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You don't need insane genetics to achieve it full stop but you would to do so with minimal or no effort. And 180 kg seems like a pretty high estimate of someone's weight, you realise that's basically strongman territory right? Well and truly far heavier than most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 09:04 AM
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You absolutely do have to work out and burn calories if you want to be relatively lean unless you have crazy good genetics and not all of the results are going to be on the first page of google every time. And that's before we even mention the fact that women don't even need to do any of this at all in the first place to get dates and relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 11:27 AM
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The 'right diet' still takes proper research to obtain and does not just pop into people's heads like your comment seems to imply it does. Getting the right 'x' does not just magically happen and that's before we consider the fact that every person is different and what may work for person x does not work for person y. And being 'relatively lean' still requires work and maintenance for most people and does not happen instantly or with minimal effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 10:59 AM
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Fat women and single moms can still find dates and relationships pretty easily though so someone is going for them. It's not really the same position as an average man where you have to fight tooth and nail just to get noticed at all, quite the opposite in fact. Most average men aren't expecting an airbrushed slim super model and would not automatically gag at the at the sight of a woman just for being fat or even mildly chubby.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 09:34 AM
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Having a 6 pack is only easy if you have elite tier genetics or are on steroids. Otherwise it's alot of work in the gym and a very strict diet.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 09:06 AM
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Exactly if those qualities were valued we would see normal and even nerdy guys having more success than thugs and drug dealers.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 08:46 AM
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Not really since non-violent passive women and shy women don't struggle with finding partners which can't be said for men in the same position.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 07:15 AM
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Seems like you just hate nerds and are looking for an excuse to belittle them. Plenty of nerds are capable of listening to other people and trying to understand their perspective. Pretending they are all ignorant douchebags and would all find someone if they acted kind and empathetic is completely inaccurate and nothing more than just world fallacy. If you hate nerds so much then just say that, even if they didn't really do anything to deserve such hatred, other than simply existing as they are.…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 03:55 AM
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But the very fact that they do date them anyway and have more success is definitely something that shouldn't be ignored. If you excuse this kind of behaviour and think it's acceptable what does that say about you as a person?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 11:28 AM
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The problem is not all of the traits women find attractive can be worked toward or improved on. I am 5'11. There is no skill I can learn or anything I can practice to grow an inch taller and become 6 foot. I am also neurodivergent so I do not have this super power neurotypicals seem to have of knowing exactly what to say in every situation and never running out of things to say to keep conversations going for extended periods of time. I also have higher inhibitions than most even after drinking …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 09:15 PM
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They wouldn't because it's not expected of them and has next to no impact on their dating prospects. Women don't need to be confident or charismatic to be successful in dating. They don't need to worry about saying the wrong thing or worry about how their mannerisms are making the guy feel. The standards men have to meet to succeed in dating are far more rigorous and unforgiving than the standards women have to meet. Even if the one in a million chance of one man not liking her happens, there ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 12:05 PM
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It's crazy how women literally date drug dealers and murderers but a bit of social awkwardness or so much as a stutter is an "ick" and an instant disqualifier.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 07:01 AM
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Why do you need the "cream of the crop" that has to be perfect in every way like a genetically modified demigod? This is why I think it's hilarious everytime a woman accuses men of being pornbrained. It's clearly projection. The average man would be happy with the average woman, but the average woman wouldn't be happy with the average man. Hmmmm. 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 05:30 PM
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There is no such thing as a "woman who isn't v desirable". There are literally women pushing 500+ pounds raking in thousands online making content of themselves, show me a man in the same situation who can get attention and appreciation like that, or even one who's not in shape. If they can make money just with pictures of themselves there is no doubt they can get as much dating attention as they want. It simply isn't possible for women to not be considered attractive by anyone at all regardless…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 05:20 PM
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Or you could just be precise. My 1cm is your 1cm. My gram of salt is your gram of salt. I don't understand why so many neurotypicals have such an aversion to this. As a neurodivergent person, it makes zero sense to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 09:22 AM
