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I like your conviction. It's now the spankbank for me
/r/TheRedPill07/01/17 02:47 AM
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It's more of a suicide cult
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/17 11:05 PM
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Well to explain it better, sometimes she's not around, sometimes I am in a different country, sometimes she's on her period, sometimes I'm too busy, it can be many things. I travel a lot and stay in countries away from her for long periods of time, so I used to resort to porn. Also, porn is a progressively changing thing. You need more and more extreme porn to get you off over the years, to get that fake dopamine rush. A real woman stops being enough to get you horny, sometimes you won't even ge…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/17 10:58 PM
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I won't tell you what to do, but I will say that you can try to quit using any visual aids. Pornography does very messed up things to your brain, eventually that photo won't be enough, then the video won't be enough, the Genres will get more and more extreme, apart from other adverse effects in your life!
/r/TheRedPill05/01/17 10:56 PM
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Sorry to burst your bubble, I am not overly religious, just do the weekly visit. It's a normal setting, like millions of other people. The dirty thoughts in my head were almost 24/7 and wouldn't leave, they would interfere with everything, my social setting was getting messed up, I was dependant on the daily jerk, I was drained of energy all the time, among so many other things.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/17 10:53 PM
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Try quitting porn and see if it helps. If you're not getting any, you're not getting any. Might as well try something new. It may help.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 05:10 PM
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For the 2 times I did in the last month, I've used my own experiences, my own thoughts. No more porn. Doing that also has stopped my daily masturbation automatically, I felt kinda stupid sitting there holding my dick when my senses weren't being consumed by the porn in front of Me.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 12:25 PM
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Initially for me, that was the plan. To use past experiences, of my own. Eventually after 2 times (in the last month) I've stopped masturbating as well. My gf does the rest :)
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 12:23 PM
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Thank you for your candid response. Those are the best ones. A vice is exactly what it is; a vice on you. A grip, a hold, something you can't just shake off. For me porn was that. It was invading my mind. I would sit in religious, holy places and even during prayer porn would be flashing in my mind. I would sit with old friends (women), who I have no intention of banging: and would fantasise about the filthiest things with them, while sitting there WITH them. Porn flashes and dirty thoughts woul…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 08:29 AM
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Try it this way. Just pornfree. There's a sub on Reddit. There's yourbrainonporn. I'm approaching a month of quit, but as I've said to other comments, i am not struggling. I have no anger, little to no urges, no cravings.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 07:23 AM
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I don't advocate nofap
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/17 11:50 PM
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A wank isn't bad man. Porn is bad. Look up yourbrainonporn
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 11:31 PM
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It'll feel very weird at first, This is what will happen step by step. First, you'll feel ridiculous holding your dick with no screen in front of you showing you how to feel. You may not even get it up the first time. Your mind will instantly try to short cut and pull up saved scenes to arouse you. Let go at this point and stop until the scene stops. Visualise it leaving your head. That ones gone. Bring up a real past experience. See if it'll get you off. This helped me curb my masturbation auto…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 11:30 PM
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Drty_pr...there's no outsmarting you! I follow a lot of your posts and comments from my normal account. Still, think about what I'm posting. There's something to learn from every post. Porn is a fucking problem, no denying it.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/17 11:24 PM
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Normal to want to fuck different women. It's a male equivalent to hypergamy. But I'm not the person to speak about that, you have the legends in the sidebar to help you. Quitting porn will bring you instantly closer to who you're dating. Be careful of oneitis though!
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 11:22 PM
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I maintain that past/real experiences are the best way. The unreality of porn is dangerous. I feel you are not struggling with a porn problem. For you the next step would probably be getting women to jerk you! You are free to play with your situation. I felt this post was needed for people like me who struggled Years with porn use, daily. Failing to stop masturbation then giving up and bingeing on porn. Days lost man, days..
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 11:20 PM
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Unbelievable. All from only quitting porn
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/17 11:17 PM
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Don't take this the wrong way; the mote attention you give it, the more it will take from you. Try this. Disconnect porn from masturbation. Next time you get an urge, go jerk. Just skip the porn and use a recent or past experience. You'll see how you aren't dependant on porn at all. Things will start changing for you. Please post Your results!
