| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 23 | A Bit Confused/Lost | Rant/Venting | throwthatspiral | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/22 03:52 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with business partner's annoying ego | throwthatspiral | /r/askTRP | 25/04/18 09:30 PM | |
| 1 | Field report: unsure how to handle the end | Field Report | throwthatspiral | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/22 05:59 PM |
| 0 | Field Report, Unsure if I handled it correctly | throwthatspiral | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/11/22 05:59 PM | |
| 0 | Update on My a Bit Confused/Lost Post | Field Report | throwthatspiral | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/22 07:38 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | Moved to a big city, want to leave LTR to chase tailGo ahead and give fentanyl a one time use for the rest of us, prove your logic. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/22 03:02 AM |
| 1 | Moved to a big city, want to leave LTR to chase tailSo if nsaids are not good.. we’re to believe that higher grade opiods are a-okay? Good luck with your tism baby. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/22 01:09 AM |
| -4 | Moved to a big city, want to leave LTR to chase tailhttps://gprivate.com/623kd First result from cdc | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/22 11:33 PM |
| -12 | Moved to a big city, want to leave LTR to chase tailIt fucks the kid up coming out. That, circumcision, and formula are horrible for children. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/22 11:25 PM |
| 1 | Field Report, Unsure if I handled it correctlySays more about you than me. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/11/22 08:52 PM |
| 1 | Field Report, Unsure if I handled it correctlyYour idea of me is completely off base. I posted with the genuine intent to learn. Not one comment addressed any question I posited originally. Only after I held a mirror up did someone edit an actual response to my post. I hope you’re not expecting a thank you for some words you typed to a “noob” through a phone, as if it was some mind-changing paradigm shift and not a passive-aggressive attempt at flexing your mod status. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/11/22 08:50 PM |
| 0 | Field Report, Unsure if I handled it correctlySomewhere along the path, my learning dumped me to where I am, with the mindset I have in my post. You are someone responsible for overseeing the community, i thought you would have better pointers and advice for learning the next steps forward, not a threat of getting “locked out” of a community that seems to want to shit on people learning anything. Whatever you’re trying to do, isn’t getting the point across. You’re not helping me, and you’re not helping anyone who stumbles across this post i… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/11/22 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Field Report, Unsure if I handled it correctlyMaybe constructive criticism, helpful advice, guiding insight into what you think my post should fixate on, or even better… advice to the questions I asked, would be a better use of your time, and the learning experience of everyone here? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/11/22 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Field report: unsure how to handle the endYou’re missing the entire point of the post. I love the hypocrisy… everyone claims this sub is dead and then distorts an actual field report and someone trying to figure shit out through experience with their own ego warp on the situation. I’m not stroking myself, I’m trying to learn mindset patterns, rather than help, you hyperfixate on the most irrelevant detail of an entire post about me being a twig and detract from not only my learning but anyone lurking and wanting to learn themselves. Nic… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/22 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Field Report, Unsure if I handled it correctlyYou’re sure wasting a lot of time on this post | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/11/22 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Field Report, Unsure if I handled it correctlyI thought your other comment was helpful, now i just think you’re autistic. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/11/22 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Field Report, Unsure if I handled it correctlyAppreciate the input | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/11/22 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Field Report, Unsure if I handled it correctlyThat’s not the point of the post. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/11/22 07:20 PM |
| 3 | Field Report, Unsure if I handled it correctlyThanks, I’m definitely focusing on other plates and not being clingy. Appreciate your feedback, I’m writing this for myself too. It’s also been a 6 month plus thing, there is investment. You think messaging again a day or two after I’m back in a week and half is not too much? She knows I’m traveling, I don’t want her to think I’m coming back and immediately reaching out to her. My gut is saying to leave it, but another part of me knows her divorce is her priority and if I don’t put effort in the… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/11/22 06:17 PM |
| 6 | I have figured out 4 of my coworker’s period days, and track their cycles on a calendar to run game.Learned my lesson the hard way. Unfortunately i never wouldve learned unless it was the hardway… gotta let people make the mistake | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/22 06:58 PM |
| 1 | The breakup gambitI am very skinny, have just started seriously bulking and lifting. The motivation is dying off and I’m entering the time where i have to be disciplined, haven’t faltered yet. I don’t think it is just my looks.. though maybe it is. Time will tel I guess | /r/TheRedPill | 14/11/22 06:48 PM |
