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| 3 | If women started approaching men, they would still end up approaching a minority of themDon’t bluepillers ever get tired of spouting the same nonsense over and over? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 09:02 PM |
| 9 | If women started approaching men, they would still end up approaching a minority of themWhich is bad news for the guy she ends up getting with. He wasn’t desired to begin with and that’s going to reveal itself pretty clearly during the relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 09:01 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Personal responsibility seems to go out the window as soon as a man is expected to vet women.I’m innocent until proven guilty, and I don’t consent to a DNA sample. Can’t just accuse me of being the father, and force me to prove I’m not, it’s a human rights issue of forcing me to give a DNA sample otherwise face harsh financial penalty like you said | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 02:45 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Personal responsibility seems to go out the window as soon as a man is expected to vet women.You know, at least you’re consistent. Loony, but consistent. I’ll give you that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 02:44 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Personal responsibility seems to go out the window as soon as a man is expected to vet women.I agree. To the woman who claims I’m the father, she should trust that I’m not and not be able to get the government to force me to give a DNA sample. I don’t consent to it, glad we’re on the same page | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 05:57 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Personal responsibility seems to go out the window as soon as a man is expected to vet women.Yeah but the point is it still happens and men have no legal recourse AFTER the fact | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 05:53 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Personal responsibility seems to go out the window as soon as a man is expected to vet women.Are you against universal healthcare that includes subsidized abortion procedures for those in low income environments? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 04:59 PM |
| 2 | Women who are in "alternative" scenes like punk rock/metal/raves etc, are more open to dating broke or short men but red pill men don't want those types.This reminds me of the meme where the girl says “I like all kinds of guys” and it’s just the same good looking tall guy in different outfits lmfao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 01:17 AM |
| 2 | To the non-red pill men, do you agree with the notion that women ‘age out’ of their prime by 25? Why/why not?It’s not even really about baby face, it’s not like there’s a specific phenotype, I think men are just generally attracted to women they perceive as youthful and attractive. Similar to how there are women out there who like men who have an “older distinguished” look, there might not be a rigid specific phenotype correlated with that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 08:51 PM |
| 1 | The best way to look as a woman is average (7/10)No I’m ugly unfortunately so it would be a waste of effort if you’re actually a 9/10. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 08:35 PM |
| 2 | To the non-red pill men, do you agree with the notion that women ‘age out’ of their prime by 25? Why/why not?Again, nobody is saying there aren’t ugly 21 year olds and there aren’t attractive 28 year olds. (That being said I can clearly see the signs of aging on women that work with me that are in their late 20’s and they seem to generally take care of themself). We’re speaking in generalities, so your claim is if we could do a study on desirability that there would be ZERO difference from a batch of 21 year old women versus 28 year old women? I highly doubt that will be the case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 08:34 PM |
| 1 | The best way to look as a woman is average (7/10)No I identify as a man that knows other men would do everything they could to impress a 9/10 woman and make her their gf unless something was seriously wrong with her, or if she wasn’t actually a 9/10 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 08:32 PM |
| 2 | To the non-red pill men, do you agree with the notion that women ‘age out’ of their prime by 25? Why/why not?You’re missing the point. Nobody is saying there aren’t ANY women that are attractive post 25, we’re saying chances are their desirability peaked from 18-25. I don’t think it’s a stretch to say the average 21 year old woman is more physically attractive than the average 28 year old woman if you asked the average guy and told them they were the same age to avoid bias. (And yes exceptions exist, no need to list them out) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 08:23 PM |
| 2 | The best way to look as a woman is average (7/10)You unironically might have a terrible personality or you are severely overrating yourself. This post is hilariously delusional because if you really were a 9/10 that could at least hold a conversation, a guy would have wifed you up by now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 08:17 PM |
| 2 | To the non-red pill men, do you agree with the notion that women ‘age out’ of their prime by 25? Why/why not?You have to define what “age out” means. I think men obviously find 18-25 most desirable generally speaking and it drops off from there, but it becomes way harder for average men outside that age bracket to get attractive women in that age bracket because they are the most desired kind of women in the world. Men age just as badly physically as women, it’s just women value other attributes as well as looks that men can in a way “make up for” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 08:13 PM |