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 11:16 PM
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Relapsed to masturbation? That's ok without porn. Try it. Next time you get an urge to masturbate, go do it. Just do it without an aid. Use your mind to go to a past experience. You'll understand what i mean when I say you don't need porn. Soon things will start changing.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 11:13 PM
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I've tried that multiple times over my last 15 years. Haven't made it past a month with daily struggles, minute by minute fights in my head. No masturbation; stress is building up, hormones are raging, can't think straight, super horny. This time around I'm calm, I'm in the zone. I'm getting sex and head from my girl, so release is present. This whole post is just about quitting porn. It has nothing to do with nofap.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 11:08 PM
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That's the first step, friend. The intention. Do try the method I've outlined. Quit porn, don't quit masturbation. It works . I'm available on pm to talk.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 11:06 PM
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I can't explain it; I haven't had porn urges. I have only been horny, masturbated twice in the last month to real experiences, in my head. The further I get away from it, the better I'm feeling. There are no porn cravings at all. I think it's the habitual association of porn to masturbation, then the hypersexuality that porn creates that gets you.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 11:04 PM
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This was my problem too. So as my post says, you get horny, then you think to masturbate, then you use porn. Try to skip the porn part. Go from being horny to masturbation, try thinking of an experience you've had yourself. You'll see about porn becoming more and more useless.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 11:00 PM
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If you stop porn, your mind starts changing. My thoughts now go towards my gf. Where before saved clips of porn would play in my head, now things i want to do to my gf play. It makes me want to grab her, makes her feel wanted. Makes me happier. There's a lot more sex, a lot more unsolicited blowjobs. I love it
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 10:58 PM
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Some people struggle more than others. Every mind is wired differently. I hope this post helps those who are facing difficulties.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 10:56 PM
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Good luck to you. Quit porn, your masturbation will go down. Porn is unhealthy, jacking is not.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 10:54 PM
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Just try it. In my 15 years, I either quit masturbation AND porn, or binged on both. This is with or without girlfriends. Heck, I even told myself porn induced ED was good because I would last so long. Try cutting just porn.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 10:53 PM
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It's just time based. Your mind takes some time to lose its hypersexuality. I had the PIED too. No cum after hours of fucking. Erection loss if there was any pause in stimulation. Soft erections. Just like your tolerance of anything goes up with too much consumption, it also goes down with no consumption. Stay strong, you will get back to normal. Just quit porn.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 10:46 PM
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I've been there. Masturbating in random places due the nonstop dirt in my head. Not being able to focus on real friends. Real conversations. The creep vibe. All of it. The not satisfied with sex, the ED, the whole 9 yards. It's stopped because porn was the problem.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 10:42 PM
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Your point is valid bro. I will come back to post a part two after a month has passed. Like I've mentioned I've used a different approach. I feel a shift, sometimes you're just sure.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 10:39 PM
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Bro, don't be upset. Don't be judgemental. Don't predict other people's futures. Rather you'd be in a better position to learn something from my post and the responses by other members. Porn is a problem, and it can come in between you and your girlfriend. It pollutes your mind with nonstop dirty thoughts. There's a lot of issues that porn presents. It is as bad as I make it sound. Check out yourbrainonporn on the internet. Read a bit, learn a bit. I wish You luck on your journey if you are also…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 10:20 PM
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Thanks! Sometimes, you reach a place where you feel a new sort of calm. A sort of feeling where you've changed mentally, grown. I've struggled with porn 15 years man. This time it's a shift. I hope you know what I'm talking about. You'll be pleased To know my gf issue is sorted. It was a simple matter of more showers and deodorant. Talked to her using all the comments and suggestions I received on here. Keep the good stuff coming, you're a legend.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/17 10:02 PM
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The amount of respect that myself and this community has for your posts, your comments and my personal respect for your service in the navy stops me from getting into a beta bitch fight with you over your useless comment. I'm going to let this one slide bro. This entire community is built for men helping men. If this post has helped even one man, we have won as a community. P.S - this is a throwaway. See you on the other side :) Kisses, TMB
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/17 09:55 PM
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Thanks for your comment. I consider it as fake. A fake experience at least. That isn't you banging that pornstar. She doesn't know you. You aren't responding to her touch, her realness. Your dick isn't getting wet in real life. You don't even know her real name. They go though plastic surgeries from their faces to their tits to their pussies. They go through drugs, alcohol, depression, dementia, suicide, mindfucks; all sorts of things to bring you that dopamine rush. I consider it fake. It's jus…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/17 09:47 PM
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Honesty, I don't really know about those superpowers. The only effects I felt were the stronger erections as mentioned by my girl, and the clearing out of dirty thoughts from my mind. Also, all the extra time I have now, plus the lack of guilt/shame i felt afterwards.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/17 09:42 PM
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Low effort reply.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/17 09:40 PM
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All porn is unrealistic. Were you there? Was it someone you know? Did you feel her touch? Was your dick wet?