| 1 | The breakup gambitBuilding a frame of being the prize.. and holding that into conversations and relationships. I know it’s true but something internally prevents me from believing or internalizing it | /r/TheRedPill | 14/11/22 05:04 PM |
| 1 | The breakup gambitHaving trouble maintaining the rp mindset and internalizing it.. need something that sticks | /r/TheRedPill | 14/11/22 04:02 PM |
| 1 | The breakup gambitI admitted to cheating and downgraded her, gave her the option to be a plate or leave and she choose to leave about a week ago. I’m lowkey expecting a text eventually “checking in” but unsure how to proceed if I want her as a plate after her being a failed LTR. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/11/22 02:34 PM |
| 5 | The breakup gambitCurrently speedrunning hard-mode after I broke up with my Oneitis because I realized I have pedastaled her and can never take her off it. Not blocking, she still views all my shit. I know she would take me back in a second. Not blocking either.. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/11/22 02:29 PM |
| -4 | I 'weep' for this guy...Guy lets girl ruin his life and..? Why is this special | /r/TheRedPill | 12/11/22 02:43 PM |
| 1 | A Bit Confused/LostI’m asking a question for future women | /r/TheRedPill | 07/11/22 08:45 PM |
| 1 | A Bit Confused/LostI’m working on what actual punishments work.. I’ve been too soft disciplining and don’t know what really, down to the core, gets the message across. Is it as simple as attention? | /r/TheRedPill | 07/11/22 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Update on My a Bit Confused/Lost PostA relationship more generally but yes | /r/TheRedPill | 07/11/22 12:00 AM |
| 1 | Update on My a Bit Confused/Lost PostThank you… you understand. You’re right. I’ll limit myself. So.. that brings up marriage. How does that work? | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/22 11:31 PM |
| 1 | Update on My a Bit Confused/Lost PostHindsight is 20/20 I’m asking how to have more clarity when I’m in the situation. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/22 10:36 PM |
| 1 | Update on My a Bit Confused/Lost PostFor sure on all the points, especially number 3 and your last sentence. Question is, would you expect retaliation from her husband or do I have plausible deniability “she told me she was single?” | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/22 10:36 PM |
| 6 | Update on My a Bit Confused/Lost PostThank you. I think you’re right | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/22 09:37 PM |
| 4 | Update on My a Bit Confused/Lost PostThis has substance to the berating. Thank you, whether or not you think I’m an idiot is fine, but that reply makes sense to me. Your definition of what the red pill is, is enlightening. Thank you | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/22 08:29 PM |
| -29 | Update on My a Bit Confused/Lost PostThis is neither constructive nor useful for you or me. You’ve managed to miss the entire point of my post. Your edit addresses more of my question, so thank you. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/22 07:54 PM |
| 19 | Pussy isn’t everythingI’m curious what this data is from and why you think rollos is made up | /r/TheRedPill | 05/11/22 02:16 PM |
| 1 | A Bit Confused/LostGood insight. Just having trouble internalizing it. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/22 06:16 PM |
| 1 | A Bit Confused/LostIt is scenario B, fully, but it is also starting to decline now so thank you. I’ll take that to heart | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/22 05:02 PM |
| 1 | A Bit Confused/LostI don’t. Which is why I’m asking for advice on frame management.. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/22 01:47 AM |
| 1 | A Bit Confused/LostIf i could change my mind and control the environment then there wouldn’t be much need of a post now would there? | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/22 01:22 AM |
| 1 | A Bit Confused/LostFunny, I just came to the same conclusion and wrote another comment about it below. I believe this particular plate will stop spinning and crash if I do that, but that may be a win going forward. Thank you. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/22 07:48 PM |
| 1 | A Bit Confused/LostThank you.. I’m not so sure on your last point. I’m not saying I disagree.. but I think the “game” is that she is in control, in her mind. I’ve previously stopped responding and she mimics, anticipating I will reply again out of nowhere. I think by me pulling investment, she will as well, kinda like if she can’t have it on her terms, then not at all. Obviously her frame shakes and crumbles in person but over text with no immediate repercussions it’s easier to hold it - and harder for me personal… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/22 07:47 PM |
| 2 | A Bit Confused/LostThat message is sinking in more and more today. I’m working on an exit strategy that doesn’t burn me. Really don’t want to have a random guest at 3 am firing at my house. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/22 04:13 PM |
| 1 | A Bit Confused/LostFair. Any advice on clean exits? | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/22 03:11 PM |
| 2 | A Bit Confused/LostAgreed on the dread. It’s a fine line to walk, reading the replies i dont think i care if she leaves, as long as it’s not ugly and she doesnt tell her husband | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/22 02:57 PM |
| 1 | A Bit Confused/LostThe edit is massive. Thank you. My endgame is to get off, don’t care to heal her, she is crazy enough to cheat. I think she has her current man in a stranglehold, he is fighting to keep her around with the threat of divorce, I am taking into consideration the things you are saying. Is there anything I can do to make sure she doesn’t poke the bear at home? | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/22 02:53 PM |
| 1 | A Bit Confused/LostI’m not looking for a long term relationship. Just advice to keep the plate spinning | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/22 02:48 PM |