| 1 | CMV Its so hard to become High Value as a Man, that its absolutely logical that most men off this caliber want to have sex with other women besides they're Wife/Girlfriend, i am really curious if someone can change my view on this.“You need to be honest” implies you must explicitly state your intentions and current dating situation to the woman/women you are seeing and I’m saying nobody is entitled to such a thing. If that’s not the case, then sure I concede. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 07:51 PM |
| 0 | CMV Its so hard to become High Value as a Man, that its absolutely logical that most men off this caliber want to have sex with other women besides they're Wife/Girlfriend, i am really curious if someone can change my view on this.Nobody’s talking about lying, but you don’t have to be openly transparent about everything going on. HVM can enjoy their options, and don’t owe women any form of commitment or monogamy unless they explicitly say so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 07:34 PM |
| 0 | CMV Its so hard to become High Value as a Man, that its absolutely logical that most men off this caliber want to have sex with other women besides they're Wife/Girlfriend, i am really curious if someone can change my view on this.Idk what the commenter means by honesty, but nobody has to say what else they’re up to in their dating life unless they’ve made an explicit commitment lol. Just because I go on a few dates with a girl doesn’t mean she has to tell me exactly what else is going on in her dating life outside of me unless we’ve explicitly came to an understanding that we are in a monogamous relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 07:29 PM |
| 1 | CMV Its so hard to become High Value as a Man, that its absolutely logical that most men off this caliber want to have sex with other women besides they're Wife/Girlfriend, i am really curious if someone can change my view on this.Literally how would the study pinpoint it’s because of life stage issues and how would you even measure “satisfaction” somewhat objectively, and even then how could you conclude that level of subjective satisfaction correlates to some sort of predatory/manipulative behavior by the older party? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 06:25 PM |
| 0 | CMV Its so hard to become High Value as a Man, that its absolutely logical that most men off this caliber want to have sex with other women besides they're Wife/Girlfriend, i am really curious if someone can change my view on this.Truth hurts, is what it is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 06:24 PM |
| 4 | CMV Its so hard to become High Value as a Man, that its absolutely logical that most men off this caliber want to have sex with other women besides they're Wife/Girlfriend, i am really curious if someone can change my view on this.Sounds like a bunch of holistic crap, but okay. Plenty of reasonably successful men that are in shape that can’t get a worthwhile date and feel bad about it, but sure keep preaching “you’re worth less if you want to be appreciated by women romantically” 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 06:23 PM |
| 7 | CMV Its so hard to become High Value as a Man, that its absolutely logical that most men off this caliber want to have sex with other women besides they're Wife/Girlfriend, i am really curious if someone can change my view on this.Because if you aren’t in that upper echelon, dating and attracting women (not even just attractive women, average women as well) is magnitudes of difficulty harder for you as a man. This is not the case if you reverse the genders, no matter how average a woman is, she can easily get a date with a decent enough guy (although women claim this has no inherent benefit to their quality of life which I find laughable). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 03:41 PM |
| 0 | CMV Its so hard to become High Value as a Man, that its absolutely logical that most men off this caliber want to have sex with other women besides they're Wife/Girlfriend, i am really curious if someone can change my view on this.And they are more high value in the context of dating than the average Joe with a stable job that can’t get a text back 🤷♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 03:38 PM |
| 0 | CMV Its so hard to become High Value as a Man, that its absolutely logical that most men off this caliber want to have sex with other women besides they're Wife/Girlfriend, i am really curious if someone can change my view on this.What research exactly? I’m sure if there was research done on couples around the same age with discrepancies in religion, wealth, employment status, sexual/dating experience, you could find implications of whatever negative dynamics you are implying, however nobody cares about this. It’s obvious to me people care specifically about age discrepancies because it means older women have to compete with younger women for men their age, which is why I can’t take the discussion that seriously | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 03:37 PM |
| 1 | CMV Its so hard to become High Value as a Man, that its absolutely logical that most men off this caliber want to have sex with other women besides they're Wife/Girlfriend, i am really curious if someone can change my view on this.We have volumes of data showing how women are hypergamous on dating apps, if I showed that to you, then you would just discredit it as “dating apps aren’t real life bro!”. The problem with bringing up studies here is that everyone throws bad faith caveats to discredit them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 03:05 PM |
| 0 | CMV Its so hard to become High Value as a Man, that its absolutely logical that most men off this caliber want to have sex with other women besides they're Wife/Girlfriend, i am really curious if someone can change my view on this.High value can be described at how easy it is to get attractive women to want to date/have sex with you. It doesn’t really have anything to do with their personal morals, because that is generally detached from what makes a man sexually attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 03:02 PM |