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/17 09:39 PM
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I'll keep it in mind. Thank you. I know how overconfidence can fk things up.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 09:33 PM
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I don't advocate nofap. It's unnatural. I'm against porn use. But your willpower is commendable. More power to you!
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 09:32 PM
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There are people who watch porn and don't masturbate. Imagine.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 09:30 PM
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Thank you. I'm glad you understand! Nofap doesn't really make sense and it's really unhealthy. Especially the "hardmode" they have; imaging telling a girl who's willing and ready that you can't have sex. Ridiculous.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 09:30 PM
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I would leave that to the community to answer. Although In my opinion it's better than generic porn because it's you, in an experience you were in, with someone you know.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 09:28 PM
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You start hypersexualizing your needs, your desires, your fetishes. You lose interest in your own wife/gf. You subconsciously compare her. You forget that those pornstars go through surgeries, makeup, training, mind fucks, drugs, alcohol, suicides, etc to get how they are. Your woman fails to satisfy you. You stop gaming her. You stop wanting her. Etc
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 09:27 PM
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I wish you luck. I will say however, if you fail the nofap thing (although I hope you succeed and win), please try disconnecting porn from fap. Porn is the problem, not fap.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 09:24 PM
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I agree. I was among those who "fought the fap fight". I segregated the problem: the dirty thoughts from constant porn, the break in thought processes due to hypersexualized needs, the need to see beautiful women getting banged on the daily, the extreme changes in my sexuality due to constant use and desensitisation. These were all porn related. They were constantly changing factors. The only thing that was constant was my dick, my hand, the motions and the result. I identified porn as the root …
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 09:22 PM
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We will see, although I am feeling a calm surety. A different kind of peace, as in before I would count the days and think about how I'm not thinking about it. It was still giving attention to the issue. This time around, it's not on my mind anymore.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 09:15 PM
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Thank you. This is what I'm saying. Porn free is the goal, not nofap. As we both agree, it's shockingly easy!
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 09:14 PM
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Hope it helps you as it helped me. As I mentioned in another reply, this is a community to help other men. If it helped even one person we have won
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 09:12 PM
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As in flashes of porn scenes I liked even in religious settings, thinking dirty thoughts about women when with them which would interfere with my conversation/game/friendship; this led to pedestalization, led to fear, miscommunication, interference in my daily thoughts, my business thoughts, etc
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 09:11 PM
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It's a fake experience. You aren't there. You aren't involved. You are just watching, and fantasising.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 08:46 PM
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Thank you for your open mind
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 08:45 PM
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As I've said. I'm only seeing them as they leave.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 08:44 PM
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Thank you! I'm glad you understand. Many people on this sub are harsh, judgemental or strongly opinionated; but they forget that we post on here to help each other. If this even helped one person, we have reached our goal as a community :)
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 08:33 PM
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Thanks for your compliment. Tough crowd over here after the pill lol
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 07:39 PM
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Quitting porn wasn't difficult at all for me. It just took time to realise that I had to sever the link between porn and masturbation. We are programmed to release our seed, masturbation has been around for hundreds if not thousands of years. Porn is recent.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 07:38 PM
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Recognise the confidence. Block the hate :)
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 07:35 PM
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I'll message you personally about that don't worry
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 07:33 PM
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I haven't talked about cutting masturbation. I've only quit porn. No-fap is the reason so many people fail!
