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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	Last minute cancel . Need quick advice I wouldn't continue with people who cancel at the last minute or flake. Barring a true emergency it just means they don't truly respect you or your time so just move on for the time being. If she asks again later on, like in a week, then do something if you're free but don't initiate. If you snap agree for tomorrow then you're establishing precedent that she calls the shots and you meet when she wants.	/r/askTRP	15/11/14 04:59 AM
2	how long between asking her out again? Are you trying to exclusively date her or make a plate? If the latter then spend the rest of the week focusing on finding other plates. If you have something concrete to invite her to do this weekend like drinks then maybe send a short, short invite but better to wait past the weekend even. Don't text her just to check in.	/r/askTRP	12/11/14 05:25 PM
0	Anyone have experience with Porn-Induced ED? From reading your yourbrainonporn.com and similar places I've heard this is more common than you might think. Stop watching porn, if you smoke then quit, and start doing cardio as much as possible. When I was a smoker and drunk, I got semis too often for my liking. Doesn't happen anymore.	/r/askTRP	11/11/14 03:19 AM
3	Highschool help You gotta approach more girls to get over the uneasiness. The fear of rejection is normal but the more you chat up girls, the more you see they aren't worth worrying over. Girl isn't into me? Her loss, chat up new girl. Ruminating over why she didn't go for me and that kind of shit is terrible for self-esteem and confidence. Just focus elsewhere. You're a senior so you won't see these girls after May of next year most likely. Use this time to work on your game. You might get laid but if not you'…	/r/askTRP	11/11/14 03:08 AM
1	Feel like i'm doing something wrong here... Agreed. Don't text her explaining yourself for something she didn't ask. That looks really bad. Keep it to plans and if she texts you a bunch then a small, small general convo is ok within reason, but don't initiate that shit yourself.	/r/askTRP	11/11/14 02:50 AM
8	This girl's giving me bad signs. Should I speak up? Don't say that stuff, please. I get the intention but it comes off needy. This sounds a bit like the "nice guy" type rant. Pull back some and pursue other girls or focus on self-improvement...anything but her. You've pushed a couple of times and she's backing off. Don't push harder.	/r/askTRP	10/11/14 12:30 AM

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