| 1 | A Bit Confused/LostI appreciate the advice. She is not my first though | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/22 02:20 PM |
| 3 | A Bit Confused/LostI’m falling short on the discipline side. What is a healthy approach to this? Cut contact for a bit? Straight up say “i don’t like that”? Dread game? | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/22 01:46 PM |
| 2 | A Bit Confused/LostThank you man. Nice username too | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/22 11:33 PM |
| 2 | A Bit Confused/LostI appreciate the thoughts. I know it.. but I’m not internalizing it. Working on that | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/22 11:15 PM |
| 1 | A Bit Confused/LostJust trying to learn like everyone else | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/22 10:50 PM |
| 1 | A Bit Confused/LostPerhaps it’s a bit idealistic. I think of it as it’s own thing. Do i want to marry her? Hell no. But do i want to enjoy the time with her and give it it’s due? Yeah | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/22 10:44 PM |
| 1 | A Bit Confused/LostIt’s what I need. The specifics about the frame I think are something I know but havent internalized. I struggle to put it in practice, though I know it should and does work. Thank you man. For taking the time | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/22 10:43 PM |
| 2 | A Bit Confused/LostThe last few paragraphs really hit home but I appreciate you taking the time to write it out. Thank you | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/22 10:42 PM |
| 1 | A Bit Confused/LostThank you, I’m expecting to be burned. But I’m human and learning. I’m not posing as a 10/10. I know what I am, and i am learning | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/22 10:15 PM |
| 0 | A Bit Confused/LostI don’t want loyalty. Just frame management | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/22 07:30 PM |
| 3 | A Bit Confused/LostThank you. I was clouded asking, the replies are helpful and what i needed. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/22 07:15 PM |
| 2 | A Bit Confused/LostThats the big debate in my head.. I like the situation I’m in.. the opportunity cost to work towards something else is being lost but I’m also genuinely happy.. it’s hard to forfeit being genuinely happy when the goal of working to build something would be to get genuinely happy.. either way, thoughts on the husband retaliating hard if he finds out? Anything I should worry about or just lay very low? | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/22 06:27 PM |
| -1 | A Bit Confused/LostDoing my best. We have very little to no receipts for anything. I don’t know how much I should consider retaliation from the current husband, seems to be a worrying factor I didn’t pay too much attention too. Never had a male role model, doing my best to navigate life. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/22 05:49 PM |
| 5 | A Bit Confused/LostYou’re both right /u/sidirhfbrh - i think i need to reduce my emotional investment and enjoy it for the escape fantasy she has, and not get too serious. I do think I need to find out why I’m in this position in the first place, and audit myself further. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/22 05:11 PM |
| 4 | A Bit Confused/LostMost likely confidence issues. Also hate the drama of younger women, pure psychopaths. But now that I see the responses here and things click, I don’t think I’m avoiding that.. I’m going to work on distancing myself emotionally and auditing that question you asked, and enjoy the time we have. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/22 05:09 PM |
| 1 | A Bit Confused/LostI do wonder what is holding you back.. Confidence issues probably. Haven’t internally audited myself in a while. Think you’re right, it is an avoiding mechanism. She does think and speak highly of me, hard to want to change. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/22 05:08 PM |
| 3 | A Bit Confused/LostFair enough. Thank you bro. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/22 05:06 PM |
| 3 | A Bit Confused/LostThank you, exactly the truth I needed. My thoughts make more sense now that you say that. I appreciate it. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/22 04:48 PM |
| -2 | A Bit Confused/LostThat’s more or less what I want, I’m glad you get it. My question is more on frame management | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/22 04:47 PM |
| 19 | A Bit Confused/LostThis is the comment i was looking for. Thank you, I’ll keep that in mind. Any idea on frame management in the mean time, or do you think it’s fucked from the start? | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/22 04:26 PM |
| -6 | A Bit Confused/LostI’m having fun, not sure how that is wasting my time. Just want advice how to better manage the frame, but I understand. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/22 04:16 PM |
| 1 | A Bit Confused/LostUnderstood, doesn’t mean I don’t want to enjoy the current time | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/22 04:15 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with business partner's annoying egoHe invited me on to his project, and in the structure he is the "CEO". His word has authority, and I respect it because he came up with the product, niche market, and structure. I do not have a problem with him leading it, I have a problem with the amount of ego that is affecting his decisions, and the delusions he has. If he cannot accurately or even relatively predict something minute like how many emails we will receive for a job offer with 300+ views (which was 0), then how can I trust him t… | /r/askTRP | 25/04/18 10:15 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with business partner's annoying egoI've already sunk money into it. Should I just walk? | /r/askTRP | 25/04/18 10:06 PM |
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