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 07:09 PM
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Yes, quitting porn has automatically killed my masturbation drive.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 07:07 PM
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You've understood. It's not just about what you read online, a stupid 90 day nofap challenge. It's about surety, it's about knowing yourself.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 07:05 PM
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I've been in that position. However as you said, it was for nofap. Here I've not cut masturbation, I've cut porn. M is healthy, P is not. Sometimes, a different approach is the solution. I've used a different solution, it's worked.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 07:04 PM
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You're right. However, sometimes you just know. You have an innate surety. I have it for the first time in my life.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 06:51 PM
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What do you mean heavy, weight wise?
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/17 12:36 PM
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Very well written. I suggest you delete this from my post, copy and paste it into your own post. Judging by the response of the men, this is a serious problem.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/17 12:08 PM
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And that's what keeps you exactly where you are forever.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/12/16 10:43 PM
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That's where I am. Busy, working, life, lifting, reading etc. Have taken porn away from my life. Feeling better. In a productive cycle. But had those thoughts in my mind, needed to discuss them. What better place than here?
/r/MarriedRedPill21/12/16 10:43 PM
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This is the belief I am now approaching. After reading everyone's replies across TRP/MRP, including Rollo, I am coming to realise that porn is a tool to devalue women's sexual currency value, to keep some part of sexual gratification away from just your woman. This becomes essential in helping yourself out of a severe oneitis, that she's the only one who can pleasure you. Spin plates, I know. But apart from that, Rollo does say women hate porn as it takes away from their power and he's right. Al…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/12/16 10:41 PM
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It def is a vice. And I believe I've read the same thing, maybe on rollos work or might even be "manipulated man", not sure. But it definitely is a great refresher. It makes 100% sense and women In relationship with a bb wouldn't mind their men fapping. I see your point. And ever since I stopped porn, I can get much harder, much quicker. My woman has noticed that out loud. The only thing I can't do is fap and not finish, or maybe I haven't tried. But no more porn. I look to women for my intimacy…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/12/16 10:36 PM
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No more porn, no more jerking off. I'm getting more sex.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/12/16 10:31 PM
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I'm now exploring the deeper root problems of my past addiction. I am searching for solutions.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/12/16 10:31 PM
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Yes, I've spoken to him. He is not advocating pornography as I've come to understand. I'm now perceiving it as a tool, to be used in moderation. It's quite useful when it can help you deal with some situations.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/12/16 10:30 PM
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After some of the replies on the cross post on TRP, including Tomassi himself, I'm coming to understand a similar idea as you're discussing. Maybe porno is a tool. Habitual is damaging, but using it to decrease the impact of a series of hard no's, or using it to devalue a woman's sexual currency value can be very useful. As all things, moderation is the sweetest way to enjoy anything.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/12/16 10:28 PM
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Dear Rollo, Your book TRM is what sprung some of these thoughts in my mind, along with those videos from Terry Crews talking about his pornography addiction, the impact on his life, etc. It's only when his wife comes on the 5th video and instantly jumps to start validating all women, wether pretty or not, skinny or fat, that it's not their fault at all and not to blame themselves. This brought back the same excerpts you are quoting in your reply to this post (from your great book) and hence thes…
/r/askTRP21/12/16 10:23 PM
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This is what I'm currently exploring. My volatile addiction, (sometimes present sometimes not) is a side effect of a deeper problem, maybe running away, maybe a substitution of a periodical lack of intimacy (long periods away from my ltr), maybe the path of least resistance, cognitive dissonance, etc. I am searching for the problems and their solutions.
/r/askTRP21/12/16 10:16 PM
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I agree with some of your statements about porn removing the weaker men from the game. Makes sense. But you should read through "The Rational Male" and consider Tomassi's perspective, about pornography taking away women's sexual power. You'll see where my thoughts come from. Meanwhile I will consider your perspective as it really is something to think about.
/r/askTRP21/12/16 10:13 PM
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Thanks for the suggestion. I am off porn 2 weeks now. I was not getting sex as I was out of country and unfortunately not trying to get any where I was. With TRP teachings that's changed but now I'm back to where my main woman is, and sex is available. I will read that book regardless. Thank you!
