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| 2 | How do I get guys like you to approach me?It might help you to learn to differentiate between a PUA (as defined here on seddit generally as a guy working/willing to give value, lots of inner game, with a bit of tactics thrown in) and other normal guys/jerks. Only way to do that is go out and observe a lot of people. Once you get that down, just approach the pua guy (that you are also interested in) and let him know that you are DTF. This way you avoid the judgmental normal guy and make it easy for the (hopefully/usually/sedditworthy) no… | /r/seduction | 20/09/11 01:43 PM |
| 0 | How do I get guys like you to approach me?Although tbh, the reaction of a guy who's afraid of "disturbing his roommate" or of going to the girl's place, to a dick grab might not be so good. | /r/seduction | 20/09/11 01:32 PM |
| 2 | Dealing With RejectionThat is surprising to hear (re: neediness). Maybe the sex was just that good for these women that they were willing to put up with it? :) Thank you for all the advice/knowledge you've shared here. Your posts have been very interesting. | /r/seduction | 20/09/11 01:25 PM |
| 1 | Dealing With RejectionI would be very interested in knowing what you think kills relationships (and/or why neediness is not the big monster we make it out to be around here) | /r/seduction | 20/09/11 12:06 PM |
| 6 | How do I get guys like you to approach me?The logistics situation is usually one big reason. Having your own place set up for it will help you. If not, screen the guy on his logistics early on. If it doesn't look good, move on to another guy. Also, leading the interaction by saying "hey your/my place is not so far away from here" should do the trick. If the guy doesn't get that, it's better to move on. | /r/seduction | 20/09/11 11:33 AM |
| 9 | How do I get guys like you to approach me?Approachability for a girl is not easy to define. Here's what might work: Your best bet is as a lone wolf or in a two-set with one of you going for a smoke or a bathroom break for long periods of time. Do not go out with guy-friends who hang around you (or you hang around) all the time. Do your best to not constantly be on the phone or texting or reading a book or talking to guys you're not interested in. Look around the bar a lot and notice other people. Do not have a sad/bored/serious expressi… | /r/seduction | 20/09/11 11:17 AM |
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