| 2 | CMV Its so hard to become High Value as a Man, that its absolutely logical that most men off this caliber want to have sex with other women besides they're Wife/Girlfriend, i am really curious if someone can change my view on this.You’re assuming they’re taking advantage with no proof. The obligation is yours to prove a specific couple has some sort imbalanced dynamic going on, a discrepancy in age doesn’t prove anything. You don’t know the specific life experiences of either party, so you can’t qualify the differences between them as a power imbalance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 02:59 PM |
| 3 | CMV Its so hard to become High Value as a Man, that its absolutely logical that most men off this caliber want to have sex with other women besides they're Wife/Girlfriend, i am really curious if someone can change my view on this.There is nothing more validating to the average heterosexual man on his existence than sex, especially with an attractive woman. To have a woman willing to risk getting pregnant by you on some level means she is willing to have a part of you with her forever. Saying “life is not purely about sex” is kind of a silly statement, sure it isn’t but it’s one of the most important experiences a man can have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 02:56 PM |
| 0 | CMV Its so hard to become High Value as a Man, that its absolutely logical that most men off this caliber want to have sex with other women besides they're Wife/Girlfriend, i am really curious if someone can change my view on this.Absolute delusion. The uglier women are dating normal/average guys. The amount of couples I’ve seen in their early 20’s that contain an average dude and a landwhale is staggering. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 02:51 PM |
| 1 | CMV Its so hard to become High Value as a Man, that its absolutely logical that most men off this caliber want to have sex with other women besides they're Wife/Girlfriend, i am really curious if someone can change my view on this.“Being pretty to look at” get you the kind of female attention most guys want infinitely more than some arbitrary set of morals you deem ethical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 02:50 PM |
| 11 | CMV Its so hard to become High Value as a Man, that its absolutely logical that most men off this caliber want to have sex with other women besides they're Wife/Girlfriend, i am really curious if someone can change my view on this.Because it’s a superior state of existence. You don’t have to jump through the BS hoops and shittests and constantly be proving your worth to women you want to be with, your value is apparent from the get go and just by existing you will get constant streams of positive feedback from the opposite sex. It’s a completely different world that most men unfortunately will never reach, but it makes perfect sense becoming one is every man’s dream | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 02:48 PM |
| 9 | CMV Its so hard to become High Value as a Man, that its absolutely logical that most men off this caliber want to have sex with other women besides they're Wife/Girlfriend, i am really curious if someone can change my view on this.All the evidence is there, but people deny it. Women will put up with it if the guy is high value enough because they are revolted by the alternative (their looksmatch). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 02:46 PM |
| -1 | CMV Its so hard to become High Value as a Man, that its absolutely logical that most men off this caliber want to have sex with other women besides they're Wife/Girlfriend, i am really curious if someone can change my view on this.HVM don’t owe straightforward honesty to women, unless he explicitly says he wants a monogamous relationship with a woman, anything goes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 02:44 PM |
| 7 | Men shouldn’t feel bad about women preferring“bad boys” over “good guys” because those women are not worth chasing in the first placeThe real alphas will never get treated like betas, unless the woman is delusional which in case he’ll just have affairs or divorce. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 12:17 AM |
| 47 | The dating market isn't fair and isn't meant to be fair, so we should give young men a breakI would add something else: women are willing to WAIT until a man like you described enters the picture. They aren’t under any short term hormonal pressure to get laid the way testosterone works with men, they can go to bars for 20 nights straight and have no issue going home alone if they consider the men not up to par. Basically even when the top tier competition isn’t physically there, they are actually there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 11:24 PM |
| 12 | The dating market isn't fair and isn't meant to be fair, so we should give young men a breakThey don’t treat the men they truly want to be with as beneath them, they only treat the guys they’re “trying to give a chance” (aka settling for) as beneath them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 11:05 PM |
| 17 | The dating market isn't fair and isn't meant to be fair, so we should give young men a breakWhich part of this post was whining specifically? OP is painting a picture (and accurately imo) about what the dating landscape is for men in terms of competition they face. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 10:45 PM |
| 32 | Men shouldn’t feel bad about women preferring“bad boys” over “good guys” because those women are not worth chasing in the first placeThis beta buxx story is so common it’s basically a meme at this point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 10:35 PM |
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