/r/askTRP21/12/16 10:10 PM
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This. It's like trying to fill a bottomless pit.
/r/askTRP21/12/16 10:06 PM
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Ever since I stopped porn and started seeking out my woman more often for intimacy, she's been asking me how my erections are so hard these days!
/r/askTRP21/12/16 10:04 PM
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I agree with the fact that the forcefully induced dopamine rush is bad. I also agree with not mixing porn with masturbation. But these days women have started using sex as a hard currency. I know so many men who just rub one out due to frustration, because they are tired of being hard no'd. Okay, they have to man up, have abundance but not all of them have it in them, and so they resort to porno. The unrealistic porno is out there due to a vicious cycle of the increasing extremity required to ge…
/r/askTRP21/12/16 10:03 PM
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Useless comment. Better kept to yourself. If you really understood the concept of the post you would get why I used quotes.
/r/askTRP21/12/16 10:09 AM
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Thanks for your input. I think she may need this.
/r/askTRP13/12/16 11:48 AM
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Thanks. Any idea what the issue was, or what your co-worker used to solve it ?
/r/askTRP13/12/16 05:04 AM
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This helps. I like the way you are posing the problem. This will aid me in speaking to her about it. I have googled it in the past, but I will renew my efforts this time in research, speaking to a doctor and speaking to her in a definitive way. Your reply gives me confidence. Thank you.
/r/askTRP13/12/16 04:25 AM
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Please read my reply to crewdawg in the same thread to get an understanding of my position. I implore you to think. Think bigger than you currently are in this situation.
/r/askTRP13/12/16 04:00 AM
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Thanks for a legitimate answer. Please read my reply to crewdawg in this same thread to get an idea of my position. Your further discussions are welcome, you're right in me helping her solve this issue. That's my almost only option. Nexting her is not. Please continue to discuss this with me. This is a manspace and this is what men do for each other. Awaiting your further input
/r/askTRP13/12/16 03:58 AM
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Thanks for a legitimate answer. You call bullshit on what? This post? She is obsessively interested in me. We are planning long run together. Hygiene might be the issue as her family might not have taught her too well. You know sometimes though, you can't smell your own BO. That's what got me thinking about it. I agree that I am remaining in a position not to next her. Brother, I know what TRP teaches, and seemingly you have decent life experience; you can't be nexting women left right and centr…
/r/askTRP13/12/16 03:44 AM
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So basically you read my post, and that was the smartest and most useful thing you could say? The quality of TRP is declining because of this. Go lift, read the sidebar. Men are built here, but not by bullshit responses like yours.
/r/askTRP13/12/16 03:22 AM
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We come from a culture where we wash our ass each time we use the bathroom. She doesn't smell in that way. If you can't be constructive then it's better to fuck off and spew your bullshit somewhere else. Thanks
/r/askTRP13/12/16 03:20 AM
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Thanks for a legitimate answer. She used to smoke She does wear clean clothes She showers regularly It may be her diet. That makes a lot of sense and something I've been considering. It doesn't smell like fish, bad breath or shit, piss etc. Just sweat odor or body odor i guess, but strong. Obviously I've brought it up, and in the past the problem has disappeared most days and some days it lingers. I will try to speak to a doctor and a nutritionist to get some background. Any other thoughts?
/r/askTRP13/12/16 03:19 AM
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I am looking for a permanent solution
/r/askTRP13/12/16 03:16 AM
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Thanks for a legitimate answer. No rash. No redness. No nervousness. I am considering speaking to a doctor for a proper solution before speaking to her this time. It should be solvable.
/r/askTRP13/12/16 03:16 AM
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Thanks for a legitimate answer. I will consider speaking to a doctor. Yes she is a nice girl and the body odor thing comes and goes. Sometimes the best way to tell someone something could be the "shock treatment". Maybe that's what my fam is doing. We've spoken about this before.
/r/askTRP13/12/16 03:14 AM
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Yes. If she's a slut, it doesn't affect you. Sluts are fun, go have some fun with her. Make sure to pack a vest for your jimmy though!
/r/askTRP12/12/16 04:20 PM
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