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It is still easier to understand direct words, it is more efficient, it is more logical. Why not be direct and honest and open unless you have malicious intentions. Why allow for the potential for misinterpretation unless you do have malicious intentions or something to gain?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 07:46 PM
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And I am allowed to say that every time you refuse to communicate directly as a neurotypical, you are creating unnecessary drama and possibly even conflict. Nobody benefits from it apart from liars and schemers, or people who simply want to cause others to suffer. Why do neurotypicals want to conduct themselves in such a poor and inefficient manner? What are they gaining from that? And at who's expense are they gaining it?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 07:37 PM
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Because as a man you have to do something and put in effort or else nothing happens. You can't just sit around and not put in effort like alot of women do, unless you are way, way above average and really stand out like a perfect 10. Maybe if we lived in a society where women approaching was the norm and had a sex drive that rivaled mens on average, more men would experience that but the chances of that happening is basically zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 06:49 PM
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Any form of communication that isn't directly the person clearly stating exactly what they mean is an inferior form of communication and illogical. Neurotypicals as a whole are the biggest culprits for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 06:38 PM
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Projection. Most men are self aware enough to know they are not chad and would be happy with an average woman. Women(of all attractiveness levels) are the ones who are all shooting for the sun going for the super extroverted male models who look like they have been genetically modified.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 06:07 PM
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And yet pretty much every woman regardless of attractiveness in this day and age does and so do extroverted and buff men over six foot. It's only average men and below that are constantly having to struggle and put in effort and even then, It's far from guaranteed to happen in any meaningful capacity.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 05:30 PM
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Every article I can find says he struggled with social isolation, and I don't think being on the red carpet once or twice was ever going to fix that. The difference is Epstein didn't have any social issues because he was an extroverted neurotypical.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 04:52 PM
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Women find plenty of toxic losers attractive, even outright misogynistic ones. As long as they are over six feet tall, muscular and lean, and aren't neurodivergent or socially awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 04:36 PM
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He was rich sure but I don't think most women found him attractive atleast not attractive enough to date, especially because he was apparently quite socially isolated and struggled with social skills which most women have zero tolerance for. What he did was horrible and goes well beyond toxicity, but so is what Epstein did and he still had a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 04:29 PM
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The reason why they aren't 'pulling' is because women don't find them attractive, it has nothing to do with how toxic they are or aren't. The under six foot overweight guy who's socially awkward but is empathetic and cares about the feelings of those around him isn't going to have anywhere near as much success with women(if at all the way dating is in this age) as the over six foot athletic buff guy who is outgoing and extroverted but is also toxic and posesses multiple dark triad traits or is e…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 03:33 PM
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"It's alot easier to just become an extroverted neurotypical bro"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 02:35 AM
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I see all kinds of women in couples, all kinds of men over 30'ish in couples but all the men that look under 30 that I see in couples, the guy is either atleast 6ft and in muscular lean shape, or really really tall with a chubby but still broad build like there is still muscle underneath. Whether the woman with them is in shape and has a model like face or not seems to be about 70/30 in favour of the the non models. I don't even prefer the slimmer 'conventionally attractive' over thicc/curvy/plu…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 07:33 AM
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And how do those same women see those men? Men who are not 6 feet tall? Men who are not in shape and don't have a muscular lean build? Mean who are not outgoing extroverts? Men who are not neurotypical? The average man is invisible to the average woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 09:01 AM
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Non chads simply do not and are unlikely to ever have the luxury of having a type unless they somehow become chad. Women can be short or tall, slim or curvy or fat, be loud and extroverted or quite and introverted without ever having to worry about any potential negative impact to their dating prospects while men have no choice but to be aggressive and confident, extroverted, neurotypical, six foot tall guy who is muscular and lean in perfect shape before any women consider him for anything roma…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 06:51 AM
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Every one of those is true, not a single lie told. Bad attractive men with innately good social skills(neurotypical) always defeat well meaning average or unattractive men with good morals and less than perfect social skills. Women literally chose Hitler and Epstein over asocial/autistic/awkward men. Neither of them struggled with attracting female attention despite being objectively terrible people.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 04:27 AM
