it makes it so much harder to find something I can commit toWell, I am looking for someone to perhaps build a family with. But it seems no one I meet is "good enough" (my interest fades pretty fast). So far my reasoning is I just haven't met the right one for me.. I feel like most people settle for "good enough" which I don't want to do. But maybe a detox phase would be good for me, that's true | /r/seduction | 27/08/21 05:37 PM |
| 1 | Coworker wants to smoke with me.she's already into you. don't do anything weird and just don't fuck it up basically | /r/seduction | 15/09/18 12:10 AM |
| 2 | [Lay Report] 4'11" asian girl, bubble butt,now i wanna know what you left out | /r/seduction | 11/04/18 07:10 AM |
| 2 | Low confidence guy with ''above average'' looks seeking helpuse what you think are your weaknesses as your strengths. Most introverts I know are intelligent, self-aware, kind, good listeners. You don't have to be chad and boast how much you can lift to attract women. You can also impress them with actually listening to them. The only hard thing is you have to get to the place where they feel comfortable enough to talk, but when you're at that stage you pretty much have it easy. | /r/seduction | 26/11/17 03:06 PM |
| 1 | FR "hello" to penetration in 5 hoursWhich countries? Maybe its because I'm slightly above average attractive - but whenever I'm in asia I have super attractive women come up to me and introduce themselves out of the blue. Like where I live I only score 7-8s' but in asia i have 9's just coming up to me and they are usually already determined to want to sleep with me so I just don't have to screw it up. I usually call bullshit on posts like "from hello to penetration in 5 hours" but those are my experiences as well in asia. It's obv… | /r/seduction | 18/06/17 08:16 AM |
| 1 | FR "hello" to penetration in 5 hoursI was talking from experience :-) it really is that easy. It probably varies from which asian country though. But Indonesia/Japan/Shanghai were exactly like I described. It also gave me a lot of insight in how attractive women must feel in western countries and I learned a lot from that. And its nice to know how the really attractive male guys have it here haha. | /r/seduction | 17/06/17 10:18 PM |
| 62 | FR "hello" to penetration in 5 hourshaha sounds about right, a white dude in asia literally only has to say "hello" | /r/seduction | 17/06/17 09:10 AM |
| 1 | I have 2 girls for dinner. How to get to a threesome?And? | /r/seduction | 12/09/16 03:45 PM |
| 3 | I have 2 girls for dinner. How to get to a threesome?!RemindMe 4 days don't let us down OP! | /r/seduction | 07/09/16 10:25 PM |
| 7 | Japanese guy in Europe: pulls sexy girl from street in 1 hourIt did seem very fake. Not for the reasons you give, just in general. It also sounds like the girl is just a eastern european escort. | /r/seduction | 09/06/16 03:24 PM |
| 2 | Went to a nightclub last night - not sure if I'm ugly or not now :/yeah you just threw away having the excuse of not looking good enough. You definitely look good, and you're tall, so you only have advantages... I'm 90% sure you're not coming across as a cool, confident but still fun to hang out with guy. Instead you probably come across more as a creeper ..Work on that! | /r/seduction | 08/05/15 07:20 PM |
| 2 | [FR] First time bringing a girl back to my place--feels pretty good! (Though LMR'd)Hey man, great job. I'm happy to see your confidence rising! Keep it up! | /r/seduction | 15/04/12 07:34 PM |
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