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I expressed desire and affection for her A LOT. I think my issue is & was not expressing much abo it myself I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 04:08 AM
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Thanks. I think I need to stop caring, and just be me. I appreciate it, seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 11:48 PM
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Now I have to ask. Wdym by being unapologetically authentic? Like “I like this, if you don’t, sucks?”.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 08:55 PM
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It is what it is. I suppose that’s the attitude I need to adopt. She moved on from the relationship and said maybe it isn’t meant to be, maybe it will later, maybe it won’t. So we’re just friends. All I can do is try to be a great friend, and hope that maybe one day things connect and she feels for me again. That’s life, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 07:54 PM
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Well to be quite honest, she knows about my traumas (the same way I know about hers). I felt we had a deep connection (she shared A LOT, literally everything about her early on in the relationship) but I guess she doesn’t feel the same way about me sharing things with her. Keeps hitting the same idea of “you don’t know how to be yourself, you were cold and didn’t want to build a connection”. Idk, maybe we are just not meant to be and this is her way of accepting it. I truly wish I could be every…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 07:11 PM
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I told her maybe I don’t know what opening up means. Maybe we have different definitions of what opening up is. I have a few reasons as to why I might not be open in her eyes, and she kinda understood but also said that the damage was done (?). We are still friends and she says she supports me, but I truly just want her back.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 07:07 PM
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6 months. Short, but I’ve never felt for anyone like I do for her. No, she just said, despite it being six months, I feel like I only know you as if we’d had an hour long conversation on the street. I don’t think that’s very fair of her (I thought I opened up), but then she started listing the things she knew about me and I was like…a lot is superficial (likes xyz food, likes xyz brand) and a few memories I’d shared with her. She knew & knows I love her, I’m very honest about my emotions. So idk…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 06:51 PM
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It sucks. Had the love of my life end things because “You were superficial and didn’t open up, didn’t try to build a connection. I feel like I barely know you beyond the basics.” Nothing has ever hurt so much, because I don’t even know what I did wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 06:38 PM
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Not even memeing, how did you guys learn to be yourself and open up to people? Build a real connection? I’ve been trying to improve myself and have had a total 180 in the looks department, but struggling with the mental aspect.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 06:22 PM
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I always thought looksmaxxing was key as a guy. Turns out if you have a shit personality, are “superficial”, and don’t know how to “open up and be yourself”, you’ll never get what you want. I’m mega in my feelings tonight lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 08:45 AM
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Fuck, I wish. Been doing so for a while. Literally can’t get her off my mind. Tried to convince myself I was into someone else and to try something with this new girl, literally ended with me admitting to the new girl that I couldn’t look her in the eyes without thinking of my ex. Hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 07:11 AM
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Not alone in feeling that, friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 06:45 AM
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How do you all deal with heartbreak? I truly feel it makes me spiral into a nightmare of bad decisions and irrationality. Like I’ve completely “leveled-up” my character, and I still feel so empty without her.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 06:43 AM
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In one of those “love isn’t real” moods lmao, I hate this
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 05:10 AM
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Yes, of course
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 03:49 PM
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Thank you. It’s just the feeling of “I’m not as good as him” that hurts. He’s a somewhat public figure, which just makes me feel so fucking inadequate.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 03:42 PM
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Trying my best. Literally everything I do/watch reminds me in some way of her. Going to need a lot of time to heal this wound. Never been this low in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 03:19 PM
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I appreciate the words, but man. I don’t want anyone but her. It just hurts so much
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 03:18 PM
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Thanks for the kind words. It’s just so hard, in the last few days I don’t think there’s been a 4-hour time window where I haven’t broken down at least once. Literally wake up in the middle of the night in tears. But time heals all wounds, I’ll be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 07:57 AM
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Got cheated on in what was probably the best relationship I’d ever been in. I know I’ll get over it, but the who and why hurts so fucking much.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 07:15 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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