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Really easy to say when you're coming from a position of immense power and privilege. I bet you wouldn't feel the same way if you didn't enjoy the benefit of practically being guaranteed a partner as a woman, and a neurotypical woman to boot. If the dating situation was flipped and it was women who struggled significantly more, and female inceldom was rising year after year while male incels continued to be practically non-existent, If women were the ones who had to be in perfect shape that requ…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 04:46 PM
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If men as in, ALL men, every single one of them all over the world agreed to unanimously raise their standards at once and stop pursuing women they don't actually want or prefer, things might be more even between the sexes. But what are the odds of that actually happening? As an individual man, you can only make that decision yourself assuming you haven't already, and in doing so if you are just an average guy or even worse below average, your dating pool reduces significantly if not outright co…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 04:12 PM
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You're right in that technically any man can choose to have standards but good luck in enforcing them and still getting dates and relationships as a non chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 03:13 AM
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The only way this would work is if all men collectively raised their standards at once which is highly unlikely, basically prisoners dilemma. So we end up in a situation where the only demographic of man that can have any form of standards is chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 07:36 AM
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Easy yes, while there is some luck involved in this scenario, the solutions are mostly technical and straightforward, unlike the actual struggles average men face in dating where alot of things in the current situation are outside of our control.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 07:00 AM
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Chances are women's prejudice and hatred towards neuro divergence will probably never be called out and addressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 08:19 AM
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Then there is no point in making up claims like her "standards are bare minimum" she is free to choose, but choices still have consequences. What is the point of even making such a claim if it can't even be proven wrong or right as per her choice?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 01:51 AM
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You would never succeed in dating if you were born a man because that would require more effort than you could probably comprehend, therefore you calling me a loser is meaningless. Women are the ones with the power in dating by design(unfair but it is what it is), women have the power to solve the problem and choose not to.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 10:58 AM
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I didn't realise pointing out noticeable patterns was the same thing as being an asshole but ok, I guess I have some internalized misandry being a chubby guy myself who's trying to get in better shape. I feel like guys in a similar predicament to me deserve to know the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 10:11 AM
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If women stopped choosing misogynistic men they would stop being misogynistic. It really is that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 09:53 AM
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Its defended by the women who keep choosing them despite their misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 07:39 AM
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Chad is the one doing this, not average, every day men. But women and bluepillers would rather falsely accuse average men than confront chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 07:37 AM
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Men under 6 foot without visible abs are not having hook ups.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 01:51 AM
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Tell me you take dating for granted without telling me you take dating for granted.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 01:46 PM
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well in the way that if you are not desired by other people then there is no chance of you having any shot at intimacy/romance. Unless you are asexual that's obviously gonna be objectively worse than being desired/attractive to other people. It doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure that one out.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 01:24 PM
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Well they have to put in a huge amount of effort when it comes to anything romance related(dating/sex/relationships) compared to women and chads(who effectively have no real problem or struggle whatsoever attracting potential partners), so they will be far less likely to take it for granted or act on any reckless tendencies(if they even have any at all) compared to chads and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 01:18 PM
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Being desired by other people absolutely makes it better. If you're going to gaslight at least try to be convincing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 12:41 PM
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In nature, there is no police/law enforcement. Things like the raping of women or murder of men who are your 'competition' are rightfully condemned and punished in modern society. Do you seriously think it should be the prerogative of a modern society to be like nature?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 11:36 AM
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There are plenty of single women who have just as much trouble dating as men, usually because they’re not attractive for one reason or another. LMAO what parallel universe are you living in? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 07:03 AM
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